The Candace Owens Show: Nicole Arbour | Candace Owens Show

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Standup comedian Nicole Arbour joins Candace Owens in the studio this week to discuss the future of comedy, Hollywood’s cancel culture, and the life-altering car crash that transformed her life. Don’t miss it.
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right ready yep
all right ladies and gentlemen we are
rolling in to another episode of the
Candace Owens show my next guest needs
no introduction you probably know her
from the Internet she is a stand-up
comedian Nicole Arbour welcome to the
Candace own show thank you for having me
you know what I love about you tell me
you were one of the first people you
would have been the first person to be
canceled from the internet yes other
than Monica Lewinsky from the internet
she was from society right and I
remember like watching I remember how
old I was I feel like it was like a few
years ago when you yeah maybe I was in
college you'd make all of these dear dis
people videos write letters I roles you
know I like the first internet breakout
star yeah not as big as Justin Bieber
I mean he's Canadian he's a win is a win
yeah is a win you're Canadian
yeah I remember you were kind of the
first one that sort of made this a thing
where you could like be a personality on
the internet and sort of earn your own
income that way yeah and then you did
this horrible thing I know I told the
truth you told the truth and rule number
one on the Internet
if you want to survive yeah is to never
tell the truth be a liar be alive and
hopefully find a video and it was called
dear fat people yeah and would you want
to recap what you said that was so
horrible
basically calories in and calories out
is how you monitor your weight right
it's kind of like if you're eating too
much food and being lazy that's why
you're fat is not a disability you did
it yourself and I meant it I still mean
it and I remember being on the view and
just being dumbfounded that these women
didn't understand that they were mad
about nothing yeah it was not they do
that's what the view is all about yes
today they were backing white
nationalists I don't know when this will
air but today they got an applause break
for white nationalists and I just
flipped my coffee table just to be
dramatic and I was like we're living in
South Park it has happened this is a
real animal who were they defending um
some I forget his name but he's like a
lead white now
lists because he talks to mich about
Trump and they were like he's talking
about Trump that's a rule yeah no matter
what it doesn't matter who says it if
it's against Trump the left just like
completely says it's okay and it's fine
as a comedian this show is hilarious not
just yours politics of America wow you
guys are dramatic it's the
longest-running I don't know if it's a
sitcom or if it's some day it's very
days of our lives yeah a real Hospital
almost a little Spanish soap operas very
soap opera why is she yelling for no
reason yeah yeah you know what I mean
like I know I always say that I'm like
what is the perception outside of the
walls of America I'm what's going on
here because like you turn on the TV and
it is just so the actual you there I
mean huh you can't compete with our real
life here there's no point in making
soap operas there's no point in making
Broadway's because like we are living at
every single day here yeah America the
musical yeah great and then the award
shows and like like the other day with
Michelle Williams that we were talking
about I had an abortion but now I have
this piece of plastic that looks like I
was I was wondering what planet we were
on so for people that are watching us if
you didn't watch the Golden Globes I
definitely didn't either I just then
went to go find clips because Ricky
Gervais was just so amazing in roasting
the room but there is Michelle Williams
who is an actress who accepted an award
for something then she goes up and she
gladly actually she gets her little
statue for something she gets a little
statue and she gives this speech which
was pro-abortion and she basically said
I would have never earned this inanimate
object if I did not kill my baby and get
an abortion years ago and the room broke
out into applause for this speech cheers
and there were tears crying and I'm just
like I don't look crazy you're crazy
people you like the same people that are
like Tim Allen did cocaine in the 80s
who didn't from what I know and they
hate him because of that or like kill
the babies yeah it was just weird
I was generally just like this is this
is the twilight zone is is this is why
people think Hollywood is just like an
infestation at this point because I was
like what a bizarre thing like you
murdered your child for an inanimate
object and we're supposed to be
celebrating that it's very strange so I
didn't follow what you did
after you were canceled okay so you did
did you did you go on an apology tour
did you give the standard copy and paste
an apology that most people give after
some retrospect and speaking to my
friends and family I've realized that my
publicist wants me to say X Y Z because
my brand deals may be affected by people
who pretend to be woke but can't have a
conversation I didn't do that you didn't
