The Narcissist’s Facebook Page #npd #narcissist #facebook #triangulation #domesticviolence #swb

Good morning, everybody. Spiritual Whistleblower here. Happy Saturday. I'm in the airport. Yeah, I have a little layover, but I'm en route to Aruba, the beautiful islands of Aruba. And I am in desperate need of a vacation. I know I was in Mexico two months ago, but I worked so hard. and I said this year 2021 I was going to go back to back and just treat myself on multiple vacations so this for the next week I will be away in Aruba and I can't wait um so while I'm I'm in Florida right now i have a layover in florida and then um we board the flight in an hour to aruba um so i said let me knock out a video um and i'm treating this video to everybody youtube instagram and patreon across the board because i know as of recently you guys have been seeing me you know you know drive my membership up on patreon and i'm i haven't been doing much posting on instagram or youtube so for exclusive photos from my vacation this week i will be posting um on my patreon you guys can click the link to join my patreon it's only five dollars for a monthly subscription for exclusive videos and content on narcissistic abuse again i will be kicking off my national tour in june i'm throwing a big party at a private lounge downtown atlanta that's friday june 11th also in june i'll be in tennessee charlotte north carolina greenville south carolina charleston south carolina memphis tennessee orlando miami okay that's june um what else i got going on um i'll save that for later i got a bunch of stuff I'm always working on multiple projects I'd rather of just surprise y'all so let's get into this video guys again to join my Patreon which is only five dollars a month you can that's a McDonald's Happy Meal guys that's a gallon of milk five dollars a month you can join my Patreon I get my membership up to a thousand members I can start going live from Patreon which I really would love to do I don't want to go live here on Instagram anymore or YouTube okay Patreon is where it's at I really love it all right so I want to talk about the narcissist um the narcissist Facebook because I you know I coach a lot of people on a weekly basis and this is a very common thing and I want y'all to stop I really want y'all to stop I know it's very tempting to lurk and stalk um your ex's Facebook page but I'm gonna tell you why it's a trap and it will prolong your healing process got my bagel during your stay we hope you play some golf or tennis or enjoy a bike ride or our award-winning parks and beaches our waterways offer an array of activities in Florida fishing snorkeling or scuba diving there are plenty of restaurants and shops to suit every taste la la la la well while he's talking I'm available for phone coaching 15 minute 30 minute and one hour coaching just um you can go to my website and book me at iloveswb.com or you can email me directly at [email protected] seriously why is this announcement this long y'all experience and public safety we have enhanced the cleaning and sanitation of all public areas as you know covid 19 also known as the coronavirus they run this announcement like every 15 minutes i swear um okay for your protection for your protection well while he's talking look at my my sweatshirt dmx today is dmx uh today is the public memorial and tomorrow Sunday is the funeral and so happens that my vacation conflicts with that but I will be watching the live stream and trying not to get emotional because I know it's going to be a beautiful event rest in peace DMX this is a limited hoodie that you're not going to see around I'm gonna protect it because I want nobody trying to steal it and on the back of the hoodie is the X. Maybe I'll take some pictures in it when I get to Aruba. Alright, let's talk about the narcissist Facebook. Y'all got to stay the **** up off your ex's Facebook. When you're dealing with a narcissist, everything about them is fake. They still... Please, you're going to Chicago on the 5478 with your allies. This is your final call for boarding. Please make your way immediately to the gate gate G14 final call for Chicago which is 478 at the gate G14 when you um the narcissist is constantly in competition a narcissist the narcissist was in competition with you from day one when they were targeting you you got to understand this they don't do relationships they do competitions okay the narcissist is a predator he was targeting you and and you didn't even know it when he said hello to you he already had in his mind you was going to be his next victim and he he saw you in this great light you're you're smart you're bubbly you have a beautiful spirit a good job you have all these great qualities and great things going on in your life and the narcissist job was to target you getting good that's why they love bomb they got to get in good with you but once you're secure and you you've fallen in love and you think it's love it's not love it's lust you've fallen in love now they can stop love bombing you and halt pump the brakes this is called reinforced intermittent i've taught y'all that i maybe i'll do a separate video on this they're they have begun the process of breaking you down psychologically so now the love bombing stops because now they know you're not going anywhere you've fallen deep in love with this fake relationship they've created now