9 điều ở phụ nữ tưởng khờ ai ngờ cực khôn ngoan - Góc Nhìn Việt

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, this life is full of colors, and each person will have their own life. There are different living circumstances and thoughts, and each choice will depend on the understanding and experience of that person. And with a woman, how you choose how to live, how you decide, your fate will go with it. There are things you do that make outsiders think you are wise, but in fact, you are very alert and smart. Why do I say that? Let's listen to today and experience it. 9 characteristics of a woman who thinks she is very smart 1. Let go a little bit, but don't think you're smart. Only a woman who maintains a modest attitude, boldness to admit that she is stupid, is truly smart. That is smartness in the far-sightedness. There is an old saying, knowledge makes people humble, stupidity makes people arrogant. High mountains have higher mountains, good people have better people. In this ocean of knowledge, what you know is just a drop of water. Instead of self-satisfaction, self-love with a little bit of your little bit, learn to listen and learn more. Facing criticism, criticism, criticism, you have to be serious and accept it. Every woman wants to be praised by others as smart, talented, and the more praised, the better. But a truly talented smart person must always be enjoyed and happy. Otherwise, the smart type always has to be calculating and stubborn in the heart. A smart person often thinks too much, the mood is also like that, but it is easy to be born late, care too much, easy to be sensitive and doubtful. As a person, you have to be a little bit stupid to be able to face all the love in life. A smart person does not have to show a low level of intelligence or a slow understanding, but to show humanity, so be a little bit honest. So being a little bit stupid will be better. Being too calculating will only make you suffer. With a small gain, a smart person, don't be afraid to give them some. With a greedy person, don't be afraid to give them some. With a hot-tempered person, the best thing is to be quiet, stay away, don't pay attention. There are some rules that can't be explained clearly, don't explain any more. There are some ideas that can't be thought through, don't be too busy in your heart. Being a person should be a little bit stupid, there is nothing to regret. At that time, life will be much more peaceful. Second, forgive the poor, but don't show off your wealth. The art of life of a woman is to learn to be tolerant and modest. So remember this, flowers have fragrance, bees find them by themselves, you don't have to advertise for them. There is a saying, if you show off about something, you will fail about it. But the wealthier a woman is, the more modest she will be. They understand that showing off about material things is different from showing off about other people's greed and desire. This doesn't mean that you can get the respect and sincerity from others, but only show off your arrogance and want to show off more than others. The more rice seeds, the more wheat, the lower the value. Many people have no money in their pockets, even have a lot of debt on their shoulders, but they always like to show off that they are rich. Meanwhile, those who have money really talk very modestly, not wasting money. The rich respect those who know how to make an effort to make progress, never stop improving themselves to change their lives. Many people may not have it, but they like to show it. 3. Let yourself be deceived. It's better than not believing once. No matter what the relationship is, faith is always a necessary element to build a solid foundation. Maybe because you have witnessed unfair things, maybe because you have been betrayed by someone, but you don't know that you have lost faith in life. They become suspicious of everyone. It's worse than losing faith in yourself. Every time you fall or get betrayed, witness an unfair thing, it's definitely an uncomfortable feeling. However, life is like that. There will be some dark days. The most terrible thing is when we lose faith. If you are overwhelmed by anxiety, fear of being betrayed, and never dare to open your heart, you are increasingly losing good relationships, as well as opportunities to come to you. Look at life more positively. You will see that every experience brings back valuable lessons. Let yourself be deceived once to learn a lesson for yourself. It's better than living in a tight corner all your life. Don't dare to open your heart or trust anyone. Believe in the path you have chosen, no matter how difficult it is, no matter how many challenges you have to overcome. Believe in yourself, even if you sometimes feel like you are deceiving yourself. 4. You just need to be healthy, you don't need to work hard. Smart women know how to choose the most meaningful way of life, know what they want, know what is the most important thing to consider and make the right choice. If you put health and wealth on the scale, we can easily see that even if you don't have wealth, you can still live well. But if you don't have health, you lose everything, not just wealth. Therefore, health is the most important asset that everyone must respect and prioritize. 