do that I didn't I put on another video
the next week what you thought people
see that would viral as well I've I'm at
70 something viral videos now and I just
don't give up sorry you gotta edit that
I've had one apology in my life I did
one apology and I regret it and it was I
did a remake parody of this as America
the when that video came out I guess a
year and a half ago Donald Glover and I
made my own parody of it a couple days
after it came out with women's issues
instead showing okay well that's your
America this is our reality slightly it
was comedic it just had some stuff in it
I made it over 24 hours just as like a
little mind exercise people went nuts
they said we were racist even though
half the cast was clearly black I'm a
racist person i co-opted his idea as if
they didn't know that it was obviously
his and i tried to steal it and i was
just like is this this is real well if
you haven't been called a racist you
haven't lived okay well I've lived yeah
I mean I think everybody has now been
called the racist yeah we're at peak
crazy now in society because now black
people can be racist and they just call
that being a self-loathing black racist
I mean there was an actual headline when
this whole like Iran thing happened like
the headline was saying that it was a
picture of my face and saying that you
know the the white supremacist of
America should be first on the line and
I just went this is incredible this is
incredible what a headline I mean just a
picture of a black girl saying calling
them white supremacists so I always say
now if you haven't been called a racist
you haven't lived well I have lived at
the Canadian I couldn't understand what
the issue was it was clearly I'm a
comedian it's like all I do it was
clearly a parody and then over 100
parodies of the exact same thing were
created online billboard did a list of
the top ten this is America
charities did not include mine even
though I had the most views it was the
first one and we're the only one that
had women in it but every other one was
okay and mine made me racist and it was
actually the Clintons publicity team who
came in with my old manager and said
Nicole has to apologize she has to
apologize and I fought them for a week
on it I'm like no this is stupid I'm not
going to play stupid with them this is a
video no one's feelings are actually
hurt they can tell what this is they're
making up lyrics that aren't in my song
and they were like no you have to
apologize so I made this apology and I
only regret that I have that you
apologize yeah yeah it's really stupid
yeah I actually said that I was I was
speaking to the CEO of preview and I was
saying to her this new culture of
apologies they're not actually
apologizing because they were offended
they just want you to get on your knees
yeah and that's how you should
differentiate between whether or not you
actually owe an apology or if it's just
an exercise for like radical leftists to
put you in your place and to show that
like they can shut you up you should
never apologize unless you truly hurts
one if you actually said you know what I
did this video and I think there's
people at home watching this who
misunderstood it yeah are genuinely hurt
that's one thing then you issue the
apology and you say you know I'm sorry
that it was taken out of you know taken
out of context whatever it is but this
new culture is about I don't like this
person at all so I'm going to look for
something that they've said that I can
somehow put them on their knees and make
them say sorry and I have never ever
ever issued a public apology about
anything oh well you're beating me there
right yeah I wouldn't mean it yeah be
you don't mean it you actually are
looking for an apology you're not hurt
you just don't like me and you don't
like my perspective yeah which doesn't
really suck because I don't particularly
like theirs either but I'm watching the
press cover it as well oh she apologized
she's issued I'm like oh you're twisting
my words now that's not what I said or
what I men she got in line we did it
yeah did it like now she knows the rule
she can't cross and the thing is you
should never apologize to what you
aren't right and that's another thing
it's like when you do couldn't see and
you offer an apology you're saying I was
a racist when I did this and I think I
have to be very careful about that and
that's something that you
this country's leader he doesn't when
they take his words out of context and
they twist things and you know he says
something like um
What did he say that people weren't
raged about about black people which one
well I know but he was like it's
basically calling out all the stats and
saying you have nothing to lose they
took that and they said that's racist
not all black people live in bad
neighborhoods and he didn't apologize
because they knew what he meant yo so
you have to be careful with that it's
also weird too because just having Press
print about the things they've printed
about me over the years are hilarious
I'm a racist I'm a sexist I'm homophobic
I'm like I was literally beside Jonathan
Van Ness on the float during the Pride
Parade that's that's a weird cover for
someone together you know it's a game of
Pokemon and you have to catch them all
so if you have it yet being called
homophobe sexist racist misogynist okay
