What You Might Have Missed! Cele’s Reflections Recap

Motherhood made me softer in a bad way, Kitambo I was very emotionally intense, I think it happens to majority will not be able to endure the burden, the burden, the burden, once you become A mama you become, well, not in a bad way way but a little softer you emotionally because now you're like oh my god kunakaleka Element Kana Kuingianga Unajipata Uko Na Uoye Uoye Sana And I think that's why it's easy to scam women. I am sitting on the other side of the river, my friend. You are my love, you are my life, you are you Ocha ni kutumie, unamtumia, kumbe ni skama Ocha is used, you use it, but it's actually a scam Mason, mafiti, manze are mine, even manze are mine, miss, Welcome to Celeste Reflection; today I am the guest. I'm missing you, so much, so much, so much. So today it's just me and you in the studio. Of course, we're recapping the last few episodes we've been doing. If we stay on track, or if we find a place where we can meet, But if there's a place you'd like to dive deeper into, Hey, if there's something you'd love me to talk about, just let me know. That's why we're holding this recap session today. Mm, that's a lot, let me start with the last episode where I had a guest here. The last episode in which I had a guest here was Wakili. And to me, that was a very enlightening episode. Most of us stumble, we only stumble due to mistakes. Whether it's copyright infringement or a mistake due to the plot, or perhaps a mistake in... Shamba, it's only your own fault and your own negligence. Miju, you know there You didn't know that by doing this, you are doing wrong. Unawana So having wakili here I learned so much Like Wakili was such an That episode was such an enlightening episode. Because we have to learn Mambo ya copyright infringement Mambo ya IP Here are the drums of the people there. I fell in love The feedback on TikTok was Everyone was like, "Wakilika temanzi, asanti sana," and I didn't know. From now on When the shida was pulled back then, the arrow definitely flew. Back then, I didn't know you had posted my handbag In the forest, I'm doing wrong. Now I know better. So, if you watch that episode, you'll see what happens. I feel like I'm doing something wrong. At first, unge feel. But now, you see, because of that incident, ya wakili. And there's a comment that said, We bring Wakili back to talk about trademarks and watermarks. I think something like that as well. You will be punished as you deserve. About him, he was very interesting. I was feeling it. As a representative. You feel like okay too. Like inakai inakai. Nika is not good at general knowledge. But if you don't know, it's general knowledge. But Wakili felt like a very good teacher. Even though you said it's small, it's still a big deal for me. I know, I was teaching you until you fully understood completely. So please, guide us there If you haven't watched that episode, please watch it. Especially if you're a content creator, if you're a business owner If you're a brand, you know, just like other brands have made mistakes So in case you just need to know where I should step and where I should not step Please watch that. Copyright episode with Wakili. Then the other episodes we've done were, we've done motherhood. Yeah, I've done two episodes about motherhood. One I did with Mama Steph, which was, of course, Whenever I'm with Mama Steph, it's always a blast. As we discussed, yes, I talk about my journey of motherhood as a teenager. Now she has a teenager. Like a whole, yeah, yeah, almost, almost, almost, almost a preteen, if not a teenager. Then the guys were like, okay, we relate to it, we relate to it. I love topics about motherhood because most of you people, Most of the people who watch this channel are women, 60% women. So, unajua, if you're not a mom, you're an aunt, ama you're a soon-to-be mom, ama, you're a mom, one who already has big children. So, every time we talk about motherhood, The engagement always continues. Like on a high, I'm hanging here at the peak, peak, peak. So for sure, a lot of motherhood content will continue on bringing a lot of motherhood content to this channel. Motherhood is always a victory. Aha, I've got a few comments that people have written about motherhood. Haa. Someone said, "Let me get it." So it was a Mother's Day episode. Where we sat down with Judy and we were sharing our real stories, real experiences So someone said, I almost cried. When Cele said the mother was raising special kids Wow, I'm not even a mom, but I feel that's so deep. I mean, everyone knows their own. And it's always Stakangi nionge from, okay, I can share my story But also, sometimes it's good to acknowledge that there are people Why With different stories, and if you know, like, where we are you currently aware of someone raising a child with special needs, However, Ama, do you know of an aunt, Ama, do you have a relative, Yeah, like, how hard it is, it's difficult. with If at all, sisitunamema, oh, it's hard, it's hard, and the kids are, you know, they're fine, like, Yes. Just the usual problems, so you can imagine. So, I said that, hugs to all those moms, Yeah, you know, just to acknowledge. For them, it might be difficult. It's actually tough. Then Mwingine said, I'm an absent mom. Ummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm Oh, this one was the episode about how to balance motherhood, career, where I had Carol. Yeah, I had a guest. So, I'm an absent mom, a working mom, Who is intentionally working and planning to take a break? and being present for her seven-year-old son. I needed this video. I remember saying sometimes, like, I'm sorry, but I can't assist with that request. because I need the work I need the job to be able to support raising my children. But sometimes, lazima tu, ukuyo intentional. Like, okay, today I'm not going to work, What can I do with my child? Where