they can proceed to chip away at your self-esteem at your confidence and because they're envious everything that God has blessed you with naturally they hate they hate it they're never gonna tell you that but but that's what this is so they're competing ladies this is why ladies ladies this is why a lot of you are like why does it seem like the man i'm in a relationship with is competing with me why does he go silent sometimes why does he you know when i get a pay raise or i have some good news and i want to share it with him he gets an attitude sis because he's in competition that is the demon inside of him that is the disorder narcissists are envious of successful people no matter what sex you are yes in his mind he hates you he hates that you're blessed with everything naturally so the entire relationship in his mind it's a competition to pull you down it is a competition this is why they have to pull you down okay you were targeted so that he can destroy you and control you before he destroys you he's got to get in and control your finances. He wants your money. He wants to use your car. He wants all your connections, all your resources. Then he's going to break you down to nothing. You're going to stop feeling beautiful. You're going to stop dressing nice. You're not, you know, you're not even going to recognize yourself. That is because the narcissist is breaking you down behind closed doors, pulling you away from your social life, isolating you from friends and family. He is doing a number on you and then when you bring up any concerns you know then you're then he's going to call you crazy he's going to have you second guessing your own intuition so it is it is a competition it is it is a race to chop you down and bring you down not even on his level beneath his level so that he can feel superior over you you're not in a relationship you're in a competition and you don't even know it so when you break up when you learn that this horrible person that faked the entire relationship when you were you when you realize it was a fake relationship from day one and he was cheating on you had multiple people that you didn't know of you know you find all this stuff out after the breakup he knows you want nothing to do with him he knows you're trying to move on. What is the next best thing he can do? Here come the flying monkeys. Here come the family and friends spying on your social media. He's going to lie to his inner circle of friends and family, smear you, make you the villain, lie, everything. It's okay. Ignore it. Block. Move on. Don't look at it. Block everybody. Block his family. Block the mutual friends. Who cares about the gossip let him say whatever now if this new person that he he's with in the really he you know they rebound in their relationship because they overlap their relationships they never take any breathing time in between their relationships to self-reflect and heal and get themselves together they jump right into their next relationships they rebound immediately and they take all the problems they have with you and they dump it on this new person so now they're talking about you whether they're bad-mouthing you or not to this new person this new person's curiosity is going to be up okay wondering about you so that is triangulation so the narcissist if the new supply the new person is toxic he will have this new person stalking your social media as well so now you have two people stalking you now to get to the subject of this video narcissists play games they play mental games with their Facebook pages is their social media and I'm sick of you guys getting caught up in that ----, you should, I know it's tempting, you should not want to be on that, there's their Facebook, everything about them is a lie, they faked the entire relationship and you think because they've moved on with somebody new that their character has changed magically overnight they haven't changed, this is their character, especially if this individual is in their 30s and 40s, this, this ---- is embedded in their their DNA. They're not going to change. All they do is change victims. Y'all got to understand that that what they do after the relationship has ended, they will now move on to use their Facebook and social media to paint a fake picture, a fake facade of how life is now without you in it. And they're also going to be mirroring. they're watching your social media and they're going to hold a mirror up to your social media and they're still in competition. I told y'all they were in competition during the relationship that doesn't stop after things have ended, once you break up and you're trying to move on the competition is still going on in the narcissist's head so they will use their Facebook page to one-up you, they're hoping you're reading their posts the new supply is posting things hoping you see it and your ex is using this new person hoping you see, you know, whatever, whatever they if they're on vacation if they're they're getting married, whatever, but all of it is fake, all of its a facade I need y'all to stop falling for it, these types of people do not change, and the type of change that that's needed is it takes years and years of intensive therapy, and you know the narcissist is not willing to go to therapy to fix ---- because in their minds, nothing is wrong with them, stay off their Facebook page please and go heal