it's because you're not winning the game
I've won the game well I don't elected
them all yeah what do you unlock a new
level where they just go all evil you're
on a new level yeah yeah all right cool
you collect them all and they've called
you everything they kind of leave you
alone they're just like forget it we've
tried to cancel her 16 times I've been
called I mean just based on this show
I've been called transphobic
Islamophobic racist somehow anti-semitic
I'm pretty sure dennis prager Jewish not
positive but he's been on this show
before I think he is okay um and I just
look at it and I just go the thing like
it's funny but these words lose their
meaning you know they're just completely
losing their meaning which is a little
sad cuz they should have meaning there
should be terms that actually mean
something if someone does hate someone
because of the color of their skin right
but we don't have it anymore right and
you're not gonna be able to recognize it
because there are evil people in the
world there might be people that are you
know there that are hiding in pockets
that are extremely racist but they can
kind of just get away with it well if
the view can get an applause break from
supporting them because nothing is
anything anymore
how was your experience on the view
sorry it just happens naturally sorry
sound guy it was well just the little
baby troll that my sister reminded me of
yesterday as I went on there wearing a
dress of a skeleton just the dress had a
skeleton on it and they didn't even
notice that I was like you dumb
excuse my language but I'm just like
you're flipping out about something
that's not a thing
because you got in trouble
for talking trash about nurses yesterday
so now you need a villain today I'm
watching your news cycle of your show so
they're like oh quick women hate us we
have to throw someone under the bus and
I've talked about this before but they
lied to me about why I was coming on
they said it was to talk about women in
comedy and how there's a double standard
and then right before the show I saw
backstage what they were actually gonna
run and it was like hates fat people fat
Shamer all this stuff and I'm like you
dicks you couldn't go toe-to-toe with me
when I had time to prepare or even any
kind of heads-up so I was like other
states show that's what I did I'm like
I'll stay chill and let them flip out
know who were the hosts then when you
were on what year was that um that there
was there was Whoopi there was joy there
was that So Raven was sitting beside you
no never not be that So Raven yeah yeah
and I remember saying to be Nicole how
are we supposed to know what's in our
food and in my mind I'm like flip
it over the ingredients are listed but
I'm just I was dumbfounded that this is
reality right and this is on their show
right and and the thing that's sad about
reality is that and I talk about this
all the time is that they're almost like
promoting people to ruin their own lives
Yeah right like by like making
everything okay everything about
acceptance when there are things that
you just shouldn't accept listen Liz Oh
makes great music Liz oh with her asset
at the NBA game here's how you know it's
inappropriate and it's not about body
positivity if a dude in the same shape
rolled in with assless chaps to an NBA
game he would be escorted out by
security so if we want equality which we
do why is Liz O's booty hole okay to be
on a seat at an NBA game in front of
children it was absolutely disgusting
and I was like at bat in case people
watching this don't know what you're
referring to these look up City Hall
right no actually I recommend not
looking it up but Liz o is an artist and
she is quite large yeah and she went to
a basketball game don't know who was
playing and she decided to wear chaps
that had no it was like a t-shirt dress
up the booty as she cut the whole booty
out and so she in the middle of halftime
like went to the sideline to started
twerking with her full body out yeah
with her
showing in the middle and it created
this sort of Internet firestorm and I'm
like a white police found wave yes yeah
it was really disgusting it was absolute
disgusting and then people tried to make
it about oh it's because people won't
accept people being fat it's like no I
don't care if you're thin you should
dress like that to a basketball game
where people bring their sons and their
daughters I've been on the sidelines
people with their their three-year-olds
you know taking their gay it's
absolutely disgusting it's just it's
actually just a form degeneracy and
they've made this a and she's become
this icon now of like fat acceptance and
it's like listen you can like you know
accept being fat all you want but you're
just not gonna live as long right so
that's the trade-off right so you should
spend things are great you can pretend
you're having a good time but at the end
of the day your life is going to be cut
short because there's an inevitability
of like the fact that this is an issue
it's an epidemic in America yes and you
can't shame your arteries out of being
clogged right it's not gonna it's not
gonna work and she's a fantastic dancer
fantastic performer she will not be
dancing like that for much longer cuz
your knees can't handle it and I just I
don't know if there's anyone in her camp
