Hey Steve: What Happened to the Bridal Party Hookup?

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She was ghosted by a guy after hooking up at a wedding. Steve steps in to explain why that’s all it’s going to be.
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All right, next up, where's Andrea?
Andrea.
Hey, Steve.
So I had a big group of friends in college.
Say that again.
I had a big group of friends in college,
and just recently two of them got married,
and I was in the bridal party,
and I hooked up with a groomsman,
and this is someone that I would have never even thought of
outside of friendship.
And so basically after, he kind of ghosted,
and I haven't heard from him.
And I just want to know why he made it seem like he wanted more.
Than what it really was and I just want to know why you
were sending mixed signals. You want to know why he
Acted like he wanted more. Yeah
He kind of like it was like finesse like it
was finesse steve like he finessed you. Yeah
Well, that's that's what we do
Nah
Okay, well he could have kept it 100
Did you just say uh-uh? Okay.
Yeah, but it was like this was a little different and it was like
My game is up there. I got game too steve. So it's just kind of like
That's how baby things happen like that.
No, yeah.
Yeah, it happens.
But now he went ghost, and you mad.
Oh, no.
I'm not mad at all.
I just want to know why I waste our time.
We could have just kept it 100 and
be like, oh, this is what I want to do.
And I'd be like, oh, okay.
You know?
Instead of, you know, we here today, and we're kind of like, oh, okay.
I don't know if that makes sense to you.
It don't make no damn sense.
Not?
No.
No.
It's like, to me, not every girl is going to be like,
oh, you're trying to finesse me, da-da-da-da,
but at the same time, I wanted the same thing he wanted.
I just feel like all that...
Uh-uh, uh-uh, uh-uh, uh-uh.
If you wanted the same thing he wanted,
then y'all got the same thing each other wanted.
Right.
What he wanted was to finesse you,
get you caught up in the act,
and he been wanting to do something to you for a long time,
and it finally happened.
Did he say after this that this was going to be ongoing?
He had thought of you all these years.
He's always seen you that way.
You know, come to think of it now, they're getting married.
I've been thinking about, wow,
how come me and you ain't never went down this route?
Did you hear any of that?
It was more.
Did you hear any of that?
No, it was like I want to grow up.
I want to slow down that type of situation not all with me
But that's what he was saying. Whoa. You just said the magic word.
He said he wanted to what slow down and grow up
Yeah, but he didn't know he never said we I kind
of who didn't he mention me
Me.
Ta-da!
OK.
So now your takeaway darling
is what I've tried to teach my daughters
See, if a dude tell you this what he want, make him prove it.
Don't just believe him.
All you got to do is make him prove it.
Now, you'll be okay from it.
Everybody make mistakes, you'll find.
Keep your level up.
You look nice.
You take care of yourself.
Mr. Right is coming.
Just next time you think you got Mr. Right, just make him prove it.
Okay.
He'll do it.
That's all.
Thank you.
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