can we go? What can we cook? What can we do to spend time together? I cover up for Dhile Dizi na Kuanga out. And about Motherhood made me softer. In a bad way Before I was emotionally very strong I think it happens to me too. Majority Unajipatanga I am tired, tired, tired Once you become a mama You become Well, not in a bad way. But a little softer Oh yeah, emotionally Cause now you're like Oh my God At the end of the road You are such a stubborn person that I can't even get through to you. And that's why it's easy to scam women. Because the firewood is already dry and ready to burn. Come on, eat, come on, let's eat, come on, come on. Use it as you wish. Kumbe is a clearer. So I understand when someone says it made you weaker. But not in a bad way—I think it's in a good way. Well, I don't know what she meant in a bad way. Mambo I laughed when you talked about dads. Okay, okay, okay, okay, okay, okay. Someone was watching the two-week deal. I love everything. Congratulations. By now, I'm sure you've arrived. That was like four months ago. So congratulations on your new bundle of joy. I hope you're loving the motherhood glow. It's just a face, like it's a face, and you will embrace it. like embrace it because the challenges are there, but you will love it. Today walk, yesterday crawl, tomorrow run. That is, until the first day of the month when you all sit to stare. Hey, hey, stop filming, please. And by the way, please record those videos. Record those small moments. I know, sometimes it feels like, oh, najeza simu, oh, na. Zirekod, do you see, the hand that was raised had already fallen, He was about to arrive here. He will not be able to escape his fate, even if he tries. So it's good to have those moments. They are attacking the village, hurry up. My mother was already waiting here. Hello, friend. Hey, this is you, and you're acting like this. Remember to tie your hair up, I want to walk without a stick, yes, without a stick. So it's good to keep those records. The flower has bloomed. We also did an episode on emotional healing. Yes, emotional healing. How to break free and truly heal. We had a coach on set, on the studio floor. Haka helped, Haka's amazing, and guys left so many nice comments. Her name was Carol. Thank you, Carol, for sharing all the insightful information. I hope we can get more on this topic. Emotional healing, unajua, most of us, what do we call it? We bury our emotions. We bury them, as if we don't, tunazipile, tunazipile, tunazipile. And unless you actually start looking at it, You won't even know why you're doing it. Like you'll be like, why did I do it? Why am I acting like this? Why did I do that? You've been burying, you've been burying all your emotions. You've been burying and burying all your emotions. So one day you'll just blow up. And you won't know why you're doing it because you haven't been healing. You haven't been dealing with your emotions. And that is why Carol was here. Even as a small emotion, like I feel you. Learn, like, why, why am I feeling it? I know this is about self-awareness, why am I doing this? Why do I keep doing this? Is it crude self-awareness? Understand, analyze, judge—when I do this, I'm about to do this, you know? Just getting to learn more about yourself. So if you didn't watch that episode, sometimes the reason why you're doing something in a certain way, because you haven't dealt with it in a certain manner. Some of those emotions You know So watch that episode, ya Carol At least try and see if there's something you can do. Start doing Something you can add They helped me I don't know that man at all. I understand what you mean I understand you. Someone else is Njeri Njeri said I wonder if she can come back Why our brain Ili block memories Especially from childhood I think that's a good topic. I think that's a good one. I think I'll find it, I'll find it indeed. Even I, Ah, Njeri, I think. A kisema hivu ni kama, Njeri, I think, Okay, I think, okay, I don't know, but yeah. Anasema caused even me to have completely blurry things when my husband talks about his, and I can relate to that, when someone less experienced is talking about their own experiences, Analyze step by step. When it comes to Celestine, I keep trying to remember. We tried to remember the name On the side, I'm just doing guys I'm trying to think When people say "ati yo" My dad used to come. They used to bring Okay, Nazi's name was Kuwa boarding I know you're that one I want to remember the boarding passes Vizuri in detail Bado Hazikuji That's a good topic, Njeri. One of a kind I think we're looking for Caro. And talk about your Block brain. Why? Why does it choose to block some things and not others? If you don't ask about Christmas. Remember Christmas with a joyful heart. Remember Christmas with a joyful heart. But what else should I remember? Like I remember the good and it has blocked the bad. That's a very good topic. Then we also had... motherhood and friendship A child is a miracle regarding motherhood topics on motherhood and friendship where I talked about how we need to Extend some grace. to both the mother and the friend who is not a mother in this case There are many young people there. if there's anyone who said After I became a mom I lost all my friends and we were saying it's okay It happens. Well, there's a change You, you've become a mom. So a lot of your time is going to be spent Doing the motherhood stuff like raising your baby, Taking care of your baby, taking care of yourself. On the other hand, if the man had not been a good man, Badu is tired, Badu is tired of life as usual. So how do we expect life to be perfect just because I've become a mom? No. Everyone's life will continue, mine will continue too, as long as there's a chance. I'll wait for you, and I'll keep calling you every day, so it's okay, So we were saying it's okay; let's extend grace to each and every