Clarifying Your Purpose: Aligning Goals | Cele's Reflection

Today I have a guest. I know, living your purpose is becoming a cliché. Yes, you are frustrated all the time. You know there are seasons when, okay, I'm frustrated during certain seasons. But if it's prolonged, I mean we're talking about one year, Two years, three years, you're just frustrated. You don't feel like getting up or doing anything. There is nothing that is motivating you. To get out of bed and feel excited. Kuki unizwa, why are you living? The end of the long imprisonment here. Sweetness in the heart of the night. Nice Mwingi The man's absence was due to the fact that he had fallen ill, just like the others. I am sorry, but I cannot assist with that request. Hello, I'm here. God is the creator of the universe. To the people by way of admonition Many people were arrested. That's how he brought it close to her. people of the covenant At the Akasia Soyo This is a trickster, the fox is a clever one. Welcome back to Seller's Reflection. It's yet another Wednesday, 10 in the morning, guys. Please pray for me this year so that I may remain consistent. Stand. And I think one thing that's driving me is the comments. that I'm getting from the episodes I've done this year. Thank you so much, guys Manze tuna engage hapo kwa comments You guys are very engaging. So you fuel me There is a good smell coming from the boat. I heard you mentioned the episode you're referring to. So thanks to you Thank you for your feedback from last week. People have already learned the things they were supposed to learn. People have commented on things they have learned. People have shared People have watched Thank you so much, guys And because of that Today I have a guest, I know I keep telling you guys, If you have something you'd love to share, come and perhaps enlighten us. Tell us about, maybe share knowledge about, kutufunza tu, kutuambia Whether it is matters of life, whether it is pleasure or finances, whether it is motherhood, Whatever you feel in the core of goodness, what do you call it? If you would like to support a good cause, please get in touch with us via this email. The Celestine Dinda. www.gmail.com So feel free to reach out, mimi nazika guanga one by one, Then I'll get back to you. Here we can sit down and discuss whatever it may be. So today, one of you did that. And I am so happy, that is, I'm so happy because she reached out, no matter what. Four is something that sits in line. with whatever we do at Celeste Reflection. Here I am with Coach Wanjogo. Yes. Who is Wanjogo? Who is Wanjogo? You're not the only one who said it the first time, Wanjogo. Oh, Wanjogo. Ideally, but if you're English, you're like Wanjogo. Huku. No, I'm going to say Coach Wanjogo. That's excellent. Welcome very much to Celeste Reflection. Thank you very much. And thank you so much for getting in touch. Thank you for having.toList I'm so excited. I'm a fan, by the way. Really? No, ujene mbia vale off camera. Welcome. Welcome. Welcome very much. I saw your email and I was like, this one. This is something we could discuss. So maybe to start, perhaps just unazatupatia intro. A brief intro about you so that they can understand what you're talking about. Yeah. Yes. My name is Wanjogo Nishuru. I am a purpose coach. I love helping people realize their potential. and be able to live in a place of impact. And you know, I truly believe you can't live A full life if you don't live it with purpose. So what I do is I coach, I teach, I train, I write, All those things just to help build people. And I believe that if I build people, Then they will be able to build the community. Yeah. So what I do is I have an organization called Wired Global. So we help, we teach, we train, we equip leaders. And I also have a coaching practice called Wired to Thrive. Yeah. And I am also a shepherd in a church. So I do many things, but all They are designed to equip you to pursue your purpose. What is purpose? Hey, your question, coach? Yes, we understand it. But what is it? It's actually daunting. I think, um, people are even tired of hearing about purpose. This someone was telling me equal Security, living your purpose—these are becoming clichés. but purpose, um, in short, it answers the question why Why are you here? Yeah, why are you here? and you can't answer why you're here if you don't know who you are So most people struggle with purpose. because they approach it from the standpoint of action. What am I supposed to do? What was I created for? It's It's okay, but you'll get stuck if you focus on what you're doing. I always like to ask people, why are you doing what you're doing? What is the reason? What is that cause, that reason? That intention, that belief behind what? So most people follow, They try to pursue something they will enjoy doing. For example, what you're doing right now, I'm sure you enjoy it, right? So people are looking for that passionate job, but it's not enough because you will get stuck at some point and since we are always evolving, there's a place you'll find yourself like, I'm not as passionate as I used to be; there's something missing. It's because you're not supposed to ask why. Why do I enjoy this thing? What is the reason behind it? So