8 cái khổ cho thấy giá trị của Hạnh Phúc - Triết Lý Cuộc Sống

The eight sufferings of human life to know the value of happiness Dear viewers, if a person always says that I am not happy, then exactly that person will never be happy, no matter how hard they try to find it. Because happiness is felt from the heart. When the heart is uneasy, the heart is always in pain. When the heart is always happy and cheerful, then all the peace and happiness will come. But saying that does not mean that we ignore all the values of suffering. In fact, it is the difficult suffering that helps us realize the value of happiness. It's like being hungry to see the preciousness of food. Enduring the harshness of winter to see love more than warm days. Having been separated by the cold, to appreciate every moment of reunion. Having experienced a life-and-death accident, to love more than this moment. So don't be afraid of suffering, and don't try to separate suffering and happiness. If there is no suffering, then you will not know what happiness is. Here are the eight sufferings of human life. If you haven't tasted it yet, it's hard to understand the value of happiness. Let's listen and contemplate together. First, birth. Buddha said that the world is actually suffering. We live in the world, we are suffering. Life and death is the cycle of reincarnation, I don't know when it will end. The human being was born, had to suffer in misery as if it were unbearable. So when he was born, the first thing he heard was crying. Second, old age. Everyone's youth passes quickly. Some people see youth as a rainstorm. Some people see youth as a train without a ticket. Once the train of youth has left the station, it will never return. After the age of youth, we have days of prosperity, we get a lot of things, and we miss a lot of things. Then everyone has to go through that beautiful time. Everyone has to grow old, although every day we don't see ourselves aging. That is a difficult pain to speak of. Ordinary people can't control this. Every time I look back and see a strand of gray hair, there is a painful pain in my heart. Third, illness. People used to say that the sky can't measure the wind and clouds, people in the early evening are happy. Illness is a great suffering of human life. Everyone will have to go through it. Today you are strong and healthy, but tomorrow you may be in great pain. Illness is also a manifestation of karma. It may be karma from this life to another life left by ancestors. It may be karma in this life of each person. Because people need to die, they are born to suffer. This is the rule of life. It is difficult to escape. Fourth, death. Death is not as scary as people think. Because death is the beginning of a new life. Reincarnation is for a new life to be born. But the hesitation, not wanting to leave the feet of people when death is near, is the biggest pain. Fifth, separation. Some people say that every meeting is meant to be a separation. It sounds nonsense, but it's never wrong. The mother met her child in this life, she loved him so much, but then she had to tell him goodbye. And every goodbye was full of tears of love. Then he met you, you met him, you met him, he met me. Every meeting will have a goodbye. So we only know joy when we meet, but no one is prepared to say goodbye gently. We should not always dream that time will stop. Until the end of the day, we don't have time to say goodbye. A love story, then tell the other person. Go together, then tell the next person. In life, there will always be reunions and separations. Only those who are destined to meet each other, and those who are not destined to meet each other, will be forever apart. Therefore, if you belong to your friend, please hold on. If not, don't force it. Sometimes the world is so vast, so vast, that once you part, there is no chance to meet again. But there are times when the earth is limited, and the child has just said goodbye, but when he turns around, his face is smiling. So when you meet, please know how to cherish the time when you are together. So that on the day of separation, you can also say goodbye and thank you for the months you have met. Such a life can be peaceful for a lifetime. Sixth, jealousy. At night, there is a snake looking for food in a bush. It accidentally slipped through the net and was bitten by a small scorpion. Immediately, the snake thought that the scorpion had attacked it, so it turned and bit the scorpion hard to make its mouth bleed. Before stopping there, the snake was extremely angry. It took its body and squeezed the scorpion, and the result was a scorpion full of blood. And the snake died next to the scorpion's tongue. Jealousy in everyone's heart looks like a snake. In the end, it only brings pain and suffering to yourself. A jealous person is creating a dark room in the heart, locking your heart, making you unable to escape. The more jealousy, the more hurt you will be. If asked, who is the most jealous? The answer is often that the person has harmed you. However, Buddha taught that the person we hate the most in this world is ourselves. Because we can't let go and hurt ourselves, because of jealousy, we can't live in peace. Keeping jealousy in our heart, we are like tying ourselves and holding a knife to hurt ourselves. In fact, the person I hate does not suffer. The only person who suffers is only myself. Don't be jealous. Don't nurture negative feelings. Otherwise, you will gradually blacken yourself to the point that you can't recognize who you are anymore. Don't let jealousy become unchangeable and then create karma, both hurting people and hurting yourself. Loving too much also makes people more jealous. The deeper the love, the stronger the jealousy. Don't care too much to make yourself too tired. Don't be full of jealousy to make yourself too jealous. Happiness is actually very simple. Let yourself go. Don't think. Don't anticipate. Forget the unhappiness. Don't drown in sad memories. Seventh, Regret. If people live in regret, their whole life will not be peaceful. Life is short and there will be ups and downs. The only thing you can't do is to start all over again. Therefore, just let it go. Don't burden yourself with the past. Don't let the old stories affect your mood today. Yesterday was just a rain. It rained all the time. Yesterday was just a roll of film. Just let it go. There are things you can't change. There are words you can't take back. Just let it go. If the pain is not on the body, how can you know how uncomfortable it is? Life asks to let it go. The more you cling to it, the more it clings to you. The more you care about it, the more it hurts. The sooner you let it go, the more you relax, the sooner you feel light and relaxed. And right after that, you will be enlightened to feel peace and happiness in your soul. First, calmness lies in your heart. You've been working all your life just to be at peace and enjoy life. You always