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Elon Musk doesn't have to look hard to find it. He talks about this a lot. He's a natural genius. But Elon Musk is not interested in what he doesn't want to immerse himself in. He sleeps on the sofa about what he's really interested in. He doesn't think anything else is important. There was a time when he was immersed. A person who lives like that must go through the growth process of 10 to 20 years and bloom flowers. What we need to think about is Elon Musk If you look at the back story of people who have had a conversation, Hello, subscribers of Knowledge Insider. I'm a cognitive psychologist, Kyung-il Kim. A psychologist at Texas University named Sam Gosling did a very interesting research. Excellent businessmen People with great business and mentality People who make a business I thought about what kind of people these people were and the conclusion came out like this. Not so high superiority Very high openness The reason why I used a vague expression called not so high superiority is because these people are a little below the average level or have to do well to reach the average level. What is superiority? It's one of the five or six important factors that psychologists talk about. To put it simply, it's based on the desire to get along with other people. But what would happen if the superiority is very high? I don't want to be cursed at by anyone. I don't want to hear anything I don't like. That's what I think. So people with high superiority have very unique characteristics. They seem to be very generous, and they seem to be very tolerant and tolerant, but when they see someone who says something they don't like, they get a message that's the opposite of what they want. There are cases where they react strongly. So, in fact, it's not that good to say that superiority is very high. But we are I don't want to be cursed at by anyone. I think it's a very important virtue. Actually, it's not bad in itself, but it's trying to get along with anyone. If the desire to never listen to bad words is too strong, it's a little too high in superiority. But people with excellent corporate psychology don't have that much superiority. But openness is really high. Superiority is called agreeableness. And then openness is usually expressed in English as openness. Agreeableness. What is it? I want to agree and be agreed. But what is openness? It's opening. What's really interesting is that even in the mid-20th century or the mid-late 20th century, superiority and openness went together to some extent. But now it's almost irrelevant. Why is that? Because it's a super-connected society. So it's good to be with anyone. So the size of the social network with anyone is completely different now. But it's impossible to get along with anyone in such a super-connected society. In the past, there were about 20 to 30 shareholders. Now there are tens of thousands of shareholders. Not only that, but there are people who are connected to other continents as much as possible. That's why agreeableness If you don't justify superiority to the appropriate level, we're in a very difficult society now. What kind of difficult society? A society where you can't do anything. It's best not to do anything. And so-called with a job recognized by others End your life in a normal way without any special behavior without any creative things It's perfect to live that kind of life. However, it is not to attack others that you have the right to be superior. You have to admit that you can't get along with everyone. To yourself And the most important thing that doesn't make you afraid of it is to grow yourself. Elon Musk If you look at the feedback of people who have had a conversation, he doesn't hate people. Why? Hatred is also a lot of concentration. He's just not interested. But people don't agree with the other person because they don't agree with him. He can't feel superiority. So in the meantime, people like Elon Musk You'll have a sense of resentment. But this is what I think. Most of that resentment He also thinks so because he's free. I'm still high on memory and spirit. Or if I'm trying to do it in a variety of fields, I don't agree with my story. To Elon Musk, who is not interested, I don't have time to be interested again. In many cases, People who are not interested in my story I think it's my enemy. That's a very stupid idea. They're just not interested in my story. They think I'm wrong. They're going to forget me soon. So I sometimes joke like this. The scariest person in the world He's not busy. It's really bad to be unnecessarily busy. But I don't have anything to immerse myself in. People who think I'm busy. Or people who want to look busy. People who look like Elon Musk. I'm willing to take the time. It doesn't matter if Elon Musk is ruined or not. That's right. I'm going to focus on my work again. I'm going to find something meaningful to me. I think I'll feel bad for about 15 minutes. Not as much as Elon Musk. I have a lot of work to do, too. So he's not interested in his story. I don't really care about people who are jealous. You can't swear. There's a paper I often quote and tell you. Dan Gilbert and then It's a paper written by Professor Jordi Cordova