Never Ever Give the Abusive Narcissist a Second Chance to Destroy You All Over Again #narcissist

Hey guys, I'm Spiritual Whistleblower here with another video. Before I get into it super fast, because I know y'all want to get to the video fast. Next month, June, I'm kicking off my national tour. I will be visiting different cities around the nation. Next month, June, I'll be in Charlotte, North Carolina, Greenville, South Carolina, Charleston, South Carolina, Atlanta, Georgia, which is a big party Friday, June 11th, Memphis, Tennessee, Orlando, and Miami, Florida. Okay, that's all in June if you want to attend I advise you to email me because the seats are filling up quickly I will be debuting my card game at these meetups um you will get to play the game as a group if you come out to uh my meetups live podcast taping okay I have a new podcast launching called Penis Problems and of course I will be signing books taking pictures all of that you don't want to miss it my Atlanta Georgia that's going to be the big party Friday June 11th I got a DJ hookah lounge food a bar beautiful lounge downtown Atlanta so again you guys hit me up Chanel Jasmine at gmail.com to participate okay I look forward to meeting you guys next month now let's get to the video uh I want to talk about leveling up after an abusive relationship um what is required and why it is necessary to stay looking forward and not going backwards okay I want you to remember that you're somebody special you were never intended to be abused used mistreated broken um bruised battered god didn't put you here on earth to be mistreated by anybody and when you have an experience with a narcissist it doesn't just end with them cheating and mistreating you during the relationship it actually gets worse once you break up with them because once you break up with them they continue to taunt you they continue to stalk and harass they continue to tell people the community all your mutual friends all you know their inner circle they vilify you they make you the bad guy they tell everybody you're the cheater you're the abuser they do incredible extensive damage to your reputation and they know the whole time they were the abuser in the relationship so see the damage doesn't just happen within the relationship it continues after you've broken up and you're trying to move on they're still abusing you it's it's a ******* terrible uh that's why i say these doctors if they want to label this a personality disorder whatever at the end of the day let's call this for what it really is it is spiritual assassination a narcissist sociopath psychopath they are really demonic entities trapped inside human flesh okay their minds are possessed by satan because what they do to people they their whole job is to take a very strong self-sufficient independent person and completely destroy them and break them down to nothing before treating them like trash and moving on so they're taking your money they're using your car picking up their side chicks using your money for all their addictions to buy drugs gambling porn um you know take other people out on dates behind your back you end up paying the bills in the beginning i thought we were going to do this together but somehow the narcissist tricked you into paying all the bills and being the responsible one while they run the streets and do what they do behind your back or while they're having lunch with one of their co-workers that they're sleeping with or you know they have two phones you think they have one phone they secretly have two phones so they they're taking money for you to pay both of the phone bills you know it's just trifling things like that so yes you're being abused and mistreated during the relationship but if you break up that's when things heighten and get worse even if the narcissist disappears he's plotting to pop back up he's plotting to hoover you and and pull you back in that love triangle with his other lover that's all abuse you understand I coach hundreds of thousands of people every year and the amount of damage that this causes somebody. I've already talked about financial damage, people having messed up credit after leaving a narcissist, people having to, you know, repair their car because the narcissist has destroyed their car out of being vindictive, trying to cripple their victim and prevent them from moving on. Financial damage, calling your job and trying to get you fired. Yeah, it's real. They try to **** up your finances when they know you want nothing else. When you're trying to move on because you found out they were cheating, now it becomes an effort to destroy your life totally. Cripple you out, **** your finances up, destroy your credit. And to take it a step further, I've heard stories of them destroying property. You know, breaking into people's homes. They break into their victim's house. They might vandalize the house, punch holes in the wall. I've heard so many stories. They are destructive. they don't want you to advance and move on and do better they want you to stay stuck where they left you so that's the financial damage now we're going to talk emotional and psychological how this has you going to see a therapist how it has you in a deep state of depression how it leaves you lethargic and you're stuck in the bed and you can't even you don't even have enough energy to get up and go to work you're laying there staring at the wall lifeless lethargic um the depression is real the ptsd is real the trauma that this one individual has inflicted is very real because once you break up and they're out here throwing dirt on your name and they know they used and abused you but they still