Giật Mình - Mời Nhau Bữa Cơm Nhận Ra Ngay Bản Chất Con Người GNV

Hello, my dear Vietnamese viewers. I wish you a new year full of happiness and peace. As you may have read somewhere, there is a saying that people always choose what they like. What a person likes is very similar to his personality and nature. So when you look at the food that a person chooses, you can see his personality. Eating is not just eating. Whatever you eat, whatever you eat, it will show your personality. And this personality is a kind of education. Eating and drinking are very simple, but there is a lot of logic in them. If you want to know if a person is well-nourished, look at the way they eat. In fact, eating is just a small way. In front of the other person, all the words, actions will determine whether you are successful or not. A well-nourished person is a person who is considerate in eating, has a style, a positive attitude in eating, and respects the waiter, the person opposite to him. It's just a small thing, but it will evaluate the great quality of a person. You just need to invite a person to have a meal, then you will be surprised to see their nature on the table. And today I will tell you a story. This story will describe a person who is presenting their nature on the table. Please follow me right after. Invite to have a meal, see the nature. The first story. A meal to test a person's faith. Recently, a famous company has recruited 8 more employees and invited them to have a meal with the leaders. Right after the meal, two of them were eliminated. The reason is this. Among the employees, there is a person who likes to eat spicy food. He ordered a few spicy dishes to the point that only he could eat. After that, when the food was served, he always used a chopstick to pick it up and down, eating and talking. The other person was very enthusiastic. From start to finish, he could not say a few words. When everyone raised their glasses, he joined in and did not refuse to choose any food. However, when the meal was about to end, he began to blush, and even fell from the chair. It can be seen that the first person is both selfish and uncivilized. If he is introverted and has a working environment, he is the type of person who does not have the spirit of cooperation, unity with the whole team. The second person will always work hard, but does not know the direction, does not know how to stop, and lacks self-knowledge. The most important thing is that his personality does not become completely different after he is bored. He reveals his true nature inside, not like a humble outsider. Most successful people find great opportunities in parties, build relationships through parties. Ordinary people only know how to sit and cry, focus on eating and drinking. As for those who eat and drink, they only have failure in life, and no one wants to give up. There is another story from the old days. Tang Quoc Phien, one of the great gods, has a palace in Nha Thanh, has a lot of special talents, and his special ability is to see people. Just one meal, he will know who you are. When Tang Quoc Phien was wandering in An Khanh, a person from afar came to meet him to look for a place to live. This person has a poor background, his clothes are plain and simple, his words are sincere. He never stops showing that he is willing to follow Tang Quoc Phien, not for money, but for warmth. A few days later, Tang Quoc Phien prepared a banquet to welcome him in the palace. During the banquet, the two exchanged a lot of things with each other, from the fact that ordinary people only know how to drink, to the ability to work in the garden. No matter what field, this man always showed an excellent way. Tang Quoc Phien was very happy. Unexpectedly, after the banquet was over, Tang Quoc Phien immediately gave the person a dish of money, then she left. He did not accept. No one understood why. Later on, he revealed the reason in a letter to his brother. He is a very poor man, and he is also a guest. During the meal, he was also arrogant. He was afraid that he would stand against this mountain, against that mountain, so he did not accept. The reason is that the other person, although he is a poor man, but while eating, he accidentally revealed a detail. Because in wartime, the salary is not good, he said that he would not be afraid of any difficulties. His hands were just clean, he picked up the bad places in the food. Therefore, Tang Quoc Phien concluded that this person's heart is not pure, not trustworthy. This life is complicated. A meal is just a small thing. In front of the other person, all the words and actions will decide whether you succeed or fail. No matter how deep your heart is, it is difficult to hide it completely, especially when we live our daily lives. Eating is not just eating. It will limit the rationality of life in life. Events in all relationships can be marked by meals. Friends often gather as a joint meal to warm up their feelings. When breaking up or reuniting, we just want to sit down with the other person and have a meal together. When there is a happy or sad story, it is also a time for us to gather to eat. A meal is not covered with the essence of heaven, but the essence of intimacy to be shared with people closer to you. The interaction in eating will make life tasteless and tasteless. But if you know how to put all your heart into food, life will be full of taste. How do you treat food? How will