The Narcissist Has No Life Without You #npd #narcissist #narcabuse

Hey guys, Spiritual Whistleblower here on this very rainy October, What's today's date? Today is the 5th. We're in the first week of October. It is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. It is Breast Cancer Awareness Month and I do believe Sickle Cell Anemia Awareness Month. But yes, I just want to take this time out very quickly to thank everyone who came out. I did my summer tour. It was a complete success from beginning to end. I went to all the cities, as I promised, showed up and, you know, it was it was successful. And I closed out at Houston, Texas, and it was just beautiful. I want to thank everyone that came out. Some of y'all have been with me for a couple of years. You've been to previous seminars that I've had in the past. Thank you for being a loyal supporter. thank you to the new new people that a lot of a lot of women uh who came out just discovered me like literally a week or two ago like they just found me on tiktok or something and they came out thank you thank you as well you know um it all means a lot to me so um i think next summer i will not do the seminars. I need to take a break and focus on greater things ahead. I really enjoyed doing seminars and meeting. I met so many amazing people. You take the good with the bad. I've met a lot of not so nice people as well that pretended to be empaths just to meet me in person and get close to me so you know you always have to take the good with the bad but um i wouldn't change a thing because i have met when i tell you i have met some truly amazing people along the way um i wouldn't change a thing uh but i have to get to the next level you guys i have to i've given y'all three consistent years of these seminars um and i just need to take a break to get to the next level and to work on me and focus on my self-care and other goals that I have but I will continue to put out content I will continue to put out more books you know so the demand is there and there's a need for it and I just love you guys now with that out the way I want to talk about I don't think I've seen anything on this but the narcissist why they get involved with you aside from the other stuff that we all know, they targeted you for money, your good looks, your status, you know, that that's the surface level type of stuff. But I want to share something else that they the reason why they targeted you, whether it's a friendship, whether it's a relationship, the narcissist needs a story to tell. The narcissist needs a story to tell. i might have talked about this briefly a very long time ago in one of my videos i think i made a video a couple years ago briefly talking about this but i'm gonna go into depth about it the narcissist needs a story to tell you know how reality tv if you guys are familiar with love and hip-hop shoot any of the reality tv shows that have a storyline there's a cast a whole cast and crew in this reality tv show and every cast member has a specific storyline and most most of these people on these reality tv shows are narcissistic just study their personalities watch how they cheat on each other they're fighting they backstab they like drama narcissists love drama and you know i can understand why they're on these reality tv shows because drama means high ratings so of course the producers are going to cast people with toxic personalities into these roles on reality tv because it's guaranteed drama the narcissist is going to guarantee i mean they're going to bring the drama they're going to bring the fights they're going to bring the backstabbing manipulative behavior and that's what drives the ratings up well each and every one of those reality tv stars they all each have their own storyline if you pay attention everybody has a storyline and depending on how toxic and dramatic that storyline is that's going to extend their longevity on the TV show and if they continue to stay on the TV show they get pay raises their money bag increases so the more creative they have to become with inventing their storyline to maintain their longevity on the show to increase their paychecks are y'all following me so take that same theory and apply it to your life and all the toxic people you've encountered all the narcissists that you've encountered friendships lovers etc family and really think about it reflect back on all those situations and and and let me let me ask you something because i know the answer to this already but i just want you to think about it for a minute all those people that you have gotten rid of that had double-crossed you backstabbed you your ex cheated on you your mama spread gossip to the rest of the family about you your friend backstabbed you and is sleeping with all your ex-boyfriends like look at all these people that you have gotten rid of out of your life and what do they have in common I guarantee you number one they don't have nothing of substance going on in their lives okay they have boring ******* lives uh number two the people that they involve themselves with their circle of friends their clique their family and all that they're a bunch of ******* nobodies too and number three now that you've removed yourself from their lives they look ******* pathetic they don't they don't like they was popping when they was around you because your shine everything awesome about you was rubbing off on them now that you cut them the **** off they just look lackluster they're not glowing or shiny anymore they look ******* pathetic so what they will do because they know they've disrespected you they know they've they've done some shady ---- to you they know they've gossiped about you they know what they did to you they know they didn't treat you right it was all calculated so once you cut them off and you move on and you begin the process of leveling up and getting