F*CK YOUR SIBLINGS- PART 2 (LET THEM SUFFER) #npd #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #triangulation

Good morning everyone. Happy New Year. Happy 2025. Spiritual Whistleblower here. I hope you all had an amazing time last night. I was at home cooking and resting. I stayed out of the streets because New York City is getting more dangerous. Crime is on the rise. I don't know if you guys have been watching the news. All these subway incidents. Someone just got pushed on the tracks and ran over. I think like a couple of days ago. He survived barely but then the woman gets set on fire like New York right now is is like Gotham City so i don't i don't play in these streets i don't go out if i don't have to i stay home and i cook the big dinner my good luck dinner had me something something to drink on the side some liquor and then i took it to bed anyway um i wish all of you guys massive success and nothing but um well wishes and you know all your endeavors in this year okay and i want you to stay narcissistic free i want you to get stronger i want you to get your ass in EMDR therapy if you're suffering from childhood trauma and i want you to get strong with your your your boundaries you know because that's how you keep abusive people away from you is is by setting strong boundaries and meaning business some of y'all are too nice some of y'all don't know how to say no for ---- so um this is a part two video because i got such a huge response from the siblings video you know the video that i just posted um a few days ago where i talk about um cutting off your siblings and why they hate you that's a plane going by that entire video i was trying to break down the science behind triangulation and that when your mother or father are true narcissists they will employ the triangulation tactic to cause division amongst their children and the main reason for that they divide their children up and keep them pitted against each other each other is because that narcissistic parent is incredibly insecure and they want their children fighting you know I can love mom more than you watch this if I can if I can kiss mom's ass more than you she's going to reward me with some money or some jewelry she's going to take me shopping and she's not going to buy you nothing they want all of their children to compete with each other for validation for approval for love why is mom treating you so well and shitting on me well maybe if I do more for mom she'll treat me better than you it's nasty work y'all this ---- is so wicked and demonic of your mother and father each child should be treated the same equally across the board but when you see a narcissistic parent mother or father play favorites with one child and bully the other it's breaking the child down it also teaches the other child what's with these airplanes child so let's let's say for instance the child that they're favoriting you know playing favoritism buying gifts and spoiling if they start that early in which all narcissistic parents do they they pick one child to spoil and they play favorites what they're doing is they are inadvertently grooming that particular child to become extremely narcissistic a lot of people think that narcissists you know all narcissists are created in childhood however a lot of people think that you can uh the only way that you can create a narcissist is through trauma that's not true a lot of narcissists were never bullied picked on or teased by mom and dad they were spoiled when you give a child everything that they want toys gift monies praise you constantly tell the child oh you're so prettier than all the other children you you're more gorgeous than your sisters you're this you are creating a monster when you give a child everything he or she wants you create entitlement issues that child will grow up to become an adult who's ******* spoiled self-centered and entitled and competitive of others if they see that one person has something and they want to go after it they will feel entitled to have it even though it belongs to somebody else. That's mom and dad's fault. They created that monster in childhood. That's what happens when you play favorites and you spoil a child and put that said child up on a ******* pedestal. You create a ******* narcissistic monster. So all narcissists do not come from trauma. In my mother's case, I love breaking this down. In my mother's situation, her narcissism comes from both trauma and being spoiled her mother my late grandmother Vera Mae Gibson may she rest in peace and her biological father Langston I believe his last name is Smith I could be wrong I don't remember I I don't really know the man maybe met him once or twice my mother's parents were creeping my mother's father was a married man when he hooked up with my grandmother I don't know if my grandmother was in another relationship or either way she was playing side chick side piece to a married man and got pregnant with my mother my mother was a twin so my grandmother was pregnant with twins my mother had a twin sister who passed away when she was a toddler yeah so my mother became a dirty little secret because my grandmother had no business creeping with a ******* married man whether she knew about it or not more than likely she knew he was married and didn't give a **** there go the sirens can i get through a ******* video without the sirens i'm in a whole different borough i'm nowhere near my house i'm in a different i'm in the Bronx right now y'all know i live in Manhattan i'm in a whole different borough and i'm still trying to get away from the sirens streets is empty everybody was partying and went home the streets are quiet here come the sirens confirmation let me get on with the story um so my mother's twin sister passed away when she was a baby a toddler so then it was just my mother alone and and this is a sad story