Narcissistic Friends Use “Deflection” to Take the Focus Off of Themselves #npd #narcissist #narc

Hey y'all, Spiritual Whistleblower here. I'm still in Toronto. I just want to give a special shout out to everyone that came out to the seminar last night. It was awesome. The love, just all the stories, everyone sharing their personal stories and everyone helping each other, jumping in and just like offering advice and suggestions. Like everyone was like a crutch to each other. And that's what I love about these seminars. There was one lady who brought her teenage daughter she had twin daughters and they're both 17 and she brought her daughters because she wanted her daughters to get the the advice and the knowledge because it's a it's an ugly world out here we need to be teaching our daughters our teenage daughters shoot our our pre-teens even need to learn this stuff so I was so grateful and you know I tried to slip away and go to my hotel after the seminar and they had other plans they took me out to dinner last night so Toronto thank you for showing me such an amazing time I will be back and I'll stay longer next time okay next week October 1st which is a Saturday I'm in Houston Texas and I will be wrapping up my chosen one tour those y'all that have not seen me might have missed me in the past here's your last chance to fly into Houston if you're coming from out of town you can fly into Houston the IAH um the international forget the name of their airport they have a couple airports come through we're gonna have a good time in houston next saturday okay october 1st tickets are still available um i already started emailing the address of the location so if you bought your ticket and you don't have the address hit me up again screenshot your ticket and i will send you the address okay so houston they are the tickets are selling people are buying tickets so get yours while there's some left um i'll pin my email address down below i want to get into this video about narcissistic friends y'all have been giving me some great feedback oh my god on all the videos over the past two weeks I've made about narcissistic friendships toxic friendships how to identify a narcissist amongst a group of your friends and um y'all want me to continue and I love it so I want to talk about deflection today how you can spot one of the many ways you can spot and identify a narcissist amongst a group of your friends, because especially a covert, a covert narcissist is the most difficult to detect. They are the most sneakiest. They know how to appear highly empathetic, uh, spiritual, um, you know, praise God. And, and, you know, they, they're just, they come off as super wonderful, empathetic people, caring and loving, but it's all a performance okay so it's very dangerous when a covert narcissist is amongst a group of friends because the little toxic abusive ---- and manipulation tactics that they do they're so minute and so tiny you'll miss it if you're not paying attention and most people often miss it unlike myself i'm an expert at this ---- and i will pick it up very early before the rest of a group of friends will pick it up. So I'm going to share my experiences and I'm going to give y'all some game. I'm going to keep the ball rolling with these videos because I want you to get rid of these toxic people out of your life. You don't need no snakes in your circle. You don't need no **** ---- around you. You need nothing but positive people in your circle. People that are not trying to compete with you. People who are not envious of you and what you have. People that are inspired and love you for who you are and will clap for you and support you genuinely see a motherfucking covert narcissist will pretend they'll smile in your ******* face they'll pretend to like the things that you like and stand for the things that you stand for spiritual whistleblower is a domestic violence advocate she she's all about protecting she loves all women of all races but especially the black woman there's a special place for black women because black women are being murdered at an alarming rate in the african-american community the the fbi has reported every five hours black men are murdering us there's a crisis in the black community so i don't want my white women hispanic or asian women to feel a type of way when i when i talk about black women there's a crisis right now we are losing our lives because black men And, you know, some of you ladies that are not black who have babies with toxic black men, you know, he's abusive because they will put their hands on a white woman. They will put their hands on a Hispanic woman. They will abuse with non-black women the same way that they abuse black women. But it's a crisis for us because now it's a tox. It's a national statistic and it's a crisis. so that's why I specifically at times talk to black women but my love for all races is the same keep following my content because I want y'all to stay safe too um but a toxic friend will get in there and pretend to love everything that you love I've had fake ass people around me um pretending to be domestic violence advocates pretending to want to protect black women and love on black women because spiritual whistleblower that's what she's about they faked the whole persona because they were mirroring me they mirrored remember what I told you what mirroring was a narcissist will hold up a mirror and they will copy all your personality traits so that they can latch on to you they study you so yes I've had it where a ************ got close to me and started liking the same ---- I liked oh they're a domestic violence advocate oh they're about protecting the black women but what they were doing was they were grooming me and latching on to me but they had to study and learn my personality and the things that I like in order to get close to me then they started doing little ---- to devalue me when nobody was looking and they thought that I would not pick up on it but spiritual whistleblowers intuition is so ******* strong she don't don't try me they try me all the time and I catch it I will catch it and I will blindside a bitch and cut them off so fast they will not see it coming see the narcissist will try you and they'll try to play you they'll they'll do they'll do it's called the doo-doo test there's many videos on it look it up it's called the doo-doo test and when I say doo-doo test what a narcissist will do they'll pick up a pile of dog ---- and they'll throw it against the wall and they'll see what will stick and what will fall off and whatever sticks to the wall that's what the narcissist is going to go with so when it comes to a toxic friendship the narcissist is going to do the doo-doo test on you he's going to test you and throw ---- at you and