your life back on track they're gonna go around and i'm not this is not the smear campaign we talk about the smear campaign all the time that's we're all familiar with it this is similar to the smear campaign and uh you know it kind of is parallel to it the narcissist needs a story to tell because the narcissist has no ******* life no ******* identity no nothing you are the narcissist storyline so they're going to sit up besides smearing you and tearing you down anything good that you got going on in your life they're going to connect their name to it I guarantee you if you bounce back when you bounce back not if because you are going to bounce back when you bounce back when you begin to level up again when great things start happening as a result of you cutting that toxic person off they're watching you they're watching everything honey them fake accounts is spying they got people watching you they are watching you you understand me when good ---- starts happening to you again they're going to want to associate their name to yours well you know I used to hang out with her and um you know yeah I'm the reason that she's leveling up and I'm the reason you know I told her I gave her the advice to do what she's doing now they got to connect their motherfucking name not just for the bad ---- but for the good ---- too and the crazy ---- is they didn't contribute a motherfucking thing to your success. The only positive thing they have contributed is disappearing. Disappearing. Yeah, you did me a favor when you disappeared from my life. You did me a favor when you backstabbed me. You did me a favor when you talked ---- and tried to turn my friends against me. You did me a favor when you talked about me like a dog to my family members. You did me a huge favor when you showed me who you are I saw your real character that's the only motherfucking favor you did me because everything else over here the success and all the accolades and the ---- that I'm getting the blessings as a result of cutting you off that's straight from God you can't put claims on stuff that came from God but the narcissist will that narcissist needs a story to tell because he has no motherfucking identity number one and he has no life you are you are the life you are the storyline you are everything well you know i used to hang with the spiritual whistleblower and i know firsthand um where she buys her shoes and i know firsthand who does her hair and i and i know firsthand um where she went to college and i was with her um when we went here and i was with her now all of a sudden they got a motherfucking story to tell since you cut their asses the **** off see with me um you know i don't i don't do that when i'm done with somebody i don't want nobody to know i even ******* dealt with you i don't want nobody to know i hung out with you I'm not going to mention your ******* name I you are nothing to me you are absolutely ******* nothing to me you are in the past you are dead you are deceased you you know you you're nothing to me so I don't need no motherfucking storyline because I have an identity and I have a life I have a life that was there before I ******* met you I have a motherfucking life i'm being blessed left and right i don't have to associate my name to you or anyone else from my past to shine but see toxic is toxic toxic people have no self-worth toxic people have uh they they are very insecure they're very weak so they have to attach they have attachment issues even when you move the **** on and you don't want nothing to do with them they still got your name in they motherfucking mouth they still trying to attach themselves to you well you know the reason why she's doing good is because I told her you know I gave her good advice when we was we used to be cool and she's you know she stole everything from me they cannot ******* detach for ---- these are very codependent very toxic codependent people we're talking about with attachment issues see you you have no problem detaching from them and treating them like they're dead like why would I bring your name up because your name holds no clout your name holds no weight the narcissist's name holds no clout no weight no power so why would you bring it up it's not going to get you into new doors mentioning the narcissist is not going to bring you no new opportunities no no no but when they mention your name they know that people are going to be interested because you are a ******* somebody you are lit that's why they targeted you to begin with they needed a story to tell because they don't have ---- else going on in their ******* lives move on and i guarantee you 5 10 12 years from now they still gonna be talking about everything you're doing not just the bad ---- because of course you know they're gonna play victim and it's gonna be well with me oh chanel did me so dirty and chanel this but they got all the good ---- that you're about to get all them blessings that are coming they're gonna attach their name to that too well you know the only reason she getting the good ---- is because you know I helped her get all of that I gave her advice on how to get to where she's getting it's me they're gonna want to take credit for ---- that ain't you you to move the **** on and they still trying to involve and insert themselves in your life and take credit and claims for ---- that ain't got nothing to do with them they need a story to tell because without you in their lives they're empty they have nothing of substance they have no identity they have nothing so I hope that opens up some sort of you know let's talk about it in the comment section okay guys tell me if all the people you've cut off in your past are still trying to attach their names to yours even when you're doing good things with your life I promise you they will and on that note spiritual whistleblower here y'all have a blessed day