人は死ぬ前に●●と話しながら後悔する！17つの後悔

Thank you for watching. I'm Miyobo. In order to enjoy the life of Rakuyo Life, today I will talk about the 17 regrets of life, and as a Rakuyo training method that can be easily done every day at the end, there is an important way to gradually realize the important things in your life. I would like you to watch it to the end and incorporate it. Life has something to regret at the end. Everyone is trying to live a life without regrets, but after all, there are many regrets at the end. I was also working in a hospital, so I saw a lot of people leaving with regrets in their hearts at the end. As soon as possible while you are alive, don't lose sight of what is really important to you, and I would like you to take care of it as you live your life. In this video, I would like to tell you 17 things to regret before you die, 5 things not to regret in life, and 3 things for Rakuyo. First of all, I would like to tell you 17 things to regret before you die. Actually, it is said that people tend to think that it was good when the result is not as good as they expected. The stronger the tendency, the more likely it is to have memory impairment such as cognitive impairment at the end of life. I understand that you want to escape from reality, but the more you want to think that you are happy, the less you can feel the reality in your cognitive impairment. The more you want to think that you are happy, the less you can feel the reality in your cognitive impairment. It's not good to think that you are happy, but when you accept the reality as it is, your brain, body, and mind will be sharpened. Even people who are surviving have their nerves sharpened. So it is important to accept the reality as it is. In order to do so, I think it is very important to know whether you know the most important thing that supports you and makes you live the most in the reality where there are many difficulties. There are a lot of 17 things, and I'm going to tell you about the regrets of your life. In order not to have such regrets, you should face reality as soon as possible. To be honest, it may be a little painful to face reality, but you should face it as soon as possible and find a solution in yourself. If you notice something really important in your life at an early stage, don't you think your life will definitely open up? People say, you will be happy until the end of your life. I think today's point is important to remember what you eat, your memories, the names of people around you, and so on, and to live a really healthy life. If you notice this as early as possible, I think you can enjoy your life more and more. I would like to tell you about the 17 regrets in three parts. The first is the regret for your family and friends. The second is the regret for your job. The third is the regret for yourself. First, the regrets for your family, friends, and so on. The first regret is that you should have told your true feelings. It's hard to tell your true feelings, isn't it? But even if it's a thank you, even if it's an apology, even if it's something important, telling your true feelings, don't do it later, never do it later. I think it's good to do it now. I don't think you'll regret it. And the second regret is that you should have taken care of your time together. There are so many regrets, but you prioritized your time with your business partners and colleagues. I think there are some people who are really important to you, but you don't care if you spend time with them or not, but you care about them. There are times when you treat people who are surprisingly close to you roughly. Of course, it's because you have a good heart that you show your weaknesses and show your stress. But the last regret in life is that you spent time with the most important person. That's where the regret comes from. So I want you to take care of your time with people who are close to you. And the third regret is that you should have reconciled with them. There are a lot of parents and children, and there are a lot of friends, but you should have reconciled with them. I thought you had some regrets, but I didn't think it was that bad. There are a lot of people who have been separated from their loved ones because they said something they didn't even think about. There are a lot of times when people leave their loved ones and then they regret it. For example, after they die, they say to their father, I couldn't convey my true feelings to my children. Especially to my wife and husband, I still receive a lot of advice from them. Please make sure you don't regret it. And the fourth regret is that you should have talked to them more. It's true that you should have told them your true feelings, but it's not just that. I think it would have been better if you had talked to them more about other things. Especially for your family. Especially for your family, there are a lot of people who say this. Because it's nothing, because it's nothing, it's okay to talk about anything. I don't want you to think that you should have talked to them more. And the fifth regret is that you should have spoken to them more gently. I think there are some things that are a little embarrassing and you can't be honest with your loved ones. There are some things that are hard to say gently. But when you leave, the last moment, I think it would have been better if you had spoken to them more gently. You may feel a little embarrassed while you're having a normal time. But beyond that, I think it's important to tell them your true feelings and words of love. Now, I'd like to tell you four regrets about work and your role. The first one is that you shouldn't have worked too much. There are so many people like this. Especially if you get sick at work, or if you have a bad relationship with your family through your work. There are so many people who think that they shouldn't have worked that much. I don't think it's a bad thing to work, I think there were a lot of problems with how to work. I think there's a certain way of working that Japanese people have