this is the only piece of empathy and grace I will extend to her this is how I know my grandmother is a ******* covert narcissist I don't care may she rest in peace I'm gonna call it for what it is and my grandfather Langston my mother's biological father he damn sure was a narcissist because narcissistic men love to have multiple baby mamas they love to trap women with pregnancy to attach themselves then they will ******* abandon the child and move on to the next woman that's what narcissists do that's why these men is walking around with multiple baby mamas they have no problem trapping you with a baby abandoning you and the child and moving on because they have no emotional connection to the woman or the child but they will objectify the woman and a child to maintain control while they play with other women so yeah he moved right on he had a whole nother family treated my mother like a dirty little secret and the sad ---- is my grandmother did the same thing she abandoned my mother passed her off to be raised by her grandmother and then my grandmother moved on and married and had more children treated my mother like a dirty hidden secret which was fucked up that's confirmation that my grandmother Vera Mae Gibson was a covert narcissist how do you treat your child that way how do you treat your child that way I'll tell you how I'll tell you how only a female narcissist only a female narcissist can give birth to a child and abandon that child like trash because she has no emotional connection to the child. She lacks empathy. She only wanted to stay attached to the married man. It's a whole lot of toxic women out here having children for the wrong reasons. Look at the celebrity world. Look at all these women that are getting knocked up by multiple athletes. They don't care about the child. They just want a paycheck. That's what the female narcissist does. She don't care about the child. She just wants to get in daddy's pockets or keep sleeping with him in spite of him having another woman or being married. Female narcissists are predators just like the men are. So my grandmother gave birth to my mother and passed her off to be raised by her grandmother and my grandmother like it was nothing no emotion no nothing moved on with her life got married to a new man and had two more children and that was her new family while my mother was off being raised by her maternal grandmother and i feel that's fucked up that's real fucked up of both of her parents both her parents in my opinion are ******* narcissists because they both lack empathy no emotional connection did not care about her her needs as a mother that's where her initial trauma started that's where my mother's trauma started it's how you create a narcissist one way that you create a narcissist in childhood is by emotionally neglecting and abandoning a child that child will grow up to resent their parents and instead of that child healing going to therapy and working on their childhood trauma and childhood issues they recycle their pain and they give birth to children and they bully and punish their children and they project all the pain and suffering they endured as as a child they just bully and project it onto to their children continuing the cycle of dysfunction so that's where my mother's initial trauma came but however her grandmother raised her up until I don't know if it was up until high school middle school she stayed with her grandmother her grandmother to make up for you know the lack of love and parenting that her mother and father did not give her my great-grandmother raised her and spoiled the **** out of her she was spoiled and like I said initially when you spoil a child you create an entitled monster you create a narcissist so my mother was going to be a narcissist either way through her trauma of what her parents did to her emotionally abandoning and neglecting her And or the control, the entitlement being spoiled by her grandmother. It came from both sides. They created a ******* demon. So let me get back to this issue. So when your parents are narcissistic, they will choose one child to play favorites. Whether it's your brother or sister, they will spoil your sibling and turn your sibling into a narcissist in childhood. there's nothing that my ******* sister can tell me she is a narcissist through and through because my mama groomed her because my mother was groomed to be a ******* narcissist my grandparents are narcissists my mother was surrounded by it and my mother was not smart enough to say well I don't want to ever feel the pain of you know what my mother and father did they abandoned me and made me feel unloved I you know when I give children when I give birth to children I'm never going to make my my children feel unloved but she did she gave birth to three children spoiled one of them and bullied and abused the other two and technically she she abused my sister because you know I want to explain to y'all even though your sibling is spoiled even though your parents played favoritism with your sibling might have spoiled giving money and gifts to your sibling your sibling is still being abused it's financial abuse and it's a form of control your parents are only choosing to favorite your sibling to maintain control if they give your siblings whatever they want money control validation if your your siblings have children your parents will babysit the children for free if your your sibling needs a place to live they can live rent free off your mother and father that's to control your weak-minded sibling they don't want your sibling to break free and be independent so in a sense your sibling is being treated like a ******* child even as an adult and being manipulated and controlled with money and gifts and favoritism still all of its abuse so i want to explain another reason why your parents have used triangulation to separate