in Spain. It's called The End of History Illusion. It's been over 10 years. The reason I quote it in so many of my lectures. Humans can't see the future. How much has the world changed in the past 10 years? If you say that, It's changed as much as it was. That's what I'm saying. But how much will the world change in the next 10 years? If you say, predict it, I can't even tell you a third of it. But in the next 10 years, In the end, after 10 years, It's been 10 years. It's actually changed more. If you think that the change in the past 10 years is 100, You think it's going to change a lot, right? I think it's only going to change 30 in the next 10 years. But in fact, in the next 10 years, it's going to change about 200. No, it could change about 2,000. What kind of laws are going on everywhere? But we still don't even see a third of it. Of course, in the process, There are things you have to do as you do. The basic stability and order of our society. Being in charge of it. It's going to be the work of the older generation. But in the range that allows it, You have to respect the opinions of people younger than you who can predict change as much as possible. Then why do we say that the future doesn't change as we get older? It's because there's a lot to lose. It's because I have something. Then the future will change more as you get older. Based on the know-how you've built up, You see what others can't see in the process. It's the best combination. I'm not saying that Elon Musk is that kind of person. We don't understand the various strange behaviors that Elon Musk shows. In the end, as he gets older, I have to say that the world doesn't change. He says the world will change more in the future. That's why I feel strange. Among the things that people like that basically say, Certain technologies or fossil stories. I'm not saying that those things are possible or not. Why do I think the future doesn't change like this? So why don't you make a debut? You need to think about that. Elon Musk is relatively weighty. More than the model student that our society generally thinks. A little more education, that is, from education. He's a person who has moved to the model of learning. I don't want to praise Elon Musk. But what we need to feel and realize from that person. In other words, what we need to learn is... He's a good model of learning. A good model of learning is... There's a problem with the background and environment of parents. He's going to bump into a lot of people. Even if it's broken, you can keep thinking about it. I'm telling you that I'm more based on those things. So, learning reporters. I'm sure you're looking for a certain part. What's much more important is... It depends on how you live your life. There are a lot of people around us who are better at learning than I am. Some of them got good education. Some of them got bad education. Some of them even lost their chance. But if you look at all the masters in our daily lives, They're good at learning. But good education is perfect. I passed the exam with excellent grades. We see a lot of people around us who don't study at all. We're frustrated when we see people like that. You can't design the future together. I don't think I want to go to the future that that person suggests. In that respect, you need to check it out once in a while. I'm experiencing the same world. Why do some people learn and some people don't? We need to check it out at least once. I don't think everyone in the world can be like Elon Musk. I don't do it either. Everyone has their own characteristics. Just right for me. There are people who can only be immersed in something that I can be immersed in with all my might. I've introduced you to a few people like that. You have to fit in perfectly. Fit theorist I think it's better to say that kind of person rather than a theorist. I think Elon Musk is that kind of person. These people. If it's something that's meaningful or important to most people, If it doesn't suit me, I don't care about it. I just let it go. I don't care about anything. In many cases, people like this are judged to have ADHD when they were young. Elon Musk was like that, too. But these people end up going back and forth like this. I don't care about it here, I don't care about it here, I don't care about it here. If you find something that really suits you, you don't know how time goes by. In fact, my best friend and colleague researcher, Dr. Lee Hwan-wook, a psychiatrist for children and adolescents, I've told you a few times that you've been fooled. This is definitely ADHD. I can't do anything. I can't focus at all. But after the military service, I went to a company. It was a very unique company. Shall I tell you a little bit about it? Making sauce. When I opened my eyes, it was time to get off work. The people around me said, You'll die if you work like that. They're losing weight. At first, he thought he had an asthma. Why? I'm immersed in it. It's been seven or eight hours all of a sudden. There are people like that. Most of those people are called geniuses. I get a lot of names from people. And when I see people like that, I'm not a genius. Most people say that. But there are other types of people. There are many more