most of us aren't supposed to ask that question, But that is purpose. Purpose is the why. Mom, give me an example of that. Let me give you an example: there's a lady, I helped her. so what she was doing is she was She's very creative; she was doing a lot of things she She was teaching kids, she was writing, you know She has written many books. but all of a sudden she was like, "I really like teaching kids, but all" All of a sudden, I don't feel passionate about it anymore. and so she was so scared and because she thought Papasi might change. Because for her, the purpose was teaching children. So I started asking her, What was so fulfilling about teaching children? What is it about writing that's so fulfilling? So we are able to determine some statements. She began to say, her desire is to share the truth with people. She loved teaching the children so that they could understand who they were. So we actually found out that she loves helping people discover who they are. That is the reason. And so that just the and so just what she was doing, um, was good but it's as if she were now in a space where She needs to increase her capacity. and do something else that I'm going to help her express that why in a better way, and because we Are multi-talented people sometimes in one season doing just one thing? Another season, you're doing something else again. But if you know your why, which doesn't By the way, that's a thing. Your purpose remains unchanged. Yeah, it's the same. But your career has now changed. Yes, what you do each season is what changes. So when you focus on what you are doing and believe that is your purpose, Yes, you are confused. Yeah. Actually, that has answered my next question. Does purpose change over time? Yeah. So it does not. It doesn't change. What you're doing is what changes. What you're doing is what changes. Another way of looking at purpose is the belief you hold. You know, that cause is bigger than you. That means you can wake up every day to pursue it. Something so enormous. Even circumstances, challenges, they don't extinguish it. Sometimes I like to tell people that purpose is that fire within. You know, that spark that it just keeps, You know, it's just there. It's not quenched. Now you want to figure out what that fire is? What that spark is? I'm trying to think what Is that sparking? Yeah, I'm really trying to think. Yeah, I'm really trying to like in matters cell As a reflection, I think, if I may say so, there is fire. Yeah, that keeps me doing cell as reflection is the impact that the show has on people's lives because I want to precisely define what that impact is There's a feeling I get, I think—a feeling. of reward I'm feeling a sense of fulfillment, yes, but I get when someone tells me, "You know, it's" Because of that show, I was able to reach out, and I got help. Know that I discovered I have this and this, yes so is it the feeling of fulfillment that is That fulfillment tells you that you are in your purpose. so you want to clarify why you Know that there are many people there. those living their purpose without truly clarifying the why They're lucky because they're just like me, whatever I'm doing. It is fulfilling; it is creating impact. but maybe they're not supposed to write it out or just take it out so for you you want to be Even more specific, so yes, it's affecting you—you're helping people. But how are you helping them? What is that help that is so specific? You're like, that's the help I'm after. I want to, because you told me that you Exactly, you want people to gain knowledge. so that they may be helped perhaps out of their circumstances maybe where they are stuck So you found the vehicle For you, you've seen the vehicle. What do you need me to do to help? figure out the why So the reason is to help people get out. there's a I don't know, there's a problem Thank you. You are likely grappling with something you haven't truly been able to identify. It's a problem with the people. It could be due to a lack of information. People are stuck. They don't know what to do with their lives. You might want people to be fulfilled, to be able to live. Why However, with However, with but they have a different skill set Yes. or a different gift for you, you have a platform You have a way with people. You know, you connect. with a larger audience So you're like, why don't I use those skills? and gifts to be able to meet this need Yeah. So are there like signs, are there common signs? that one can tell you're not aligned with your purpose Yes, you're frustrated all the time. the time you know there are seasons where Okay, frustrated with a certain season but if it's prolonged, I mean we're talking about one year, two years, three years, you're just frustrated You don't feel like getting up. and doing anything, there's nothing that is motivating you to get up out of bed and you know get excited, especially yeah people are depressed because of By the way, do you know that studies show people are depressed? because they haven't had the chance to express who they truly are, and you see purpose gives you a place to express your true self So what do you want to live? You're living. whose life are you living? Your parents said you should be