to do for work. I think it's important to work to make the most of yourself. And the second one is that you should have tried harder. You might have regretted it more in your life. You might have wanted to do more. But you didn't try. You gave up. I think there's something like that. The third one is that you should have had a dream. It goes back to what I said earlier. It's not like I didn't have a dream in my life. I didn't try to pursue that dream. I'm doing something, but I'm not doing it with my own mind. I didn't do it with the idea that I'm going to do this. I think that people who haven't had a sense of fulfillment, satisfaction, or accomplishment in their lives, I think that people who haven't had a sense of fulfillment, Especially young people, Try everything. Even if everything is ruined, don't think about the future. Life is short, so I think you can do whatever you want. And the fourth one is that you should have done something for the world and people. It may be unexpected, Of course, everyone wants to live their own way, In the regret of life, I wonder if I did something for the world and people. I wonder if I did something for the world. Surprisingly, many people have one regret. After all, there are things that people want to do to help themselves, the world, and the people around them. After all, that is a good heart. I think it's human to have that kind of heart. I think that's the difference from other animals. It's easy to have that kind of feeling. If you don't mind, I hope you can take care of yourself as soon as possible. I think it would be nice to be able to live with yourself and the people around you. And the third one is that you have a lot of regrets about yourself. The first one is that you should have lived honestly to yourself. I think this is the most common one. It's actually difficult to live honestly to yourself. You may have chosen it while worrying about the people around you. In fact, you don't know which one is you. You may have chosen it while thinking about the world around you. I think the regret at the end of your life is whether you can live honestly to your true heart. I'll tell you about this later. I want you to know what you really care about and what you want to cherish. And the second one is that you shouldn't have to put up with it. Surprisingly, I think everyone has a place to put up with. If you don't put up with a lot of things, I think you can live as much as you want. Because you're a victim, you have a feeling of putting up with it. It's not a feeling of putting up with it, it's not a feeling of being a victim. In various situations, if you have the feeling that what you do is good for yourself and the people around you, you don't have the feeling of putting up with it. So I think it's a waste of time to live as if you're a victim. I want you to live without putting up with it. If you have to do something, I think it's a good idea to choose what you want to do. I think it's good to have a habit of living like that. And the third one is that you shouldn't have to worry about others. I think there are a lot of people who get sick and can't do what they want to do. You don't have to do that. It's not like you were told to do that by others. I thought I had to do that in myself. I've been living while caring about others. Surprisingly, I realized that I didn't care about others. The more you get used to it after your life, the more you realize it. So this regret is a burden. I don't care about others that much. Surprisingly, everyone lives on their own. Don't worry about it. I think it would be nice if you could live more and more like yourself. And the fourth one is that you shouldn't have to compare yourself to others. I've been comparing myself to others since I was a kid. Even when I go out into society, I compare myself to people around me. I think it's something that most people should have done at the end of their lives. So from this moment on, I don't want to regret comparing myself to others. I really want you to stop comparing yourself to others. And the fifth one is that you should have valued your own feelings. There are parts of your feelings. There are a lot of people who are happy, sad, and unpleasant. But you can only understand your own feelings. And there are a lot of people who live without valuing their feelings. And they often regret their feelings. And they are the last ones to be criticized. It doesn't matter if you're angry or not. It doesn't matter if you show it or not. I want you to value it without ignoring it. And the sixth one is that you should have thought about your own happiness. Everyone wants to be happy. But I don't think there's a lot of people who think about their own happiness. I think you should think about your own happiness more and more in your daily life. And the seventh one is that you should have enjoyed more happiness. You may feel a little different from what I said earlier. When you look back on happiness, you may think, I was happy at that time. I was happy at this time. But you didn't taste it. You didn't bite it. You were desperate to do something. It felt like it was all gone. But there were so many happy times. There were so many fun times. Don't taste that time. Don't bite it. Don't rush forward. Don't regret the past. I think there are times when you think you didn't taste the happiness of that moment. So don't think about the future. I think it's important to taste the happiness of that moment and taste it more. And the last one, the eighth one, is that you should have cherished every moment of your life. It's similar to what I said earlier, but it's a little deeper. Cherish every moment of your life. This may be what you think more about when it's really over. Whether your life is very long or short. Of course, if it's short, it may be special. There are some things that we can't cherish in our lives. But we regret it. So let's cherish every moment. Let's cherish today. I think that's the only way to reduce regrets. I told you about 17 regrets this time. I'd like to tell you five