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start budgeting for free today my spouse
and I back in July of 2021 we purchased
an investment property and we put a
$100,000 deposit down and that was when
the covid interest rates had gone right
down and in Canada they're right back up
I don't know how it is in the States but
we're looking at we're looking at our
closing date coming up in two months and
we don't know if we afford
this was the financing already
approved no so we did sit down with our
bank and essentially I think if we sold
our current home we would be able to um
get the mortgage but my predicament is
is that even if we do get approved for a
mortgage we're looking at a $5,000 plus
mortgage per month and we've been
looking at different Avenues potentially
renting but in that area um the
likelihood of someone renting over 3500
is very slim and so we would still be
having money coming out of our pocket
and now the reason we're thinking about
doing a mutual release at this point is
because we put that 100,000 down but we
did really well with our our first home
uh through covid we bought it really low
and then when we sold we had actually
got a lot of equity and paid off that
line of credit that we used to put the
deposit down on that home um and I just
don't know if it's worth it to
jeopardize and try and push this
mortgage through also my my spouse is
military so he's currently posted to
where we are and I don't even know how
uh the moving predicament would work so
have you guys been building for that
long yeah the Builder was very delayed
um through covid they stopped a lot of
the building and it's it's been ongoing
for a long time okay was it a was it a
custom build or was it one that was
within a development and you pick a
floor plan cing
it was in a development okay what does
the contract say because you signed the
purchase agreement have you talked to
the Builder about what it would look
like to back
out um so we did ask them about a mutual
release um essentially if we did back
out we would be forfeiting our $100,000
deposit yeah so that would be sort of
the the stupid tax I guess on that how
much would the full mortgage be if you
did if you did go forward I'm just
curious how much the house is um we
originally purchas for about 1.1 and
with $100,000 it would be about a
million dollar mortgage okay so you
going to put nothing
down um well if we we were looking at
the option of renting um if we sold our
current house we have enough equity that
we could probably get the mortgage down
to about 700,000 why wouldn't you sell
your current
house my my husband's military and he's
posted here so it would be so many
loopholes and jumps like he might not
even be able to move so we might have to
why were you getting this new
house um because we didn't realize that
he would be posted out at that time we
were posted to that base and so this was
back in 21 this is about three years
later now
so and also too we thought with the
interest rates honestly we weren't
thinking ahead with the interest rates
at that point it was affordable right
right uh Haley how are you guys
financially overall do you have savings
do you guys have
debt um our debt is paid like we don't
really have any debt um we have some
equity in our home um my husband's like
military serving right now he makes
about 80k a year um I've retired from
the military I got injured um I'm
getting an income replacement benefit of
about 50k a year um so total income is
about 130,000 okay do you guys have
money
saved um other than whatever we have in
equity no okay trying to figure out how
big this this one $100,000 I don't see a
world where you guys could have afforded
a million doll home regardless of what
interest rates were doing I think you
guys weren't thinking through this and
got a little star eyed at what a new
build would be and life
happened I I agree and you cannot keep
both there's no world where you keep
both of these
properties absolutely so if you're going
to make this move and not lose your
100,000 you need to sell the property
save up as much as you can until this
build is done and minimize the mortgage
as much as possible and you might not
even be able to stay in it that long
because it sounds like it's
unsustainable you guys barely make
$5,000 a
month yeah it's it's not sustainable
yeah I don't think you guys can do it I
don't think you can I don't think you
what's your mortgage now uh my mortgage
well they just increased it because we
had a variable rate it's about
3,000 it it was you're barely covering
the mortgage now what's take home
pay I'm sorry what's your take-home pay
every month um between you and your
husband gosh um I don't even know like
my husband does the finances so my guess
it's about $6,000 and half of it is
taken up by your
mortgage yeah yeah n it would probably
be around there and and I'm more on the
side of mutually releasing it doesn't
immed immediately affect us um with
regards to leaving 100,000 it's it sucks
um but I just wanted I guess your advice
and kind of clarification on that before
I move ahead I mean it is a lot of money
and it is a big deal yeah
I mean almost I would I would I don't
think you have an option I think you
have to release it and lose 100K yeah I
mean I think that's a better option than
going into a million dollar house that
you guys can't afford the mortgage that
the mortgage payment is basically what
you're bringing in every month I mean
that's you'd foreclose on it within
months yeah that's not ideal I know and
and and we have children I don't want to
jeopardize that his parents his parents
have offered because they have multiple
properties offered to sell one of their
properties but at the same time we don't
want to
um we don't want to be indebted to them
that's right no no no key I would keep
this clean I think this is a decision
was the $100,000 was it cash Haley or
did you guys take out a loan for that so
we did it originally on our first
residence that we had purchased it was
our first home and we had purchased it
for about 500,000 and then when we sold
we sold for nine but we had taken out a
home equity line of credit but that is
paid off there there's no debt owing
towards that okay so the $100,000 it's
just it'll just be gone it's not debt
that you have to repay no so my my
husband just told me he he said our
income is
8907 per month okay that's better yes
for your $3,000 mortgage so that's uh
that's net so that's a third of your
take home pay which is a lot but it's
not you know going to crush you
financially so I would just stay put
where you are and mutually release this
lose the 100K and learn from it yeah
it's it's a tough Learning lesson but I
definitely need you to hear that so I
appre sh your help absolutely sorry
you're going through it that's not a fun
thing to deal with and for anyone
watching out there who's military or
they move around a lot this is why we
tell people it's okay to rent it's okay
to stay put don't feel like you have to
go get a house because people are
telling you you got to get a house you
got to get a house and obviously there
Situation's different but it's one of
the risks you take for sure with new
builds with mortgages of you don't know
where you're going to end up and what
life is going to be like and and that's
one reason you know our house purchasing
formula Ramsay's pretty conservative
ative and people they don't like it very
often but this is one of the reasons why
too is like we just know life happens
and if so much of your income is being
taken up by your mortgage or what you
think life will be like when you're
doing a build that's two three four
years long like I mean you you just have
to be realistic about it and so um and
also too I think when you have
information and you have facts you're
able to make wiser decisions and so
that's one thing too and this isn't to
you know harp on Haley by any means but
you know she was like I'm not sure my
husband takes care of the finances which
is happens a lot too in families but if
you're married you guys you're you
together need to be making these
decisions meaning both of you need to
know the facts both of you because you
both bring a perspective to the table
right Haley could have if she you know
maybe going information you know she
could have said something that maybe
would have directed a different decision
I mean I don't know but that's why it's
important that that's the beautiful
thing about being married is that you
have two people in these big
decision-making processes but you both
have to have the facts and understand
what's going on and and sometimes you
make a decision and you pay the stupid
tax was which is what we say but we'd
rather do that honestly than go into a
million-dollar home that the mortgage is
eating up close to 75% of their income
so I'm glad you guys called Haley good
luck and again I'm so sorry so sorry
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