In this video, I, Celestine interviews Kimani about the secrets to managing finances in marriage. Kimani offers valuable insights for couples looking to create a healthy financial foundation in their relationship.
Kimani emphasizes the importance of transparency, arguing that open communication about finances is essential from the outset. This includes discussing financial goals, expectations, and adapting to changing circumstances throughout the marriage.
Trust is another key element, as couples need to feel comfortable making financial decisions together. Kimani concludes by suggesting that couples who establish a strong friendship before marriage are better positioned for success. Friends often have open communication and are more comfortable tackling important issues like finances.
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This discussion explores the complex intersection of romance, marriage, and money. It contrasts the performative spending of the dating phase with the practical realities of marital finances, emphasizing that transparency, mutual trust, and a foundation of genuine friendship are essential for navigating financial instability and long-term partnership success.
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You know, you need me in your life.
Now you're saying,
we just want Celeste to be reflective.
It's reflection.
Let's continue. Hey, why am I here?
So, Kimani, you're here because we're talking about money in marriage.
Kimani, money, aha.
Oh yeah, Kimani, money. We're talking about money in marriage.
So I thought it's good to bring you, then I look for a pro.
But in the meantime, how do you handle your money in marriage?
I want to know.
Wow.
So, you're going to bring a pro, but I...
So from your perspective, now from a layman's, even if I call you that.
Kemani layman.
Or did you go to school? You're a man in marriage.
We did business education, Celestine.
In marriage.
Celestine, I've done astronomy.
Celestine, you still consider me layman?
One, two, three.
That's it. So even I won't look for a pro, we have him.
Welcome, Kimani.
Thank you so much.
Tell us, how do you handle your finances in marriage?
You hide.
You hide!
Yeah, yeah, yeah, okay.
Let me tell you.
Let me tell you.
I was very...
You know when you're dating...
Actually, the issue would be money in relationship.
Because we have different relationships.
We have courting relationship.
We have marriage relationship.
We have even divorced relationship.
How you handle money?
I want in marriage.
Because in marriage, there's something that you're tied.
Some of these things are very interconnected.
That's why I say it affects each other.
Like, for example, when you're starting dating,
this is how you handle money.
That's why I'm taking you with me.
I'm taking you with me. I don't have any money.
The money I use to pay for my parents' hostel
is what I used to buy for my sister-in-law in South Bisa.
Do you remember that dark place?
That girl bought it for you once.
Or was it a hostel?
Once. She and her son used to pay for it once.
It's the same with her.
Those times when she used to take me to Kemende, South Africa, Kemende.
The place where we used to have dengue and chapati.
So, in that time, your money is a well-kept secret
in the sense that it's coming from you.
You're very quick to show that I can take you out.
By the way, what are you doing?
You get.
Yeah.
However, it's for marination.
I don't know if we're talking about marination.
And marination in a good way.
Because you want to feel this girl is romantic.
So what do I do?
Okay.
What's the name of that place?
Now, that is a
relationship.
I want to move you into your marriage, okay?
So we are in relationship.
Spending money that way.
At times, where would you go and buy earrings?
Do you buy them at the store?
Or do you buy them at the store?
I buy them at the store and buy earrings.
I used to buy them and come and buy them.
Exactly.
So you don't know how much I have.
And I don't know.
But when you need to.
Yeah.
So we are in a situation where we are not sure how much we have.
We are okay?
We are in a subsidy.
You understand? So, you see the things that are going on,
you eat that big fish, but when you hear the sound,
the sound, I know that time is going to end.
That same year is going to end for me.
So, you're happy? I'm going to eat the fish. You're happy?
Yeah. But you don't have any more money? No.
So, back then money was yours and yours alone, like hidden.
I cannot say yours because we are coming to yours and yours alone.
By then money was not there.
Remember the joke of 11 shillings?
Okay, there was no money.
There was no money, but the little that is, we are taking it.
If I get 5K for all that money, we are eating fish for 2.5K.
And smoking every break time.