who's ever gonna tell her the truth but
hopefully I go to her show I think she's
a great singer the songs are great I
mean on the flip side of that though is
Adele who just lost a lot of weight and
now she's getting skinny shaved why yes
yes I just saw this in the press they're
saying that Adele who everybody knows
and has an incredible voice she's just
lost I mean they said stones I don't
know what stones are yeah in the
Brazilian yeah the producer how many
stones she's lost but she looks like
she's lost a good 100 pounds easily and
she looks amazing and she looks great
and she looks healthy and now they're
saying that she's too skinny and there
was nothing wrong with her before I know
who are the ideas I know they're done
writing these headlines yeah how do you
agree she looks you know she looks
fantastic and she needed to get herself
into shape because she's a she was a
really big girl but you can't say that
anymore
you can cancel we just did yeah we have
survived so many cancels like there
could be like a nuclear war right now I
know I say it funny I'm Canadian
and we'll survive like that once you've
been canceled this many times they just
get mad they just get mad and they just
leave you alone yeah so what is the
climate in Canada like right now you
guys have the we have Trudeau you have
Trudeau yes we also have the Raptors hi
NBA champs
we do have Dre at yeah he started from
the bottom that's here yeah we have
Bieber he's yummy the weekend he's
whining about something every other day
hanging supermodels
yeah like but we're just weren't kind of
chill people there are some of I do live
in the u.s. most of the time now I have
illegal immigrants
you are yeah you know there was a way to
do it legally I thought the only option
well I don't know I just hope there's a
legal method - are you saying
guys this is breaking news we're gonna
start show right now okay there is a
legal way to get into America I can't
even believe it we had no idea cost a
lot of money a lot of money like I had
to pay a lot of money I had to wait a
lot of years and then it that to me and
I am just so proud of it I carried
around with me cuz I'm a dork like that
but that to me was my Michelle Williams
with her plastic trophy like did you
have to kill a baby to a few they were
they were no one wanted those babies
yeah I mean you think I'm married to an
immigrant too and like we're going yeah
and when you go through the process it
just frustrates you even more that there
are people that just have no respect for
the process and just cut in line and
think that it should be a joke because
it is expensive uh I mean we we had to
get a lawyer to make sure things are
done the right way but you're just
asking for you to mess up on the
application I mean there's so many
questions yeah I had to have a hundred
pieces of press written about me that
was favorable that's or what it is a
verbal that part I couldn't do true
you're just like omitting parts of it
they're likewise half the article
missing you're like Shh
yeah but I had to have a hundred pieces
of press I had to have letters from
different employers in the u.s.
guaranteeing I'd make a certain income I
had to have letters from officials in
the government to get me in like it was
a thing and I'm so proud of it and
that's why I do get annoyed when people
jump the line right was like hey like
Stan get back there I had to do it it
took me years we should do it - have you
been embraced by a lot of people I mean
in in the comedic space because I kind
of see the death of comedy happening
right now with the canceled nine years
ago you tweeted this thing and it's bad
so ten years later
gonna cancel you yeah there's some of
that yeah it's weird cuz I find that
comedy is coming back and punching hard
the the podcast crew at a New York City
is so funny if you look into like the
podcasts big comedy ones in New York
they're hilarious a lot of them are
coming to LA but there were these kind
of whoa Koosh stand-ups in LA that I'm
just I'm just like you guys are annoying
yeah but I think that there's a ton of
amazing stand-ups coming like I feel
like the pendulum is coming back the
other way right and stand-up is kick in
full force and I'm excited to go back
into that space again I actually think
that Ricky Gervais just knocked the door
down the Golden Globes I think he did
something yeah that people won't realize
the cultural significance of that until
years to come because so many people
were afraid and they've been afraid for
so long you know I've issued so many
apologies I mean the biggest letdown was
Kevin Hart issuing the apology that was
a dream yeah that was yeah it was it was
bad for comedians I feel the same way
and and I understand he is he's got his
family has you know heartbeat he has a
company he has people he's paying I get
the move I do it was kind of I know he
didn't want to do that and if you watch
on Netflix his his series he's arguing
with his publicist about it he didn't
want to do it and then he kind of had to
yeah and then I you're even seeing now
like I read an article recently that
Eddie Murphy just recently said that he
went back and watched some of his stuff
when he was younger and it wasn't right
for him to say certain things and make
certain joke delirious all the gay jokes