you and your siblings you know you and your siblings are adults however you all are estranged from each other you all are broken up you all don't visit each other you don't have family functions y'all don't go out together y'all don't eat at restaurants y'all are divided and broken the **** up and you know who's to blame for it mom and dad mom and dad did that ---- whenever I you know people come to me with stories about how you know they don't have a relationship with their siblings I immediately say tell me about mom and dad because that when I see when siblings are fucked up and have fucked up relationships and they don't talk to each other that's a reflection of poor parenting poor leadership poor parenting and the parents playing these ******* psychological games to pit their children against each other real toxic parenting. Another reason why your parents triangulate you against your brother and sister. Another reason why they fight so hard to keep their adult children divided up. Another reason why they still play favoritism with your adult brother or adult sister, whoever the favorite child is. They do not want their children bonding or coming together to compare notes. They don't want their children comparing notes because what happens when the siblings come together. Let's just say you and your siblings had a big family meeting without your parents involved. Say you and your siblings met up for dinner and your parents were not invited to this dinner and all of y'all came to the dinner with notes you had some notes written down and all y'all looked at your notepad and went around the table and took turns reading the notes you know what you know what the notes would say how each and every one of y'all were abused by mom and dad you would have a long list of dirty ass evil ass things that mom and dad have done to you as an individual maybe your siblings were aware of it maybe they had no knowledge of it either way you wrote down a long list of abusive toxic manipulative dirty ass things that mom and dad both have done to you and it's a long list honey I mean it's a long list so just imagine if each and every one of you and your siblings had your own notepad and you all sat at this dinner table and y'all wrote a long list of things that your parents did to abuse you and you all took turns one by one going around the table reading the list i guarantee by the end by the end by the time that everybody's done reading the list y'all are going to be angry y'all are going to be brought to tears you're going to want to crack your ******* parents skull open you're either going to be enraged infuriated you're gonna you're gonna be angry in tears blown away in shock damn brother I didn't know that mom molested you why didn't you tell me damn sis I didn't know that mom stole money out your bank account why didn't you tell me all the dirt and secrets and we sat down as siblings and did not invite our parents to this meeting and we all just shared everything that mom and dad has done to us we would bond we would come together collectively and say enough is enough mom and dad have obviously been manipulating us all since birth mom and dad don't want us want to see us together unless they're there see mom and dad only want their children together in the family portrait and they got to be standing in the family portrait behind their children with the fake smiles oh we're such a happy family look at my beautiful family portrait then i'm gonna post the family picture on facebook and lie to everybody pretending that their children are all happy and ---- that's the only time they want their kids together is if it's a family function where they can lie and be ******* fake they want to be in control of their children's happiness they want to ******* control the narrative but i i dare the siblings to bond together without mom and dad in the picture mom and dad ain't gonna go for that no y'all can't come together unless i'm in the picture too bitch y'all are only here but listen listen let me get on my ---- because because your narcissistic mother and father are ******* entitled and arrogant as **** i gave birth to you i brought you into this world i own you so y'all y'all y'all don't do ---- unless i know about it y'all can't eat breathe sleep or ---- unless i know about it don't be taking no close pictures together unless i know about it i'm in the picture i'm included controlling controlling they have to control the ******* narrative they cannot have their children come together collectively to compare notes because there's a risk if the children come together the siblings come together and realize that they all have been mind fucked manipulated and played and if they stick together they become mighty powerful together as a unit oh they cutting mom and dad off they're gonna see mom and dad for the pieces of ---- that they are and realize that mom and dad ain't changing mom and dad ain't going to therapy mom and dad are in denial mom and dad don't want to take accountability mom and dad don't want to get ******* diagnosed mom and dad don't want to heal from their childhood trauma issues all this time mom and dad have been abusing and manipulating us and projecting their unhealed ******* trauma onto us game over mom and dad we all cutting you the **** off we all going to go to therapy as a family individually but we ain't ******* with y'all that's what your parents are afraid of that's why your parents go so hard to keep the adult children divided triangulation and let me remind you again triangulation is a tool of the devil i said first corinthians chapter 14 33 for god is not the author of confusion god is not the author of confusion satan satan operates out of confusion and chaos to divide and conquer so this tactic that mom and dad is using using to separate their children is 100% demonic and very strategic and