It's your break time.
It's not your break time, but it's your post-work time.
So my point is, when you're dating,
money is usually not an issue.
Because your mud is love.
Even if you sleep,
it is romantic when you drink water.
No, listen, I'm talking about a particular relationship.
Leave those...
Oh, yeah.
Leave those.
That's not a relationship.
Because others tend to think otherwise.
When you're dating, money is a serious issue.
And we need to know that at that time.
So that is a relationship I've told you about.
We come to a situationship.
Situation change.
Situationship.
There is a situation.
You are getting your money's worth.
You have paid me for this.
Now, the situation is,
I need someone who is loaded.
Get someone who has money.
So that's
a situation.
It's a situation.
So that's what you're calling a situationship?
Yeah, that's the situation for me.
Because one person, I've seen there's money there.
Situation, it is according to me,
not according to other people who are describing the words to me.
The situation is, I'm visiting
and I'm looking for a person who has money.
And might it be that this person who has money,
he's seen that there's money too and he's getting it.
It's two ways.
No, some even hide. Let me give a good example.
We were in school with a certain lady.
She said she had money but she was hiding.
However, this lady, you cannot hide money.
Pesa ifichiki.
When it is a lot.
Harudi iguo.
You can ask her,
akona laptop,
anakuja na yo naivunja,
bila kujua nakalia laptop.
Siku jua bagi kona laptop,
nika kalia.
Nisikalia ime,
maji kona nyasi.
Kuangalia,
screen ikona cobweb.
I'm like, oh, don't worry. I know a guy.
She went and bought another laptop, another one, another one,
and she was like, I don't have enough money.
Now, this is my point. She was very humble.
Yeah.
But you could see, hey, she was holding the car to the driver.
Oh yes,
true.
Yeah, I get it.
Everyone wants a place where there's money.
I've sent you a note, don't call it change.
You want to stay.
Of course.
So, pesa haifitiki, kama mimi zingi afford.
So I
get it.
So that's for you.
Like that's how it was for you.
There's another one.
I don't know if they agree with what you're saying.
Before we get to marriage, you are getting your money's worth.
There's another one.
Now if you're tired, you can leave and reflect.
There's another one where money loves to stay with man.
If you are poor.
I'm poor.
It's hard. Sometimes it's hard to put money into money.
Have you ever realized what those who wanna?
Yeah.
True.
Why?
Yeah.
My daughter, meet my son, Vadina.
Doctor and professor, and the other one is an engineer.
Do you understand?
But there is no doctor and engineer.
Well.
No!
That's what it is.
You?
So, how was it for you?
You and him?
Please explain to me.
Because...
I was the one who started it.
So, there's no such thing here.
So will you call that
poor and poor?
So,
At least we were able to.
Yes.
People who are struggling in life
want to be together.
They are struggling together.
Now, we get into marriage.
So all those are fallacies.
All those, we are living in cocoons.
We are living in places that we thought we are
but we are not there.
Mm-hmm.
You are getting your money's worth.
Now, in all these things,
In all these things,
Mm-hmm.
when you get married,
This is what is in the end of the card.
that's when the tire meets the road.
The rubber meets the road.
No, it's the tyre.
The rubber.
It's the tyre.
Mine is the tyre because it's moving.
You know, rubber can break.
Tyre must go round.
But you know what they say?
They say, how expect you to be a man if you're changing.
So if you went because of, you saw there was a Mercedes,
you're still there because of the Mercedes.
Now, the money is coming.
Oh, the truth.
Maybe their father was in a shop and they took money and they froze it.
Or, or...
It's true that they have money,
but the truth from the guy is that it's coming.
This lady doesn't love me. Now that you're married,
you've stopped doing what you used to do.
I don't care. You're getting up with a bonnet.
What did you do with that?
I went to the neighbor's house.
We didn't have a bonnet on our date.
Yeah, they didn't leave. They didn't leave recently, did they?
It was only the trunk that was being shown. You didn't have a bonnet.
