Sau 50 tuổi có 3 chỗ không nên đến và 7 thứ cần buông bỏ GNV

Yes, ladies and gentlemen, Confucius once said, Forty do not doubt, fifty know fate, sixty listen to ears. When we live half of our life, do we have enough insight and wisdom to foresee everything? Or is life still uncertain? At the age of 50, fulfillment is important, but who is lucky enough to have built a lot of basic things around, but this is also too difficult if you are not lucky enough to lose everything and have to do it all over again. Therefore, people have to be especially careful when making any decision. And that is why you must listen to today's sharings of me and Ngoc Nhat Viet to be able to prepare yourself for a really resilient attitude to face the wind of life. If you do it right, you will definitely be safe. First of all, let's explain three places you should not go. 1. Places where people fight. Do not go to places where everyone wants to fight because places like that are definitely the target of everyone. Filled with public fights, if you are not very determined and strong, you are very likely to be defeated and injured. There is a saying like this, all rice, beans, property, gold, silver, jewelry, money, everything you own will be left behind when the owner of those things dies. That person can't carry anything even though he is still alive. He holds it every hour, every minute. The truth is, fame has it and loss has it. Only those who have been rich and rich can keep it for a hundred years. Life changes, sadness and joy replace. No matter how many times it happens, the glory in this world will always be a plane crash. Therefore, do not try to fight for the good. Today you fight, tomorrow you fight, you fight, I fight, you come and go, chickens fly, dogs bark, people fall, horses fall. And in the end, you come back with dust, escape from the sky. There is only hatred left. If you think a little, do not fight with life, look at the loss, look at the gain, know how to think for others, then life will be much easier. 2. Do not go to the right place. Right is right, wrong is wrong. These two words go together as if they want to say what happened in this life through the mouth of the world becomes difficult to distinguish right and wrong. The wise man understands that the truth is the truth. Everything just needs evidence and a lot of effort. Control your tongue well. Do not be able to say one thing to become three just because you like it the most. Be careful not to hurt others. Everything in life comes from a lot of words, just because you look at other people's stories. Work carefully, speak slowly, a lot of useless words, do not talk bad about others, the best way to avoid it is not to complain, not to blame, not to blame others. If you want to judge others, you have to point out what is right and what is wrong. 3. Do not go to alcoholic places. There is a saying, a gentle warrior like water, a sweet noble like wine. The character of a gentle warrior is not necessarily a pleasant person, and touching like in the stories or movies of the war, which sometimes can be a normal friendship like water, not close to life, but can last a long time in real life. And the friendship between children is as sweet as honey, although sweet, but also easy to die. The story is like this. One night, a man rushed to his friend's house in a state of anxiety. After being woken up by his friend, he was afraid to talk to the man. Half the night you come to visit me, there must be something urgent. If you need money, I have it here. I can lend it to you. If you are in trouble, you must tell me. I will have a way to solve it. No. The man answered hurriedly. Maybe when I was sleeping, I dreamed you were in trouble, so I ran here. So he said, friends are easy to find, but money is hard to find. The rarest thing in life is to be able to find a friend to go with you for a lifetime. When you go away for a day, the people you used to think were good friends gradually lose contact. And the people you always stay with used to be very normal relationships. The love you overcome the challenge of time is the true love. So it's best to limit going to places to drink and eat. When you have time, you should meet some good friends, have a cup of tea together, tell each other sad and happy stories in the house. Oh, it's also a joy of this life. Next, a 50-year-old man should let go of these 7 things. 1. Let go of hatred. Hatred is negative emotion. Born to see people doing what they want, not doing what they want. Hating each other only makes people uneasy, nervous, always only about revenge, revenge. In fact, a person who has been angry for 20-30 years is still angry. It sounds like there is no perseverance. But in fact, it is teaching, it is suffering, but there is no forgiveness. Many people live a very strange life, easily forget the quiet and meaningful things. But the heart aches, remembering enemies for a lifetime. Even if you die, you can't let go of it. It's like holding a coal in your hand. Burn out, burn out, burn out, the whole heart can't let go. So how can you see the peace, the freedom? Everything comes from your heart. If the heart is calm, life is peaceful. If the heart is angry, life is miserable. If you can let go, let go of everything. The most important thing is how can our life be peaceful, calm and happy forever. A person who does not express this reason will always be in pain and suffering, never be able to escape. 