Ladies, Plan Your Divorce/ Breakup in Silence or Die #npd #narcissist #domesticviolence #stalking

Good morning, everybody. Spiritual Whistleblower here live from Chicago. Man, the weather is beautiful this morning. I know I look a hot mess, but I'm out getting my morning exercise and taking It's so beautiful downtown here. I'm by the Loop and it's like New York City, just clean and without the craziness, I guess. But downtown Chicago is just so lovely and the weather is nice right now. I look forward to seeing everybody Saturday. We got a full house, guys. I'm so happy that my turnout, I mean, the love in Chicago is just amazing. So it's going to be a packed house on Saturday, which is two days away. Got to get ready, guys. But I'll see all my Chicago people. Y'all got the location and everything. If you're coming by Uber, that's good. It's off-street parking, so get there early to look for some parking. What else? Detroit I will see you on Sunday so Detroit is almost sold out y'all better stop stop playing Detroit get your tickets now um then next week I will be in Jamaica I'm going on vacation to the islands I can't wait um I will have a support group in Jamaica on the 23rd and then next weekend is St. Louis and Kansas City and the following weekend is Cleveland and then October I will be starting my birthday tour uh in the dirty south busy and i am taking calls on the road if you need some phone coaching email me at chanel jasmine at gmail.com to set up your appointment let's get into this video as i'm fed the **** up ladies let me holler at y'all this video is for my ladies i'm sorry fellas i got you on another day but today i gotta rap to my women especially my black women is this is going out for all my women but i want to put emphasis on the black women because we are the most disrespected we are the most abused most disrespected they mock us, they copy us and they hate us at the same time they hate us because you know what they hate they ******* mamas, they hate the pussy they that that pushed them out into this world but they mamas train them to stay attached to them that toxic codependent love hate nasty relationship they have so because they hate they mamas they got to take that anger and resentment out on somebody so they get into relationships with us the black woman and we get tormented and punished i want to say rest in peace Shanice Young if y'all don't know the very sad story a few days ago a pregnant woman i think she was eight months nine months full term just came from a beautiful baby shower her family threw for her her and her boyfriend they were unloading the gifts from the baby shower she was they she was home in in her apartment and they were unloading all the gifts into her apartment her ex-boyfriend in a jealous rage he from my understanding he went after the boyfriend he chased both of them through the building and his goal was to shoot the boyfriend but because the boyfriend ran off he was too fast and of course she's being eight months nine months pregnant she's at full term she probably was out of breath running and carrying you you know, the weight of the baby. Because he could not get to the boyfriend, he chased her down and shot her in the ******* head. The baby, the unborn baby did not survive. This is a very sad story. I went on a, I was venting about it because what triggered me, I called out two community activists. I called out Tamika Mallory and I called out Myson Both of them are from New York what irritated me is that Myson uh posted the video or he spoke on it or something i get tired of watching them post videos of women children being disrespected beat on mistreated but they're not actually doing anything it's like they're getting uh clout just off the controversy just by having a discussion they'll tell people what we need to do and black people need to do this and you can do that but but no one is doing anything to stop the abuse against women and i would think that a community activist who constantly uses their platform to call out trifling ---- they call out abuse against you know they go after the big companies the million the million dollar billion dollar companies who is we i'm not going to say we i'm not going to put myself in that people will justify these community activists using their platform to call out ---- that they feel ain't right but who's calling out the activists for not doing their ******* job and why would anyone get mad for calling out an activist for covering up abuse or not addressing abuse how can we attack the white man and the bigger issues when we can't you you know it's like a it's like a tooth infection what happens when you get a cavity or abscess in your mouth. You could take painkillers to deal with the pain of the tooth. You might even take antibiotics to make that infection go away. But what's going to happen, as long as that decaying tooth remains in your mouth, whether you take painkillers or antibiotics, it's going to come back. It's going to continue to keep coming back. Only way that you can stop a nasty decaying tooth from reinfecting your mouth over and over again is to pull it out, extract so again that's why i went after the community activists how are you addressing the white man but you're overlooking the root of the problems which begin in the own community Narcissism, narcissism is the root of our community issues that are going on in the world. You cannot clean out someone else's backyard until you clean out yours so when I see these community activists speak on domestic violence