Your narcissistic mother will ignore your accomplishments #narcissist #narcissisticmother

Your mother will ignore your accomplishments on purpose and she will praise your siblings downfall on purpose. She will go out of her way to ignore all your achievements, all your praises, all your accomplishments. She will ignore every last one of them on purpose and she does it with full intent to hurt you and make you feel insignificant and small. meanwhile she will praise your siblings who are not as successful as you your siblings don't have the amount of success listen they can't touch you their resume compared to your resume listen your resume would make your siblings resume look like a welfare case okay you ---- on your siblings when it comes to success and achievement however your mama doesn't see it that way you got to remember your siblings are toxic broken unhealed and they're narcissistic just like your mama so she's going to gravitate towards them and favor them more over you because that's how she trained them she's trained them to be loyal to her toxicity and it's a vice versa situation she's going to be loyal to their toxicity and that's why their relationship is enmeshed so let's just say you graduate college you're the first one out of your immediate family to graduate college meanwhile your brother goes to prison because let's just say he beat up a woman robbed a bank he did something really horrible and he serves you know like five to ten years in prison while he's locked up in prison you're out here busting your ass living your life the right way going to school, minding your business, living the American dream. Let me tell you something. If your mama is a narcissist, this is how she will do you in comparison to your brother who's less successful than you. Your mama will not go to your college graduation deliberately. She wants to hurt you. But guess what? When your brother gets released from prison, she's going to get on the phone and tell the whole neighborhood, my baby's getting out of prison. and she's gonna throw him a surprise party a welcome home party look everybody my son is home from prison come she's gonna invite the whole neighborhood she's gonna invite your family it's gonna be a big ******* celebration when your brother gets out of prison yet she ******* ignored you when you graduated college didn't come to your graduation didn't bother throwing you a party that bitch is a hater and she's also a male-centered pick me she fantasizes about your brother being her husband that's called emotional incest a lot of mothers out here who use their ******* sons as a replacement husband and it's wrong it's disgusting so she'll always favor your brother with his toxic ass he's a woman beater he's a leech he's a cheapskate and your mama loves every bit of it and she will celebrate him and put him on a pedestal and ---- on you for being successful and doing things the right way. Never tolerate this behavior off your mama. Stop running to her for validation. Stop running to her for approval. She's going to continue to ignore you and kick you off the pedestal. You know, if she can't benefit off of your success, she's just simply going to ignore it. And you've got to remember she's jealous of you. She's envious of you. She's competing with you, her own daughter. You know, even though she should be proud of you for being way more successful than what she did when she was younger when she was your age she didn't reach her goals she didn't follow her dreams and she's still bitter to this day that she did not uh follow her dreams and goals and that's not your fault but she'll project it onto you and blame you so meanwhile you're chasing your dreams you're going to college you're doing everything right and being successful she'll ******* resent you and hate you because she failed in her life the chances that were given to her to do right by her life and follow her dreams she will hate you instead of hating herself so that's why she ignores your accomplishments but praises your your brother's flaws same thing if you have a sister your sister could be a gold digging lazy ass bitch she wants a nigga to take care of her and pay all her bills while she lays up and don't do nothing she barely has a job working a part-time job she does you know half ass go to school don't finish school your sister's a ******* lazy ass bum she can have multiple baby fathers because she's trying to get a child support check out of her baby daddies instead of working your sister is lazy she's a gold digger she's just like your mama she's a she's a copy cat version of your narcissistic mama and that's how your mama trained her so your sister not only is your mama jealous of you your sister is jealous of you because you are shitting on your sister and and you're way more accomplished than your sister so what your mama will do your mama will favor your sister over you even though your sister is less successful than you your mama's gonna give her money gifts pay her bills support her bullshit and fuckery encourage her to keep having babies with toxic men just to collect the check while ignoring you. Why do you continue to, you know, **** with your family knowing they treat you like this? Listen, I'm going to be straightforward because I done been through all this ----. If you're going to be successful in life, if you're going to, you know, keep making accomplishments and achievements, do it for yourself and don't do it for the ******* approval of your mama and your family. They don't care. They're ******* envious as hell. They're pissed off that you took the hand that was dealt to you and you flipped it and turned it into gold. Meanwhile, they, they, they didn't, you know, pursue their opportunities. They sitting up bitter and mad and miserable. If you're going to be successful in life, do it for yourself. Do it for your children. Be, be a role model for your children. **** your mama. **** your family. Stop seeking their approval and validation. They're not going to give it to you. And they know you're successful. They're going to go out of their way to ******* ignore you. And it's fucked up because, you know, a real supportive family should be supporting you. They should show up to your college graduation. They should be there for you. But they've made it known that they don't want to show up for you because it's you. They have a ******* problem with you and they always have had a problem with you. So **** them. Give them that same energy right the **** back. Your mama don't want to support you. Don't support her. Don't show up to nothing she got going on. Don't show up to none of your siblings. God, whatever. They getting married, having a baby, anything important, you know, retirement, you know, birthday parties. **** them. You don't want to attend nothing they got going on either. **** them. You can match their motherfucking energy and celebrate your own ******* wins. You got friends. Your friends love you more than your family. Celebrate with your motherfucking friends. Who gives a **** if your mama don't want to ******* support you and your accomplishments? She will regret it. The day her ass is on her deathbed and she gets to reflect back on her life and how she did you dirty. She will regret it someday. Meanwhile, you set the example and you treat your children differently. You support and you love your children through all their ******* accomplishments. If you have more than one child, you don't compare them. You treat them equally. Give them the same amount of love and you teach them to love and support each other. Don't be like your ******* toxic ass mother and raise a family full of broken children that don't communicate or love each other or support each other. Poor leadership results in a broken household. Blame your ******* mama. I said what I said.