2. Don't come to the debate. Wang Zhengming, a famous general of China. In the past, there were rebels. He got the first name, made great contributions, and was envied by many people. He was angry all the time, but he was still calm. Wang Zhengming said this, Anger is a negative emotion. However, there is always this emotion in the heart. The important thing is whether we can control it or not. If we can't control it, anger will have many negative consequences. If you don't control your emotions, on the one hand, you have to pay attention to the small and ordinary things, practice from small things to big things, look from many sides before making a decision. Practice every day, through small things, to find the right mind. If you are not extreme, it is not easy to be angry. Gradually, this will become a temperament in each person. It is not good to argue more than lose. You always like to argue, even if you win in that debate, but you don't get the kindness of the other person. The way to win is really not to argue. Over the age of 50, you have to know how to let go, choose a way to compromise, so that your soul is also relaxed and happier. 3. Wait for the right time. When you are young, people are often busy with their careers, busy with work. By middle age, everyone should change their lifestyle, live a little slower. Don't put yourself under too much pressure, and cause trouble. For people over the age of 50, you should not wait for the best time. You should take a break, take a rest, travel. If you want to go anywhere, do whatever you can, then go. Don't wait for the right time anymore. Because when you pass the middle age, life is still very short. There is not much time left for us to wait. 4. Don't eat and drink as much as you like. Eating and drinking with the elderly is extremely necessary. Because eating and drinking, along with the lifestyle, exercise, are the three pillars, to increase resistance in the elderly. The older you are, you should remember that the function of the body is getting weaker, metabolism also becomes slower. If you eat and drink conveniently, not only does your body gain weight, but it also causes a lot of health problems. The way to have good health is very simple. You just need to maintain a balanced diet, and reasonable exercise rules. 5. Get everyone's heart. In this life, we always hope to be accepted and loved by others. In addition to being eloquent, it is also difficult to avoid using some tricks to make others love you more. Especially in society, there is always a need for a familiar relationship. But after passing the age of 50, it's time to give up thinking and get the heart of others. Although there are many times when it's really hard to say no, but life is yours. There is not much time left to go to the heart of the whole world. If anyone hates the poisonous tree that makes wine, you should always remember that the mouth of others, the heart of yours, you are not a flesh and bone person. And if so, why do you still have to suffer, still have to lose face because of the rumors around you? The tree is not afraid of death, the gentleman often hears the grumbling of the beggar. The unchanging thread responds to change, which means taking the unchanging of the heart to respond to the changes of this life. As long as you keep the peak high, all external love cannot be difficult. Live confidently, with a positive attitude, then you will get everything you have. Then you won't have to ask for anything, no matter who the button is. 6. Speak ill of others The custom of taking the story as a gift makes people always want to prepare a lot of stories for themselves, but most of them are stories about others, and everyone wants their story to be really good, really unique. In order to do so, people not only need to live for themselves, but also have to listen carefully to collect strange stories from all sides, and sometimes need to create more rich scenes. The mouth is also born from here. There is a saying like this, just stand behind others all your life if you are just a deep talker. If you are passionate about being their shadow, you will find your purpose very quickly. At the age of 50, it is time to understand all the rules of life. Instead of wasting time talking bad about others to make yourself upset, open your heart. If possible, be silent and give up. If the situation is serious, be gentle, point out the shortcomings for the other person so that they can fix it. If you can do that, you deserve to be convinced. Being generous to others is to create happiness for yourself. And 7. Chasing vanity Vanity is related to self-esteem. The more people like vanity, the more self-esteem they have, the more they want to have a prominent position in society. But fear of vanity is called vanity because it is an insult, an insult, not a real dignity built by hard work. Vanity is a form of deceiving people, deceiving yourself. Because there is no vanity, you try to show it. You try all your life just to receive other people's admiration. At the end of your life, everything will be ruined. A person who really has everything is a person who is not boastful, not wrong, a slave to vanity, living a life that is peaceful and meaningful. Getting to the age of 50 is the best time of life to change your mind. Don't follow vanity, fame, vanity. Because of being rich, many powerful people can't buy what is called true happiness. Looking at a happy and mature child can make life full of love. Anyone who sees you must smile. That is the value of this life. Yes, I would like to reiterate. Confucius once said that the 50-year-old knows God. So what should you know? Perhaps the answer is to realize that you are not fully responsible and determined not to let go of your life anymore. Although the 50-year-old has not yet reached the age of retirement, it will not be long. At the age of 50, that is, a person is in the ninth stage of this life. When success and glory bring a lot of happiness and satisfaction, it also brings a lot of pressure. But we can all face it calmly. Because at this age, we have understood the nature of society and know how to live a colorful life in a short period of time. Remember 3 places you should not go and 7 types of attitudes you should not have that I share to be able to live in peace and happiness in the rest of your life. Thank you for always watching Vietnamese Corner as a friend. See you in the next clips.