Tuổi 40 nhớ hưởng 7 phúc, học 7 đừng và ngộ 7 điều sau GNV

Dear audience, there are two things in life that we can only forcefully accept but cannot prevent. They are time and age. Time goes by and age increases day by day. People also grow up day by day with more and more thoughtful thoughts. Especially people in their early 40s and near 50s. Entering the age of 40 means that we have officially entered the age of middle age. And people in this age have had to go through a lot of ups and downs in life to look back at their personality and realize that family is probably the most important thing. Our life now has passed half the time, maybe more. So don't get involved in trivial things. Instead, take the initiative to get out of the mess and focus on building the rest of your life. At the age of 40, remember to enjoy 7 minutes, learn 7 ways, learn 7 woods, so that life can always be peaceful. First, enjoy 7 minutes. First, be strong is happiness. There is a story like this. Arctic bears are recognized as one of the strongest mammals. At a low temperature of 40 degrees, Arctic bears can run faster than 40 minutes, swim in ice water for about 15 minutes, and do not eat for about 20 days. Its thick fur can resist all kinds of knives and knives. Facing such a strong animal, how can the Eskimos deal with them? However, Arctic bears have a weakness, which is bleeding. An Eskimo hunter will kill a baby seal, soak it in a little blood, put it on an antler, and then put the antler upside down in a bucket. The bucket of blood will be placed outside, frozen into ice. A tool to keep the bear alive. Arctic bears see blood and quickly use their tongues to lick it. And when they lick it, the tongue gradually hardens. Licking the knife will create a small scar on the Arctic bear's tongue. At this time, the Arctic bear's frozen tongue will not feel any pain, until the scar deepens, and finally the Arctic bear falls down due to too much blood loss. Finally, the Arctic bear licks its own blood. At this time, the Eskimos are ready to jump out and kill this Arctic bear. I want to use this story as a metaphor to tell you that when people are still young, they will all suffer from high fever, high blood pressure, dizziness, redness in the eyes. It's like fresh blood on the knife's tongue. Because of those things, we rush in without knowing, then we will have to pay a high price. When people reach middle age, their feelings about their health can be quite clear. In the past, you would wake up in the morning, wash your face, and be able to finish your work the next day. But in the middle age, sometimes you go to bed late for a day, and a few days later, your spirit is still broken. In the past, your body was strong, strong, and strong, and you could drink a few pills a year. But when you reach middle age, your health problems start to get worse, and very few people are lucky enough to get out of the illness. So treat your health well, maintain your health. You have to start when you are still young. Anyway, for us, health is like a D of a thousand rivers. If you are not careful, even an ant can make the D collapse. Second, a stable family is a blessing. Why do you have to be a criminal? It's an old saying, but the truth has never changed. A stable family is a strong shield. If you have a strong background, you are not afraid of anything. No matter how big the house is, if you don't have friends or children, the house is just an empty house. A family is a place to talk about love, not a place to talk about reason. A family is a place where we can be self-confident, not a place where we can argue. A family is a place to hide to wait for us to come back, not a place for us to cause trouble. A family needs companionship, not a place for relatives to separate. A stable family is just a feeling of happiness. A stable family is happiness. A family does not have to have a car, it just needs to be healthy in the house. A family does not have to be rich, it just needs to live in peace. That is really the richest happiness in this life. There is a famous story about Tang Quoc Vien, the general of Luoi Lac during the reign of Thanh. Tang Quoc Vien led the army with the leadership of Thanh and Hoa to confront the subordinates. His student described Tang Quoc Vien as waiting for everyone to eat together. After eating, they sat together and talked. Then Tang Quoc Vien told them funny stories that made everyone happy. In the 11th year of the reign of Thanh, around 1861, Ly Tu Thanh, the leader of the army, attacked Tang Quoc Vien's camp. The flag fell and the situation was dangerous. Some people had gathered to run away. Knowing the situation, Tang Quoc Vien ordered his subordinates that if they wanted to return, they had to pay three months' salary so that they could return to the camp. Facing Tang Quoc Vien's soldiers, Tang Quoc Vien not only did not punish them, but also encouraged them to forgive him. The soldiers were eager to run away after knowing that they had regretted and given up. Using weapons to confront is the only way to get the other person's weapons. Fighting head-on only hurts you and the other person. No need for high or low ranks. Weapons are the best way to win. One step forward is a thousand eyes. One step back is a vast ocean. Weapons are the best way to win. Weapons are the same as everyone else. There are hundreds of advantages, but none of them are harmful. A person enters the middle age. The most important thing in the army is not to be afraid. Fourth, to suffer is happiness. To be happy is also happiness. A person who suffers is a person with good fortune. God is very fair. If you lose something in this world, he will definitely make it up for you in another world. Think about it. There are so many smart people in this world. In the end, some of them are really smart. There are a lot of people who suffer. They always