¿Crisis matrimonial Gen Z? ¡Una pareja china se divorcia por un solo calzón después de 45 días!

He bought six pairs of underwear. I told him to buy less. Divorce. The young couple, Lan Min, got married quickly. And after a month, they were already asking for a divorce. All because the husband told the wife to buy less underwear. The wife slapped him in the face right in front of the journalists. The stunned husband did not know how to react. He said his wife had him under her foot. He no longer had the strength to defend himself. I told him to go buy things, but not to buy as if he were going to resell to the buyer. I asked him to spend in moderation. Where is the problem, right? The wife is called Xiao Wang. She is 22 years old. Despite being young and beautiful, she always has a sad expression. She says that although she has been married for less than two months, her husband's personality has changed drastically since they got married. Not only does he hit her in the face, but he also constantly tells her to go back to her parents' house. After we got married, he didn't even give me the 280,000 yuan of the dowry. Xiao Wang said that life after marriage was like a nightmare. They met through a dating agency. They only met for a day and could not help but go to the hotel. Later, the husband promised that he would be responsible and that he would spend a lot of money to marry her. However, after getting married, his true nature came to light. This made Xiao Wang feel that he had been deceived. Before we got married, he had about 50 points. But after marriage, I don't even have a place recognized in his life. I don't have any value. With a marriage that broke after only two months, Xiao Wang, 22 years old, could not bear this blow. She was even diagnosed with mild anxiety disorder. Seeing the young woman so sad, two journalists took her to meet her husband, Tiao Li, who was working to demand justice. But when they saw the journalists, before the husband could say anything, Xiao Wang slapped him in the face. It was fast, precise, strong, and perfectly executed. The husband was about to be knocked out right there. If the journalists had not intervened, Xiao Wang would have gone even further and would have grabbed him by the neck to continue treating him. The journalists quickly put the husband away to a corner to talk to him. Seeing the journalists, the husband immediately showed a sad expression. He said that since they got married, in just two months, his wife had spent the 60,000 yuan she had. He went to work every day, hunched over, to earn money, while she did not go to work, she only knew how to eat without control, and had gained 15 kilograms. In his eyes, everything in the mall seemed to be free. He bought six pairs of underwear worth 200 yuan each without thinking about it. Every month, his wife spent tens of thousands of yuan, and he no longer had money to support him. However, that was only part of the reason. The other reason was that his wife had many more demands. The dowry had to be 288,000 yuan. The house had to be in his name, and a luxury car could not be missing. Every time he didn't like something, he would go to his parents' house, or slap his husband, or force him to give him money to spend. As for the dowry, before the marriage, Tiao Li admitted that she had promised to take care of that. But after getting married, she realized that the dowry was 288,000 yuan. At first, she did not deny it, but she kept asking for the money. She told him that she would only return to live with him when the dowry was complete, and his name was on the property register. Clearly, Tiao Li was no longer sure of this marriage. In addition, his family also began to doubt him. They thought Xiao Wang did not have good intentions. Tiao Li was determined to divorce. The constant attacks from his wife only made him more certain of his decision. But to recover the dowry money, Xiao Wang took the journalists to his mother-in-law's house. She continued to believe that the intention of divorcing her husband was because his mother-in-law had incited him. However, when they arrived, his mother-in-law did not seem to like anything. When he heard his daughter-in-law, he could only sigh impotently. The mother-in-law said that since the two of them got married in a hurry, all kinds of problems had arisen continuously. The house, the car, she wanted everything to be in her name. If they gave her money, the daughter-in-law considered it part of the family. But if they didn't give it to her, she treated her like a punching bag. With this attitude, sooner or later everything would go to ruin. When the dowry of 288,000 yuan was mentioned, the mother-in-law got even more angry. She said that they had agreed to give her 100,000 yuan of the dowry at the beginning, and that the rest of the 180,000 yuan would be given after the wedding. But the daughter-in-law not only did not accept, but insisted that her mother-in-law pay her everything at once. If she didn't, she would speak ill of her in the village, saying that the mother-in-law did not feed her. She is always deceiving my son. She tells him that he is not well, takes him to the hospital and asks for money. The medicines she brings him are just some pills. Then she forces my son to do a ceremony or something like that at his house, a formal wedding, marry a woman who cost 500,000 yuan. I don't even know if she has food to eat. At first, to alleviate the pressure on the