see what sticks and see what you will allow to get away with you allow him to get away with little tiny morsels of disrespect he's going to try you but he's going to do it in a very covert let me see if i can get away with let me just try something over here let me try to play her let me try to use her for money or get over on her but let me just try to be slick about it where nobody else is looking they'll try you those are tests to see if you respect yourself if you'll let ---- slide yes a narcissist if you have a friend like this they will test you it's called the doo-doo test there's several videos on this is a me dropping nonsense This is this is research. Go research the do do test and see what comes up. The narcissist will use a test to see how much disrespect you'll tolerate and how much you'll let slide. And I'm here to tell you, don't you let a motherfucking thing slide. You play them. You put on your poker face and you allow them to believe they're getting over on you. Then you blindside them and you block them and cut them. And you're going to see them act out and your other friends are going to see them act out. then they expose themselves and you don't have to expose them checkmate but in this video let's talk about deflection what is deflection well if you have a toxic friend in your group they do this thing called deflection deflection is when they gotta ---- on other people to make themselves feel better they think by shitting and gossiping about other friends in the group that it'll bump their ranking up so I've had it in a setting a group setting where me and a specific friend were already close this new person comes into this group of friends we welcome this individual and yes it's a it's a i'm gonna use the gay man again we welcome this gay man into our circle of friends and treat him with love and respect he plays the role like he's you know a super empath but what he's doing he's mirroring every person in the group and he's building bonds individually with every friend in the group but what he's also doing is he's gossiping he goes to every person he just gossips about one person to the other he this is called triangulation and he's a predator studying each person in in the group and he's he's studying our personalities and he's using information that he knows that we would love you know like he will bring up conversations or send me videos about domestic violence because that's he knows that's what i'm passionate about so he's going to use domestic violence and black femicide and send me videos and have conversations because he's bonding with me and as he's bonding with me he's grooming me um out of control and then he's doing the same with the other friends of the group he's bonding and latching on to them in other ways but what he what he does and what he's not aware that he's doing well he is aware but he thinks the rest of the group of friends are too stupid to catch on he he has to ---- on the friends he gossips he gossips and he's always talking ---- about somebody behind their back or pointing out someone else's flaws and I sit there and I say that's funny you're so busy talking ---- about people but who the **** is checking you who the **** is picking apart your flaws what are you hiding and see this friend lives out of state he lives long distance so we're not able to see his day-to-day life so he keeps certain things a secret he keeps his life private from the rest in a group of friends because he lives long distance so we can't see what he's doing day today today but he's able to get on a group chat and present himself to be super empath super wonderful and he's a covert amongst a group of friends until spiritual whistleblower starts to pick up red flags about his behavior because he slips up when he thinks he's too comfortable he gets arrogant and he says i'm in there i can start being my real self now and he starts to slip and devalue he starts talking about people and gossiping pitting people against each other he is deflecting to take the attention off himself so that the rest of everybody else doesn't figure him out but because spiritual whistleblower's intuition and her spiritual discernment is so incredibly great she starts to detect the red flags of him and she starts to play chess right back with him she picks up on his mind games and manipulation but she doesn't let him know that she's on to him but she's sitting there watching him pick apart everybody and talk ---- on everybody because he wants to be number one in the ranking and he feels by tearing people down he'll he feels like it'll make him shine more or it'll make him bond closer with the friend he really wants to get you remember i told y'all there's a friend in the group that has the most money he wants to bond with her he wants to be the number one ranking so he feels by shitting on the other group of friends or talking and gossiping about people behind their backs that it'll make him stand out or shine more or it'll make this friend who he really wants to get close with look down on the rest of the friends he's doing divide and conquer to make himself stand out and make his ranking go up so he can bond closer to the friend he really wants to get close to that's the one that has the money and the wealth but he ain't slick spiritual whistleblower catches on and says oh he's deflecting he feels that if he talks ---- about other people it'll deflect from his issues and his toxic ---- the spiritual whistleblower can see through all of it and spiritual whistleblower says i'm gonna block him i'm gonna cut him off i'm not even gonna explain to him why because if i do i know his toxic personality will spin the narrative and he's not going to take accountability so it's just better for me to block and cut him off and then he can start acting out out of character then the rest of the group can see him for who he really is and they can see what spiritual whistleblower sees once he exposes he'll expose himself to the rest of the group so deflection is when a narcissist highly toxic person talks ---- about somebody to take the attention off themselves to make themselves stand out more okay and they feel like they'll get brownie points or gold stars for shitting on people but all it does is exposes their rotten rotten behavior who they really are and it's a huge major turnoff especially to someone who's genuinely empathetic you don't have to ---- on others to make yourself stand out so let's talk about it in the comment section you ever have a toxic friend try to talk ---- about everybody to keep the focus off themselves and you finding out who they really are let me know in the comment section Toronto thank you for the hospitality houston texas i'll see y'all next week spiritual whistleblower god bless y'all