IYANLA IS A GRIFTER !!! #oprah #iyanlavanzant #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #celebrity #narcissist

You write in the book so candidly. I mean, wow. You open up your soul and you say, I failed my children. I failed my children. I think I've said that publicly many times that I was a horrible mother. Horrible. I was a great father. I was a horrible mother. Mothers nourish, nurture, teach. Mothers affirm. I didn't do that. I protected. I provided. That's what dads do. I was a horrible mother. When I recognized I failed my children from the perspective of spiritual hygiene was because I denied my pain. I ignored my pain. I covered it. I called it something else. I put myself in unclean, unhealthy, unproductive situation, dragging my kids along with me and expected them to stay quiet about it. I lived for nine years in an abusive marriage and never talked to my children about it. expected them to see their mother with a black eye a busted lip cooking franks and beans so i taught them to lie i taught them to deny i taught them to avoid i mirrored it for them and then that's what they did that's a failure on my part as a mother as i was reading your book i thought so many families could be healed if parents would just admit the truth to their children because they can't say i made a mistake i was wrong we're taught that it's bad to be wrong that you're bad if you're wrong oh and just in general you're bad if you're wrong i mean if you make a mistake on your taxes the irs penalizes yes you know if you make a mistake in doing anything you know i think that's such an interesting distinction don't you all the difference between being wrong and being bad yes you can be wrong and and it's a mistake it's a mistake yeah but we live in a law and punishment society where it you're afraid this society is set up where Ayana Vanzant is a pick me a mammy a mule a covert narcissist playing in y'all motherfucking faces okay that interview that i posted was recently because um she has a new book and i believe a new show or series coming out so this is her rollout she's on she's on a press run to promote all of this stuff so in that interview with her buddy oprah who is also another narcissist and boomer baby boomer both women are baby boomers and you know how i feel about the boomer generation the most narcissistic generation of our time um she's explaining to oprah that she was a terrible mother she was a horrible mother but a great provider. So I did a video on Ayanna a couple of days ago. I called her a narcissist. That was the title of the video. Ayanna Van Zanti is a covert narcissist playing in our faces. She's been playing in our faces for the last 20, 25 years since she first popped up on the scene. I also spoke about, you know, two of her daughters are deceased. They died very young. That's also a red flag because i believe that narcissistic abuse um causes uh stress in the body that is converted into cancer and and it also like sickle cell it it will make the flare-ups worse it makes the lupus worse thyroid problems fibroid ovarian cancer breast cancer narcissistic abuse it converts into trauma stored in the body cortisol hair falling out alopecia high blood pressure so many autoimmune diseases everything is tied to narcissistic abuse even if you're carrying a child for nine months and you're being abused emotionally the unborn child picks up that abuse and neurotypically neuro it can develop into neuro uh disabilities but that's another video and there is research on that so although the man if the man is not physically putting his hands on you if he's cheating verbally emotionally abusing you while you're carrying your child he is also abusing that unborn fetus and who knows what types of diseases or disabilities your child can develop while in your in your uh womb as a result of you being emotionally abused so i believe wholeheartedly that narcissistic abuse is the root cause of all diseases in the body um let me get back to Ayanna she lost two daughters you know i thought it was to cancer one cancer the other diabetes whatever they both had serious health issues and they died very young 30 and 40 years old um she's admitting to Oprah that she was a horrible mother a lot of people in my comment section when I posted that video and I called Ayanna a covert narcissist I had a lot of triggered people especially women because again I have I have a habit of triggering pick me women in my comment section and pick me women are nothing more than female narcissists they they stay following me obsessively but they won't block me for ---- I don't know why they won't go away they're like gnats on top of dog ---- they just won't ******* go away but they're in my comments oh my god she's you know she's not a narcissist she's being accountable for being a horrible mother she's being accountable why can't you ******* see that shut up bitch because i'm about to put y'all onto some game Ayanna is playing in our ******* faces the only reason she's being accountable at this moment because what is she like 72 73 years old it took her all this motherfucking time to be ******* accountable after she'd lost two of her daughters ask yourself a question why did she do this before the start of her career come out and admit that she did things wrong at the start of her career and and make things better with her children she didn't do that the only reason she is now admitting to being a horrible mother it's a marketing strategy to promote this book and her new series she is on a press run it is a hundred percent a transactional marketing ploy see she got the baby boomers in her pocket anybody that was raised on Oprah Winfrey followed Oprah Winfrey supported Oprah Winfrey back in the 80s and 90s that's all the baby boomer generation Ayanna got all of them in her back pocket the boomers are always going to ride hard for Ayanna Ayanna has a challenge at this point she has to reinvent herself to attract the millennials and gen gen x the millennials some of gen x some of gen x is narcissistic but she's got to get the millennials in her back pocket and gen z and she knows that most millennials and gen z they ******* hate their parents they're going no contact oh she saw Oprah's special when Oprah put out that no contact uh podcast that exposed all these abusive parents getting cut the **** off Ayanna's not stupid remember she started off uh she has her juris doctorate she's a lawyer she was a public defender i believe Ayanna is not stupid she's very manipulative and strategic so what she said what she's doing with this new book and new series this whole press run is how am i going to attract this new audience of millennials and gen z i have to reinvent myself I have to cater to them in order to get their money, get them to support my book and my show. Therefore, I'm going to sit up here and pretend to be ******* accountable. Pretend that I'm a loving mother knowing I ******* wasn't. Admit my mistakes so that the millennials will think I'm really a good person and I'm not a narcissist. But once I pimp them and grip and scam and they buy enough of my books and the ratings on my show go up and I done made my money off these dumb motherfuckers, I'm going to retreat and go back to my toxic ways because I am 100% a narcissist. Notice Ayana and Oprah, they never ever say the word narcissist because they both know narcissist describes who they are as individuals. Toxic, controlling, manipulative, strategic, and they don't give a **** about us young people. They just have to reinvent themselves to get our money. They got the boomers on lock. they got the baby baby boomers will forever support oprah and ayala it's us young people they have to figure us out and we're they understand that us young people is taking a stand and we're not putting up with their ---- we're calling them out for being toxic so ayana has to put on a mask to reinvent herself to cater to this younger generation to get y'all coins she's full of ---- moment she gets y'all money hello talk to my millennials and gen z the moment she gets y'all money she falling back and she going back she going back to her old toxic self a narcissist never changes honey they know how to be they're chameleons they know how to adapt and reinvent themselves to get what they need out of people because they're transactional they're users so that's all she's doing she's grifting she's she's on this press run and she's grifting to cater to a younger audience till she gets y'all money and then she could fall back and be cool and say **** y'all i done got y'all money now let me go back to being my toxic self that's I'm going to say.