other people treat you? Do not eat and drink in a casual way. Do not put your heart on the line. Do not waste food. Eat with all your heart and soul. So that when you eat, you not only enjoy the taste of the food, but also feel the bitter, spicy, sweet, and dusty taste of this world. The second story. A meal shows the selfishness of a person. There was a man with his father and a friend who came to the restaurant to eat. During the meal, the friend called his favorite dishes. The dishes were sorted. He sat up and down, choosing the best pieces. He ate and talked. At the end of the meal, the friend had to go home first to pay the bill for the other person. After returning home, the father told the son that this friend of his absolutely should not get close and should not eat together. The son did not understand. The story explains. If a person in the end meets a delicious meal in front of his eyes, he does not pay attention to the food, then he can understand. At present, the friend is a businessman. Life is about material things. Basically, there is nothing worth it. So, if there is food, it is not beautiful like that. This shows a person with a selfish personality who only cares about his own interests. On the table, he only pays attention to himself and does not pay attention to other people's feelings. He eats with chopsticks and does not pay attention to the people around him. If there is a conflict of interest in business, he will not take any measures. So, in life, do not get too drunk, do not get too full and do not love too much. But most people often get drunk, get too full and fall in love. This is easy to say, but when faced with problems, in front of the temptation of food, manhide, love, it is easy for everyone to forget this word and not be able to control their desires. Only those who can control their mouths on the table are wise, know how to control and control their own destiny, know how to define their own limits are trustworthy, worthy to be connected and become close. This story reminds me of an old colleague at the company, especially after a meal with him after work. He is a very calm person, gentle, kind to others. When ordering food, he always asks for everyone's opinion. When ordering service, he is always very gentle and grateful every time they bring food. And especially, he never advises or mentions work when eating with colleagues. This made me really realize why everyone at the company is so respectful and loving. When the style of eating is important in part, the way of behaving on the table is also important in nine parts. Many people eat and drink in a way they like, but sometimes, their own way of behaving makes them look bad in front of everyone. The worst thing about history on the table is that we need to have a common mind and respect everyone. We should never eat and talk at the same time, eat and argue at the same time, and talk about other people. People who have good eating habits and are polite to everyone will be more and more respected, and their career path will be more and more open. The third story. The meal shows a wasteful personality. My friend's achievement last month was at the top of the list. There was a male colleague who wanted to invite the whole group to eat. My friend is not the type of person who likes to be calm and warm, so he is a bit unsatisfactory, and it is not convenient for me to refuse his offer. After arriving at the restaurant, waiting for the waiter to bring up the menu, he immediately took it and showed it to everyone. But in the end, he ordered the food according to his taste. Each meal was the same, both spicy and expensive. When we finished eating, my friend went to pay and sweated, because there were only four adults, so we ate up to nine dishes. My friend is not the type of person who likes to eat a lot, so he is a bit unsatisfactory, and it is not convenient for me to refuse his offer. Each meal was the same, both spicy and expensive. When we finished eating, my friend went to pay and sweated, because there were only four adults, so we ate up to nine dishes. Each meal was the same, so we ate up to nine dishes. Each meal was the same, so we ate up to nine dishes. 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But instead of seeing the sight with the naked eyes, but instead of seeing the sight with the naked eyes, the more we respected the poor, people will respect the rich. people will respect the poor, people will respect the rich. In a noted incident, Liure Pham confessed to his grandson that the tenth whole book is about love food and life. love food and life. We all value expensive things, because it's usually hard to get those precious things. That's why people value gold, silver and precious stones. Meanwhile, cheap things are everywhere, like food and water, because it's easy to get them, but they're often wasted. But we don't know that wasting things from nature will reduce our own wealth. We need to respect the food, water and resources that nature gives us. Once upon a time, there was a very rich man. He was the richest man in the world. His house had a huge field. Every year, he earned a lot of money from farming. He had a lot of high-quality materials in his warehouse. But because he didn't use the money for food for a long time, he lost everything. He mistreated his wife, stole all the corn he had, even took the corn for his wife, and the green beans for his wife. Some