FROM SURVIVOR TO TRUE THRIVER ‼️

Section, media selection, show you the world it's supposed to be. Baby, you should let me love you. Woo, it's Friday. Anybody else doing Throwback Friday? Oh, yeah. Your true beauty's description looks so good that it hurts. You're a dime plus 99, and it's a shame. Don't even know what you're worth. Everywhere you go They stop and stare Cause you're bad and it shows From your head to your toes Out of control Baby you know Someone said Mario for real Listen Y'all know I'm a little cornball At heart Come on now I'm a little cheesy You know What's up guys It's your girl Mommy So True On a Friday night Shout out to all of my all of my thrivers in the chat how you doing Alisa Williams i see you what's up beautiful lady Deshawn Target 6891 how are you doing beautiful lady i am so happy to be here i am so happy to be here are you atl yeah i'm in i'm in atl yeah yeah yeah i am i am just about a peach at this point been here that long hey i love this song though it's friday i'm just i'm just in my mode it's a vibe hopefully you are somewhere vibing so you know like just enjoying your evening i hope so i hope so because that's what thrivers do man i'm so happy to be able to share today's message with y'all because i know i'm talking to a lot of thrivers let me cut this music down y'all bear with me i've been jamming i am hot and sweaty but i feel great i've been dancing all over the house barbecued i mean it's been a wonderful day and don't mind the sweating hopefully i cool off here um as we talk but what's up guys happy to have the chat open happy that y'all are here hello um um vano vanodosis or something what's up brother hype man nerf the word what's up what's goody what's goody in the hoodie what up ashley so good to see y'all so good to see y'all oh my god there's a fly in here trying to kill my whole vibe like y'all bear with me because i'm be over here trying to fight a fly i hate flies i can't stand flies they remind me of narcissistic people i just be wanting to kill them smash them in the window oh man that vanilla vanilla okay vanilla i can't read i'm sorry i'm sorry y'all know my grandma's trash y'all know my grandma is trash but you know we are here shout out to those of you who are here able to join me on this live today brother hype man nerf for the word flies are narcissists they are they are oh my god when I had a narcissist in my house I used to have a lot of flies I don't know it was something about them attracting insects and unwanted animals but I think it's because the narcissist never washed their ass I think it's because they don't bathe that um yeah I don't know I don't know because I used to literally have to remind that person to wash their their their butt like it was you know that's another story for another day if you know like I know a lot of narcissists have very poor hygiene so that's why the flies represent the narc man from survivor to thriver that's today's title very happy to share this with you guys because like many of you this is exactly where you are and and others this is where you're trying to be and so let's talk about it let's talk about it guys shout out to all of you in the in the chat man shout out to my my subscribers my channel members those of you are here that are here as members to my channel thank you for the love and the support it's appreciated shout out to those who support Mommy So True merchandise those who book life coaching sessions with me throughout the week i am just very honored to be able to be a support to you continue to utilize any tools that i have available to help you become that thriver that i know you are capable of being michael boyd how you doing he says mommy so true hope all is well back to get the cook up started i appreciate all you do mr return of the empath i love that i love that i love that i love that guys oh man where did you get your custom heart in the background light up says too blessed to be stressed 1000 and uh maybe mine not a narcissist because most of them oh the comment disappeared on me um well for the sign um i got it on amazon i'm gonna have to find the link and send it to you guys those who are interested but it was actually custom designed by someone who i can also add the information in for you too if you're interested but i ordered the sign online got it custom made It is a custom-made neon sign, and I am so in love with this one. This one is special. It was gifted to me from someone who designs a lot of stuff with bedazzled jewels, and that's really my style. I love bling and diva stuff. I love pink, and I love sparkle and glitter, and yeah. So, you know, I digress. I digress. But guys, oh man, let's have this conversation so I can let y'all go because I'm excited to continue jamming to Missy Elliott and all these other throwbacks that I've been jamming to this evening because that's just me. I'm a 90s baby and music these days is cool, but it's not the same. And so I like to go back and listen to, you know, artists that I believe gave us some good music back in the day. But today we're talking about going from survivor to a true thriver. from survivor to a true thriver and I want you to bear with me as I get this out and of course I'll jump in the chat and I'll conversate with you guys a little bit before I leave you for tonight but man this is something that I can share with full gratitude all honesty transparency complete vulnerability and just know that this is coming from a place of transformational healing where a lot of us are witnessing it a lot of us are in that place right now post-narcissistic abuse we have gone from survivors to thrivers once upon a time we were victims we elevated from being a victim to surviving and getting out of it figuring