Now listen, I'm getting to a point.
The man's voice knows that this woman doesn't love me.
Mother Rowena, answer.
Because the money doesn't show.
This woman is holding her head.
You see her holding her head?
She's asking for her money.
She's not leaving.
And even if she leaves, she wants to leave with a gun.
She wants to leave with a gun.
50%.
Per cent.
Half.
By the way, you know, this reminds me,
marital classes, money is a very huge,
it plays a very huge role.
Money is like sex.
Yeah.
When you're in a relationship, you are dating,
fire, fire, more fire.
But when you marry...
You're talking about money.
I mean, same thing.
Money, you're talking about money.
Because, let me tell you this.
Because you find yourself more philanthropic when you have money.
Do you know?
Can you be philanthropic?
No.
When you have no money.
That's very true.
No.
We have rent.
We have a loan.
Come to Bilandra Open.
Of course.
I can't.
It's very normal.
So we go back.
Where did you want us to go?
You are getting your money's worth.
So this is what I'm trying to say.
Thank
Money.
So there's that thing.
You can't move as was when there's no money.
Every time we go on a date, we go to Mombasa.
Those juicy, juicy things.
you
Then we met, I was with him, and he said,
Hey, that money, put it out.
so
You don't expect it to be the same.
Something must change.
much.
That's what I'm saying.
I mean, I started this relationship to get into marriage.
So that when there's a problem with money in marriage,
we know where it came from.
So in that case, where did the problem come from?
The money we had.
Now, coming into marriage, you have to adapt.
So if you came here for money, you'll have to adapt.
You get my point?
Yes.
Because you are here.
Yes.
Now, unfortunately, marriage now comes with new responsibilities.
You must, for example,
how do you navigate that?
You didn't have Mtohiya before.
That's why 5,000 was spent on fish.
Right now,
I don't know if it's fish or not.
Thank you.
So we have to
let go some things.
But there's a lot of things.
Now, I was moving to the next thing.
If back in the day,
we were enjoying the little
we have.
I don't want to force someone.
But me thinking,
Right now, we have 5,000.
We have responsibilities.
We have to adapt.
It's not possible.
Can we not make that 5,000 the last time?
So, you still have that money.
You had it the last time we dated.
It's been taken.
Exactly.
And this is where I'm going now.
We adapt.
That's why I'm saying we adjust.
We adapt.
Tell your friend, uh-uh.
Adjust.
Adapt.
Okay?
Now, that's why it's called A4.
Adapt.
We'll
Okay.
I'm kidding.
I want to sit as if you're getting your money's worth.
Now, you must adapt because you find
of course you don't have your 5K
be
but you also have inflation.
right
Oh, yeah.
Okay?
However, the inflation has increased by five.
But we are making money.
You get that time without a job.
So, our...
I used to work as a landlord.
I used to...
back.
I used to send my father.
My father is moneyed.
So, now...
You have a job.
I have a job.
We bring it together.
Hmm?
We bring it together.
You have a job.
I have a job.
We bring it together.
This is something we didn't have.
It was like, oh, my dad has sent it to me.
Oh, I haven't bought a ring with those rings.
You get it?
Now, we have started getting money.
There's a problem.
What is your money?
Nya nani?
Celestine, let's talk.
Don't say your money.
No, let's talk the truth.
Now, we are talking about us.
About, no, about you.
Let's talk news of truth.
Uh-huh.
Celestine, your money, I don't know much.
Oh, she knows my money.
I didn't even know what I was doing!
I'm going to teach her now.
I'm going to try it.
And we are in good faith.
However,
you know,
I don't have money.
If I have money,
I have money.
However,
I don't ask much there.
How is it going?
And maybe you see,
oh.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
He takes that money and he saves.
We're talking about...
Let me give a good analogy.
There was a time we didn't have money.
So we didn't have money.
And that's how people lose money.
We had a fight and I told her I don't have any money.
I remembered, wait, there's an account, let me look at it.
I was like, I don't have any money.
