¡Una mentira de amor en China! 2000 hombres enamorados... de otro hombre

A 60-year-old man named Hong had dated more than 1,700 heterosexual men, from athletic boys to cold and attractive guys. He recorded the videos in secret, sold them for 150 yuan with exclusive access, and had a strategy to invite friends to the group and watch them for free. The case of Hong has shocked public opinion in China and abroad due to the unprecedented scale of his sentimental scam, with a number of victims that goes up to 1,691 men. Yao, a 38-year-old man, created the identity of Sister Hong as a hard-working, attractive and single woman in search of a new partner. This process was not improvised, but required meticulous planning and considerable investment. Every day Yao dedicated up to two hours to make-up carefully, applied three layers of foundation, wore a wig, stuffed her chest, and wore skirts to create a convincing feminine appearance. In addition, he recorded short videos doing considered home activities, such as cooking, folding clothes, or planting flowers on the balcony, using digital effects to make the images more attractive and realistic. He had dated more than 1,700 heterosexual men, from athletic boys to cold and attractive guys. All those forbidden dishes that not even the bravest girls had tasted, this man ate them all. Even a fitness blogger, after discovering the truth, went directly to report it to the police. This old man in disguise did not reject anyone, did not charge money, just asked for a little gift, like half a bottle of oil. Chengdu used to be famous, but now Nankin has taken the lead. Nankin's girls are attentive, they take care of their husbands, boyfriends, brothers, cousins. It is estimated that the 1,700 men are only those who appeared on video, the unrecorded ones could be at least 2,000. Hong's sister's scam methods were systematic, from creating fake profiles to blackmailing and secret recording. Yao created accounts on social media with meticulously edited photos, presenting herself as a divorced woman looking for a new relationship. After capturing the attention of single men, he started conversations, seduced them and invited them to his apartment. The whole process was recorded in secret and then uploaded to payment platforms to make money. These actions not only caused economic losses, but also destroyed the reputation and caused deep psychological damage to the victims, especially when the videos spread massively. This grandfather Hong was very enthusiastic. A 60-year-old man in Nankin, known as Ahong, with a wig, miniskirt, basic makeup and red lips, managed to get more than 1,600 heterosexual men to offer themselves in three years. From men in their 40s to 50s, to boys in their 20s, of all ages. I don't understand. When I see your photos and videos, there are guys more handsome than me. Just because it was free and it was enough to carry a gift like half a can of oil or a heavy bottle of milk? Some even wore used clothes or a fan. It looked like a donation. In the videos, his round face and makeup was undone in powder. The skin shone with fat. The tight skirt did not look good on him, he wore a mask and a wig. Even so, he managed to attract guys in their 20s, coaches, students and distributors. Only one man understands another man. A user commented, I exercise, take care of my skin and you don't even look at me. It turns out that I only needed a flower skirt. He is a business genius. He recorded the videos in secret, sold them for 150 yuan with exclusive access and had a strategy to invite friends to the group and watch them for free. The Nanjing police arrested Yao and confirmed that he had sentimentally deceived a total of 1,691 young people. The leaked videos have durations ranging from several minutes to more than 10, clearly showing the faces of the victims and their actions. This huge number of victims not only shows how sophisticated the swindler was, but also the level of generalized vulnerability among social media users. This also indicates that loneliness and the need for emotional connection are common factors in modern society, easy to take advantage of, especially when interactions are almost exclusively in virtual environments. Unfortunately, some users did not respect ethics and the videos were leaked, causing a nuclear explosion on the Internet. Seriously, this case is not just a curious anecdote, it is also a social test. For those who feel insecure about their physical appearance and believe that they will never find a good partner, do not worry, have confidence, because the taste of men really does not understand it. In Western societies where gender equality is valued, the case of Sister Hong has generated debate about social expectations towards women and men. Some say that a woman must be beautiful, and if she is not, at least she must have presence or style. Others argue that the greatest feminine virtue is education, the elegance that is not lost over the years. And there are those who speak of feminine qualities. In reality, no matter how it is expressed, a woman cannot lack sweetness. Sweetness is not weakness, nor mediocrity, nor submission. It is an essential quality. A foundation that the universe has given women for their development and value as a person. Sweetness is not weakness, nor mediocrity, nor submission. It is an essential quality. A foundation that the universe has given women for their development and value as a person. The woman does not need to compete with the man, but can harmonize and shine with him. This is not a rule invented by human beings, but a natural principle. When men and women fulfill their respective roles, the family remains in harmony and society becomes stable. If you have followed the news, you will see that many victims have declared that they have been attracted to Hong's sister because of her daily videos, cooking, folding clothes or taking care of plants. These simple actions transmitted a feeling of warmth and sincerity. This shows that the instinct to seek emotional connection can reduce the ability to defend, especially among those who feel alone or are single. Some people have taken advantage of what they call feminism, saying that women must fight for their own rights and compete with men for power. Under the influence of this erroneous idea, many women have lost their docility. Whether at work or at home, they constantly compete with men, enjoy giving orders and adopt the title of real strong woman. As a result, they feel physically and mentally exhausted. Family conflicts are frequent and suffering does not cease. Today, the Chinese Communist Party continues to promote the idea that men and women are equal. And that women hold half the sky. Strong women are everywhere. Due to the influence of the thought of struggle in the party culture, many women have become masculinized, they have become tigresses. Along with the destruction of traditional culture, people no longer know what the traditional rules were for women. The virtues that heaven gave women have been completely abandoned, such as supporting the husband, educating the children, being soft like water, modest, patient, wise, with nobility of spirit, defeating gently, being tolerant and having contention. In reality, this pushes women to the fire, distorts their nature and turns them into women who act like men. Thirdly, we must mention the need for connection and solitude. In a society full of relationships in which the requirements to be with someone are constantly evaluated, Hong's sister did not ask for anything in return, but showed sincere attention. When she appeared with sweet messages, it was like a dose of emotional sedative that calmed lonely hearts. At that moment, the brains of the victims activated the mode of waiting for affection and temporarily disconnected the alert alarms. So they fell into the trap. And finally, there is the fear of losing the opportunity. When someone has already invested time, feelings and effort in a relationship, it is very difficult to leave it. In short, Hong's sister did not need youth, beauty or talent as is usually thought, but was like a skilled programmer who knew how to hack the human emotional system. So, has anyone here been a victim of a similar situation? Today, if you talk about this with young people in mainland China, they will make fun of you. You will become a laughingstock and they will tell you that you have ancient ideas. They surrender to dark impulses, they make up like demons. From the inside out, they do not show dignity. And that is considered beauty? They see the rare and ugly as fashion, they follow it blindly, and that goes against human morality. That's how it all ends. From another perspective, due to the increase in various pressures, especially that of maintaining the family, it is no longer possible for the man to support everything alone. Women are forced to go out to work to maintain the home and assume responsibilities like men. And men? Their position in the family has weakened, some become like women and are even subjected to their partners, which causes them discomfort. This inevitably generates family problems. No woman wants her husband to be incapable and lose his firmness. In any case, the causes that led to this situation go against the will of heaven, and the essential qualities of a woman. Softness, attention, care, and emotional resistance. Only when the roles of the man and the woman are located correctly and justly, the family can be harmonious and society can be stable. It may be that the woman has not played the main role in the long course of history, but her role has always been essential as the protagonist's companion. The woman may not be the shining sun, but she will always be the bright star that embellishes the night sky. Thank you for joining us in this story. We hope it has provided new perspectives and encourages each person to live more sensibly in this world full of changes. See you in the next reflections about the human being and society.