Narcissistic Mothers are Huge Critics of Their Daughters #narcissist #narcissisticabuse

Your mother is your biggest critic because she knows she ******* failed at life. So because she's a ******* failure, she hates the ******* niggas. She hates your daddy. She hates your stepfather. Hates the no good niggas she's been laid up with. No, they ain't ----. She hates that she wasn't successful in life, but she's mad that you're successful. So she will find different ways to criticize you negatively. Whether it's body shaming you, nitpicking at your hair, your body, whether you're too skinny or you're overweight, you know, the way you dress. She'll pick everything apart. She'll find the smallest ---- to *******, you know, make fun of. She'll sit up and gossip to your sister, your aunt, your grandmother about you. Evil ******* bitch. She will overlook the fact that you worked hard to get yourself through college. she's mad about that you had so much against you and you still persevered and pushed through and you got your degree you think she'd be proud no she'll brag because it'll make her look good but she's not bragging in support of you it's always about her and her public image because she's a ******* narcissist your mother is so critical of you because she really is projecting what she should have done in life with herself she she cannot criticize or assess her own failures we all fail at life you know you have to fail in order to succeed and you know you take your failures and you learn from them and you try again and you build yourself up but that no no not your mama your mama will fail and get mad at you because she ******* failed she's not going to correct herself she's not going to reevaluate she's not going to seek therapy or treatment and even if she does she's going to play mind games with the therapist she's not going to learn anything out of therapy other than try to manipulate the therapist she cannot be critical of herself because she's a narcissist narcissists lack the ability to self-reflect self-correct they can't go deep inside but they can project their issues onto others and make it your problem so ladies if you find that your mama is super critical of you no matter how good of a person you are no matter how much of a high achiever that you are no matter how educated you are no matter how much of a high paying job you know you can have your own everything buy a house a beautiful home you've done everything right and your mama still finds ways to ******* nitpick at you and criticize you and compare you to your siblings and ---- on you and I promise you your siblings are not even on your level your siblings are not you you listen when it comes to achievements and accolades you are shitting on your siblings but your mama will make it a note to still put them on a pedestal and praise them over you just so she can make you feel small and insignificant and insecure she does it on purpose ladies i think it's about time you cut your mama off she's abusive you deserve to have women around you that will uplift you consistently lovingly no shaming no tearing you down love you no matter how weird you are how how unpopular you think you are if you dress different you know a lot of us are autistic no matter how different or quirky you are quirky you need people around you that will love every inch of you authentically you're not going to get that out of your mama or toxic ass family okay so when you're fed up of being criticized when you're doing everything right you'll get enough of the bullshit and you'll cut your mama off then she'll have no choice but to turn on everybody in the family because you're no longer there for her to ******* whip on and bully have a blessed day ladies