She was like, you know, she took it.
The case is clear.
Let me do it.
From nowhere, my daughter came.
By the way, baby, you can be.
By the way, baby, you can be.
By the way, baby, you can be.
My daughter hasn't been.
Let me ask you, I don't know if I explained what happened.
My daughter wasn't there, but I was working.
Towards how I'm going to get the money.
So that means...
I heard you tell me, imagine if you had money.
I'm like, God has answered.
Not God, not good on God.
That means there are things that can make you sick.
You understand?
Because they had waited all along
and no one had taken them to the hospital.
Of course, there are things that make you sick.
It's not that I'm sick.
Exactly my point.
So when it comes to saving, I am not saving.
If I dare say I have saved, I'm like,
but on this side, women know how to save.
Don't look what I'm talking about.
Mabwana mukijua mabibi ire pesa wamefungia.
Na muti yuwe.
We unachoma, man.
Wise.
Sere, wache ni uambie.
Kuna wakati, bati mbaya mungu wakasaidia.
Ama mzuri.
Akaweka email yake kwa simu yamu.
Ha ha ha ha ha!
Dubu kuna lawa pensi.
We're here and we're saying we don't have any money.
What is that?
Thank you.
You and me, deposit has been...
Where?
I have not...
Listen, you're losing focus.
It is very focused.
I'm seeing here and now.
So this is the thing.
So you want...
No, this is the other one is the thing.
I'm starting to speak now.
So, in a relationship.
Not in a relationship.
In our relationship.
Not in your life.
Let's talk about how it is.
Because it's very true.
What I came to realize, and this is the end of the letter.
You know, I don't say it's a bad thing to save,
but for the people to take care of themselves,
they can have money that they can throw in the pro box in the house.
But the fear is, we are not aware, they are known.
So we are not known?
You know, I can wake up in the morning
and get, hey, I have two children.
Oh, let's go.
No.
I'm not shooking you.
In a man, when...
I was supposed to talk.
My point is going to go.
You called me here to talk and you paid me.
So this is the point.
No, before you go to your point,
I have a point.
If that is the case, does that mean me,
as a man,
we are always sure of the relationship.
I don't know, but since women have been growing up,
we've been told,
and let me tell you,
Sisi, diyo Sisi umia sana.
I don't know why,
most of the time, if anything, God forbid,
I'm not sinning, but if anything happened,
you know,
you as the man, like...
I have another idea.
There's that thing where you leave,
but there's another thing where you're not there.
You're out of the world.
So that brought me to the point of, I'm also saving.
So we'll find a place where we don't have money.
You've been working with problems, so you're not there.
And maybe I have practice, and I'm not there.
I don't know if you understand.
In the house, there's nothing.
Everyone's in shape.
Which is a good thing.
Because again, kesho haijulikani because we had COVID, we had COVID.
Oh yeah.
So it's like your time, we are starting to get better.
Yeah, but you see the good thing,
actually I came to bring myself there.
You see those, like that time of COVID,
those are the things women are getting out of it.
Let me ask you,
but you always say it's old mindset
when we do what our fathers used to do.
They have a lot of places to turn to.
Is it good?
No.
Why?
But whoever is good,
because unknown.
Okay, well...
Hey, hey, hey, it's you, it's you, it's you, it's you.
So for a man...
Under my kids' names.
Like, I can't even remember his name.
So whose name will you remember?
I don't know.
So the thing is, men, they're very...
Celestine.
No, listen.
Shh.
There's a lot of unclaimed...
You see, you will not see you are guest.
You are in my show.
No, that is very unprofessional.
This is my show.
Now listen, I walk out.
I can walk out.
No.
No!
Are you guest?
You are too stubborn.
No, I am talking facts.
So this is the thing.
I have a lot of unclaimed assets.
And many of them...
Now you have unclaimed assets.
Many of them are fake.
I am not saying I am bad.
But this is the point.
This is my point.
We have not been saved.
If the church...
That's
very
wrong.