have to suffer more. But since ancient times, people who suffer more than smart people are always happier. There are people who have to suffer, doubt themselves, and even fall into a state of depression for a long time. If you don't look at life in a positive way, don't think that you have to suffer. We will soon realize that. Look at it from another angle. When you know how to suffer, accept suffering happily, then the skills in dealing with circumstances, mental state, and the work of ourselves are all gained. Suffering is often not necessarily suffering, but the opposite. It is also an advantage, an experience that helps us grow. Fifthly, be calm and calm. Don't be greedy for money. Don't be tired of gain. Don't fall because of failure. With this attitude, you will get rid of a lot of trouble, eat a lot of rice, sleep deeply, and be calm in the face of life. This is a kind of happiness. People at the age of middle age naturally no longer like noisy and hot things. A calm attitude helps the body to be healthy and live a long life. Regardless of whether life is materialistic or materialistic, as long as you have a calm mind, you have lived a happy life. Sometimes you are misunderstood by others, don't argue, choose to be silent. And in life, there are a lot of right and wrong things that are hard to say clearly, and even the basis is not entirely right or wrong. So if you don't want to say it, don't say it. And when you say a lot, it's useless. So maybe silence is the best explanation. Sixth, knowing how to be content is happiness. People who know how to be content are usually happy. Because in this ordinary life, we often feel dissatisfied because we want to be infinitely content. When you run out of money, you want to have a car, want to be rich, want to have a car. Just because you want too much, you don't know when it's enough. And people always have to worry and calculate. Until they don't get what they want, they start to blame. Blame money. They blame the God of Unemployment. Blame why they are not born into a rich family. Blame why they are not as lucky as anyone else. There is a saying, knowing enough is not shameful, knowing less is not noble. People who live in this world need to have a limit. You have to know enough, be content, and appreciate what you have. Because people who know enough will always face everything and stand by for everything, fighting, hunting, enjoying. Also because they know enough, they always set a certain limit for themselves, so they know what they need to do and what not to do. Because of that, people who know enough will always find the most suitable path for themselves, always feel content, and always keep a balanced mind to live in peace and freedom. 7. It depends on luck. There are two types of suffering in this world. One is the suffering of not having, and the other is the suffering of being obsessed. Under the pretext of effort and effort, everything you want is on the line. Winning is fine, but losing is no big deal. Being happy is fine, but not being happy is because of fate. If there is luck, there is no luck. If there is no luck, there is no luck. In the end, life is a lonely journey. In this world, there is no road full of roses, and there is no path for anyone to take. Everything cannot always go the way we want, so life is full of ups and downs. When things don't go the way you want, you will find every way to face them. However, be calm and choose two words. It depends on luck. It depends on fate. Only in this way, can life be peaceful and optimistic. Sometimes, when facing life, we have to compromise, have to be patient, and have to accept it. Because life is usually different than the weather. Sometimes, the sun shines, and sometimes, it rains. Sometimes, it rains, and sometimes, it rains, and sometimes, it rains, and sometimes, it rains, and sometimes, it rains, and sometimes, it rains. First, have money, don't be sorry. It is said that in this life, 2 things can be created that are not about money, but most of the tragedies in this world are related to money. As Yuanyuan Shi said, when I was young, I thought money was the most important thing in life. But now that I'm older, I see it as a right thing. Everyone understands the importance of money, But it doesn't mean that the more you save, the more money you get. But you can only get richer if you know how to spend money correctly. In life, don't regret money to protect your health and your family. Don't regret money to develop yourself. And don't regret money to buy time. There is a saying in Sweden like this. Money can be saved, but time can't. The way you spend time determines the quality of your life. Spending money is the highest form of self-esteem of an adult. Spending money for what you should spend is the most brilliant choice of that person. And I hope that we will be richer and richer in this four-leaf clover life. Second, don't be sick for a long time. The body of middle-aged people is like a machine that has been running smoothly for 30 years, 40 years. It needs to be maintained regularly. A few small problems happen is also normal. But when you see a strange symptom, you have to go to the doctor immediately. Avoid small diseases to become big ones. And waste time to treat the best disease. So you will be less miserable, and your loved ones will be less tired. Health is the most basic aspect of a person's life. It's not long, it's not easy, and you can't wait until you have a full body. When you are young, people can sell their health for money. But few people realize that when you get old, no matter how much money you have, it's hard to change your health and life. The heavier the responsibility, the more you have to value your own health. Don't be greedy for life. Take advantage of the time when you are young, healthy, strong, or exercise. Increase your physical strength for