5 nỗi bất hạnh xé lòng khi về già - Triết Lý Cuộc Sống

Hello and welcome to the Life Discipline channel Ladies and gentlemen, Life is hard for everyone to avoid unhappiness Maybe that's why the Buddha said that life is suffering But there are unhappiness that is the law of nature It comes because it has to come And we have to accept it But there are also unhappiness that each person can change If we realize it sooner When we are young, we can regret and do it again at any time When we are old, there is no time to change anymore And after this is the 5 worst years of unhappiness when we are old If we realize it sooner, our old life will be different Let's listen and experience life with me First, there is a big house but it lacks a heater Nearly 20 years ago, when Hung and his wife were normal officials They had to earn enough money to live If they didn't, they would be short of money Hung couldn't stand the hard life He told his wife that he would leave the house His wife didn't want to, but he insisted Hung's wife sold her parents' house to get money to start a business It was hard to pay off the debts They had to live far away from home So his wife had to run a small business After three hard years, he found a job to make a living He went to a foreign country It was hard to earn money But it made him passionate Because he could earn a month's worth of money With the same amount of money he earned in Vietnam He sent the money to his wife He helped his wife buy a house, raise her children, and make a living He helped his family 20 Tet holidays have passed He has only been back to Germany once He mainly talked to his wife through phone calls or video calls He was assured that everything was fine at home His wife took care of everything But she forgot that a family without a heater would be cold He was the same For nearly 20 years, he loved his wife and children But there were times when he had to leave his wife and children Even if it was just to get money Or to forget about his family, his wife, and children On New Year's Eve When he came back, he was sad He was regretful, ashamed, and grateful Because at that time He had a serious financial problem And he forgot to pay for his wife and children Now, when he was old enough He was able to come back and live in luxury houses But why didn't he feel the warmth and happiness Like when he was poor? Nearly 20 years apart from his family Since he was a baby His wife and children have grown up But because they were not close to him since he was a baby Until now, their love is still far away There is an invisible distance that is difficult to fill Ladies and gentlemen Family is definitely a wonderful thing More wonderful than when you give all your heart and energy to it And of course, wanting to bring enough happiness to your life is a very right thing You want your wife and children to be able to buy the clothes she likes You want your children not to lose to anyone else You want to pay for the education of your children To do that, money is really important It is almost equivalent to everything in terms of material But many people think that having a high house, a large door, and enough material is happiness That's why when we are young, we rush to make money We rush to make money, waste time, and sometimes even care for our own family The family meals are so small The childhood of the children is empty Husband and wife start their own lives They don't care about the other side Parents leave their children Children start to have their own habits and thoughts Then what will happen? When we have enough material as we want Then the love of husband and wife is cold The children are stubborn, even develop lost There is no direction That's why many people when they get old Although they have a high house, a large door, and enough material But they lack the warmth of the family The wife and children are no longer with them Old age becomes lonely and lonely After all, happiness is not really a lot of money But having someone to spend that money with Even if it's not much, it's enough Don't lose the happiness of your own family because of this Second, there are all the things you want in the past But there is no one in the past This is the story of a successful man But regretted for giving up love to pursue a career We have been in love since we were in grade 3 She is a beautiful, kind girl She cooks very well and knows how to care for others With her, I always feel the most peaceful We have been together through the years of youth Even in college, even in the most difficult times She is willing to introduce me to many friends Like a future husband We have also moved in together I think everything will pass quietly Just waiting for a future for the two of us But everything changed until we went to school The two families are not fake at all Just a little relationship Self-employed, really difficult and many challenges She got a job in a small accounting company And I was a business employee A difficult life should be very small She still encourages me Take care of me every night Care for my family But now I feel The two of us have a distance to look at life She likes peace Just hope the two of you are stable and get married And me, I am ambitious Want to live with a lot of money Want to be recognized by everyone Use money to buy freedom Almost a year as a business employee I like to contribute money, borrow money from friends to invest in my own business Everything has to be said is very smooth I have good connections Catch the market so the business is very good But the more I do, the more I am greedy I can't pull it out I go on a business trip She is still waiting at home, still calling to say love But the world of the two of us has changed I started to feel like I was on a rope One side is a peaceful future family There is a wife who loves me Beautiful, admired by many people One side is the sky to let go Live with my own person We started to have arguments She wants me to have a normal job It's okay to be peaceful And my job is full of problems She cried a lot Because before our dream was not like that At that time, I was stupid to think Now she has a child Everything is heavy Business is making a lot of money But it can lose everything at any time But now it's really a shame And it costs a lot of money and relationships So I decided to break up Until I grew up and more mature I decided to stop Stable in Hanoi to develop my career later I opened a real estate company and a construction company Based on previous relationships 2 years the company developed very fast Now at the age of 50 In everyone's eyes, I am a very successful businessman In the past few years, I have earned a lot of money A house, a car, a beautiful woman But I didn't feel as honest and peaceful as before It turned out There are times when men have everything that other people dream of But the dream is to be with a woman Head in the palm of your hand Overcome the wind of youth Money gives us a lot of things But it takes away a few things To make life