That's very wrong.
Let me ask you something, because I have something I haven't told you.
No, here's the thing.
We save for the unknown.
And the unknown is inclusive of the family.
Inclusive of the husband and the kids.
The unknown is usually...
What if we concentrated that energy of worrying?
I know there is that problem.
But that energy, what if we concentrated,
both of us, where would we be?
I know.
We could have a pro box in the pocket and a pro box, we eat pro box.
But now because, leave me alone, leave me alone.
I'm going to buy a pro box, even if they don't call me,
it's because of their money.
Because you've hidden it.
And you're putting money somewhere, the bank is closing.
So I think in terms of marriage and money,
I think trust is very important.
Trust, yeah. Trust coming to that.
And common goals.
Yes.
Because again, like now,
I want to buy a pickpick.
Yes.
I want to buy a helmet.
I don't know how to say it.
Yes.
You just came back with a helmet at home.
Yes.
You started slowly.
I love all of them.
This is the thing.
These are the things I'm just saying.
Yes.
There are things I'm going to do now
because I've realized we don't have common goals.
But we end up wasting a lot of money.
Because I do this because you like this,
you do this because you believe me,
I do this because you don't trust me.
Hey, I'm telling you, it's not like...
So now you're saying you're making yourself up?
Does it mean you're making yourself up to go?
No, you get my point?
You get my point? So, with my help,
with my help, I'm starting to say, hey, I'll go with her.
So, when it comes down to it, it's about going?
I can.
So, when it comes down to it, it's about going?
It's that big. It's that big that can go to Mombasa and Irugi.
Oh, really?
So you were hiding it from me?
So I wouldn't see it falling down there?
If you leave it, it will go away.
But that's not the point.
My point is, Celestine, if you don't have trust...
That's the thing.
In your relationship now, now we are way that.
Now, far, far, far, far.
And something I remember, by the way,
the very first time you got a job,
you brought me to your ITM.
I was so happy by the way.
I didn't even have a job.
No, it's a good thing.
From the onset.
But what you're also not saying is today, today you have.
Like, for example, I don't know how much money is in the company.
Is that what you mean?
I don't know. You're the only one who knows.
An accountant?
Yes, you're the only one who knows.
I'm saying I'm the one who knows.
We're talking about marriage.
But that's why even the financial team
that insists on both of us signing,
you remember when I said I want both of us,
because if I can, it's not like he's praying for us.
But if for the unknown, it's very important.
But I keep saying, if you don't have trust, which is very important.
You don't trust me, Kimani.
Because even those things I say for eventuality,
Manze, there are men.
Kimani, you know my savings.
No, we are talking about marriage.
It's not about you. The show is not about you.
And that's what you are taught in KMC.
Now listen, you are getting your money's worth.
Now, there is a story that is told.
Nyi Nyi Huamna
You got the money, but you can't pay the savings.
I'm going to talk to the bailiff.
If the bailiff doesn't listen,
I don't think I'll be able to go to Kikamba.
I don't know if you can hear me.
But.
So, I can't ask for money if I know I don't have it.
So, there's a problem there.
I will ask for money if I know they lie, they lie, they have those.
However, we have money and we don't have it.
Celestine, I can be with 100K, I don't have money.
But next time, I will ask for your money.
Really?
So, in my mind, that's her money?
No, it's not.
I have money and I don't have money.
But you see, if you told me this money is yours...
Even you know you're in trouble.
There's no problem.
When we were dating, let me take you back.
When we were dating...
You know that day I was smart and I started with you.
When we were dating, I used to call and give.
That is that lady.
I want to show you examples.
There was no time for him to tell me.
Be young, be young.
Now, I call him and he can't tell me.
There's no time for that.
Easy answer, I have this money, this is the money for the school fees.
Easy answer, I don't want to get paid for the school fees,
I took the money for the school fees.
We don't know.
The problem is...
You can't say that.
When I say that, Maramdi, you can't say that.
Some people are like you.
I don't know where he got the money from.