it out figuring ourselves out figuring our lives out and from there we translate it into a whole new dimension of what's called thriving I want to refer to you guys in my family as the TTS the true thrivers true thrivers true thrivers to survive narcissistic abuse is one thing but to thrive after it it's a whole nother ball game it's a whole nother ball game if i got any real thrivers out there any true thrivers out there hit that like button and um if you're trying to get to that hit that like button you'll get there trust me you will get there because I know you will I know you will I used to be the one who didn't think being where I'm at now is possible but trust me you will get there because you went through the trenches you went through the ugliest of the ugly and it's now time to escape that wilderness that you've been entrapped in and on the other side of all of that the fear the hurt the pain the neglect the abandonment the heartbreak is a whole lot of happiness joy and light and I pray that we all get here I pray that anybody who is struggling to get here you get there and you gradually take your time to heal so that you can become a true thriver, a true thriver not just um you know not just a thriver for a few days not just a thriver for a few months but a thriver who's going to maintain their thriving status for the rest of your life. You've spent enough of your life being entrapped. You've spent enough of your life living for everybody else, doing for everybody else. And while you were doing it for everybody else, there was so much that you sacrificed that should have taken you out of here. A lot of what you gave, a lot of what you sacrificed, it should have ended you but true thrivers are the ones who are still standing, a true thriver is the one that in spite of the pain you're thriving in strength because remember strength does not mean this did not hurt you, a true thriver is someone who can move on in life knowing that it did hurt him, it did cause a whole lot of pain, it might have even set you back a little bit, but you fought through it. You stood still and you fought through it. You continued to keep your faith and you fought through it. You remember who you were born to be and you fought through it, a true thriver. See, when you look back about, when you look back to what you went through with narcissistic abuse, when you get to this place, you realize how pathetic they really were, you actually can think back to a lot of events, a lot of situations and laugh at it and the ones that you can't laugh at you look back and you just see how sad and pathetic it is to be them to do what they did to set you up, how they did to try to create this miserable ass life with you but it failed because you stood and you fought through it, looking back you notice what a coward what a coward this person was, what a coward you've been dealing with, true thrivers can stand back and say wow this person really never had any power they never had any power over me not over the situation they really were a joke the joke is really on them really really really it is because when you have survived it and now you're thriving past it they did not win they did not they did not achieve the goal. Yeah, it hurt. They left you ass bent backwards. Yeah, it hurt. But you've been through a lot already. You've been through a lot already. Many of you are fighters. You've been fighting your whole life. What happened to you with a narcissistic relationship, it was not fair. It was not okay. It was very hurtful, but it was an eye opener. You were able to fight through it because you are a warrior. You were born a warrior. You were born to be able to walk in the dominion of power you've been given a true thriver starts to see and understand this and fully embraces it not afraid to walk in their power not afraid to stand back and cross their legs and laugh at what clowns they just dealt with what clowns they just kind of escaped like because that's literally the the the last part of the healing is when you when you become that true thriver who sits back and really laugh at the attempt that the clown has made to destroy you. And as you truly thrive, you also see how much they will never thrive. They can never thrive like you. They can never get where you're going. They're nothing like you. They're not designed like you. So it's not the same for them. When you step on the other side of this, the true thriving side of this, You thrive in peace and joy. You learn how to embrace isolation. You learn how to enjoy being by yourself because now personal relationships mean more to you than they did before. You now know that in any relationship that you are a part of, you must be number one. You must put yourself first. You must remain a priority. You must always make sure that you've attended to you before you pull in everybody else. A true thriver learned some very serious significant lessons in life dealing with narcissists. You'll never sleep on yourself again. That's the biggest lesson for me. Going from survivor to a true thriver is seeing and valuing the being that you were born to be. And when you value that, you will never ever sleep on yourself again. A true thriver can look in the mirror, forgive themselves for the experience and make a vow to their self to never let it be a repetitive experience. This will not happen to me again. This will not be me again. This cannot be me again. I refuse. I refuse to be this low boundary person. I refuse to be afraid to speak up and say, no, I'm a true thriver. I know what that did to me before. I know that I had to survive being that people pleaser before and a true thriver we're not doing that anymore we're not we're not willingly or unwillingly here aiming to