things so that you won't regret it in your life. First, don't deny yourself. Don't deny anything about what you want to do, what you want to do, what you want to choose. Even if you have a lot of negative thoughts, you can't help it because they come out of you. I want you to understand that instead of denying it. Don't deny one by one that you hate this, you hate this, you want to do this, you want to tell this. There are many people who deny and pretend that they don't have it. Don't deny it. It's different just to understand it. And then what to do is another story. Don't deny one thing. No one understands you. So even if you understand it, the regret of your life will decrease tremendously. And the second is to take a step forward no matter how old you are. You may be surprised. Of course, when you are young, you may think that you should take a step forward. Surprisingly, there are many people who don't take a step forward at that time. When you're in your late 20s, you may wonder what to take a step forward. It's because you've been trying to take a step forward since you were young. I think you don't know what you want to do anymore. Of course, you don't want to fail. Failure is like a trauma and it's hard to take a step forward. I understand it very well. I also had a little bit of failure. But there was a time when I was like that, but now I'm like, I'm still full of failures on YouTube. Thank you so much for listening to me. But what I'm doing in this way is that life is something that you will definitely regret if you don't regret it. So I want you to take a step forward no matter how old you are. And the third one is to convey love and gratitude to your loved ones. It may be a little embarrassing, but if you don't convey love and gratitude at that moment, you'll really regret it. I want you to convey a little bit of love and gratitude, especially love and gratitude. And the fourth one is to cherish every day. Of course, I think there are some places in the world where you can't live like that. It may be hard to live, but I want you to cherish every day for yourself. And finally, the fifth one is the soul part. This is a very important thing. If you can suppress this part, you won't regret your life. But when you die, you can't have a single thing. Even if you have money in your life, even if you have something really amazing, you can't have anything. To be honest, you can't have your clothes, car, house, your job, your position, your honor. You can't have any of them. I've made a lot of observations so far, and I've made a lot of videos about death, so I'd like you to watch them again. I've told you a lot of things about death. But what I always tell you is that you can't have anything. You can't have anything. You can cherish what you can't have. Of course, you can cherish it, but in the end, you can't have anything. When we leave the body, we are the only ones who are separated from the body. We are the only ones who are separated from the soul. So money is important, and clothes, house, work, and other things are important, but the only one who thinks he can't have anything is the soul part that separates from the body. When you understand the soul part more and more in your life, you will never regret your life. So I'd like you to watch the video about meeting the soul. After all, the soul is close to the true self, which is not trapped in various things. I think there are some things that you can say that you really want to cherish. I've uploaded a lot of gift videos that I can't tell you about. There is also a class called Rakugyoshu Gakuin where you can learn this kind of thing. I'm telling you very important things about my half-year life. I'd like you to join me. I'd like you to do Rakugyoshu to understand the important things in your life that are close to your soul. Today's Rakugyoshu is a sign language. I'd like you to prepare a piece of paper and a pen in front of you. It's a short time, so I'd like you to prepare a place where you can concentrate. I think it's better to prepare yourself so that you can concentrate. I'd like you to do two things. The first one is about the 17 regrets of your life that I mentioned earlier. First of all, it's easy, so I'd like you to write it down. You can write it in detail, but I'd like you to write it out in a circle. And the second thing is, if you're going to leave tomorrow, if you think you only have one day left today, I'd like you to write it down. If you think you only have one day left today, I'd like you to write down what you want to prioritize, especially what you regret the most. I'd like you to look at that. If you do those two things, you don't know what's going to happen in this moment. You'll definitely regret it at this moment. For example, you can write kind words to your family. I think it doesn't matter what you want to do. I'd like you to do one of those things today. Another important thing is, but in the end, you can't take anything with you when you leave. To be honest, money, job, position, family, and important people. You can't take anything with you at all. You have to leave. In the end, you can't take anything with you. When you're the only one with a soul, what do you really wish for that soul? What do you wish for the most when you have nothing? I'd like you to think about one more thing at the end. At that time, I think you'll wake up to what you need to take care of in your life. I think there are many things that you can't answer right away. I think it's very important to think about those things in life. I met you in a YouTube video. Isn't it a kind of fate? I think it's the right time for heaven. I'd like you to take the time to take care of those things. If you want to find it right now, or if you don't know what to do, I think you can consult with me. As you can see, there are a lot of people around the country. I've been listening to a lot of people's concerns, life advice, etc. If you don't mind, I'd like you to come directly. I'd love to meet you. I pray that your life will always be fun and bright.