My point is, Celestine,
you're out there, you're drunk.
And it's good to say, men, today I'm here,
serious reflection, so we can talk to each other.
Hello, men.
I know you've been here.
Yeah, comment.
You see, even if they do this,
even a person like you can see what they're doing.
He's a little...
Because he's accepting.
Yeah!
No, no, no.
It's about...
Because...
Here's the thing, men, let me tell you.
Let me talk to these men.
Let me talk to these women.
Me, me.
I...
Please, please, please.
We can't marry, then things change.
And they can't change like this for.
Things change, but not, I was used to this, this, this, this.
All of a sudden, it's not there.
What do you expect?
If we were like...
There's a change that I understand.
Diapers have come.
So now we are buying diapers.
So we can't buy this.
We can't buy this.
We can't live here.
There's that which resonates with me.
We even moved to a bigger house.
But there's that...
Oh, man.
This boy used to enjoy me.
Now he doesn't.
He doesn't.
He doesn't.
He doesn't even have rent now.
But you know you're leaving because...
I mean...
There's a song.
But when
he's
dressed,
no, listen.
From the start, I'll take you out on a date,
but I'll tell you that we're not in a relationship.
I used to tell you that, you know?
When I'm at home, I tell you what I do,
what kind of clothes I wear, and what kind of clothes I wear.
And you use that type.
From the start.
From the start.
So we were right.
You would have shown me another life from the start.
But now what you're saying is I've changed.
I don't, I've not changed.
Things have changed.
Like, for example, that time it was just juice.
We go somewhere, we drink juice, we drink a lot, right?
I'm starting to speak now.
So my point is, yes, from the start,
if we were trustworthy,
if we speak truth to power
from the start, then I don't think we're going
to have a problem because currently me, I
don't have a problem.
Yeah, me too.
Yeah, I'm starting to feel it.
So if we have that trust from the start, however.
Say that you've been good, but you're going out there naked.
We were good. We brought her in.
Then you come.
I don't know, man.
You start to say, babe, what's wrong with you?
No.
The second time, you start to cry.
You're a girl. Who brought you here?
But let me tell you, people outside are hurting us.
Why?
It's a shock.
You hear people saying they've been married for 56 years.
56?
Like this woman is now 70-something.
A very good example, like, you know, yeah, so 70-something,
there has, maybe I don't know, like, yeah, 80s.
Mm.
Mm.
Mm.
Mm.
Imagine for 60 years.
I think that's another topic.
Why?
You want to tell me there's a reason?
Why?
There's no reason.
I can't wake up and change.
You know me, by the time I'm 80, by the time I'm 80, I'm very old.
You men, by the time you're eighty,
you're even younger than you are right now.
My question is, why?
I think that's another topic.
You can invite her as a pro and I'll come and dissect it.
You can research why.
But I know why.
Why?
I don't want to get into it because we're
talking about money and relationships.
I'll pay you again to come and do that one.
There's a lot of men dying of depression.
There's a lot of men who are just a shell of themselves.
Why?
And then at the same time,
we still have men who are just selfish, self-centered.
So at the same time we have women who are the same.
Why? Yeah. Yeah. What are the statistics?
When you look at the statistics, what are the statistics?
No, I'm saying the truth. Truth.
Truth. At the same time, need the same.
Ask yourself, why do we have men going to the bar?
It's not fun going to the bar.
BAM!
PAKASA!
KUMI!
And she's just sitting there without a taboo.
And she has a taboo.
We'll get to that topic.
But now we're talking about marriage and money.
The problem is, we are the problem.
The society, every problem is, we are the problem.
Yeah, so I think what I've taken from this...
A lot is expected from us.
Even us nowadays.
Even us, a lot.
I'm getting emotional. This is another topic.
I'll give you a napkin.
Even us.
So I think what I'm getting from...
This discussion,
I'm getting that there needs to be trust.
And foundation.
You found the answer.
Yes, it's there.
There.
And you're a trust.
