Finding the Balance (Parenting VS Holiday)

These are my beloved mountains, my beloved mountains indeed. Welcome to Zele's Reflection. Once again, we are talking about the children. That is, before these days pass, let us reflect, before it's too late. Like, we have to find something. Like, we have to. We just need to ask Tusaidiani. So, here's the thing. I don't know how to keep them busy. So, let those who have brought them to us be cursed, if it's someone we're taking to the shore, The one who does the activities. But now, we want to find a balance. I don't know, you do it. A lot of this, you're so annoying. For example, I am, let's say, mimi ngekua mtuwa 8 to 5. So, it's 8 to 5. But, if you explain it to me, I will understand. The child's activities are not my concern; I'm not the one to discipline. Personally, if I'm a 9-to-5 person, The only time I'm available is on Sunday. On Sunday, Sato will do something. I don't do laundry or cleaning either. But I'm just trying to explain, Sometimes it's really hard to find a balance. At the same time... We need, there's this balance, you want to show Your child has a hard life, like a tough life without a single relief. But that difficult life will not make you weak. Okay, am I making sense? Here's the thing. I want to show Tugi the lives of hardship and those of Nairobi. That's why I'm rushing to the market. Life is different when playing football. I see the chicken, I see the hen. Whereas a father without a child is incomplete, his son is his legacy. So if the parent asks, where do we get the balance? Like, I don't want to spoil my kid too much, But at the same time, I love my child. I am busy working from Monday to Friday. Available on Saturday and Sunday. After church on Sunday, we go for lunch. From Monday to Friday, I go to a tutor's house to have tuition. If I'm on the right track, as a parent Am I balancing this right? If the teacher says to do tutoring, then tutoring is done. Kuamka, kuosha vyombo kama ni of age, He is preparing the tools for the task, he is doing it. But still, I don't know where to go. I don't know if I'm getting the balance right. Because at the same time, I also want to rest as a parent. Am I making sense? There are many factors that Nye Zina contributes. to how we're going to balance it as well. The history of the child. I want to see the child, I want to see Alan, I want to be taught, I still want to go to school, even if I have to walk a long way. I will return next month. I'm still struggling, so how do we find this balance? Here I am. Just say it, We can get activities, we can take them to... Either for swimming lessons, You have a taiko drum player, you have a karate player, Like Ume Mu-enroll somewhere else, he learned a new skill. That is fine, but at the same time, Do you feel, as a parent, that you're doing enough? I feel lost, there's no place, I want to find balance. For me, I'm silent, I'm speechless, the weight of sorrow is heavy on me, It's not good to feel sad, I'm telling you, it's just nonsense, Side engine, the last time Alenda Ushagu came, he arrived by matatu. For the very first time, siyezi, Whether it is good or bad, it is something. But you, alishinda kitu mefe nye shoshu The matatu was crowded, and there were many people. Those were the last ends of the mask. First of all, putting an alivaa mask on a car is something that would be very funny. On the island, like you're shocked, there are many people, tulipanda car, That's exactly what I was saying. Shoshu told me those math problems. We didn't get it until Shoshu told us. So, there is... That side of it, if Shushu never did that for us, You're coming, you're coming in the future, That was the third time the big man began to speak, and his parents had already left. Do you understand me? As a parent, it's hard to explain the passage of time. It's like saying, "atembe shule migutupu." The teacher entered the classroom quietly. I don't know where to go to school. You are the one who showed me it It's a hard life, I told you, it's a tough school. It's impossible. He was able to survive for a few months after being born, but he began to die shortly after reaching a few months old. People who are born with a caul are said to be lucky. They died in their prime, at the height of their youth. So for me to tell him, We are not allowed to enter the school without permission. It's hard to see it. He needs to see it. And for him to see it, he's lucky indeed. But there are certain things that only the wise can reveal. And I want him to learn. And I'm busy from 8 to 5. I'm not talking about myself, but some of us are busy. Here, here, here, we're talking. So, in that case, do we settle here? For those of you who are experts in this, walimu. staff, the staff member, the one you know, about these things, But you're asking, where do we find the balance? Because if you tell me that you're tired, We cook meals together. How many times can we make that meal together? Chuta prepares meals together, Luckily for me, Naeza makes meals together with Naeji at home. But Ule MSI, the one who is here today is the one who is not here tomorrow. The MSi Ya Hezi was found entire for a whole week. Sato wanted to do his own work. So you're telling that person, Try doing activities with your kids at home. Akitoka joba, napatua mtu ya melala. At the end of the long journey, a weary traveler rests. I understand it has to be intentional. but sometimes the factors around, I want to send you a message tomorrow, just in case I don't work. Umtutuota school fees. So there is a lot that is happening around us. Let's try, I'll pay for those skating classes for you. I love skating, and I really enjoy that skating skill. When you find it, oh, you'll realize it's just a matter of time, but you won't be able to lose the devices. So, I am there, I am asking, please, Please, please, how do we find the balance? Like, how can we, no manual, no notes, No worries, I'll help you read, but we can share. Like, if you have your child, if your son is seven years old, You can tell me something about my son who is four years old. So, you can tell me something. That's what I want to discuss. To share, you are the one who helps, you are the one who opens the mind. At that time, from 8 to 5, there was something to do. You know, hey, yeah, maybe I can fanya hikitu. Maybe I can do something similar at my house. In this idea. That's all I'm asking for. Can we help each other achieve balance? They did it very well. Well, everyone just does what they can. My mini at a 2-gear stage for 3 weeks. What should we do? But then I'm sure there's a lot more we can do. Not just tuition either. The tuition is 2 hours a day. So the rest of the day. He lay down on the bed, he did the same amount of tuition, America, let's say his mother is the same. And then, so, you said a lot in your comments. Long holiday, so far so good. At least we are getting used to it, keep going well. But we want to know what it is and how we can find our balance with these children. Especially now that they are at home, yes. The fire is not yet extinguished. Okay, naeza. Sindio? But I can. He was late for work. He went to the doctor, that is, to his own doctor. Impossible. So, I'm coming to work now. So, advise us on the comments. Okay? Alafu, muniambie, I'll do it later, I'll do it now How was your holiday? Like, I'll go ahead and take care of it right away, said he Did you go on holiday, kids? Because there's a lot about kids. Like, there's a lot we can talk about about our children. Yes. On that day, to the girl on the topic Thank you so much, guys. See you next week on Silas Reflection. Bye.