5. Be a normal person, don't buy fame and fame. There is a saying, it's better to be hated than to live with yourself, it's better to fake it to make others look down on you. The nature of buying fame and fame is just a lie, bringing you misery and tiredness. How much glory did you have before? After the truth is revealed, how much will you regret? Therefore, let go of normalcy and happiness with normalcy and peace right from the beginning, it's better than waiting for the storm to come. In the Buddha Sutra, there is a passage like this, With this extreme comparison, we can see the nature of the nature of virtue, of true cultivation. If we don't have the right effort in self-cultivation to become a virtuous person, even if we are temporarily praised by others, but surely, one day we will fall in love, buy fame and fame, sell fame and fame, that's all. 6. Let go of money, it's better than taking small gains. The ancients said, let go of money, let go of small gains. If you want money, you can't achieve it. If you want small gains, you can't achieve big things. If you work hard, you can't succeed, you can't achieve your goal. If you want small gains, you can't achieve big things. Women, sometimes because of the first gain, easily lead to blindness or forget the long-term stability plan. Therefore, when doing something, you have to do it step by step, step by step. Be passionate, be eager for small gains, otherwise you can't achieve big things. Life now is full of bonds, always in a hurry. Everyone wants to work fast, think fast, decide fast, and pursue wealth quickly, like, just one night, and you're rich. As long as you have money, you can do anything. Sometimes you have to change, bring benefits to yourself, even if it's just a little, but it's enough to make you happy. Humans, among us, can't avoid feelings. We only like to enjoy benefits, but don't want to suffer losses, even if it's a little. But you have to understand this, sometimes, having losses is happiness, having benefits makes you happy. 7. Give up gloriously, but don't always think about winning forever. Smart women always know how to be loyal, give up, give up when necessary, to balance all the relationships around. Arguing with others is self-punishment. When a relationship between a person and another person breaks up, have you ever asked yourself what's the point of arguing? In fact, when a quarrel ends, both sides realize it's a loss. The war has no winner, only the loser. The nature of self-argument is to use other people's mistakes to punish yourself. Life is too short, why do you have to suffer like that? Human beings live in life, don't be too passionate, but talk negatively, hurt others. When arguing, focus on the right topic, speak clearly, don't let yourself be out of control. In every relationship, before saying anything, we should think whether what we say is meaningful and whether it is necessary to say it. Don't just say it without paying attention to other people's feelings. Speak easily, know when to speak, know when to be silent. This is a sign of human personality. Back to a smart woman, they will always keep a calm attitude when communicating, even if someone wants to vent their anger. So remember, use gentleness to talk to people. This way, it's better to solve misunderstandings than arguing with each other. In many people's minds, the pursuit of enjoyment is the goal of life. They see enjoyment as a night of fame, enjoyment of luxury, becoming a direction for human values. Many women don't want to make contributions, but often blame. When they face difficulties in life or have to do a little more, they always feel unhappy and feel that they are suffering a lot. In fact, suffering is not life. In fact, suffering can help human will, help the mind become strong and can become great. There is a saying, where there is suffering, there is peace. But modern people today are often controlled by their laziness. They only want to enjoy but avoid suffering. The result is to miss the whole life. If you want to enjoy for a long time, you will lose your will, your perspective and the passion of each person. You are very easy to lose yourself as well as your mind in comfort. Forgive the hard, stubborn, difficult, suffering so that I can train my mind to keep my ability more than enjoyment. 