I think what can solve this trust
and foundation is to marry your friend.
Oh, yeah.
Because when you have relationships, like for example,
me and Abel, I don't think we're having a problem.
What do you have? What do you have? What do you have?
Come through here, I'll come through there.
So when we are friends, it's very easy.
That's why friends want to go to the camp.
That's why it's easier when we are friends.
Because I'll always understand.
We'll just joke about it.
Guy, that's the money you spent there.
But it's okay.
I know where we're going to spend it.
Right now, if you say, Guy, we have 11 bobwebs.
Do you know where we're going to live?
Yeah.
Like you can joke.
Yeah, exactly.
It's a county court, yeah.
So I think from a basis of friends, however, there's a lot of factors.
And especially these times we are living in,
there's a lot of factors that will affect that.
However, if you're friends, I think you can weather.
Because we have high seasons.
There are times when we don't even have the money
to save that money, so what happens then?
And unless you're friends, I think that's when it cannot work.
Now I think my money is up.
I mean, the time is up.
No, thank you so much, by the way.
I didn't even start thinking about it.
Because you see, like COVID, many, many, many partners,
some of them were sitting and saying,
Beth, you know what?
We can't rent this.
Let's save a little.
Exactly.
You see, there are those who save a little.
When COVID ends, there are those who don't save.
You will have to get that money.
And if you want to see people who go further,
People don't even know where their husbands are.
They live different lives.
Because they are not like this.
But if you are so friends,
you are talking to her.
I don't know what I'm saying, but I don't know what I'm saying.
You are saying,
what is that?
She has a stomach.
Boom, boom, boom.
So, I think my point,
I am not saying I am perfect,
but what I am saying is,
if you have a base from where you are operating,
like in terms of friendship,
then I think anything is possible.
And those are the people who go far.
Because how do you do it?
I have a case
of a man like that,
and they died together.
They were very close. They were friends.
They made money. They were together.
That's what they do. They support him.
And then, imagine when they died,
they went, they didn't know where they were going.
They were in a car, I don't know who he was trying to help.
As it was always,
Thank you.
So as much as we have
those stories of...
And that's a very close family member.
We have close stories.
They make a mess.
We also have very positive stories.
Which I never heard.
Because the negative is on us.
Even if you look at what you have put here,
because the one who gave you this cup is the one you will get rid of.
No, but that's true.
However, what about very positive and we see them work?
What about when we win together?
Yeah.
The thing is, I love negative things so much.
We amplify negativity.
Why? Tell us.
On your show, you amplify negativity.
Tell us.
No, that's what you said.
I was talking on behalf.
Ah, bacon.
Even though he caught him.
But not because of yourself, because of us.
When I'm saving, do you know I'm saving because of us?
Me too.
No, you're saving because of you and the babies.
They are known.
COVID was there, known.
My point is to see up in negativity and that's it.
No, tell them you have a show.
Truthy can thin.
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Ladies and gentlemen, according...
You know, I don't know when you're going to air this.
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You can watch Truthy Can Thin.
And we're talking about some of these things.
Truthy Can Thin 4.
It's going to happen...
Kama haija happen as by the time you watch here.
May 6th, we'll be in Swindon.
If it's good to say.
Also May 27th.
Together, we're going to be in KCC.
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Thank you so much, Njugushi.
Thank you for coming to our show.
It's always a pleasure.
Guys, request.
This is a request.
What?
Say, team.
Team is not Njugushi.
Just say that.
We need him again.
Thank you.
Okay, thank you so much, guys.
I hope...
Actually, I'm a resident expert.
So we'll be talking about different things.
Oh, yes.
Oh, yes.
And just like that,
I have...
Okay, thank you so much, guys.
Tell us what you think about it.
Apochini, do you agree with Kimani?
Do you?
Just say it.
It's not that there's a problem.
We're just saying how you are.
Here in the comments, tell us what you want him
to come and talk about next.
He said he'll come and talk about the why's
and the who's and the when's next.
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That's it from me today.
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