yeah yeah yeah he's saying like he's
doing like the retrospect just in case
they mind this and cancel me like I'm
gonna go ahead yeah and apologize for
that and I actually think it's it's sad
for a lot of reasons but the biggest
reason is that comedy is such a
necessary band-aid like the ability for
people to get on stage and make fun of
people in the room for all of their
differences right and I always talk
about Chris Rock's bigger and blacker
like I mean he is just so irreverent
over time he comes out there he's like
making fun of white people make in front
of black people and hittin truths to
like talking about issues cultural
issues in the black community talking
about white people first thing he
doesn't get some sage is like white
people you guys sitting in the back
tonight and like laughs it's so funny
and you get through it and you laugh and
you're and by the end of it everyone
feels better because you real
that you're not perfect and we all kind
of suck we all suck we all suck we're
all awesome and we all semi awesome yeah
exactly and that's beautiful there's a
part of America I'm not even gonna just
say left because I don't like to even
pick a side even though a lot of my
thoughts do tend to fall on one side
these days right but there's a group of
people who just think their does
not stink right that anything they say
is right theirs is distinct yes oh
they're just full of ironic that's
the problem is that comedy is the great
equalizer and you got to punch up down
side side just just hit everybody right
and I know that that's why my videos
went so viral is because I just I didn't
care I'm like well I'm gonna say the
real thing and right I don't care how
you react to truth and that's what good
comedy is and I hope to be doing that in
the future and I hope all my comedy
friends just start kicking more ass like
I don't give a
the more you don't care about what the
people who are offended about everything
say right the more fun you have and
where the audience likes it and it just
makes it easier because then people can
just see themselves as human beings and
yeah I realize that we shouldn't be
striving to be perfect and and I was
actually watching a ton of louis c.k
stuff the other day he's so he's so good
and he has this like he has this of
course but maybe skit and it's so
brilliant because what he basically is
doing is he's going through like the
things that we always go off course
that's what I think of course she's like
me wash the back her head is like maybe
like totally totally yeah yeah totally
irreverence of him was so what's so
brilliant about it is that he's tapping
into everybody's like subconscious like
that place in your head where it's just
like everybody has awful thoughts yeah
right that's a condition of humanity
everybody says awful things like stand
up Queenie to talk about like something
bad happens to you in five seconds you
become a racist like everybody becomes a
racist like you get cut off in a in line
of the person's why you're like frickin
white person you're like Chinese people
you can't try vexedly it's just true
you're a you just become a racist and
those things can we need to put those
things out and they were so true and it
was so beautiful it was great and now
they're not allowed to do that anymore
so people are just like closet oh you're
like closeted pretending to be perfect
on the outside and like pretending like
we never have a bad but stand-up tours
that are selling out are the comics who
are doing it yeah who were your
favorites I think here's my
diction's okay yeah versus just my
favorites cuz my favorite thing you know
there's chappal chilled it this year
bill burr always awesome up fill / it
shocked me so hard when i met him in
person cuz he was just as dope and just
as cool and he wasn't creepy and a lot
of guy comics can be a little on the
creepy side yeah zero percent creepy
awesome guy it was shocking when you
meet a lot of people in Hollywood are
used to men who are bit older than you
being creepy he wasn't he was dope but
my predictions for 2020 comedy last year
I said Andrew Schultz is gonna pop and I
I said that to him at the beginning of
the year and he pops and he has a
special coming out and it's gonna be
amazing I guarantee it
there's a podcast called history hyenas
out of New York it's gonna pop both
those guys on it it's gonna be huge I
know it there's a guy named Tim Dylan
who I know it too he's just gonna be
huge this year too he reminds me of like
an angry hilarious gay Chris Farley he
does like when you see him you'll get it
like he just kind of reminds me of like
old SNL and everything that we're
missing about old comic SNL now sounds
bearable it is unbearable it really is
but the Eddie Murphy episode is real
good yeah yeah those are some of the
ones that I see popping through this
year and you know I'll say me I'm pretty
awesome yeah people who don't know yet I
hope I show it to you that's here how
did you how did you get started was that
like what was your how did you get into
comedy I feel like it's such a it's such
a weird thing to get into yeah I
realized that now people ask me this
question I was one of those like Star
Search dancer kids no way yes way no way
yes way yeah I was like that was me I
was like the little toddler and chara
style kind of girl and then everyone