doing damage after the relationship so that they are inflicting more emotional pain on you after the relationship has ended which is a contributing factor to you know all the psychological issues that you are currently experiencing having a nervous breakdown being suicidal lethargic you know autoimmune disease you know which leads to which is a great segue into the physical problems that develop from leaving a narcissist ladies if you're pregnant he gets you pregnant what he's going to do is he's going to say i need you to get an abortion and the only reason he's telling you to get an abortion is because he secretly wants you to beg him to keep the baby because see when when you keep the baby he's secretly happy inside because now he has locked you down and trapped you so that he can further abuse you for the next 18 years through the child he doesn't care about the child the child is just there to lock you down the child is the pawn piece so that he can keep coming in out of your life and getting sex money and everything he needs that's what he's thinking in his mind that's why they all abandon their victims once they get them get the victim pregnant they disappear they run off with the new the new woman they're running off with the new lover while they leave you pregnant and abandoned but they'll have their family watching the victim keeping close tabs on the victim his trifling sister that sister-in-law and mother-in-law they're going to be watching you they're going to be stalking your facebook they're going to be staying in touch with you to keep tabs on you and if you're telling the mother and sister-in-law on the phone that you are depressed while you're pregnant they're going to get off the phone and they're going to go back and tell him and they're all going to be secretly happy that not only you are depressed but your unborn child is picking up all that stress This is why we see a pattern of autism in children. We see behavioral problems. We see ADHD. All types of mental and developmental issues happen to small children because their mothers were treated like ---- during their pregnancy. And if the mother is stressed out during pregnancy, that stress will go translate more abuse to her unborn child. Autism, low birth weight, children being born with underdeveloped hearts, heart problems, children being, you know, born, still born. I've heard stories where the child died at labor. A lot of women miscarry. Narcissistic abuse fucks the body up. So that's pregnancy. Now let's talk about people that don't have a baby. Okay, you just broke up with him. You don't have a child with him. What does narc abuse do to your body? Well, fibroids. Ladies, how many of y'all have had fibroid problems? Ovarian cancer? How many of y'all have had to get a hysterectomy? Okay, how many STDs did he give you? How many times did you catch bacterial vaginosis? because he was sleeping with multiple people and bringing all the nasty bacteria from all his partners and putting it up pushing it up in your vagina okay um heart attack stroke high blood pressure hair loss ulcers i had stomach ulcers um problems going to the bathroom stomach problems all types of gastric problems um headaches migraines um thyroid problems um there's a very long list narcissistic abuse destroys you mentally emotionally psychologically physically and financially so you cannot tell me that this is not an assignment they were given an assignment by satan to target you and **** your life up this is the work of the devil so this is why it's so critical when you break up from this type of person if you gotta call the police a hundred times you cannot let them back in your life because in their eyes if they didn't finish you off the first time they're coming back around a second and third time to finish the job they're either going to push you to be suicidal nervous breakdown or or they're going to you know your body's going to develop cancer or something they're going to kill you one way or the other because again they're on assignment by satan to destroy you so it's critical i know you love them at one point I know you missed the relationship even though they did you dirty I know you missed them but if you go back be a matter of life and death you can't play with it um when you level up and you're single and you see that they've already jumped in multiple relationships after the breakup because they're codependent and they're scared of being alone and abandoned but you're over here doing the work as a single person you fixed your credits you got a good job you're making more money now you're traveling you're getting back to yourself you're going to therapy you're healing stay there don't ever go back to what the devil intended to destroy you and break you the devil hates you because god placed an anointing on your life do you know how much damage if you run back to that relationship you know how far you're going to set yourself back so you'll understand that you never needed this person you're you're actually doing better alone you're actually making more money being successful um spiritually you're you know you're getting your life back now that this disgusting human being has been removed from your life do not go backwards do not they go backwards that's why they sleep with all their old victims 10 20 30 years ago they gotta go backwards and that's why they never advance forward The only way that you can advance forward is to stay focused on what God has intended for you and don't you ever give that up ever again. Don't jeopardize your life and your blessings for nobody. The narcissist will never level up. You will. Y'all have a blessed day.