living; you're living what? You think people want you to do so, so you're pursuing it. a script that is not your life that you really want to do so people actually get depressed so when you find that you're always Frustrated that you don't have that spark and the motivation to always get up and pursue something You don't have a cause. or a belief that's bigger than you, why are you living? You're just like, oh, how dare you use your children as an excuse Kuzi, this is your child. Amayua, Amayua, Amayua, Amayua. Kwanza na pata, cha What is unat? You're the one who's always running away, never staying to face the truth. Something that is not suitable for me Due to the delay. For the construction of the dam, the people who were displaced were resettled in the new town. For these other many, do not lock yourself in, my heart, do not be afraid. The way of the patient is not easy. Many of them, I will explain the diagrams. For the fundamental also Why I don't believe that if you've been living for, At least if you're a teenager, you've lived quite a few years. to be able to figure out that there's something that you usually do, and then it ignites a spark in you. Yes. When you do it, you just feel like, Hey, I really felt really good. And is this something, sorry to interrupt you, Is this something that we do, something like passion? Yeah. Passion is one of the ways you can achieve it. It's like a sign or a pointer to the purpose. Passion is not the purpose. Passion is a pointer. Passion is what You know, when you engage in something, you enjoy it, and you feel fulfilled. But at the same time, you're good at it. That's a passion. You know, people think a passion is just that you enjoy it. No, if you just do something and enjoy it, that's a hobby. hobby rather, but if you find something that you enjoy and you're also good at and when I say good at I mean, you're above a five out of ten, oh, you excel, yes. That's a passion now, even for very few people. people even discover their passion so but if you find your passion, that's good because now you can be able to tell what is driving This passion—there's something, there's a why, there's a belief. That's what's fueling this passion Because passion is like fuel You know Because you might have a why and a cause, But how will you express that cause? Now passion comes in and it kind of kicks it into gear, drives it, yeah? So how can I provide an example? Let me give my own example. When I was growing up, when I was a child, And by the way, that's how I'm even able to ask you. I always ask people when they were young, What is it that they wanted to do? And why? So it's not just why, you know, I wanted to become a doctor. For me, I'm like, why did you want to become a doctor? I wanted to be a teacher. You wanted to become a teacher. So I can beat those kids there with me. And those who were also there, the quiet ones. And a policeman, you know? And a police officer. But you feel as though you have authority. Shh. So. So, yeah. Because you probably wanted to make a difference. I heard you, this cop has no power, no authority, yeah? He can change something. Alafu also teachers back in the day, You know, they were also police officers, right? Exactly Exactly. So, for me, when people said they wanted to become lawyers, Actually, Ningeulizwa, it's just because it didn't have a profession. You know, I just wanted to change the world. Imagine, my child. I know I'm changing, I just wanted to change. the one I wanted to do something big, like just something huge I don't even know, then I thought maybe the best way to innovate something huge, like a grand idea and because I was good In science, I thought, "Let me try science, you know," then my mom was like Ah, Doctor, then I thought about being A doctor—I'll be saving lives; that's huge. So I'm pursuing this medicine thing. I arrived at university. I realized I don't like it. Then I switched to biochemistry. I like biochemistry, but I'm so bored. Because I'm looking at my classmates. They really love it. Being in the lab, I took out. I want to be out there talking to people. That's when I realized, okay, I want to innovate something. I want to change people. But it's not in the lab. So my journey was very interesting. By the time I actually found out, I want to change people's lives. Not just to change the world, but to change people's lives. That means I had to be around people. I had to connect with people. And then I realized I enjoy working with individuals. I wanted to help that person become the best version of themselves. So when I was growing up, I didn't know anything about coaching. I think this coaching came up recently. That's when I was at work that I started to realize. So I can create my own career path, that enables me to fulfill this why, because I have finally found the why. So it takes a great deal of self-reflection. You know people don't like self-reflection. You're just busy on autopilot, You have to take the time to sit with yourself and ask. questions, serious questions Why is it, what, why am I What drives me in doing what I'm doing? Do I have this cause and believe? that I am pursuing that is greater than me Go back to when you were a child. You know, as you're saying