always said I was funny and I would make
my classes laugh and I would just be the
class clown and I would just be silly
and whatever was going on I would laugh
through it and when it came time to go
to college like I had been on Team
Canada cheerleading I was supposed to go
for acting and dance scholarships for
here there my friend had a college
program like her book that had a course
that was called comedy performance and
writing in a literal light bulb went off
in my head and I'm like I'm supposed to
do that I'm so
be a comedian my parents went no not
funny and they were like we're not
paying for that and then I was like
okay no I fit I really think I'm
supposed to do this so I made a bet with
my parents that I was allowed to
audition for the program and this was
started by the people from SC TV who
like Eugene Levy was one of our people
that was on our board the whole SC TV
and SNL original crew were the the
mentors and the people who started this
program two-year college program I
auditioned my parents said we'll talk to
the faculty after and I got a
scholarship and two weeks later I was
doing stand-up at the comedy clubs and I
don't know why like this is just what
I'm supposed to do it's so interesting
and then you decided to make a youtube
channel and that how was weird blew up
it did but that was a weird one cuz I
was disabled for most of my 20s I was in
bed on disability from a car accident
2008 oh really
yeah I think a lot of people know that
no a lot might not know that maybe you
didn't know that which is why the dear
fat people video meant a lot to me too
because there was a part in that video
that I cut out the last second that said
as someone who spent this much time in
bed wishing my body worked how dare you
take your body for granted oh that's
great and I was like mmm that will make
it go viral
don't let them humanize me be the
villain write the message go but I spent
most of my twenties in bed and on drugs
and painkillers legal and legal drugs
and doing all those things and I
eventually got told that I'll never get
better that I will be disabled for life
Wow and I was given the disability
certificate is what you get in Canada
and I ripped it up and I had my Jesus
moment where I literally made a deal
with God and I said if you let me come
back I promise I'll bring as many people
with me as I can and yeah that's what
I'm doing
so just grit and determination in insane
grit determination I feel like I'm
probably an x-men closer to like a
Deadpool like I did crazy treatments
that most people wouldn't do I got
needles this long injected into all my
nerves well the same stuff you get at
the dentist
I still do stuff like that but I fought
my way back and I couldn't just amped up
at the time because the lights were bad
had a hard time standing up most days
literally could not stand up literally
could not and one time I did a mini
stand-up thing on TV and I had to go
straight into an ice bath after it was
and I didn't remember it it was so bad
but someone came to me and said hey
Nicole they knew me from TV years ago in
Canada and they're like we think you
should be a youtuber I'm like what's a
youtuber and they flew me to youtube
headquarters and taught me what it was
told me what to do they wanted me to go
and this super cheesy makeup tutorial
thing and I'm like no I'm a comedian and
I fought them on it for about six months
and then I was like no I infused my way
after I went to come to her stand-up
show I'm like I'm gonna do it my way
next day I put out to your Instagram
models which was the first viral one a
couple weeks later it was the deer fat
people and then I just kept going you
maybe should repost the deer Instagram
almost won I think I'm much worse it has
it's actually changed the sphere of
everything for young women it's a little
scary I feel bad for them I know 12 year
olds who think that they should be
posting photos with her by I mean I was
literally just talking about this and
it's just it's gotten so bad Instagram
is is literally cancerous for people's
minds it's so bad I mean these girls are
deluded it's weird for myself because I
want to be hot I want to be sexy but I
want to show you you need to be
something else too right and I don't
think I need to take out any part of
that yeah to prove it like I personally
love JLo yes yeah she's she's 50 she's
still selling nice and she's talented
she's a boss she's you know considered a
kind human from what I know yeah and
she's smart but she's still hot see
that's interesting what so I actually I
always say attack Hollywood who are the
good examples out of Hollywood right now
cuz they don't they're not all bad no
well I do think Ricky Gervais is dope
yeah he's right I do think there's a lot
of like I love seeing Elizabeth Banks
producing I think that she is the answer
to me too I don't feel that me two
should just be about pointing at guys
and saying you know everything is wrong
yes there's been some jerks and
douchebags who have done awful stuff and
should be called out but the answer
isn't saying all of you are wrong I
think the answer is okay girls go do the
job yourself right be the producer be
the director of
the casting director and then you don't
have to worry about that right you know
start your own company be your own boss
yeah you should really love Tina Fey and
