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Speak less, so you can live more wisely. Ladies and gentlemen, Mrs. Eleanor Roosevelt, the first wife of former US President Franklin Roosevelt, once said, Great minds discuss ideas. Ordinary minds discuss events. Tiny minds discuss humans. It seems that we live in a world where people only talk about ideas, but no one listens to others. We like to hear rumors, baseless stories. We like to give advice even when we haven't heard the whole story, but we don't welcome it if they give it to us. So where can the great minds, the super high minds be in this messy life? Have they been distorted by reality or are they still here, waiting for us to find them? No. All you need to do to live more wisely, to boost your ability, is to speak less and be silent at the right time. Let's listen to the philosophy of life in today's video. First, a saying cannot be taken back. One day, a farmer came to a village. He met a young man who said a few words to him. Everyone praised him, but he said, It's not just a few words. I'm sorry. The farmer listened, looked at the young man, smiled and said, Let me tell you a story. There was a farmer when he went to the woods and found a little dog. He took the dog home and took good care of it. But one day, the dog broke into the neighbor's garden. The neighbor came to the door to blame him. In anger, he broke the bag and threw it at the dog. The dog was even more angry, saying, I won't raise you anymore. After that, he kicked the dog out of the house. The next day, he regretted it, but the dog had gone into the back of the mountain. So even though he was very sad, he couldn't find it anymore. A while later, when he went to the mountain to graze, he met a tiger. In a state of thousands of pounds hanging hair, there was no way to escape. He immediately closed his eyes and died. But, he suddenly heard the sound of fighting. He opened his eyes and was happy to realize that the dog was protecting him. After the tiger ran away, he was happy to run to him and stroke him. He said, That's great. Last time I hit you, did it still hurt? Now, follow me home. The dog said, The blows didn't hurt anymore. But the words of the man at that time still hurt me. More than that, it was very painful. At the end of the graze, everyone was moved that just with a word of forgiveness, it caused such a big injury. Although there was only that young man, it still seemed normal. The hunter took some nails and told the man to tie them to the tree. The man followed. Just finished, the hunter immediately said, Please take those nails out. The man continued to follow. He used a lot of effort and spent the whole season to remove a nail. The hunter came closer, used his fingers to rub the nail that was still on the tree and said, It's been removed. But what can we do? On the tree, isn't it still left a deep wound? Like the story about that dog. Although the pain caused by the broken nails has been long gone, but the hurt of the farmer is hard to forget for a lifetime. The hunter looked at the man and said, Saying hurtful words to others is like this nail. The scars on the tree may not hurt anymore over time, but they can never be erased. There was a saying in the past, Nhat ngôn ký xuất tứ mã nan truy It means, even if there are four horses, it's still hard to chase. So, the words have been said, if you want to take it back, it won't be in time. People often say, language is the most terrible weapon in this life. Because sometimes, the external wound can heal, and the wounds caused by words will remain forever. An unintentional sentence, a heartless remark, an unintentional comment, all can become the cause of a hard-to-erase pain. Have you ever been sad to death because of a sentence? If so, remember carefully, swallow your tongue seven times before speaking. Be careful and think carefully about the words you will say, because the wounds caused by words have a greater impact than you think. And sometimes, you won't have a chance to erase that mistake no matter how regretful it is. Second, speak less, means more to you. Speaking less doesn't mean thinking less, but it can lead to better thoughts. When you talk too much to people around you, your thoughts can't be fully transmitted to the awareness so that they can be analyzed in a more multidimensional way. Speaking less also means listening more. The information and knowledge you collect will increase significantly when you know how to keep a certain silence. You will realize many things you don't know and being modest is a part of being truly smart. And when you realize that you really don't know much, you will listen and observe more instead of going around repeating the same old things. When you speak less, your mind becomes calmer, you will observe more, realize more and make clearer decisions. When you don't care about what you say anymore, you will focus on listening, you will understand more and you will realize more. This is why you will gradually become smarter and wiser in the eyes of others. This is why people say they need time to think. A silent state is an open and accessible state. Silence allows us to take a step back from anything we see or hear and observe from a calm and rational point of view. It allows us to see what happens without being biased or self-judgmental. Third, speaking less is an opportunity to learn to be calm. We all say things we shouldn't say, like angry words, the secrets of a friend that we accidentally found out spread to someone or blamed someone else. But right after saying that, you will feel guilty because you said something you shouldn't have. We hurt others and we hurt ourselves when we can't control what we say. These things often happen when we react too quickly and immediately respond to what others say. Instead, speak slowly, speak less. Developing a habit of silence inside and outside will allow you to have time to process and refine your thoughts and allow you to react appropriately and intelligently to anything that happens in life. This means that your words will be chosen carefully and will be spoken while being calm. Fourth, speak less for better relationships. Many people complain about not being heard or understood. This is why people often feel lonely in a close relationship. But this can be reversed if you also learn to speak less and listen more. Do you realize that when you are in a conversation you don't listen to others but only look for a chance to say your opinion? Waiting to react to what we think others are saying even before they finish. Such conversations don't lead anywhere and can often make people feel strange and confused about their problems. When you speak less and listen more, others will be more open to you. Because when facing a difficult problem, what people need sometimes is not an advice but simply listening. Your sincere listening not only helps them but also boosts their confidence and your own. Dear friends, there is an old saying that deep water flows slowly and wise people speak less. In fact, people with knowledge are always modest and don't show off. People with wisdom are always quiet and only say enough when needed. People with wisdom are always quiet and don't show off. People with wisdom are always quiet and don't show off. People with wisdom are always quiet and don't show off. People with wisdom are always quiet and don't show off. People with wisdom are always quiet and don't show off. People with wisdom are always quiet and don't show off. People with wisdom are always quiet and don't show off. People with wisdom are always quiet and don't show off. 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He joined the military at the southwestern border and was injured and lost one leg. He loved his brother more since he lost his mother. When he grew up, he was disabled. His two children, Nhi and Ba, were expelled from the city to live in the countryside. They came to pick her up many times because they were poor and Duc had a wife and he could take care of himself. Then he returned to his hometown and she decided to live with Duc to worship the ancestors. Duc's wife regarded her as a mother and there was no distance between her and her children. Everyone in the village praised her family. Recently, the government has decided to expand the road through the neighboring commune and listen to the people in the commune that the road will pass in front of her house. But recently, she heard many people in the village talking about the project of the road over here. Many houses will change and the price of land will go up. The two children in the city argued about the land. On Sunday, the two children took the initiative to solve the problem. According to the design law, the two children have a share of the land. Because the father died and did not leave anything, half of the land was divided for the children. The father divided the version and the design documents. She was so upset that she wanted to scratch their faces and throw them out of the house. Duc, her son, was going to sign but she tore up the version and divided the design and tore it up. Duc and his son looked at her and they went home She was sick that night. She was lying in bed. The news that she was sick made Duc and his son run to her house. When they saw her, Duc's eyes were teary. Duc put a pen in her hand and was going to sign but she tore it up. Her hands were cold, stiff and swollen. She left so quickly. The villagers said it was a miracle she was not sick. When they examined her, they saw a note on her pillow that said, I wish to donate all of the land she has in her house to my son, Nguyen Phuc Duc, with a red pen with her name on it. Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you again.