yourself. Third, don't be angry. At the age of middle age, we have traveled more than half of the world. People in this world have to live with many people. Sometimes we have to face things that we don't want. Anger is also a way to harmonize to exist objectively. But don't be angry. Because when you get angry again, you will get sick. It's just hard for you. In Hong Kong, there is a lady named Bao Vinh Cam. She is the wife of Lieu Loan Hung, a famous billionaire in Can Tho. Bao Vinh Cam has been in a relationship with Lieu Loan Hung since he was 19 years old. He bought his mother's house to help Lieu Loan Hung run his business. The two of them became a couple. And they started to become lovers. The two of them gradually became Hong Kong billionaires. But Lieu Loan Hung was a kind of controversial person, even betrayed Bao Vinh Cam. Bao Vinh Cam's love life was very rich. Not a few Hong Kong billionaires had any feelings for him. Bao Vinh Cam initially refused. Even when she saw the lover push the husband right in front of her, she also refused with all her might, swallowing her anger in her stomach. Later, a guy called her. Lieu Loan Hung did not respond to a word. In the end, she could not stand it anymore and proposed to divorce. She was divided into dozens of billions of wealth. It was like a compensation for her youth. But after the divorce, Bao Vinh Cam did not regret it. The love did not stop. But not long after, she was diagnosed with cancer. The last stage was the stage of fighting the disease. And she died at the age of 49. She could not see her child born immediately. She had never had true peace. In her previous life, she was always stubborn, humiliated, and never felt comfortable expressing her feelings. Until she knew she was sick, she let go of herself. It was like a compensation after a long time of humiliation. As the old saying goes, the disease gives birth to weapons. Fear, tension, and excessive thinking will cause the air in the body to be constricted, which is the root of the disease. Emotion is an energy. If it is not quickly released from the outside, it will accumulate in the body and cause excessive reactions. Fourth, do not rush. Maybe you have a lot of reasons to rush, but you should remember that rushing and being angry can not do much. Middle age is the age when you can see the tears and anger in people's lives. For almost everything, use a calm and calm attitude to respond. Entering middle age, you should understand how to live slowly. Slow down a bit. There is a benefit in dealing with everything. Slow down to enjoy the beauty of this life. Fifth, have hope. Do not be greedy. Do not overdo it. Entering middle age, everything is not as good as when you were young, so you have to learn how to manage your own expectations. No one has expectations, but you must know how to clearly limit yourself. And if not, the one who suffers will be yourself and all the people around you. There is a saying, when you want to come to this world, you have to carry a burden on your back. Every step we take forward, we will give the world a little bit of something. That's why you feel more and more tired. If you give too much, you can't get rid of it, then your last life can't last. But when you reach a certain age, go through certain stages, then you will realize that life is not painful. People feel miserable because they have too much hope. People are not tired. People feel tired because they have too many questions to ask. Sixth, if you have hatred, don't keep it in your heart. If you are generous, use kindness to treat people, don't pay attention to trivial things, throw away the deep hatred, don't keep the hatred in your heart. Let's make every day in life a day worth living and happy. People used to live well because they have the three unknowns, that is, they don't need to know three things, they don't care about grudges, they don't care about age, and they don't care about illness. Seventh, don't stop learning. People at any age should never allow themselves to stop learning. The older you live, the older you learn, especially middle-aged people. Stopping learning is a way to get rid of yourself, to get out of society. Reading books, watching news, writing, drawing, singing, dancing, are all things we should learn. Bring a music machine with you. In the morning, go out to exercise, exercise, listen to music, and do other things. In this way, your mind will be more relaxed. For some people, age 40 is the beginning of a downward spiral. At this age, people are afraid of the future, always worried about their career, don't want to change, and criticize young people who have many ideals and hopes. This is what happens to those who refuse to turn the challenges in life into knowledge and opportunities. Obviously, they make mistakes and feel dissatisfied. As for the smart people, they learn from their mistakes when they were young and apply the lessons they have learned. At the age of middle age, they have reached their own level. At the age of 40, there are 7 things to consider. First, the most precious thing in this world is not money, but time, health, and emotions. Money can buy a watch, but it can't buy time. Money can buy medicine, but it can't buy health. Money can buy silver, but it can't buy sincerity. Saving a lifetime at the age of middle age, although it cannot be wasted, but what should be eaten, should be worn, should be played, do not save money and sacrifice your time and joy. Why do we have to be strong? Because we have nowhere to rely on. We can rely on mountains, we can rely on people, but we can't rely on people. Money, silver, and material things cannot bring back a sense of safety. When we are rich, people welcome us. When we are poor, no one is by our side. At an important time, even the closest relatives are ready to send us to the other side of the world. This is the biggest