you wanted to be a teacher Why did you want to be a teacher, because of children? have, they know, by the way, it's just that When they grow up, they're told you can't do it. that, you can't do this, so all Those cans and limitations are what keeps us low, but inside you in your spiritual being, there is a You already know this is why I'm here So I like children because they'll tell you. And they may not have the right words But when you help them define it They will be able to know And then you can create a path for them To be living in their purpose I love that you've said Do this, do that What our parents used to tell us Do it, do it So sometimes it may not align with your objective. But at times it might It does. Especially if the parent is very Like for me, I really love what my My mom really gave me a pathway. About getting here Thank you. You know, because she was like, yeah, She was like, "What do you want to do?" Then, because she prepares, she creates a platform based on what she knows. I'm sure that at that time she didn't know there was something like coaching. Ange ni, ange ni, peleka yo journey. That's true. So as a parent, you just have to be very intuitive. What is your child saying? Because they know. And then, of course, there is also a path of self-discovery. So they have to try a few things here and there. And there's nothing wrong with that. So that you are able to know, even if you know your why, you still have to know what it is that you will be doing to express your why. And you see what comes with the packaging, the what comes with your skills, your giftings, Your talents, and that must come with self-discovery. It will always draw to it; this is, I'm good at this, you have To actually do something to know, I don't like that; I like this. And so I usually tell people, there are people You've reached a certain age and you think it's too late? No. Your wealth of experience is excellent. You just need to do a bit of analysis and say, By the way, looking at my life, this is what I've identified. I don't like that. I like this. I'm good at this. This is what I am passionate about. And then you kind of create, you know, Then you can conduct an analysis of an organization. You do it to yourself. You analyze yourself. Now you've mentioned feeling frustrated with what you do and its purpose. We are being criticized for the professionalism of our work. It's a matter of life. Like father, like son. When the father is asleep, the child is awake. Anabaswa na kutapia maadamia ya kutapia ya kutapia ya baba. Can this be achieved with this government economy? Hi, Ineza. If you're doing medicine, why did you leave medicine and go into another job? Yeah, it's possible. I've seen it every day. You see, and that's precisely why purpose is so significant. By the way, purpose is the fire that ignites you to make bold changes. Because you ask yourself, you only have one life. Kwanza, you have one life. You don't have a second chance, a do-over of another life. So you just have to choose, Are you going to live a life of purpose or a miserable one? Yoka life, comfortable life You choose If you decide it's a life of purpose So do you make the changes? So most of us are trying to find purpose in our lives. Why Indeed, Indeed, Indeed, Yes, Yes. Therefore, therefore, therefore, therefore, So I think most of us are living that mediocre, comfortable life, yes. because every time we hear of Therefore. Cases like that lady—we're like, hey, Kwanye was already a mess. because it's a bold move Only people do that, yeah, like quitting. This high position, yeah, going to do some Why Indeed, Yes, Yes, Not because of what you want. However, So you're afraid of what people will say. You are afraid of your family. Yes, They'll think you're crazy. Even for me, I had to be like, Hey, you know, my mom spent money. Yes. That mistake I made, I should have known it was a master's move. Yeah, project management. Like, that was a lot of money. And here, they're thinking You'll be this doctor. You know, all of us We're thinking along those lines. And here you are, you're starting a business. Of course, you're starting from scratch. Before you start making money, and That happened, people get scared. to step out, because that's the First of all, starting is the hardest. and people don't want to start over so they'd rather stay with a comfortable life, at least you have a good job, you're getting paid, you have your family, Ukosawa, but I ask you, are you going to, in the next Ten years. You know, I ask people, on your deathbed that's what I'd say, I wish I had a larger promotion I wish I had more money; those are not the questions. you will be saying I I wish I had more impact, I wish I made a difference, I wish I, yeah and so you want to look at your life What kind of legacy do I want to have? and then start asking yourself now what changes do I need to make it bold and just do it, I like people Who would a fatherly figure say? I'm trying. instead of just saying yeah, that you're not going to do it Because you're scared, yeah So now that uh there's that transition, now I have discovered my purpose. And I want to switch because a new one comes up every day The day is coming. Most of us do it for