or they'll post a video to get likes and cliques, but I don't see them actually doing anything, it pisses me off. I want to let you ladies know you got to stop running your ******* mouth. If you're in an abusive relationship or marriage, I cannot express to you how critical it is to plan your escape, your escape, plan your escape, your exit, your exit plan, your exit strategy, plan it in silence, in silence. Do not tell your family. And I'll tell you why not to tell your ******* family. Do not tell your friends. Do not tell your in-laws. When I say move in silence, I mean you sit down with a ******* attorney and discuss it with an attorney and or you call up a domestic violence organization and you plot and scheme with them. A neutral party that is not related to your ex or your family members. God damn it, when I say move in silence y'all piss me off, y'all run your mouth too much y'all run your ******* mouths too ******* much I'm tired of saying this over and over again. Not only do you put yourselves in the line of fire but if you have children, these niggas will murder your goddamn children if you want to play with it you want to play with it, they will ******* hurt your children. A narcissist has no emotional tie to their children. They got you pregnant to lock you down. the poor babies are nothing more than a pawn piece in their eyes to keep you trapped and enmeshed. You tell a narcissist that you want a divorce? Trust me, they do all types of vindictive and spiteful things to sabotage your plans for leaving. They are financially controlling. They will make sure you have no money or they'll try to get you fired, they will tamper with your car, slash the tires, slash the brakes, slash the oil put sugar in the tank so you can't use your car to leave my narcissistic daddy not giving a **** about me my brother and sister when we were little kids my mother had to go to work on a winter day me and my siblings are sitting in the backseat of the car and him and my mother are fist fighting in the streets you know what he does he pops the hood of the car and he dismantles the battery he pulls the battery out the car to prevent my mother from leaving when i tell you they get ******* dirty and spiteful when they understand you're trying to fight and get away from them they will sabotage your sabotage all your efforts or they'll either put their hands on you hurt you or kill you that is what happened with Shanice Young this woman was in a whole nother relationship she was full term getting ready to give birth to a baby just came from her baby shower with her man and because her ex was so furious that she had moved on and he's actually watching her be happy with another man and by the way she had filed multiple police reports there's a history of domestic violence which is why she was not with him what are our community activists doing to protect our women not a goddamn thing not a goddamn motherfucking thing and that's why i called them the **** out nobody's protecting us our women or children a lot of these community activists have friendships with ex-convicts that beat on women and they're not going to speak against it because it would expose their their ties and connections to all their felon friendships and and and they got womanizers and and all type of people they still cool with they hide it from the public eye that's why they can't defend or protect us and all they can do is post a motherfucking video pretending that they ******* care they ain't doing ---- about it ladies stop running your ******* mouth majority of time when i tell y'all i know financially it's hard you got to relocate you got to pack your ---- and get the **** out of the city and states there's a ************ will find you and hurt you they don't want you to be happy and these niggas be in whole relationships they be with other women and still want to control everything they ******* exes are doing if you have toxic family members keep your ******* mouth closed stop telling your business stop running your mouth to your friends and family because if they're ******* toxic they will go behind your back and tell all your goddamn business they will help your abuser they will help your parents will help your ******* abuser and if your parents are narcissistic don't you run home to them your parents are the reason you attracted a narcissist and to begin with some of Y'all don't want to face the music. You don't want to put the blame on your parents. Your parents set you up to ******* fail. Open your goddamn eyes. If you're leaving an abusive relationship, do not run home to your parents. You jumping from one frying pan to the next. Keep your goddamn toxic family out of your business. When you're plotting to move or get a divorce, the only people you need to be on the phone with is a lawyer and a domestic violence agency helping you to plot your escape, helping you to relocate far away. thousands of miles away from your abuser y'all run your mouth too much and you got to stop too many women are dying i'm gonna do everything in my power to get this word out i need y'all to spread this video repost it all over facebook share with your friends if you know your friend is in a violent relationship bring them to my page we got to protect each other because these community activists ain't protecting us these men are damn sure not protecting us our daddies uncles ain't nobody ******* protecting us we got to help each other ladies we got to protect each other period point blank god bless y'all chicago i'll see y'all on saturday