problem of the age of middle age. We have to witness a lot of unexpected changes that we can't imagine or fully comprehend. Second, step into the age of middle age. Don't make it difficult for yourself. Life is not easy. It's full of obstacles, difficulties, and tiredness. No matter how hard it is, don't make it difficult for yourself. Stubbornness with yourself. There are all kinds of emotions. Because of middle age, there is no way to continue. Maybe, studying literature is not your destiny. Don't hesitate. Life is like that. Sad or not, life has to go on. If you hesitate a lot, you are the one who is tired. If you are obsessed a lot, you are the one who is suffering. Why do you have to suffer to look at other people's glory and feel this world? Third, things you don't need, no matter how beautiful they are, are just trash. Remember to clean up regularly. Throw away unnecessary things. Invite people you don't love out of your life. Sometimes we are always tired and stubborn to get things or someone that doesn't belong to us. If you only know how to follow the shadow of others, to please people around you, you will never feel happy. Don't keep things that don't belong to you. Things that make you worry, and worry every day. Whatever belongs to you, it will always be with you. And whatever doesn't belong to you, even if you try to keep it, it will go away. Sometimes, what you should do is to let everything happen in its own way. Don't try to keep things that are far from you. Live for yourself once. Half of us are busy with our careers and families. It's too tiring, isn't it? At this age, the remaining time is only less than half. It's time to live for yourself once. Do what you want to do. Don't care about what others think or say. Because you don't live to please others. Be true to yourself. 20 years old for friends. 30 years old for material things. But at 40 years old, you have to live for yourself. How many more years will you live when you turn 40? If you don't live for yourself, who else will you live for? Go to the generals, generals, Not every one has the power to do great things. What should come will come. When you are defeated, forget about it, forget the things that are all gone. And it's as if time would move faster, so no one could make a move. That's why people need a cold head when they live. A true mind can lead to a happy and peaceful life. Sixth, how to be enlightened is to be compassionate. To give up and become self-reliant. Suffering is because you don't have compassion for happiness. It's because you dare. Disturbance is because you don't want to. Happiness is compassion. Everything is temporary and will pass. But it will become beautiful memories. Complaining is not the way to solve all problems. Even to yourself. You are disappointed with your life. You are over 40 years old. You should ask yourself if those words mean anything. This world is very open. For everyone, it is still very fair. When you complain about everything, it's time for you to confront the whole world. Complaining not only doesn't solve any problem, but also makes you suffer and tired. So, when you are in your mid-life, let go of the guilt that is the only way to get out of trouble. Seventh, try to do something meaningful. Life is short, especially in your mid-life. This feeling will be clearer. So, try to do something meaningful. And you should do more than what you feel is not a waste in this life. Things that are good for your health, for your parents, for your children, for the whole society. Even if it's just a small thing, it's valuable to persevere. So, the life of your mid-life is more exciting. Victor Emil Frank was a lucky man who survived the disaster at the concentration camp in Germany. After that, he became a world-class psychologist. He especially paid attention to the fact that among those who survived from the concentration camp, only a few could survive. He found out that they didn't survive because they had a strong desire to live, but because they had a firm belief in life. People live to find the meaning of life. This is also the most difficult mission of human life. He said that he could continue to live because he found the true meaning of life, to work meaningfully, to love everyone else, and to have the courage to overcome difficulties. To summarize a person's life, 20 years of youth, 30 years of meaning, 40 years of wisdom, 50 years of nature, 60 years of gentleness, and 70 years of becoming a treasure. No matter how old you are, you have to be old but still beautiful. Yes, ladies and gentlemen, I have never heard a sentence like this. The age of 40 is not too late. But now, when you reach the age of 40, it's probably the most confused time. Because in fact, there are different ways of living in different stages of life. And when I was young, I tried my best not to be afraid. But at the middle age, there is a choice to be truly transparent. And the older you get, the more you understand that each of us is a normal person, a person without a group. And there are things that are good and bad, you just have to accept it. Someone once said this, difficulties will come and go. Tears will fall and dry up. And nothing makes us sad. Because we still have a whole life waiting in front of us, right? Yes, the experience of life is really not easy. And only when you experience difficulties in front of your eyes can you taste the sweetness of the future. And in the world of adults, there have never been two easy words. Only when you overcome the challenges of life can you have a future full of hope and live a brighter, brighter life. And I hope that the recent shares of Thanh Liem will help you and your friends to have a dose of medicine for the mind so that we can go through the happy and sad days of this life. Thank you for listening and sharing with Vietnamese people. See you in the next sharing.