one. Keep up with your tasks, meet your job deadlines, I've reported on doing, I've attended meetings, I've done the bash, nothing stopping your friend, you, on the other hand, are on maternity leave, so you have time to stay at home, you have this baby that needs a lot of your time so even replying to those Helpers WhatsApp messages, let alone having time to go out You know, after life, it can't be the same at a party. And it is a fact that life cannot be the same. because there's this little one who has come So it's okay, it's just a feast, that's all. It's fine, I mean, it's okay to move forward, just like moving forward side by side. Life happens, life happens. So, you're very tired. Mwende Mutuko said, and imagine it's okay. And imagine it's okay to gracefully navigate through different stages of life. You make new friends and lose old ones. And women should never feel bad about being sidelined, imagine. Kids grow up so fast; they come and go. Pray for friends who build you up and help you walk through the journey. God will surely come through. I love that. Mwende Mutuko, thank you so much. S, I can't listen to this as I grieve the loss of a friendship. This is so timely. After the surgery, S. Ehm... Not me losing, Purity says, not me losing friends since 2020, Since I became a mom of twins. This is a nice topic. Thank you, Purity. To My only friend since I became a mother is my mom. I've never had a concrete relationship. However, that's been lasting since motherhood started. It's okay, it's a new face, it's a new world. And I think why your mother will always with Be there, ni jupia, anajua she's a mom, she's your mom. Yes. It's like they say, family, of course—family will always be there. So Mom, if you don't wake up soon, today the child will drink the test. Tomorrow, I will go there, tomorrow I will come and meet you, go, sleep. Family will always be there. So it's okay, thank you, God, you have that mom, you know, I mean. Another one said, hi Celestine, Can you talk about friends who feel bad about you to another friend? People who find it difficult to make friends. So when they get one, they don't want to see you with anyone else. Ruth Mwangi, let's try, let's try, let's try. It's also a face I feel. yeah Yeah, but... It's okay. Sawa. Tell me your heart, oh, I, I. Like how it turned out in that scenario. My pregnant sister, she gave birth to this child. My bad luck in life continues to go well. Sasa ni, ni, ni, kaipia, mi nika niko maternity, it's not fair. Usimu, it's not fair. Let him continue with his life. Alafu, na uyo mungina, hamesema, they will grow. Kids come, grow. In three years, they'll be in school. Now you have all the time. So it's either you embrace your true season or embrace your face. Know that it's just for a short while and motherhood is very nice. So, we, the ones who have endured, finally see the fruits of my labor, the fruits of my time, I'm glad I took the time to nurture, to mold, to shape this little one into who they are. Yeah. So, perhaps moving forward, of course, a lot of motherhood content, a lot of mental health. There was a mental health episode we did with that guy. that came for Men's Mental Health Month. A few days ago, I think last week, a few days ago, You're welcome, thank you so much, Sele. We have someone who actually paid for na anaindanga therapy. Like, I told you, it's just that one, I will keep having mental health episodes because of that one person. Like that one person, he was just there, and then he disappeared. Like Akajitolea, Aendange held sessions. It means there is something he or she aliona kwa hiyo episode. In a way, well, I think I need to do something. Like, aka watch, aka analyze, aka wait, No, I need to get in touch with this person. Aka reach out, aka enroll, na sasa naendanga sessions. I think he was a preacher, a prophet. I was in the middle sessions, the third one. For that one person, for that person, For you, the one who is always watching, Sele's reflection, Unawalai Sele, I created awareness about mental health. When was the episode that made Sele's name? Maybe I didn't exactly know what to do or where to start. Now I know what to do, I know what to call, I know where to start. Because of you, I will keep on bringing episodes. I'll keep looking for guests. Of course if you're a guest And if you want to get in touch, the email is this one. [email protected] just like It feels fulfilling. I swear like sick of it sickly you're ingine If you are tired Your feedback is welcome. akisele Now I have a baby. akisele Now I'm going to therapy. akisele Thank you so much. I thought I was your one feedback Yes, guys. So, tell me what you'd like us to talk about. Give me your feedback. Hata we monye niambie. So far, have the Izō episodes ended? Do you feel like we're straying off course? Do you feel like we're staying on track? Do you feel like we're moving toward something? Do you feel like it's, you know, is it, is it? Of course, naonanga comments, zenu, it's great, nini, nini, nini. But just give me your feedback, even if it's from you. Tell me what you should focus on more, more, more. Yeah. And with that, guys. That's my recap. I know. That's it from me. I am happy. I am always happy to be here on this chair. I add as I feel Msele's reflection. I am always happy to spend time with you all. As long as it helps that one person. I saw one episode. Next episode, one more. Speak through one representative. You know. Little by little. A group. Little by little. You meet someone out there, na kambia selea santi because of this, this, and this. It feels so good, guys. So tell me. In the description box. Follow me on Instagram. I will send the country DM. Tell me about DM. Just reach out. Tell me what you would love for us to talk about. And with that, guys. See you next week. For our next episode. It's a goodbye. From Mama Tugi, also known as Celestine. Goodbye.