numbers. I'm one of them. These people don't have a perfect job for me. What kind of work do you do? I'm going to change it little by little. I found my value there again. I'm going to grow up again. I'm going to change it a little bit more. I'm going to change it with the idea that this isn't it. I'm going to change it from there. It's getting narrower. That's how you raise it. Development, development. It's a concept that contrasts with FIT. Development. It's a type of development. These people are in the middle. I like to get a lot of recognition from other people. In the process, I'm interested in this kind of thing. It's not my standard that I set first. Late, or in the second half. Or a little bit of a social aspect. I'm a person who develops. I'm that kind of person. So, of course, I'm different from Elon Musk's life. There's a little bit of wandering and micro-adjustment. It keeps piling up. Then you're in a huge panic. Is this electricity or a novel? It's less dramatic than Elon Musk's life. But in the end, we humans. There are more people like this. That's why we're 95% of the new employees. It's not a society where 90% go out right away. Sometimes I get confused. I thought it was FIT, but I thought it was development. Or I thought it was development, but I thought it was FIT. Actually, it's also a panic that you have to try. It's also a misunderstanding that you have to try. That's how you get to know me better. You don't fit in with me. It's really important to know that. These second-type people. You have to change your job a little bit. If I was a pitcher in a baseball player. If you're a suitable type of person, Now, I'm going to be completely insured. Or I'm going to go to the lab. I'm gonna have to change it like this. I'm a baseball player now, but I'm a pitcher. If you say that, you're a development type of person like me. First of all, when you say you're not a pitcher, I don't think it's baseball. You can try to be a pitcher or an outfielder. You can even go to the front of the team. Or try it as a leader. It's a good idea to change your job like this. One of the reasons I think Elon Musk is a FIT type. I don't even have to worry about it. I just throw it and do something else. And I'm not interested in micro-adjustment at all. Now, we're probably close to development. But what's really important is that In the end, when you achieve something and get evaluated later as a result, In terms of the size and excellence of the achievement, There's no difference on either side. In the end, it makes you go there. What makes you go up to that half-heat? I always tell you. I'm not the kind of person who goes around. There are people who go around in a cool way. There are people who just quietly go around without any noise. But it's just that I do it every day. It's not that I don't take a break. It means I don't stop and I keep doing it. I don't know why people talk so much about Elon Musk who works 7 days a week. I work 52 weeks a year. All I do is take a two-day break. Elon Musk, who works 7 days a week, and I, who work 5 days a week. Who wins? Everyone who's been doing it for 10 years wins. I don't know why people are so enthusiastic about working 7 days a week. I don't know if you think it's weird. I just do it without stopping. I can't work even if I die. 1, 7 days. It's the same for me. So I'm going to work for decades for 5 days even if I die. If you think about it, I'm like another Elon Musk. I'm going to be able to achieve something no matter how big it is. I was going to leave my country at such a young age. Of course, we all have dreams about traveling abroad. Or I have dreams of going to another country. That's actually a short-term wish or curiosity. Elon Musk strongly wanted it. I can't grow up here. It was even overwhelming. Anyway, he was trying to get out of his father, who was feeding him. The important thing is that he wasn't a father who was violent at home. But he was a mentally violent father. There's nothing you can do. In fact, he's a very bad parent in this respect. Ishihara Shintaro, who is the head of the Japanese government. The most ideal father in the 80s is a father who is a good son. I've told you a little bit of a shocking story. That story actually resonated with quite a few people. Ishihara Shintaro's Korean words are all nonsense. Despite that, he had his own philosophy. Surprisingly, he was an educator. But the reason I said this shocking thing is that I can't make my children dream. Especially to his children. I don't want to think that I want to do this kind of thing in the future. The world is dangerous, so never go outside. There's not much you can do. That's what I thought. A father who doesn't let his children dream. Or parents are doing a lot of wrong things. Elon Musk ran away from that father. I'm not going to this country, I'm going to Canada, the United States. It's not because it's an ideal. I'm going to go wherever I can dream of. Rather, when we were young, the handicap we have. Inadaptive aspects or difficulties or hardships. That's why you can find a new world. It's a driving force that can drive you away. If Elon Musk was a model student, he would have lived in South Africa. He wanted to be a stable job at the Republic