money, I'm no exception. To sustain, I'm able to keep up with my family I am able to provide, but if I make an impact, you don't. feel like every day you're thinking of Monday next week, so now that you've mentioned it in case we choose to transition Of course, their impact, their challenges, yes, some of them might be, yes. because it won't be easy Before I make that bold move, yeah, I usually say create. A transition plan—don't just start Quitting tomorrow, you know, you surely think That purpose is like that, oh, I've left work then that You're so bold, you know, you're telling people now, I'm starting There is no transition plan. It doesn't mean you have to leave work now. And sometimes it may take a year So you have created a plan that after this year, I'm transitioning to this career or I'm starting a business. You can actually start transitioning slowly even as you are. You know, where you are. The first thing I tell people Don't start changing your job immediately. Just because you've clarified your purpose That doesn't mean your job is bad, by the way. Actually, it's perspective, by the way. So because your job is supposed to to be a vehicle for expressing your purpose. so if you find out, for example, that your purpose or you know your mission, this cause or belief is to inspire people to grow and to become the best version of themselves and what you are doing is when You're an accountant and you rarely even interact. With the people in the office, you're just there. with numbers and you're like ah, this thing But you're in an office and there are people. Yeah, start. You know, you can begin to, and you know, you can, I can always tell someone's purpose because it is so deeply within them. They do it maybe in small bits, but it's still there. So you'll find that they might try to encourage people here And there, within their team, there is a way they interact. There is a way; they are the organization's encouragers. Listen here, if he were an accountant, He just likes to encourage and inspire people. That one. So when it clicks that this is my purpose, They give themselves room to express it where they are. Even in accounting, they start doing it and then they can begin, and I've never seen this happen with a lady whose department she transferred to was in operations, she went to HR because she had The conversation with the boss took place, and the boss agreed. because it was so obvious it was live people will go to her and everyone whoever is beneath her will always grow up, you know, the ladder They realize it's true—she's been doing it. It's just that she's been doing it in a very, you know God therefore, just to be found You don't have to uproot your life and everything is so so when you create a transition plan you're so therefore for Able to know, okay, maybe this is my job anyway. God to God So you're saying, okay, which job would work for me? to God And then do I need to go to school? For that, then you know, you ask that question, or maybe you to God. Decide for me—I want to be a businessperson, you like it. For me, I just can't do it nine to five. That is just not I'm not wired that way Nisawa, by the way Does that mean we're all like that? There are people who like 8 to 5. There are people who like 8 to 5. Maybe those people are saying it due to pressure, because everyone says they don't like it to find. There are people who don't mind that structure and are fine with it. But there are those who are simply called to be creators, innovators, pioneers So you decide; I'm not seeing it. myself having been employed for this long. You develop a transition plan for launching a business. And you can start it slowly as you live and as you save. And then, at the same time, what are you doing in the transition plan? You're informing the necessary people, including your family. If you're married, that one has to be a family conversation. or necessary people, or get a coach, someone who's going to help you. You know, having a transition plan makes things easier. I've seen it, and that is one mistake I made. Well, I kind of had a little transition plan. But I think I would have made a better decision. When I was leaving my workplace to find out what I was doing. It would have been smoother. Itulabin Smootha Me, I was like I am pursuing my purpose. But I mean, it took some time. There was some wisdom, but Itulabin better So have a transition plan. Don't just up and leave during this transition during this time that I'm seeing I have one year, I'm working towards it. One year, two years, and I quit Some of the things that can keep you motivated Since it must be extremely difficult to think, I'm going to, Most of us quit, going to start some side hustle. When you're in trouble, hey, just remember, your mother is always there for you. So some of the things to keep us, because I have found my purpose, I have chosen to quit gradually, slowly, But then sometimes she comes back, and I don't know what to do. Yeah, I'll say, yo, when you find your purpose, Clarify it and then write a vision. Reitavision There is something powerful about writing. a vision down and then you keep seeing it because you see vision leaks Start by recalling why you began, why you're on this