please anybody when we were surviving we were pleasing people we were still trying to find ways to make peace we were still staying quiet when we needed to speak up we were finding excuses for our for our abusers we were enabling a lot of them. When we were surviving, we were figuring it out. We didn't have all of the pieces put together. We made little mistakes. We spoke when we shouldn't have spoken. We neglected to make moves that we should have made because we were caught up in this narcissistic fog. Didn't really know if we were coming or going, where to go, how to do it. And some of you, you're in that place now where you're in survivor mode. You don't realize that you're growing and that you're healing, but you are. You're just in survivor mode. You're figuring it out slowly but surely. And a true thriver can tell you that, please, this is part of the healing journey. Have compassion for yourself and know that you're going to go from just surviving it to thriving past it. You'll become that thriver who doesn't allow the thoughts of that enemy to trigger you and pull you in a direction where you don't need to be. You'll be that true thriver where when you hear their voice, you become unbothered. It doesn't it doesn't affect you anymore. anymore it doesn't hurt your gut to hear from them a true thriver will not be offended by those pathetic hoovers the audacity to come hit your line up come knock on your door after they did the ---- they did to you come back around like you supposed to forget because you laying around needing them and you waiting on them or something it's insulting but a true thriver gonna laugh at that a true thriver ain't sitting somewhere waiting for answers anymore you figured out the answer. The answer is they are who they are. The answer is they are a problem. They've been a problem. They were raised to be a problem. The answer is you're nothing like them. A true thriver is the one who understands that you had nothing to really do with the fact that you were attacked. It was life and life is life. That true thriver knows that, man, I'm chosen. And that comes with a price. That comes with a lot to learn because a chosen one has a lot on their shoulder. You have a lot to to give you need a certain type of stability you need a certain type of security confidence and there's there nobody is going to teach you oh my god i don't think there's anything in this world that can better prepare a chosen one to stand up and walk fearfully in their power like narcissistic abuse i promise you i done been through some stuff but dealing with a narc woke me up in a whole different type of way a whole different kind of way I could never ever ever sleep on myself and I keep saying that I don't know how else to put it from survivor to a true thriver learning how to really become more concerned about my own self-care pouring into me doing what makes me satisfied and happy and not feeling bad about it if it doesn't make somebody else happy a true thriver oh my god to live in an unbothered state of mind and not care who's bothered by that that's a true thriver as a survivor i used to be bothered i used to allow maybe what they might say this they might look at me like that maybe i need to sugarcoat this maybe i need to not say nothing about that but as a thriver oh i'm letting that ---- out whether you want to hear it or not. Because what I'm not going to do is beat myself up on the inside because I have an opinion or I have a boundary. A true thriver does not give a damn who does not like the way they express their self. Of course, I'm not going to be rude. Of course, I'm not going to be, you know, attempting to humiliate or shame anybody, but I'm going to proudly, unapologetically speak up and do me a true thriver as a survivor i was finding it difficult to wake up get dressed and live my life wake up book a flight and go go on a vacation somewhere but as a true thriver ain't no hesitation when i'm ready to go live i'm i'm going to live i feel bad even having y'all on this right now on a friday night we need to be somewhere living what do you like to do on the weekends how do you like to enjoy your evenings some of us don't like to go out some of us we don't mind being in the house with a book or a good movie we don't need to be conformed and worry about people who don't care about us the mind of a truth a true thriver that that bulletproof mindset you don't need them you don't you don't have to have their presence you don't need their support you don't need their love you are good all by your damn self a true thriver no it's cool it's me and god it's all right even on my worst days it's good it's okay i'm all right i will be fine a true thriver has emotional intelligence you know what you're feeling and why you're feeling it and you don't allow it to ruin your whole day or your moment because you are aware awareness is thriving because healing post-narcissistic abuse you will have moments you will have days you will have times where you don't feel like you are a warrior but a true thriver recognizes those moments and find ways to bounce back the thing about narcissistic abuse and healing is nobody can really help you heal not for real nobody can really pull that thing out of you that needs to come out of you so you can feel fulfilled you have to do it you have to you have to escape that mindset of victim and survivor and go into I am a thriver I am motivated to be better and different I'm gonna find a way to get up and get out I'm gonna work out I'm gonna stop making excuses I'm gonna walk outside I'm gonna stop blaming everybody and I'm gonna make a way for me because they ain't gonna never do it they don't give a damn to do it they're not they don't care a true thriver