Amy they were so great you're so great
for before woke SNL you know and they
used to write and produce and act in so
many of their films and then they used
to talk about like real feminist issues
what I mean is like the conversation of
like women having to side between like
their career or having another baby like
Tina Fey actually were a beautiful piece
on like how she was getting to an age
where she was like but my career is
going so well but do I give my son and
like a sibling and it was so good
because it was like an issue that like
it is a full fully a woman's issue and
that men will never have to go through
it wasn't this attack on men or
renouncing it but it is something that
every woman could read and feel like
okay I might go through this one day
yeah
but now it's just it's not that you know
it's not it's just not that because I
think this is what we have in common is
we go towards the solutions and the
discussions versus the victimhood of it
all right that's where I think the
difference lies with I have a lot of
friends in Hollywood too but they're
more the badasses right and they don't
play victim no matter what's going on
and I like that and I say okay there's a
problem let's find a solution right
right it's a mentality and I mean I
guess because you like you know survived
your car accident and ripped up your
disability typically you naturally have
that right yeah that's why I think their
words on the internet just don't hurt
that much and some like I cannot
literally log off of Twitter or any
moment I just say to myself it's just
incredible to me like people had to live
through like real stuff like world wars
great depressions and like right now
like our great Wars like I can't deal
with me and we're all mean words the
internet I'm just like toughen up it's
true
turn it off you know those people though
that get mad that are like super woke
and stuff you've never been through
that how I know you've never been
through real you're mad at words on
the internet or you're mad at an article
and that's just the hypocrisy I know you
see it but like kids don't do drugs
while they have blow in their nose all
right Hollywood we're like don't bully
while the same celebrities are posting
on Twitter tearing down either the
President or someone else my gosh it's
just a way of one day I'm going to
actually release like the private
messages between me and Jamila Jalil or
whatever
come on this like you know the actress
that was on my podcast but then canceled
it because I said only women can give
birth I made that mistake of what a baby
saying the truth on the internet I made
that mistake once that's how do I yeah
that's true though but prior to that she
was like messaging me privately on I'm
sorry just where would it come out on a
man I just don't know what her nice
we had to even think about okay no no
it's weird this I mean the amount of
attacks and the nastiness of the things
that she said to me and I actually said
to her I just want to confirm you're an
anti-bullying activist right and she
said well well yeah but I'm just dishing
it to you because you dish it to other
people I'm like oh you're the vigilante
bully oh I get it okay okay so you go
around and you decide who you're allowed
to attack based off of what you decide
people you know what people you think
are deserving of those words oh and like
I'm solid but critical you're so you're
so hypocritical know the difference fill
of yeah to your editors sorry
Prager you and I've sworn a bunch you're
gonna have to bleep me she's full of
so she makes money on being an
activist and that that's a profession
now and most of the activists that I've
met are in real life they're
and their profession is
pretending to be nice and weird it's
weird they're really mean cheap all
actors yeah who didn't do well acting so
they're acting like they're nice it's a
really weird thing that we don't just
call it out and go hey shut up yeah you
know like you're full of it I do now I
actually do okay that's good so what's
next for you oh gosh all of the things
cartoons and chili and yeah I've been
I've been at ten years in bed so I was
writing a lot so there's feature films
coming this year there's cartoons coming
this year my podcast is starting I'd
love to have you on it would love to be
on it yeah Arbor effect it will be
coming out in the next month I don't
know that airs but look for the arbor
effect and yeah lots of stand-up all the
things this year well I love that you
have remarkably positive attitude I
think women need to see examples of
people that are positive and and
understand that bad things happen to
everybody it's not about falling downs
about
how many times you get done up yeah
times you get up or just so lonely yea
so we rap every episode by allowing you
to leave a 2 minute face message for the
world so you're gonna look into this
camera and if you wanted your your words
to fall upon the ears of everyone in the
world this would be the time on your
mark get set world I give you Nicole
Arbour hi world Nicole Arbour here I
want you to be positive I want you to
get up every time you get down you get
back up because go team you can cheer
for other people the way you want to be
cheered for and everything is awesome ok
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