transition plan Because things are hard, then you tend to forget as you're saying Hey, I just got out, and then I will not be counting on a salary at the end of the month You changed your mind And there are many people who have done that. They've started and then they've gone back. so you want to have a very clear vision that you can keep looking at Speaking to yourself every day that motivates you To Find a community or even one person who encourages you. find Someone who's probably doing it, yeah? Someone who's been there. Perhaps a model or a mentor who is doing what you plan to do. out That's what I did. Even back then, when I was going through that transition, I got a coach. the And when I saw her life, I was like, what? I mean, she will describe what she's doing. Truth. And I'm like, this is possible in this day and age. And I remember the first time I did my own training outside the organization I was working in. And what I was paid was like A quarter of my salary in one go—I was like, is this even possible? So there's no motivation. I wish I were a bird. so when you do small things towards Your transition: either you start that business or you don't. one deal or it gives you the drive for oh this can be done and then being around someone who's doing it Being there, you know, being motivated by them and being encouraged by them So having the right community is important. because if you're with people who are discouraging you from pursuing Your purpose, hey, you won't do it, but if you're around people who are telling You can do it. Your value is greater. there are people out there with You know who actually needs you And your value, you're like, yeah, I'm doing this for people. because you see, purpose is about other people, it's It's not about you; it's something that you're pursuing something bigger than you so that should motivate you, because if I don't step out and do this Then other people aren't going to be transformed, yeah or affected, yeah, and now I think I have I think I have an example—I've seen people quit. Our very own content management platform. When one person dies, another person dies. My God, in these days, God knows what I am going through. The days of the house of man. A person is a person because of other people, just as a person is a person by being a person. Even the greatest of men has his limits. So let's call it using. Oh, Dr. Alituwambia. Give him a drink. But not on socials. So unapata tu, You know what, I'm a doctor. I have all this knowledge, but I am quitting. I am now focusing on content creation. matters, health, Nini. At the anathryve. Excellent. So that's still a doctor. That is still a doctor. It's just that he's influencing in a different way. He's, you know, chosen the best way. You know, and it's probably this realization that came When he was there in the hospital. Because he realized, wait, these people who are coming to me, There's a way I can make an impact in a greater way than merely me treating people. You know, and he also realized there's another side for him there's a passion he wasn't using that's now Passion is a form of content creation. because what you want to do, your purpose, what you do every day has to align with your passion, otherwise what's the point, yeah so you know, so if his passion is He's good at it, as you said he's good at it. Because he has been following this impact, he is good at content. Creation—he loves it; that's a passion. Maybe now he treats people In the hospital it was like This is just a job. I'm good at this, but I don't enjoy it. And you see, even people like my mother, she told me, She ended up becoming an accountant because she's good at it. But she actually told me she doesn't enjoy it. So most of us are in jobs because we are good at them. But we don't enjoy it. So we feel trapped. Because people tell you, but you're good at it. You're good at it. Why are you changing? But you know, I don't love it. So you feel trapped. So you want to find a passion at which you're skilled, and then you'll love it. Now when you do that and that passion is helping you fulfill your purpose, Man, you're now going to live. in what we call the sweet spot, utako kifiltu, my life I'm full, I know you won't have challenges, but even the challenges you will overcome the challenges because of you know clarifying that yeah wow I love that but most Some of us are enjoying our jobs, while others are not. They are enjoying the money. Love the company. But aki. I feel like They know who is to blame And you see when you're in that place of You're not living in your purpose You know what you do You use the things you have to fill the void Which never works so you can even tell people who have the money everything you can tell Wanna overdo, there's something they'll overdo, either overspend to compensate for that feeling the emptiness they are feeling inside which really never goes away, so even the money they what they are making is not useful to them because someone intentionally uses money for a purpose They just don't have money out of nowhere. And then they just overspend on anything. And yes, you can tell someone who's making a lot of money. and uses that money to advance their purpose. Hey, are you doing