The Most Toxic Men Were Raised in 2-Parent Households #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

The most toxic men come from two-parent households. Listen to what I tell you. I get so tired of people, you know, creating this narrative that a man will treat a woman right simply because he grew up with both his parents in a household. That's a ******* lie. Some of the most abusive men grew up in two-parent households with a mother and father figure in the house, whether it's mom stepdad stepmom and dad whatever two-parent household ladies if you're on a date and a guy tells you that he grew up with both his mom and dad in the house and let's just say his parents been together for a long time don't be impressed by that ---- you gotta you gotta play psychiatrist and dig deep you gotta find out what type of man his father is and what type of woman his mama is and how it impacts his behavior towards women as a whole and his relationships. For instance, is his daddy a motherfucking cheater? And mama has low self-esteem, so she stayed. She wants to hold on to her marriage, so she let all the cheating slide. That means mama is a pickme. She's male-centered and she's scared to walk away with any self-respect or dignity. Does his daddy have a side chick? Does his daddy have a whole nother family on the other side of town does his daddy have a side baby you got you got to dig deeper than niggas niggas background don't just like if he says oh you know my parents been married a long time or you know i grew up with both my parents in the household okay nigga and tell me more about your mother and father i want to know how toxic both of them are and how did it affect you nigga and how you treat women don't be impressed ladies when he tell you that ---- that don't mean ---- you got to find out if his father was violent. Did his daddy put his hands on his mama? Not only did he beat his mama, did he beat all the kids in the house? Was daddy like a Joe Jackson to, you know, like Michael Jackson and his brothers? Joe Jackson beat all the motherfucking kids. He didn't just beat them. He abused his children and molested them into the ground. And the mama would not leave. And you see how fucked up all the kids came out and trust me if the mama if the mama decides to stay knowing daddy beat abused and molest her children those children are going to grow up with some sort of resentment towards the mother for not protecting and defending them from ******* dad so growing up in a two-parent household don't mean ---- if mom and dad are motherfucking toxic if daddy's a cheater a womanizer if daddy got side chicks if daddy got a hidden baby on the other side of town a hidden family or his mother is ******* abusive his mother might be a provider she might have a good job education you know they go to church and all that but she's emotionally disconnected you you you really got to play therapist and and find the little details out when a nigga tell you he grew up in a two-parent household some of the most let me tell you something some of the most toxic men i know grew up with both their mothers and fathers in the household and their parents fucked their head up i also know men who were raised by single mothers that turned out to be decent men so understand this single parent household or two-parent household we we should be looking at the character of mom and dad not whether or not you know y'all be coming up with this narrative that oh see there was no father in the household these men need fathers in the household okay the father's in the household but the father's a ******* abuser now what now what don't be impressed when a man tell you he got both his parents in his life his parents stayed together his parents are married a long time I guarantee you his parents are ******* toxic they may go to church they may have decent jobs they make it look good but I promise you there's a lot of hidden toxicity there and it will bleed out onto him and into his relationships. That's why he's ******* toxic with you. He gets it from his mother and father. I said what the **** I said.