young couple, the mother-in-law took out all her savings and bought them a new house. When the daughter-in-law found out, instead of being grateful, she demanded that her name be on the property register. These actions made the mother-in-law feel that it was the daughter-in-law who really wanted to catch the wolf with her empty hands. Seeing that her mother-in-law did not please her, Xiaowang's mentality began to explode. Seeing that both sides were about to fight, the mediators rushed to separate them. Xiaowang told her husband directly that, You can go find someone who is willing to spend money on you. Look for someone willing to give you 20,000 yuan a month. No, someone who can take you on a trip every day. I can't. I have to go to work. I have to work. I have to make money. Hearing the young couple's discussion, the mediator felt that neither of them had made a really serious mistake. He advised them that adults should have a mature mentality, and that when problems arose, they should express their thoughts sincerely and communicate in time to solve them. He suggested that they try to get along better for a while, and if in the end they did not succeed, then they could divorce. After more than two and a half hours of mediation, both spouses agreed that they would try to be more understanding with each other and try to live better. Do you think you can really get along? The story of Xiaowan and Tiaoli, although it is only an individual case, covered by the media, clearly reflects the complicated problems in the marriages of young people in China today. It is not just a couple's conflict, but it is a mirror that shows the change in social ideas and generational conflicts that are reconfiguring the marriage scene in this country. Xiaowan and Tiaoli met through a dating service. They developed feelings on the first day, and quickly decided to get married. However, when they started living together, the differences in their perspectives and expectations made their relationship wear out quickly. This marriage, lacking understanding and sharing, became fragile and broke easily after only two months. Why is it so difficult to find happiness in the marriage of many young Chinese people today? Part of the reason lies in the change in the way of thinking. Traditional values, which used to be the basis of marriage, are being replaced by a mentality that emphasizes individualism, desire, and personal benefit. Men tend to be attracted to the appearance of women, while women focus on romanticism or the material conditions of the couple. When getting married, once these superficial aspects disappear, love also loses its basis. If both do not know how to share, love, and respect each other, the bond that unites them will break, making marriage a burden instead of a source of happiness. In addition, modern society faces problems such as adultery, one-night stands, or infidelities. The mentality of laughing at the poor, but not at what is being sold, seems to have infiltrated the thinking of many people. It is enough to have money for all kinds of behaviors to be acceptable, while morality and common sense are seen as secondary. Some believe that, through the Cultural Revolution, the Communist Party of China broke traditional values, and instead imposed distorted modern ideas, which led to the popularization of concepts such as free love, living together, or one-night stands. Marriage is no longer seen as a responsibility and a duty, but only as the satisfaction of personal needs. Xiaowan's action of slapping her husband in front of the journalists is proof of a worrying trend. Domestic violence does not only come from the male side. Anger, loss of control, and Xiaowan's violent behaviors, along with the diagnosis of mild bipolar disorder, show serious psychological instability. The pressure of an unsatisfactory marriage, the feeling of being deceived, and disappointment can cause conflicts to escalate, becoming difficult to resolve. In traditional Chinese culture, marriage was seen as a destiny, an arrangement made by heaven and earth. The ancients relied on arranged marriages, accepting their partner even if they had never seen her, and followed the principle of en, gratitude and a moral bond for life. They respected the gods, were devout to their parents, and treated each other with respect due to a guest. Even when people lived within the moral framework, marriage was solid and brought true happiness. However, in modern society, many people are no longer tied to traditional moral values. Xiaowan wanted to enjoy the privileges of women of old, to be maintained by her husband without the need to work, but she did not assume her role as a wife in taking care of the home or in controlling expenses. At the same time, she demanded equal rights, such as having her name in the goods. For her part, Tiaoli hoped to have a wife who would share the economic burden or at least spend reasonably, but was trapped in the role of sole provider. This conflict between expectations and reality created a marriage full of tensions and dissatisfaction. The story of Xiaowan and Tiaoli is not only a lesson on the lack of understanding in marriage, but also a warning about the values that are being lost in modern society. Will they be able to find a mutual understanding and rebuild their happiness? Or will this be a warning signal for young couples who rush to get married without really being prepared? Share your thoughts on this story.