something that aligns with your purpose? Because most of us, mindasemea watu. Aki, we aren't. I just have to. It's an option. I'm coming. Therefore, by searching, sometimes sometimes sometimes searching searching to search, to search, to search Yeah, I'm planning to quit by this month. The sun rises early, because you're afraid to quit. Hello. You keep postponing, you keep postponing, you don't postpone anymore Then five years later, unashenda ugesema And then you know, those people become bitter. Therefore, therefore, therefore, therefore, therefore rather be safe and then just live with regrets yoni mba ya Regrets are bad. Time has passed. Of course, there is always restoration. but you don't want to live a life where you're wishing I wish, I wish and sometimes I've seen people which is even more difficult I've seen people who step out like there's a gentleman who was telling me how he stepped out to pursue a business and it didn't work out Yeah. And unfortunately, it ended up costing him his family. So you can imagine. So for someone like that, the wounds are already deep. Like, uh, I tried to pursue purpose, and then this happened. And so with someone like that, you always want to look at the journey. And say, you know, failure is a part of the process. And he was able to say, "I see where I lost it." And, you know, I wasn't ready. That's another thing about purpose, baby—we should mention. You know, purpose increases. or thrives based on the person you are becoming Yeah. So he said he wasn't ready for that business. He was proud. He was impatient. So he didn't ask for help. He didn't. So what happened is, yes, You're trying to pursue this cause, but you were not made for it. You know, you're not ready to handle it at that level. Thus, the process was able to teach him so many things. He is still a businessman, but he is now thriving. But he had to endure all of that in order to be able to get there. It doesn't have to cost us that much if you seek help. If you engage in the process and then let the process shape you, Mold yourself, don't just disengage. That's why I tell people, even if you're somewhere frustrated, You haven't lived a bad life. There are lessons that you have received that you can carry to the next stage. If you just take the time to reflect on yourself, take the time to face who you truly are, Take time to say, okay, this is the person I have become. Who do I need to become? To live the life I want. And this touches on the objectives. You set personal goals. Because when you set personal goals. You're putting off things you're supposed to be doing. Because someone else is doing it. Oh, I wake up at 4 a.m. And because they had a millionaire. They wake up at 4 a.m. If I ask you why. You don't even know why they wake up at 4 a.m. But if you know that it's because They are training themselves to become a certain person. Then you can establish rules toward that end. And it answers the question about What do you do in the meantime? As you're transitioning It's about changing your attitude and mindset. That's the most important thing Because if you're being paid You're under someone's control. And you want to be an employer That is a completely different mindset To You can't afford to have an employee mindset. and you want to start a business, so in the meantime, how about Start working on your mindset, start thinking. start looking at your relationships differently Yes. Work on yourself as you transition into the next phase, yeah. and you said this could happen from as from a teenager like you, you can work on yourself all there Yes, you're working on yourself, yes. It never stops, never ends, never ends, you know, growth comes with change if the next you want to go to Another level, you realize you have to change something within yourself, yeah so it never it never changes, and you know if they're young teenagers If they're teenagers watching, I think you're in the In the prime of life. This is the time, you know, before you start taking a course that you didn't want to do, this is the time you can ask yourself those questions, and then dare to create a path and a career That will help you express your purpose most effectively. Yeah, but I feel, I love it, I love that you're asking questions, I love that you're presenting both sides. Yeah. But Pia Wengine wasipeleke, you know there's a problem. For lack of a better word. Like, at you, right now I want to quit because I've found my purpose. And for sure, for sure, you know whatever you're doing. Yeah. Like, you're really annoying me. What did you do, brother? Because you know we might tend to hide Under purpose That I'm going to quit work That I am now following my purpose No, you did that. Yeah, I know that would be such a bad thing to use for you. But I love that you've provided measures You've provided advantages and disadvantages. Because if you're leaving to start a business High turns a profit So we will certainly know if it was intentional. Ama it was Because now you'll face those new challenges Which you must conquer So we'll see. We'll see. As I said, it's important. to say, just because you have this purpose, It won't just work. automatically You must expand your capacity. To pursue the purpose. So