Đàn bà sau tuổi 50 có 2 thứ không nhìn 3 điều không quản và 4 việc nên giác ngộ

Ladies and gentlemen, I would like to start the program today. I would like to send to 50-year-old women the poems that I have just read. A 50-year-old woman is afraid to talk about the losses. She feels that her heart is eager to let go. Then she walks in the opposite direction. To the sky, though she does not know what tomorrow will bring. There are days when they live in a hurry. It's like they have a story to tell. Then suddenly, all of a sudden, it's like a flower is about to wither. Yes, a 50-year-old woman does not have the tenderness, tension, and energy to live like a 20-year-old girl. They also do not have the strong features of a 30-year-old woman. They are not as gentle, deep, and composed as a 40-year-old woman. But what a 50-year-old woman has is a sense of security. And just like that, they have gone through a life like that. A 50-year-old woman has gone through the youthfulness, independence, and determination of adulthood, tolerance, responsibility, and high love of the golden age. Everything goes by, people still say, A 50-year-old woman has a free spirit, both in terms of her environment and her spirit. But in order to have freedom and security, a 50-year-old woman must have two things she does not see, three things she does not have, and four things she should not have. A 50-year-old woman has two things she does not see, three things she does not have, and four things she should not have. First, let's find out what two things she does not see are. First, she does not see the life of others. There is a small temple on the mountain, where an old monk lives with two disciples. Every morning, the old monk gives food to the two disciples. He gives the older disciple six buns, while he only gives the younger disciple four. The younger disciple realizes this difference. The old monk is extremely unhappy, blaming the master for his unfair treatment. Why is it that the same disciple is given six buns, while the younger disciple is given less? Thinking for a while, the young monk does not give up, decides to go to the master to ask him clearly, asking for his own benefits. Unexpectedly, the old monk asked him back, Can I eat six buns? The young monk replied very loudly, Of course you can eat, I want all six of them. The old monk heard this, then silently looked at the disciple for a while, then he took his two buns and gave them to the young monk. The young monk did not think much, quickly ate all six buns in his stomach, then opened his mouth to the master. Look, master, I have eaten all, I can eat six, so later I want to be divided into six, like Su Huynh every morning. The young monk laughed, Now I have eaten all six buns, but tomorrow morning, do you want to be divided into six more? Wait a minute, then tell me later. That's right, just a moment later, the young monk saw that his throat was dry, so he hurriedly ran to drink a lot of water, then he began to feel full, hard to breathe, and felt a slight pain in his stomach. The young monk began to feel uncomfortable, different every day. At this time, the master said, I see, although today I have eaten more than two, but I do not feel any good from the two more buns I gave, but on the contrary, they made me feel more uncomfortable, right? The young monk nodded, the next day, he no longer asked or was jealous of Su Huynh anymore. You can see that, yes, not completely means enjoyment, do not look at others with your eyes, do not compare with others, just naturally, we know what is enough and enjoy the benefits from what it brings. Our lives are the same, if you spend your whole life being jealous of others because they work more effectively, advance faster, or solve problems better than you, you will never improve. A person who only spends time worrying about the success of others will not realize his potential. If you want happiness and peace, do not look at other people's lives to compare jealousy, because everyone has their own life, do not look at things too far away that you dream of, then regret and cry. A smart woman should understand one thing, everyone has difficulties, it is not that they have tried to overcome to be as happy as today. If you want happiness, try and try. The second thing, do not look at other people's desires. At the age of 35, my best friend got into a car accident in the midst of a crowd of friends. I was not surprised, but I also understood why everyone was like that. She was pretty, had a good job, but she was quite passionate about love. Everyone was surprised when the man she chose became normal again, and they had been dating for less than half a year. Married for almost a year, she gave birth to her first child in an emergency, with a nickname at home that did not have a birth certificate. Only her family and I know the two of them have not yet registered for marriage. I know she was under a lot of pressure with the question of why her parents, so she never wanted to add to the burden because of her curiosity. The first baby was 1.5 years old, she gave birth to the second baby. Just like before, her two children did not have the minimum certificate to prove their existence. The conflict between the two wives was getting deeper. When she found out that her husband had been in contact with her ex-boyfriend for several years, the more shocked she was when she did not hesitate to admit and tell her that she was the third person. It turned out that when the other husband came to my sister, he had a girlfriend who was working in Thailand. Her parents objected because of the age of the two people and did not want a daughter-in-law to go to work here and there. The two people gradually separated, on the wedding day, her boyfriend accidentally became the third person in her eyes and did not know anything about the two people who were still in contact, even met and did something only God knew when the other girl returned to the country. On the day she carried her child to her grandmother's house, my neighborhood had a lot of gossip. It was heaven. When it was my turn, every day flew by quickly. Today, the flight was a bit slow, they could still talk. A few years later, she gave up her husband. Her mother was very concerned about what people around her said. Questions about her daughter made her mother unbearable. She kept living like that, living the way others were satisfied and acting happily the way others wanted. Until one day, when she was breastfeeding her second child, she fainted. The doctor said that she was paralyzed for a long time. Dad, are you sad? I'm here. Why are you sleeping like that? I'm scared. The silly words in the crying of the grandchild probably made her mother think. That night, her mother sat down to talk to me in the hospital and told me to encourage her parents to go abroad. I know her mother had to think a lot to be able to make such a decision. She divorced very gently and she didn't hesitate at all. She said she didn't divorce because they had never been married. The life of a single mother with two young children of the same age must be very difficult. But I believe her choice was correct. When I met her, I found her more determined when she hurried back to her child. But in her eyes, I could feel happiness and serenity. It was very painful when I had to listen to her malicious words. I woke up in the middle of the night and thought about death. And then I realized I was so stupid. Why did I have to do that? I tried to be happy so that others could see me and live the way they wanted. Everyone has their own life. If others don't like you, you can disperse because not liking you is their right. This life journey is very long. Maybe there will be a lot of people going up and down the ship. Don't care about those who only bring you a bad energy source. They have their own life. You have your own happiness. If you don't fish, how can you know the joy of fishing? Your life is decided by yourself. Don't live the way others want. Only yourself can bring you happiness. Others' wishes only bring you pain and misery. Everyone's life is like a glass of water. Clean or dirty, warm or cold, it's all decided by us. A glass of water can be cold or hot. It doesn't matter. As long as you feel happy, that's life. Life is just a long journey that you fight with yourself and your inner self. Others' life looks interesting and exciting. But what's the point? Maybe it doesn't suit you. The one with the highest ability should bring happiness to himself first. Life is like this. The distance between life and the world is like a white horse. Suddenly, it crosses an empty road. Life is short but it goes through many decades. If you can live in a few decades, you have to live the way others want. It's painful, isn't it? If you understand this, you'll feel relieved. But if you don't want to live a busy life, a 50-year-old woman, remember 3 things First, keep your mouth shut. Keep your mouth shut. Don't listen to anyone. Let them speak and you'll shut up. As for your life, it's up to you. Don't listen to anyone. Just shut up and live your life well. As for other things, just let it go. In a meeting, Phuong Thai Tong asked Vy Quan carefully that Tram Thay Khanh was not from a rich family. Why did so many people hate her? Kinh Ton said In the rainy season, farmers are happy to have their fields plowed. But they hate it because the roads are slippery. 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