want to find calmness outside while you don't realize that it is something that everyone can achieve but only from the heart. If you don't let it go, you will feel light and relaxed. Second, anger is just a bruise that can hurt others, but the first one to get hurt is yourself. Sometimes you are angry at everyone, but you don't realize that it hurts yourself. Don't ever say anything when you are angry. People often say that don't let go of your loved ones just because of words when you are angry. Third, thinking will shape you. What we think is what we are. You think you are useless. Surely you will never do anything for anything because you don't want to. You think you are smart. Of course you will be smart because you know how to change that. Just think positively and everything will be fine. Life will be less boring because you always know how to make everything in your life happy. Fourth, being smart and being yourself is a miracle. Nine wins in a row is a profound lesson that everyone needs to know. Being yourself is the biggest challenge that everyone has to go through. That's why we have to practice meditation to understand ourselves. Knowing what you like and what to do to satisfy it is the way to live a happier life. Don't think it's easy because someone has spent their whole life trying to figure it out. Fifth, replacing jealousy will make you sad. Instead, we should appreciate others' success with admiration. Being calm and taking advantage of others will make you fight without jealousy. Jealousy will only make you more jealous. Even because of jealousy, you can become a person who does bad things that you yourself Sixth, being kind to others. Always be kind to children, love the elderly, sympathize with the poor, be kind to the weak and the guilty. At some point in your life, you will fall into those situations. Be kind to everyone, rich or poor, everyone has their own suffering. Some suffer a lot, some suffer a little. Be kind to love and sympathize with them because each person has their own suffering. Only they will suffer. Because you always look at people with kind eyes, your life will always be beautiful. Everything is perfect. Your mind is purified by the actions you do for others. Seventh, it depends on fate. My hand is full of success and it belongs to fate. No one has the honor to take what belongs to me. And what is not, it will never belong to me. So if you want to hold something, especially love, let it be fate. Dear friends, love or parting is also something you have to face in this life. Family, friends, parting are all things that make people suffer, but they are all natural things in life. It can't be avoided. So let the time together become more meaningful so that you don't have to regret later. Birth, old age, death are natural rules that everyone has to go through in life. So you can only use a natural attitude to accept. When you can be optimistic, let go of fear, your life will be much better. Everyone's life is hard to perfect, but it's not completely tragic. You can adjust your attitude well, live happily, know what to do, what to let go. Surely your life will be much more meaningful. Don't care about and lose in this life because of fate. Don't force it. Face it and cherish everything then peace and happiness will be there. In today's video, I invite you to listen to the story of a bus driver. It's 9 p.m. Far from the port of the West. The bus driver gets out of the taxi and receives a signal to turn back. The bus driver is standing and begging people to help him get out of the bus. Anyone who sees him begging is afraid to go, so he runs very slowly. Yes, okay, I'll go. And the road more than ten kilometers from there to Tao Dan, I heard a life story, a beautiful love story. He is 58 years old in District 7. Every afternoon, he leaves the port at 5 o'clock and runs to 5 o'clock the next morning. On sunny and rainy days, he doesn't dare to take a day off this year. Every night, he usually earns more than 100, but he can't afford to pay all 900. She goes to cook for the police. The salary is 1 million. But the good thing is that she has food to bring home. She asked him to find a job but he refused. He said it was okay to leave him alone. He laughed and said, he has to live to take care of his family. I started to admire him after this question. I was late, but I was drawn to his bright story. I think I don't need to go faster. When I got to Thuan Kieu, I saw his shivering shoulder. I asked him. He said, his feet were the coldest in the sky. Come on, stop the car. I'll take you. No way. Who did that to you? It's okay. I dare to run a little more to get oil. Your car is very old. Besides, I'll give you my bag. Stop the car. I ran slowly, like you. Like I was taking my father for a walk. Sit behind me. It must be a little warm. You should feel better. You were very beautiful when you were young. You were a beautiful girl. You went to Saigon to help the house owner to protect you. Your parents didn't like it because they said you were poor and weak. They were afraid you would suffer when you came back to him. But you were not afraid. You left home with him. Your parents were jealous of you. The day your father closed his eyes, he hadn't forgiven you. He had to take you home for half a night and then left. He wanted you to be happy. But you haven't been happy at all. Are you happy? You have to go to work. As long as you have a husband who loves you like me, I think you will be very happy. Really? If you don't believe me, you can ask your mother-in-law. Well, Tet is coming. Maybe you should buy her a beautiful dress to wear on Tet. I heard that there is a God who loves you. Love is not enough for a husband. I have two sons. The oldest is 20 years old and the youngest is 13 years old. They are all good. Are you going to school or work? He is a good student. He is in the 3rd grade at Pham University. He has never used money. That's all. I thought you were handsome when you were young. I'm glad to hear that. Well... Why do I feel like I have a sore throat? The story is still going on. We have arrived. When we got off the bus, he said he would give me less than 20,000 VND for the work I did for him. I paid him. I put a little bit of money in his hand. He said he would buy her a purple dress. I believe she would love it. But she had to buy him another one. She wore a beautiful dress but his was too old. He said he would buy two little ones for each of them. He looked at me and shook his hand. We greeted each other. He said he was kidding. He didn't want to thank me. He said he would pay me when we meet again. I didn't dare to tell him everything. He said he missed her so much that he imagined what would happen. But after he entered the university, he had an accident and passed away. I still can't believe he is no more. We talk every night. But I will take this money to buy him a dress. Thank you for listening. Goodbye and see you again.