impossible Ladies and gentlemen When we were young, we knew a lot of things That there is a choice between passion, career and love And forever later When mature and old In addition, I saw that I missed the most beloved girl There are times when we used to think Give up that love Then there will be someone else to replace us to make us happy But then after all these years When we are old We will know true love Very hard to find Maybe loving someone is not difficult But to nurture love, it is not easy at all Especially when we have a stable position Love at this time is no longer just love Love is connected with location, with material With the family With many things Many times it is irrational in this life In the end, the highest goal in everyone's life Is to be happy with those you love And so Make a lot of money Pursue a career What does it mean if we give up love? But if love at that time Just know to suffer together Eat a bowl of rice, drink a glass of fish sauce forever Try to ask who can stand it for a long time Life is always like that When there is love, there is no career When you grow up, the woman you love the most Wearing a wedding dress, standing next to others Life forces us to make such a difficult decision But there is never a price Let's go back to the beginning All that's left is regret Third There is wealth, but no health When we are rich and healthy We also call our wealth with two very luxurious words But when we are rich and lose our health Our wealth is only summarized in two words Wealth, greed, pain When you get old Look back at a whole journey Have you ever asked yourself What is the ultimate purpose of all fights? Is it money? Or fame? Or a career? And finally, what will we get back for our lives? These values Is it worth it for us to exchange our health for our lives? The values ​​we are exchanging Are all irreplaceable things Is it now that we are old and sick Do we feel regret when we look back? When we are young We are often very confident in our health We say that our endurance allows us to do so That's right But when the breath is gone We don't feel anything anymore When we go to the other side of the world We can't bring money, fame, career Sometimes we accidentally leave behind the mental burden of suffering for those who stay With those who have gone through a period of selling life To exchange for material Then go back to the sick and sick It is those who understand better than anyone About the lost result of this exchange So our body needs to be creative And know where is the limit of your body Don't let everything go to waste A human being How much does it cost? Only health can prove that Without health, money means nothing Health is the way of money No matter if you have money or not You have to take care of your health first Only when you are healthy, you can eat well and sleep well Then you know how to value life Fourth Wealth, time But no selfishness Selfishness is a very sacred emotion When you are in love And you don't need to think about the limit of love Because between selfishness and each other A sincere hug Two tight hands No need to speak, no need to laugh No need to be sad, no need to be happy Just breathe and feel Enough to understand each other's thoughts and thoughts But selfishness is a person That we can't always find in life Because in life It's hard to find someone you love It's even more difficult to find a selfish friend At an old age There are deep feelings Worries, conflicted thoughts Can't talk to anyone Selfishness is a place for us to calm down If you have a selfish person like that Or you are very lucky in life But in fact There are people who spend their whole youth To pursue material wealth and status When they get old They have to be lonely and sad Because they can't be selfish To go through the last five months of life Fifth Life is bright But we are desperate Mr. Huy in Hanoi Tried to find a way to tell his wife's story She is a well-off official Knows how to live a good life But ever since she followed a certain group of people That he didn't know His wife has become a completely different person Leaving her job Cutting off all ties Even holding both grandchildren Not even 10 years old He used to have an apartment for rent Now that apartment Has become his wife's place For all kinds of people From the rich to the poor One day His wife took him away for a few days Without letting the kids go to school He took his daughter home Very shyly Telling her where she was taken Mr. Huy was very sad Because his wife's life was comfortable Happy and peaceful He was confused Because he didn't know how to help his wife Get rid of those negative thoughts Ladies and gentlemen In this life The biggest mistake of a person Is the lack of accuracy If the mistake is specific It can still be fixed But if the mistake originates from negative thoughts That is the biggest mistake of a person's life A lot of people when they get old Are drawn into negative thoughts And fall into a vicious circle Not getting out Remember No matter how strong the city is A king will also be destroyed By greed Health, wealth, wealth Will also be destroyed by greed And finally The happiness that is full like a mountain Will also be destroyed by the desire for life Ladies and gentlemen In the summer Life is short and boring Although we have counted all the ups and downs Of life But only understanding life Understanding people And understanding yourself The old age can live in peace Comfortable and happy The regret and shame when we get old That life philosophy shares today I hope it will be a lesson For us to find the right path In a happy old age In the last part of today's video Life philosophy Sends to you 5 ways to cure knee pain in the elderly How old? Knee pain Or knee pain Is a symptom of many knee-related diseases In the elderly It is the most common symptom In knee pain Knee pain If not treated in time Can lead to severe symptoms In humanity Many male medicines Treating knee pain Are still widely used 1. Use lalot Lalot is a nutrient with a non-toxic, non-inflammatory, anti-inflammatory, anti-inflammatory and anti-inflammatory Anti-inflammatory and anti-inflammatory Very good That's why it is widely used In treating knee pain Such as knee pain 1. Take 20 grams of fresh lalot Bring to clean Then put in the same temperature with 500 ml of water Until there is 100 ml of water left Remove the husk And divide it into 2 times 2. Combine Prepare lalot Grass tree And elephant tree 20 grams each Wash the medicines Take 300 ml of water Squeeze the water And divide it into 3 times 2. Use saline Prepare about 300 grams of fresh saline With 2 tablespoons of honey Saline Bring to clean with salt water 2. Put lalot in a plastic bag To squeeze the saline Then mix the saline with honey And drink directly Should drink twice a day In the morning and evening after eating 2. Use saline With salt Stir hot Then put on your knee for about 15 minutes 3. Use ginger Bring the ginger to grill And soak with 2 liters of wine for about 1 month Then use alcohol