9. Don't be smart because no one is stupid as a human being. It's not that others don't know how to be smarter than you. They just don't want to talk. Therefore, don't think that everyone in the world is stupid. Only you are smart. In fact, clever tricks are common and laugh with each other. But no one points it out to you. That's the scariest thing. There is a story that two people fell into the water. A very strong person and a very cautious person. Both of them are trying to cover their faces on the wide river. When they stop, they feel exhausted. Of course, the cautious person saw a small boat floating towards them not far ahead. The cautious person also saw it. So, both of them used all their energy to swim towards the boat. While swimming, the cautious person stopped. Because he saw it clearly that it wasn't a small boat but just a piece of wood. The cautious person didn't know that. He still swam with all his energy. Finally, when he swam to the piece of wood, he realized that he was not far from the shore. The strong person kept swimming in the water and lost the chance. While the cautious person got himself weak. So, people are not like God. They are calculative and sometimes easy to get into trouble. With less calculation, the trouble will go away. With more kindness, the happiness will come. Women who are too good at calculation are usually calculative. Although they are very open on the outside, they are not calm on the inside. The calculative person from the beginning made them lose their calmness. They lost in every detail of every object. People who lose their calmness often lead to serious worries. People who are worried not only have no fun, but also suffer. Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to tell you a funny story. Two old ladies celebrated their 50th wedding in a restaurant. After the party, the old lady saw the old man crying. She was very touched and asked if he was happy because he had had a wonderful time for 50 years. The old man did not answer. He thought for a long time. He said 50 years ago, his father shot me and sent me to jail for 50 years if I did not marry her. If I had been more bold, I would have been sentenced to jail by tomorrow. It is a very sad story, ladies and gentlemen. But the regret of this life is very real and sometimes very sad. What about you? What in this life makes you regret the most? Talking about the regret of human life, we can say a lot. Compared to men, in this life, the regret of women is no less. Especially, women are preparing to reach 40 years old. The threshold that they see may be the peak of life. They need to live a little slower. And after this, Thanh Liem will share with you 6 things that women must remember before reaching 40 years old. Please listen and experience, ladies and gentlemen. 6 things women need to know before reaching 40 years old. 1. Cultivate the soul. There is a saying in Japanese. If you are a flower, live like a flower on the island. And there is nothing surprising when you know the meaning of it. Oh, your soul is so beautiful. Have you ever asked yourself how is your soul in this turbulent life? Women always try to hide their sadness by makeup, by clothes, or shoes. But maybe you have realized that no matter how beautiful you are, the thing you need to be nurtured is still your inner self. Keep your attitude. Women will be like weeds. They always have a way to survive and grow up even if they have to face the misfortune. In this life, no one is more miserable than anyone else. And women should always remember not to be pessimistic but to be positive for the joy day after day. Women may not be too beautiful, but remember to always be kind. Kindness does not mean to please others, but to know how to put yourself in the other person's situation to forgive and share the insignificant things in life. When you are kind, you see everyone more wonderful. You see everything around as lovely and strange. Because no matter how your heart is, everything will change like that. From a flowering flower to a falling flower, your heart is sometimes like a floating boat in the sea. When you let go of your hand, it will also break and sink somewhere. But when you overcome all obstacles, you will be able to stand up and be at peace wherever you are. In every situation, the soul brings a different color. Sometimes gray and dark, but sometimes extremely pure. Keep your soul calm, you will find the shore of happiness. Second, living your life is not someone else's. Someone else's life looks really interesting, really exciting. But so what? Maybe it doesn't suit you. The person with the highest ability should first bring happiness to himself first. This life is not a math problem because there is no definite answer. Life is not a fixed design. This world is interesting because there are many differences. Life is like a glass of water. Clear or cloudy, warm or cold, it's all up to you. You feel it. A glass of water, even if it's hot, wait for it to cool down and drink it. What do you need to be upset about? As long as we feel happy, that's life. Life is just a long process that you fight with the outside and your inner self. Life happens here in the way we feel, not in the eyes of others. So women, act like no one sees you, love like you're never hurt and sing like no one hears you. Don't lose your true desire just because you follow the success that others want. That's not enough to make you happy. Third, be realistic. Realistic women know how to face themselves to choose the right path. Don't be obsessed with too many obstacles and give up on the challenge of life. Realistic women don't put too