Hey Steve: The Girls Are Ghosting Now

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It used to be the guys who'd ghost their girls. But now one woman is concerned she's being insensitive by doing the same. Steve explains why she's just fine!
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AI GeneratedThe speaker discusses the concept of ghosting in relationships, acknowledging that while many women do it as a response to being ghosted themselves, there is a more direct way to end things. He provides a humorous, step-by-step method for breaking up with someone clearly and decisively without technically ghosting them.
Ghosting is not new to men.
You all just picking up on how to do it, really.
So really, ladies, I ain't mad at you
when you choose to do it that way,
because ain't a woman in here ain't been ghosted on.
And there's not a woman in here,
some guy just quit hearing from it.
That's game, so turnaround is fair.
So if you're doing it, that's fair.
But now, so you want to, you've hurt this guy.
You want to find a way to leave, but without ghosting him.
Right.
Without them, like, hating me afterwards.
Okay, this is how you do it.
This is him standing here.
Walk up to him and say, listen, I don't want to see you anymore.
1,001, 1,002, 1,003, 1,004,
1,005, 1,006, 8, 1,009, and 10.
And then walk away.
He can't accuse you of ghosting him
because you told it to him.
Then you gave him 10 full seconds
to drink it all in.
Then you walk off.
He's going to be standing there going,
well, damn.
But that's not ghosting.
You stood there.
You gave him a chance to say something.
Okay.
Now, no matter what he say,
you count to 10 out loud.
Out loud.
So, like, he may try to...
He may try to...
Let me show you what I'm talking about.
All right, now, this is what I want you to do.
No matter what I want you to say,
I'm not interested in you anymore and I'm leaving.
And then just go 1,001, 1,002.
I don't care what I say, you keep that count going.
And then at 10, you just walk that away.
Walk all the way to that rail.
Okay, here we go, this is how this gonna go, go.
I'm no longer interested
and I don't wanna see you anymore.
Really?
1001, 1002, 1003.
1,004, 1,005, 6, 7, 8, 1,009, 1,010.
Eight, one thousand nine, one thousand ten.
Did you ever do something?
Didn't that feel good?
It felt wonderful.
And the fact that you just kept counting in his face.
You know, like whatever, you know what I'm saying?
1,001, 1,002, 1,003, 1,004, 1,005, 9, 10.
1,004, 1,005, 9, 10.
Now let me show you one more way to walk away.
I don't know how to do this because I'm a guy,
but kind of walk and leave your hair there.
Do it.
You know how to do that?
Yes.
Okay, say 10, then do that.
10.
10.
Okay, everybody.
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