“They Don’t Give a Crap About You”

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um basically I went to court yesterday
as I was summonsed to court by Capital
One on the behalf well the lawyers based
on Capital One so they directly suit me
um the lawyer approached me in court to
settle out but the settlement was for
well the debt overall is 7,000 with the
court fees and so they pretty much told
me I could settle out for
,000 um with interest that would Ur if I
was on a a monthly payment I was trying
to do a lump sum but I can't afford that
I'm in economic hardship and I explain
that to the lawyer and they're not
they're playing hard ball and I'm trying
to find out how can I go about settling
for a lower
amount well
um wow so
so in Most states uh Michigan I think is
one of them they can garnish your wages
but it'll take them a while if you don't
do
anything okay so what happens is the set
the the the lawsuit they've offered you
a settlement and in the meantime they're
going to take a
judgment okay the the the court is going
to rule that you owe the money and
didn't pay the money judgment so when
the Judgment becomes
final at least 30 days will go by if not
more before they can execute on the
Judgment executing on the Judgment means
that they would scarf money out of a
bank account or garnish you a wage if
your state allows those things okay uh
Texas for instance does not allow that
but I'm pretty sure Michigan does I'm
not an attorney in Michigan so not an
attorney anywhere so but that's that's
the type of thing you're facing so
there's
nothing on fire nothing's going to
happen bad to you
in the next 10 minutes it's going to be
a month or two or six or a year okay
does that make sense okay see what one
of the things I found is if I can get
the Panic off then I can get my Edge
back in this
negotiation you went down to court which
is so
unusual I'm really shocked that this
only offered you a six grand
settlement on a $7,000
balance I I would have guessed they
would have offered 50 cents on the
dollar hoping you would offer a quarter
on the dollar we generally can get most
of these bad credit card debts to settle
for somewhere around you know 15 to 20
cents on the
dollar all we do is just call them up
and yell at
them okay and your financial hardship
really doesn't matter to any of
them they don't give a crap about
you the lawyer Capital One the judge
none of them do okay okay so that they
don't your story holds no water
whatsoever crime a river as far as
they're concerned okay now I understand
what it does it it pinches your emotions
and it keeps you terrorized and it makes
you you know have things in your throat
that you know and you know gulp gulp
gulp I I've been there I remember these
you know little sweat in the palm of
your hands you you had some pretty big
courage to walk into that courtroom am
way to
go thank you I'm very nervous I I bet I
bet but it it's kind of funny though
isn't it I mean it's like the first time
I ever got a speeding ticket and it's
first of many um but I I went to traffic
court and traffic court is like
nothing I mean I I was more scared of my
sixth grade teacher than I was Traffic
Court traffic Court's a joke you go in
there and they go oh you showed up okay
we'll weave the ticket right your first
one most places I do that right you
bother to show up and did you kind of
have that experience it's like you were
all scared and you thought you were
going down there there was going to be
like a trial and they were going to you
know have a jury and Matlock was going
to come out or Perry Mason or somebody
and it's just like nothing you're just
like a in a you're down there in the
middle of a grinder and they're just
making hamburger meat taking a number at
the deli our
next did you notice
that yes there's really no drama is
there no yeah not what I imagine yeah so
not like you're brain had told you for
the 3 days before you went down there so
the same thing is true now of settling
this okay they they put this out there
as if it's their only thing they they're
going to do their chances of actually
collecting anything from you
statistically is
zero 98% of the people in your situation
end up filing bankruptcy or just
disappearing and they can't find them
they all they collect almost none of
these judgments
and they know that so they and and they
they were so shocked that an actual
human being showed up they didn't know
what to
do it never happens so all that to say
is this you owe $7,000 you can probably
sett all that for two grand and I want
you to scrape together two grand really
really fast what do you
make um I'm I I have two grand um so
actually I'm an independent contractor I
do cosmology you do have
2,000 I can I yeah I tried to say so I
end up calling them back yesterday after
the court hearing because I had to do
another motion to say payment
installments of I could afford $100 no
don't do any payment no payment
installments no do not give them any
payments I already have the motion put
in for file day so I don't know what to
do with that like I had to do another
motion for them you know for payments
you took an installment plan as a
motion yes okay call the judge and tell
them you can't do
it okay just tell them pull that out
because it's just say I I looked at my
budget your honor I'm sorry I can't do
it I can settle with them for $2,000 and
that's all I can do I don't have room in
the budget to do this I was just scared
and I shouldn't have filed that I'm
sorry and just tell the tell the court
clerk that and tell them to pull the
motion off the
docket okay okay they'll do it and and
then call up Capital One boy and tell
him that you talked to your financial
adviser and your financial adviser told
you to file bankruptcy if he won't take
the two grand
because I just told you to do that I
really don't want you to do that by the
way but I did just tell you that so you
can tell him I said that I mean yeah I I
I honestly was my next option because no
you're not bankrupt you don't you don't
need to file bankruptcy you need to just
you need to
Bluff okay okay just walk away just go
all I got is two grand if you want some
money Bubba here's some money if you
don't want some money we got nothing
else to talk about cuz I'm not paying
you payments and if you come after me
and start messing with my my paycheck
I'm going to file bankruptcy on you so
you're going to get
nothing I'm a chapter 7 tell him this
tell him my a financial advisor said I'm
a chapter 7even looking for a place to
happen okay yeah he'll know what it
means yeah CU you are and he knows the
he knows the same statistics I know that
as soon as he pushes you to the wall and
garnishes your wedges you're going to
file and he's going to get
nothing now I am not saying you're
bankrupt you're not Amber cuz you're
going to scrape together 2,000 now
here's what we're going to do he's not
going to take it today but if you keep
pestering them they might take it in the
meantime pile it up to 3K and up your
offer and keep upping it until you get
it settled and settle it for a lump sum
for pennies on the dollar 50 cents on
the dollar Max 3500 is
Max until then just beat the snot out of
them just worry them call them every day
y'all ready to take some money I got
money y'all want the money
when are you'all going to take my money
I'm begging you to take my money I'm
calling you to take my money you don't
have to call me I'm calling you and just
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