much trust in difficult and unrealistic things. Don't be too easy to fall in love with any promises. Because it's easy to get hurt if you're too easy to believe. Sometimes, a little hesitation will make you live better. It's better not to believe right from the start than to have weak hopes. To be independent, don't wait for things to happen. Realistic women are not too weak, not too soft, not too delicate, not too hard. Don't give up on the situation too soon and don't give up on your own destiny. A realistic woman can always attract others, sometimes she doesn't have to come back. Simply because she's independent. She's her own body. She knows how to make herself different. She knows how to create her own identity and doesn't argue with anyone. Everyone wants to live a good life, but if we don't look straight at the truth, we can easily fall. Everyone has the right to dream, because dreams don't pay. But life is not always colorful. It's not a color scheme like in a fairytale. So, being a woman, don't dream too high, don't expect too far. You will be happier. Fourth, save money. We should do this right from a young age. Life is always changing. You need to learn how to save money and spend wisely so you don't have to struggle because of bad things. Without money, it's hard to move forward. With money, it's easier to move forward, more confident. No matter what happens in the future, women can still hold on to their own thoughts and positions. You don't have to force yourself. Many people have to give up their dreams, give up their perseverance, become weak and dependent. The main reason is because they don't have money. Only when women have money in their hands can they live the way they want because they can live on their own. All dreams need physical support. Buy the lipstick you want, go where you want to go, eat delicious food you like. Is there anything that doesn't need money? Without money, all dreams are empty. So women should learn how to save. Have money in your hands, don't depend on anyone. Live as you want. Fifth, accept the changes in life. In this life, we can't expect everyone to be satisfied with us. Just like our loved ones forced us to leave and we cried bitterly asking if they would come back to us. The answer is no. Maybe we still have to accept when the truth is sad. And life is like that. There are ups and downs, there are ups and downs, it's inevitable. If you are a woman, learn how to accept the truth no matter how hard it is. Don't be stubborn to make yourself suffer more. Don't stand there to blame others or blame fate. There will be no Buddha in this ordinary life. Everything is decided by us. Stand up to know we are strong. Act to change everything in the future. The past is a stepping stone for us in the future, not a tree for us to climb and fall down. When a woman learns how to accept, she will feel more relaxed. Don't be overwhelmed by stubborn thoughts. Life is sometimes about learning how to accept and give up. Giving up is not chasing love. Giving up is giving yourself a chance to receive better things. Sixth, be sincere. Women should remember only sincerity can change sincerity. If you only see all relationships as a test, you will become an obstacle in your partner's heart. Care doesn't need sweet words. Sincerity is enough. Love doesn't need early or late. Remembrance is enough. Questions don't need good words. Sincerity is enough. Love doesn't need formalities. Warmth is enough. Real understanding doesn't need to be tied to each other. Only silence and care is enough. Ask only one question, but be sincere. Encouragement helps when needed. Women should start to be sincere, then naturally accept the other person's message. Never be afraid to lose the heart of others for straightforward words. As long as we are sincere, not selfish, and truly want to be good to the other person, time will bring understanding and happiness. Only with care can there be enthusiasm. Only with understanding can there be appreciation. Only with sincerity can there be sincerity again. Only then can life be peaceful, joyful, and good. Nature will come. When I look into the eyes of a sincere person, it's like looking into a pond of clear water. We can see its true depth and our own shine. Women in their 40s, try to be sincere and kind. That way, you won't regret anything. The above 6 things help women live without regret. However, in order to have a truly happy life, you need to remember the remaining 3 tips. Let's take a look and listen to them. 1. Learn to be satisfied with yourself. It's true that happiness for every woman is not the same. However, happiness is only when you can be satisfied with yourself, not a fake happiness to show off to others. Wasting time to try to look perfect will only make you look bad. No one is perfect. You will soon realize that no one is satisfied with their appearance, not even people, or objects, or celebrities that you admire. Women have to be beautiful. However, beauty standards also change in each person's life. 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