of South Africa. Of course, that's not a bad life either. It's a life that we all need. But even if you can contribute to the world, You can't make such a huge change yourself. I'm not saying that the model student is wrong. It's not that my child or I'm a model student right now. It's very typical that you don't take the elite course. It's such a big mistake to admit that you're a loser. And this is even more important in Korea. Korea will have more than 240,000 newborns in 2023 and 2024. Less next year. We're in the early 200,000s. We have to endure decades. There was a period of nearly 30 years when more than a million people were born. The population has decreased. In the early 200,000s, we have to endure twice as long. Then the children born in Korea can't lose a single one. They're all gold. And they're young men like gold. How long do we have to line up? From 1st to 2,000th. Or from 2,000th to 5,000th. Do we have to think of them as the only successful people with a certain job? I'm really going to be in trouble. All 200,000 newborns have to be the main characters in their lives. You have to be the winner. In this way, there are a few typical elite courses. Or doing things that don't fit your aptitude. Most people end up having a hard time. To get out of that obsession. Children who look inadequate. Friends who are not modern and not typical elites. An environment where you can wander around like Elon Musk. An environment where you can wander around positively. Now that our adults have to do it. Even if it's a mistake so far. I think it's the only solution that can be solved. I'm not talking about a cultural revolution that says, let's tear up the whole curriculum, such as college or grades, and completely change it. It doesn't mean we should change everything. In Elon Musk's life, at least until he was 30 years old. Elon Musk is what he can immerse himself in. He's looking for an environment where he can decide for himself that what he can immerse himself in is right. And that's right. You're out of the person who says no. I think that's the most important thing in Elon Musk's life. I think it's a good decision. That's why I immerse myself in it and do anything. Elon Musk has no interest in what he doesn't want to immerse himself in. There was a time when he was really interested in it, sleeping on the sofa, not thinking about anything else, and immersed himself in it. A person who lives like that is bound to bloom flowers through the growth process of 10 to 20 years. I hope we can feel that we should think about that. If you see someone who was born later achieve something amazing, no matter how important age is, why didn't I do as much as I did during that time? I think about that at least once. It can end in a pleasant line, and in severe cases, it can make you think, I'm late because I keep losing my self-esteem. People say this a lot. You're a natural genius. You're born with it. Don't give us useless hope. People say that a lot. But what does it mean to be born? It's very vague. In fact, the brain we have as hardware when we are born doesn't have that great connectivity. Of course, it has tremendous potential. But there are a lot of changes in the growth process. For example, I think the aspect of saying, nevertheless, is quite natural. Elon Musk doesn't have to look hard. When he was young, he was suspected of his intellectual ability to the extent that he was almost subdued by Asperger syndrome. If you look at us, he was a friend who suffered a lot from school violence. And the lack of concentration, and the fact that the intellectual ability itself for learning is currently suspected is also in the teacher's record. But was the teacher wrong? It's not established that he was wrong. Even though the teacher observed Elon Musk appropriately, such a result came out. But through that process, he was able to immerse himself in something. It's definitely a coincidence, but it must have created a very important fate. This person called Elon Musk had a hard time when he was very young, but he was unadapted in itself. The fact that he wasn't adapted shows us a lot. Quite a lot of people were like that. Is he really a creative inventor? Or did he make creative inventors well? Edison, who is being evaluated in the middle, also had a very unadapted childhood. In many political, economic, and social cultures we know, there are a lot of people who have risen to the level of history who were not model students when they were young. As we get to know Elon Musk, we need to think about the fantasy that model students give us, and furthermore, the obsession with model students. If we feel that our society, Korean society, needs to be a little freer in these things, we can take a lot of things that we can take while looking at Elon Musk's introduction or Elon Musk's growth process. Some people understand that there is no need for the existing order. So some people say that you don't need to study at school. Some people say that people like Elon Musk are born with it. But if you think about it, most of those people are born with it, and I wasn't born with it. So we need to think about how to justify ourselves in a negative way, or how to justify ourselves in a dark way, in a sad way.