people couldn't stand that. They even advised him to bring that food to charity for the poor. But he refused. After a year, the flood flooded his field. Everything turned into a river. Just after one night, the rich man's house was destroyed. Gold, silver, precious stones and a huge field turned into ashes. In the end, his whole family died of starvation. People in this world eat as much as they want. Even if you are a millionaire or a beggar, as long as you have something to eat in life, you won't worry about starvation. But if you lose everything in your life, even when you are rich, you can still be starved. Because you waste food. But in the future, you will have to pay it back. The fourth story. Meals show the sincerity and generosity of a person. Two friends went on a trip together. One of them offered to try the most famous restaurant in the city. But when they arrived, all the dishes in the restaurant were spicy. And the food was overcooked. One of them couldn't eat. He didn't show his anger. He was still smiling, sitting in the middle of the restaurant, not making any noise, but waiting for his friend to have a meal. Some people don't care about the food in front of them. What they respect more is the friendship and the difference between others and themselves. So they don't have to force or ask for help, as well as understanding how to be tolerant and restrained. The story of the two friends reminded me of a situation I had just met. It was this afternoon. Everyone in my office didn't want to go out to eat, so they decided to order food online. At that time, a friend of mine named Phi asked a girl named Linh, what do you want to eat? Linh replied, you can choose, I can eat anything. Phi asked, I'll have noodles with tofu and shrimp paste. Linh complained, the smell of shrimp paste was a bit heavy at the beginning of the year, and I had to go to work in the afternoon, so I didn't have time to take a shower and change my clothes. That would make everyone uncomfortable. Phi asked, I'll have spicy hot pot. Linh replied, I've had a lot of acne lately, I can't eat spicy food. Do you understand? They asked again and again, and in the end, Linh chose the food. Yes, this action shows that Linh is clearly a person without a position, and can only think about protecting personal interests. These people are often partly fake, but rarely treat anyone sincerely. If Linh wants to eat something, it's best to say it first, but don't let people think too much about making this choice, there are too many options, and in the end, you can't choose any options. Speaking of which, when eating, if you are a person who is in a hurry to eat, not paying attention to other people's feelings, choosing the food you like, or the bigger pieces, then usually in life, they also have some selfishness in it. There are some people who, when eating, must be the first person to taste the flavor, then in life, they are also the one who always want to take advantage of it. Some people are not arrogant, not wasteful, not too picky when eating, willing to give others delicious pieces, they are not necessarily the closest person to you, but they are definitely a kind person, and can be said to be trustworthy. In the old days, the ancients had a saying, from small details to large values, eating is the same. Although it is just a small and simple thing, it shows many attitudes. People can try to show that they are educated, but it is only for a very short time. Meanwhile, the education of a person is easily revealed. There is a saying, you have to put food in your mouth, but don't put your mouth in the food. It means that, when people eat anything, they have to put the food in their mouth, but don't put your mouth in the food. It's just for eating. Yes, there is a very cute saying, from the table, you can see the dignity of a person. On the third day of meal, it seems to be very peaceful, but it is a place that can reveal a personality, a deep hidden of a person. From an ordinary meal, you can also see the happiness of a person's life. A person, only when he has the appreciation of life in his heart, a grateful heart for food, can live his life in a state of peace, tranquility and tranquility. In the endless stream of life, eating and drinking is a subject. Attitude with food, we can recognize a person, whether he appreciates the happiness of what we have or not, and whether he can build happiness or not. A clean bowl will bring happiness. In each bowl of rice we eat every day, each day is full of happiness, a life that not everyone can easily see. Since childhood, we have been taught by our parents. Adults always try to educate children about habits, eating style, etiquette in the family, such as eating rice, you have to wait for people, eat in the pot, sit in the direction, adults sit full, arrange a bowl of chopsticks, invite adults before eating, if the house has guests, do not stand up before the guests finish eating, and all the behaviors shown on the food, may be the basis for us to judge and evaluate ourselves. When we have meals with friends, with customers, especially business partners, we also need to show the education, the attitude, the old habits of ourselves in every small action. Yes, this is what you are building an absolute image in their eyes. The respect and trust of the other party for you will be higher. Listen carefully and learn, you will have a safe life. See you in the next content.