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I was a horrible mother. Horrible. I was a great father. Hold on. Hold on. No. No, we got to unpack that. I was a horrible mother, meaning when my kids were growing up, I didn't know what mothering was. I didn't understand it. And because the father wasn't in the home in a positive way, I did the providing. I did the protecting, I did the uh you know guiding and I didn't do the nourishing, the nurturing the affirming. Okay, am I going to be the only person to call out Ayanla, I have not seen anybody speak out against her I don't know if people are scared of her I don't know if people are scared because she's a life coach um or or you know she has this show and she's always you know, trying to help people get their life in order. What about Ayanla? Um, I'm just going to say it. Okay. I think Ayanla is a covert narcissist. Ayana is toxic. Um, maybe y'all don't see what I see. Um, I see when it comes to her children, she lost two daughters. I don't know if y'all knew that if you do a Google research on her background um and I'll just put a ledge just in case the information on Google is inaccurate but what I gathered she lost two daughters to cancer very young I think her first daughter uh was in her 30s and the second daughter was the more recent death her daughter was like 48 49 years old both women passed away from cancer red flag but the reason why I'm doing this video is because she was on the Breakfast Club and they were talking about her second daughter's death and how her grandson didn't want her there at the funeral she claims you know she had to go a day before to make peace with her daughter because she was not welcomed or I won't say welcome I will just say her grandson triggered was triggered her grandson obviously does not like her and this is where you know she made it about herself so I went the day before I saw my daughter day before maybe your daughter didn't want you there now this clip that I posted about Ayanna on the Cam Newton podcast which is another red flag y'all know how I feel about these toxic podcasts Ayanna has bounced from toxic podcasts I mean Tamron Hall show when I saw her on the Tonight's Conversation a metaphor that toxic relationship panel yeah i know it's Ayana is just like the rest of them sociopathic she's a covert narcissist but that Cam Newton interview sealed it for me if you listen to her exact words that is the same script of the baby boomer generation Ayana is a baby boomer that's how all baby boomer well i won't say all most of them we have a small percentage of baby boomers that weren't toxic and they were very affectionate and loving and great parents the rest of the boomers are ******* narcissistic as hell the me generation she said in that interview with Cam Newton um she was a terrible mother but a great father which is inaccurate because a father can also have an emotional bond and connection to his children. If he chooses not to, then he too is a narcissist. So what she was describing is she was a great provider. She made sure there was food on the table, roof over the head, clothes on the back. That is the textbook script of all baby boomers. I was a great provider, but I wasn't nourishing. I didn't nurture my children. I didn't give them affirmations. I didn't have enough time to. It was get dressed, get ready. Let's go to school. I got it. No, no, no. What she is describing is narcissistic personality disorder. I'm a mother and I know motherhood is not easy. I'm a single mother, but I'm going to tell you something. Loving a child is not hard to do. Nurturing a child is not hard to do. When your children wake up before they go to school, if you cannot take out three minutes to five minutes out of your day before they go to school to say, I love you. Let's say some affirmations. You're smart. You're beautiful. Don't let anybody violate your boundaries. If you cannot have small pep talks with your children, it only takes a little bit, two, three, four, five minutes out of your day to say positive affirmations, to love on your children, to hug them, nurture them. It only takes a couple minutes to read a bedtime story and hug your child before they go to bed. If you cannot give your child that emotional connection, you're a piece of ---- narcissist. And that's basically what she called herself without saying it in that ******* interview. She didn't have time to nurture her children. Everybody has time. Every mother has time. See, Ayanna was worried about that man in her house. That man was priority over her children. She's a pick me. And that's why that nigga flipped out on her ass. I believe it was, you know, and I'm not making fun of her domestic violence situation. You know, this is before she became famous. I think she was, um, um, living in Brooklyn. Was she an attorney? I don't remember her story. I think she was a lawyer or an attorney, uh, struggling with these children, but running behind this man, she prioritized that man over her children and she paid a price for it yeah because she's a pick me she's still a pick me loving a child nurturing a child instilling confidence building up a child teaching a child self-love affirmations nurturing it doesn't take a college education to nurture a child it takes a couple minutes out of your day to love on them hug them and let them know they are special they are loved they are somebody and if the world mistreats you mama got your back always and that's aside from the providing financial responsibilities the children are asked to be there you brought them into this world it is your obligation and responsibility to provide for them financially and don't guilt trip them about it that's what the boomers did they try to guilt trip their children well i put a roof over your head no that's not the child's place responsibility that's your responsibility it is your job to love and nurture them Jesus Christ loved all of us he didn't have to be reminded he didn't need a handbook he didn't have to be told the love came natural baby boomers lacked the ability to love and nurture their children Ayanna Vanzant is a narcissist I'm tired of her playing in our faces she got y'all fooled but she ain't got me fooled and Oprah her best friend her bestie is a boomer too I don't know if Oprah's her bestie but i'm sure she's up there in the top of her friends oprah's a narcissist and a boomer they click and they roll together in these groups so um y'all can keep following behind Ayanna y'all have made her rich just like Oprah i don't ******* buy her i don't support her and with her two daughters her grandson knew that she was a terrible grandmother and that's why he wasn't he didn't want her there because she abused she emotionally abused his mother and she still disrespected by going her daughter probably didn't want her there and she said I'm gonna go anyway I'll just go the day before like a textbook narcissistic baby boomer that's how they are overstepping boundaries I call bullshit Ayanna