very calculated that's why you need to side eye them and get the **** away from them they're miserable inside they're unhappy they feel like their adult children owe them something if you're more successful than they was when they were young they ain't gonna be happy about it it's pure projection they never corrected or fixed their lives they never dealt with their unhealed trauma so they will project and blame their children and feel entitled to control their children and the narrative they can't have their children coming together joining forces and being powerful together and putting an end to the dysfunction your parents thrive in dysfunction because that's where they draw their power that's why they have to triangulate and keep their children divided up you understand i had to break this down in a part two video but here's the thing if your siblings refuse to cut your parents off knowing they're ******* abusive maybe your siblings need money they need favors maybe your siblings are living rent free off your parents and refuse to be independent and get their own ---- they still clinging on to mom and dad knowing mom and dad is ******* toxic as hell you cannot have a relationship with your siblings you just can't you break free you cut everybody off you go to therapy you get the healing they're going to hate you for going against family and stepping away and breaking the cycle of generational trauma generational you know all all the bullshit that your parents won't address your siblings are still caught up in it they're stuck in it let your let your siblings stay stuck that's not your problem it is not your job to fix the family it is your job to fix yourself and you can't listen what they say you cannot heal in the same environment that broke you you cannot heal in the same environment that broke you. You cannot maintain a connection to your siblings or your parents and expect to heal and go to therapy. It's not going to work. They have to get cut off. You have to isolate. That's biblical. Moses had to isolate. Joseph, what's the story about Joseph and his siblings? Look how they did him. You have to get away from family if you're going to heal. It requires isolation. It requires you to think peacefully and quietly, you know, where you can't be distracted by drama and gossip they can't have your phone number they can't interrupt and interrupt your thoughts cut them off if your siblings are too weak to see that they've been mindfucked manipulated and toyed with their entire life they've been financially controlled they're being used as pawns to be gossiping partners so that your mom and dad can trauma dump on them mom and dad should be in a therapist chair they should not be using their children as gossiping partners to trauma a dump if your siblings are too ******* weak to cut ties with mom and dad and to open their ******* eyes and get right in the head right in the mind get in the therapist chair stop bouncing from relationship to relationship and realize that they're ******* codependent and that mom and dad has created these codependency issues and insecurities in them and pit them against their siblings mom and dad has run game on them and they just don't want to deal with the facts they don't want to deal with the facts and that's not your problem it's not your job to fix your siblings or your parents get out and fix yourself triangulation is so demonic it's so nasty and you should be disgusted that your parents you should be disgusted that your parents did you and your siblings like this y'all entire life it is truly demonic the bible is full of stories about triangulation adam and adam and eve the story of adam and eve is a classic story of triangulation they allowed a serpent to drive a wedge in between their relationship with god that serpent played them and pit them against each other and pit them against god we want to talk about the bible and triangulation now compare it to your motherfucking mother and father see how ******* wicked they are for playing their children against each other because they don't want to be exposed for the ******* manipulators that they are but if you are the only one willing to step away God's got your back honey God gonna pick you up and carry you he gonna ride with you and he gonna bless you tenfold and he's gonna make all of them they gotta watch your siblings are gonna see it your siblings are gonna secretly envy you because you were strong enough to break free and get blessed at the same time something they will not do let them stay stuck to mommy and daddy they're going to suffer and when they have to be financially responsible when mommy and daddy get old and in the nursing home and all the bills excuse me all the bills all the you know nursing home bills the chemotherapy you know your parents get old and broke down they're going to be digging in your siblings pockets they're going to be stressing your siblings the **** out because they can't manipulate or play with you they can't get close to you they can't pick up the phone and call you because your numbers change your parents know you ain't ******* playing with them so they got to take it out on your siblings and if your siblings want to be stupid enough to stay attached to mom and dad knowing they're abusive and manipulative as **** and toxic then that's your siblings karma your siblings got to deal with that ---- not you i want y'all to have a happy new year i am still doing one-on-one coaching god bless y'all happy 2025 if you have not gotten the courage to cut off your family let 2025 be the year that you start standing on business i love you guys it's been the spiritual whistleblower spiritual whistleblower little tongue-tied y'all be blessed i love y'all i will be posting more videos throughout the day it's a lazy fun day it's new year's and you know i'm in a wonderful mood god bless you guys