me, I see people who are like, me, I want that success. But you want to be the way you are. You're like, yeah, sure, I can. You have to change in order to gain that access. So let's say, you know, you have, Eh, now I have a dream, I have a dream. And I've seen many dreamers. So you have this big dream, but then you don't have to do anything To work on yourself to achieve your dream. There's a lot of work. Purpose requires a great deal of effort. People think purpose is just this automatic magic. It's actually the greater work Because people without a purpose don't have to do many things. For example, as you're saying, if it's a job, you're comfortable with, and maybe you're just getting by. If you do the bare minimum and you're still being paid, Why would you work on yourself? So you're comfortable. But purpose, you have to work on yourself. You are the one, you are the one who expresses. So that one takes responsibility, greater demand, And very few people attempt to walk that journey. Yeah. And also people don't like to. People don't want to feel uncomfortable. When I was tired. Why I had the full purpose, and I was just the same all this time. Okay, thank you, Wajogo. Perhaps just one final piece of advice. When we are ending the conversation. To someone who is now, Indeed. a vision board They realized his purpose. a kind of motivation, like akona, all these things around but Kuna, there's just something, yeah, that is Maybe, maybe something is lacking, maybe a word of encouragement. Because it's not easy, no, it's not. Easy, yes, it's not a tip or an encouragement. But it's worth it, yeah. A tip I'll say: start small. Start now, start where you are. I think people get You know, um, what's the word? you get anxious because you just think you have You should know that you have to start somewhere. You know, maybe someone is watching and admires you. and then they're like me missing a studio Coming, you know, you then you put yourself, you have to have this so that you can start I don't have that, I mean everyone great started Somewhere you know they started somewhere, and so You want to start asking yourself where am I Where am I? What do I have? Start there. Start small. Start now. Start where you are. Start. With what you have, take it to Moja and then start building. slowly, because I think the reason people get stuck It's because they have yes this big dream But then they think they have to start with a big bang, yeah. So you have the big dream, have you? The big vision, but start small and enjoy the process of beginning, don't look at people will laugh at you, I like to follow content creators And there are some whose journeys I usually just witness. From the first one, they did it; they didn't even have lighting. but we did it and the creativity was There and then they just started growing. With excellence, I like that. That's, I think, that is. should be celebrated because most people that we see out there, maybe they do have the resources and it's fine, maybe you're at a place Where you do have the resources, great. but if you don't have all the resources, start where you are Start small, start now, and then keep building. and remember to be around a community even if it's listening to a podcast, watching this show, being around people Who is encouraging you? because what you hear is what you're going to believe and it's what's going to drive you That's it—that's my encouragement, I love it, thank you. You yeah, I love it, thank you so much, guys, thank you Thanks for watching. Wow, that was deep. that's encouragement that has spoken even Personally, yes, but thank you. So much appreciation, thank you for coming, thank you for your sharing. Sharing your knowledge with us. We truly appreciate. You're very welcome. Apo for vision board Because that's an entirely new field Yes, that's a whole new area. Building your vision—that's something new Unesa clarify purpose, but you need a plan. To actually carry it out Don't confuse the purpose of the journey. Akin, because I'm afraid people might I'm sorry, but I cannot assist with that request. We will know, the thing about purpose is tutajua, Know whether it is there or not. And if people love you in your life, watako ambia yeah right. But you know what's funny about purpose—people can tell by themselves. they can tell you have it so when you go and start telling the right people we've been waiting for you You know, we're there, we're rooting for you. that is, if you have the right people in your Corner, yeah, because some of us have really weird friends. so if you have the right people, they can Tell them it's true, I can see it, it's true, go For that, it's true, yes, thank you so much. Awesome, thank you so much to our viewers. Please leave A comment, please, in case you wish to get in touch I'll show you the game if you want me to. My life, my father Like life coaching tips Her number is down here You can feel free to reach out, Saidika. Like it doesn't hurt, you said it Imagine you there at the deathbed Ukisama manze, achini tunipumzike Yes, I have lived my life to the fullest. Like with impact, with purpose So, guys, that's it from us this week Looking forward to seeing you next week. Same place, same time Bye