WHY IT'S OKAY TO FEEL LOST || Teenage loneliness advice

These days seem to be so draining, sad, lonely, and overwhelming. I know you really try to fight it and get up to face the world and appear strong. But it is indeed hard and you don't know what to do or even how to start. I know how unpleasant it is to have that feeling. The feeling of being lost. Hello Peachies! Welcome! I know I understand what you're feeling right now and I'm here to remind you that I am with you. In this video, we're going to have an introduction, body, and conclusion. In introduction, I'm going to ask you some questions to deeply understand what you're feeling right now. And in the body, I'm going to give you some mindset shift to have some realization during this phase. And lastly, the conclusion, I'm going to give you some advice and remind you for who you are. I'm going to ask you a question first. Are you lost because you don't know what to do in life or because you don't know yourself? Knowing the answer to this question is very crucial in order to break this cycle. You have to know what you are really struggling with to be able to fix it. Do you ever feel like you travel in a huge city alone and get lost? Or do you feel like you don't know what to do and what you need in life or not even giving yourself time? I know exactly how you feel and I truly am sure that it's not easy to answer this question for now. But I'm going to remind you that there are billions of existing people living in this world who also suffer from the feeling that you're facing right now. So I'm going to tell you to take it slowly. Understand yourself deeply and take some time to break this uncertainty of life. The world is waiting for you, sweetheart. Life is neither a race nor a competition. During this dark phase, it's the perfect time for you to explore different fields in life and take a huge step to get out of your comfort zone. I know thousands of people out there have been endlessly speaking about this topic. But the question is, have you really stepped out of your comfort zone? The comfort zone is where we feel safest. We have our comfort food, our comfort person, our comfort hobby, our comfort imagination, and much more. We run to our comfort zone when we are afraid, stressed, and experience uncertainty. Let's say if you're born out in school, you might grab some ice cream and release the emotion you have inside. There's no problem with that. But it's not healthy and good anymore if we constantly rely on our comfort zone. Your comfort zone will hinder your growth and block your courage to face your fear because it makes you feel safe. It's not easy but no one promised us that life will be easy. It's all in you if you take some action and break life's uncertainty. One of the reasons why we feel lost is that we doubt ourselves so much. Let me guess, do you ever want to start doing something big that is new to you and then you get this feeling of doubt about whether you can even do it in the beginning? Then you start to overthink about how things will work for you. You think that if you start doing it, you will just waste your time, waste your energy, and have no ability to do it. That's doubt. You doubt your capabilities, you doubt the world, you doubt your potential, you doubt yourself. I understand why you doubt yourself. It's the protection you have for the future. For the future. It's in the future. We don't know what's in the future so why would you think about the future? The future doesn't exist nor the past. The simple way to beat this feeling is to take a step back, calm yourself down and think about the big picture, not just the little details of your life. Appreciate the things that surround you. You have the power to realize what's going on in your life. No one is like you. You are different and unique. So stop doubting yourself and take a step to prove yourself that you are capable of doing something big and new. Others people opinion do not matter. What matters the most is the opinion you have for yourself. What you think is what you will become. As humans, we are all connected together. We are all the same and we are all unique. Being lost doesn't mean you have to isolate yourself in order to know yourself to the core. Locking yourself up cannot help you to thoroughly study yourself. Well, maybe there's a possibility that if you stay in a place where you can only listen to your thoughts might be helpful. But how about knowing yourself when you're around with other people too? Find the right people you resonate with, the people you can relate to. Engaging yourself with different people can make you feel that you're not alone because you were never alone in the first place. However, there might be instances where you get triggered by some stories they might share with you. And that's how and where the learning starts. You must take accountability for healing that trigger. That trigger will guide you to heal that part of you that has been stopping you from doing the thing that is really meant for you. There is a real possibility that you don't even know or you didn't even know that you have that part of you that is needed to be healed. Surrounding yourself with different people will truly help you to know yourself better. And on top of that, you'll also build a genuine friendship. Never blame the world for what you're experiencing in this moment. I know it's hard, I know it's tiring, and I know it feels like there's no hope. But the world does not hate you at all. Stop blaming the world for what is happening to you right now and point at yourself. Know the problem you've been carrying within in order to solve it. We can only solve the problem if we understand it. The problem can be found in other people. Look at yourself. Point at yourself but not with hate. You already feel lost and hopeless. Isn't it too bad if you yourself are hating yourself? Point at yourself with courage to fix your life. Don't hate yourself for the things that have happened to you. You take good care of and express much love to your cat but you can't even do that to yourself? I doubt if you can even dare to say those negative things you say about yourself to your cat. See? You're way too harsh on yourself. Point at yourself not to judge and hate it but to see the real you that has been needing you to love and accept it. I know exactly what you feel during this phase. I know it's hard and it feels like you don't know what to do. Watching this video doesn't mean you'll have your life figured out but just the fact that you spent your time watching this video means that you are taking a step towards your best life. I know you might say that I am too young to know these things but I have felt that feeling too. I am young but I am still a human and in fact I know a lot of people who's facing this phase too and I am telling you these ideas and advices because I want to help you and make you realize that you're not alone. You want to be rich? To be confident? To be famous? So I do. Do I know how to do it? Absolutely not but I'll get there. I'll figure it out along the way of my learning. You can too. Life is short and we only live once so don't waste your time and explore the world with that alluring aura of yours.