Your Mother Taught You Wrong About Men #narcissist #narcissisticabuse #mothersday

Your mama taught you wrong. You heard what the **** I said. She taught you wrong. And she deliberately did it on purpose. Because she hates her ******* life. Even though she got a man. Maybe she got a boyfriend. Maybe she's still with your raggedy daddy. Knowing he cheats on her. Maybe she's got, you know, married to another man. You know, a stepfather. And he ain't ----. But her entire life, she's always had a man. Right? She taught you wrong and I'ma drop some free game, some real game in this video. Mother's Day is right around the corner and I always make these videos to help those of you with abusive mothers to help you cope to get through this ----, we all in this together. I've built a big community for survivors of narcissistic abuse. You ain't got to go through this ---- alone. We we click, we all, we all here with you. My mother was a ******* tyrant and I took everything she did to me and I flipped it and now I'm using it to empower others. So don't you feel alone. Don't be depressed or sad. I've got you. I'm here to tell you when it comes to a man, a relationship, your mama taught you wrong. Listen up. There are two types of mothers that will teach you manipulation. The first type of mother is the mother that will teach you how to manipulate a man for his money, manipulate a man to get pregnant, manipulate a man to get married. If she's teach you manipulation of any of those three things that I just listed, your mother is a narcissist because she's teaching you how to control a man via his money, via a baby, via marriage. And she's not teaching you to run the criminal background or the mental background. She's saying overlook all of that. If he makes good money, never mind what his mental health is. Get his money. If he's light skin with good hair or if he's a white man, don't worry about his mental health. If he's crazy or bat ----, you know, a violent or whatever, ignore all of that. I need light skin grandbabies. I want to be able to brag that I have beautiful light skin grandchildren because I'm a colorist and I hate the color of my skin I'm talking to my black sisters how many of your mothers have racism issues they don't like dark skin so they they'll pressure their daughters to get with a white man biracial Spanish man or whatever because they want a light-skinned grandbaby so they could post pictures all motherfucking day on Facebook okay if your mama pressures you to have a baby that's light skin with good hair your mama is a narcissist if your mother is pressuring you to marry that man again it's about control because she's probably married and locked down to a piece of ---- nigga that she don't like but she's holding on to him for appearances and to maintain her married title I guarantee you especially if she's cheated on a nigga she don't like that nigga she just likes the benefit of being married being able to say I'm a I'm a wife I have a husband I'm better than you you're single you can't keep a man but look at me I was able to keep a husband that's all it's about appearances and maintaining a married title she don't like that nigga especially if she didn't cheated on him in the past she don't like him especially if she don't live with the nigga if they sleep in separate bedrooms or they don't even live together she don't like him but she got to keep up with appearances for Facebook and bragging rights fake bitch if she pressures you to get married your mama is a narcissist look at her fucked up situation with the nigga she got tell me if I'm lying. Now, the other type of mother that teaches manipulation is the good mom. The mom that's not a narcissist is going to teach you manipulation to get out of an abusive relationship. She's going to teach you, leave in silence. I'll come help you pack your things. I'll take care of the babies. Leave. Your mama probably advised you not to get involved with that man, no matter how much money. See if your mama is not a narcissist, she and she's blessed with discernment, you probably were hard-headed and you went against her advice and **** with the nigga anyway and then you got dragged. Your mama tried to warn you because your mama don't want you to repeat her mistakes the same mistakes she made with the men in the past in her life, she's giving you free games so you you don't make the same mistakes but because you're hard-headed, you went against your mama's advice. Now you're getting dragged so now your mom is going to teach you how to manipulate him so that you stay safe. Don't argue with the man if he tries to argue with you, agree with everything move in silence, plan your divorce in silence, stay safe your mama's going to give you safety tips and then she's going to help you escape. That's the only type of manipulation you should agree to to go with is if it, if it requires you know you uh finding an exit strategy to keep yourself and your children safe. Now back to the narcissistic mother that bitch is into witchcraft, witchcraft is about controlling a whole person, male, female your children, whatever. Narcissistic women who are sociopathic psychopathic will always teach their daughters how to manipulate a man to control his finances, control his life, control whatever, even if it means sacrificing your own happiness because your mama as a narcissist is unfucking happy but she's so male centered, she has to remain attached to a man, no matter how toxic he is, she will not teach her daughter to run a psych evaluation to require a psychiatric evaluation to see if the nigga is a narcissist um if he's violent a criminal background check does not reveal that there are men out here beating on women who have never been caught by the police. So they have a clean criminal background, but they've gotten away with harming women. So running a criminal background check is not enough. Your mama should be teaching you to ask that nigga up front about his mental health, to sit with him in front of a therapist and y'all both get psych evaluation. You do not go into anything until you know how a man was raised. If his mother is a boy mom and she acts like she's obsessed with him and in love with him that's a red flag you gotta look at how he was raised if his family is toxic if he has any undiagnosed things going on is he autistic is he narcissistic is he psychopathic what was his behavior in school these are things we were never taught our mothers knew better our mothers got dragged by men and they withheld the game from us because they secretly wanted to see us suffer narcissistic mothers set their daughters up for failure chasing behind men and then when you get dragged your mom will sit up and say I told you so she'll sit up and gossip about you that's why you got to cut her off now there's a lot of you like myself I have a sister I feel my sister is 100% a narcissist like our mother if your sister is toxic and she has a close relationship with your mother your sister will take your mother's advice your sister will will believe everything your mama teach her about a man your sister will be caught up making appearances trying to get a nigga for his money trying to get a ring on her finger and the nigga is a cheater abuser he's toxic the whole time she's following in the footsteps of your mommy and she's gonna **** around and find out end up with a ******* baby a single being a single baby mother listen to your mother's advice listen to your mama goes she's going to be single stuck and and full of regret okay following behind your mama staying attached to your mama and you know because a narcissistic mother does not want her daughter to be independent and have autonomy a narcissistic mother will always make it difficult for her daughter to leave her if her daughter is a narcissist her daughter will stay codependent even though they can't stand each other even though they're both toxic they are enmeshed so your sister is she's stuck she's ******* stuck and it's her mother is she listened to her mama she allowed her mother to dictate and rule over her and and have some sort of authority over the decision she made when it comes to a man choosing a man she did the same she repeated history she did what your mama did and now she's stuck and ******* miserable anytime a mother teaches a her own daughter how to manipulate a man for his money by getting pregnant or trying to chase marriage or whatever and and she ends up fucked over and stuck with an abusive man or gets pregnant by abusive man her mama did that ---- on purpose cut your mama off she taught you wrong and she deliberately set you up to fail peep game this is my book it's called i can't stand my mother this is an old rusty copy but this is available on amazon mother's day is around the corner y'all um just put my name in a search bar on Amazon spiritual whistleblower or channel Jasmine Clark and you will see this book get this book in time for Mother's Day y'all and it will help you cope I promise