understands that and knows that know that they they don't have to depend on nobody They don't need to feel like they must be validated by others. I got this. God is with me. Who can be against me? A true thriver, you walk with strength. You talk with strength. Not because you're just this magically tough being. No, it's because you understand what pain is, survivor. you understand what thriving truly looks like because you've been there you've been through hell and back some of you your story is is crazy it's insane some stories i still hear till this day and i just cannot believe it and then i'm hearing how the how you're living now after what you went through and i'm all i know is you are a true thriver you're a TT in my community there's a lot of TTs there's a lot of true thrivers there are so many of y'all who should have been held back by this evil ass situation but you are moving forward you found a way to get your ass up and go go handle your business every day because you had to survive a time where you couldn't find the strength to do it you were being drained emotionally your spirituality was under attack your your your mental was shitted on some of you the abuse was so deep that you appear to be stupid and you're not you had to pull your power back and say you know what you got me messed up because I'm not an idiot the pain will cause so much damage that you'll come off as a dumbass that you just you just you slow but that ain't the case and a true thriver is the one who snatches their power back and say you know what you got me completely messed up I'm not the one who needs medication you do I am not the one who needs a therapist you do because a lot of you you sitting there going to therapy you've been to therapy you was going to therapy as a survivor thinking you were the problem but a true thriver takes their power back and they say there's there ain't nothing wrong with me there is nothing wrong with me let me kill all of that self-criticism let me get rid of that self-doubt because I'm a true thriver and I'm no longer thriving in self-doubt I am no longer thriving in self-hatred I am a true thriver I survived the unimaginable some of you this is this involves your children this involves some serious people in your life that you never thought would do you the way they're doing you you've had to muster up some type of a crazy strength to remain unbothered and move on with your life and that is so freaking amazing I want you to make sure that you give yourself a clap on the back. Some of you have had to learn how to really say no to people you love. You've learned how to walk away from people you love. You are a true thriver. You are a true thriver. A true thriver is the one who knows that there is power in walking away. There is power in staying away. I do not need to waste my energy with you. I don't need to waste my words with you because you're mentally deaf true thriver knows that this idiot is mentally deaf you're not you're not you're not mentally disordered you're mentally deaf there's nothing i can say to you there ain't ---- i can do for you you are lost in the damn sauce and i am going to thrive and pour all of that ---- that i keep pouring into you keep trying we did that we tried to pour into them we tried to give so much of our good selves to them and you just kept getting slapped in the face just every time slapped in the damn face but you had to step into that thriving mode and get out of survivor mode because that that ain't that ain't that was not for you to be doing that was not your job to be validating somebody who doesn't even respect the being that you are sitting there tolerating disrespect a true thriver we you ain't doing that you ain't doing that not taking disrespect from no man no woman for the sake of a marriage for the sake of a relationship, parent, I don't give a damn. I am truly thriving and moving on. I am going to individuate, have my own life. Many of you are like me. You were raised in narcissistic family households. You had to learn how to be your own self at an older age. You finally had to learn how to be yourself. Grown as hell out here. Finally learning how to socialize, learning how to get new friends. That ---- sucks. But we survived all of that. Many of us, this has been slowly grooming us to be our best selves. As we truly thrive in life, we are becoming the best versions of ourselves. This is why I said, man, the abuse actually set us up for something that they didn't even recognize was going to happen. You put me in a place I needed to be. You helped me see that i i was a victim at some point you helped me embrace that i am a survivor and now you're helping me walk firmly as a true thriver because that kind of abuse i will never tolerate again in my life a true thriver i'll never forget where the strength i now have came from i don't have this strength and this resilience because i'm just some damn i don't know superhuman no this ---- this ---- came from from real tears this ---- came from getting on my knees times where i did not want to get on my knees and pray to god because i did not know what else to do as a survivor i just did not know what else to do all i did was cry crying out loud crying inside crying to other people all i did was cry looking for answers searching for answers asking god why why why but as a true thriver I understand why there's purpose behind the pain I get it I get it you tried to kill me you were never gonna be able to successfully do it because of who I was born to be I get it there was so much purpose behind the pain I needed to marry that narcissist I needed to go through that a lot of y'all are like me you have you learn things the hard way you're a hard headed empath I know I am I ain't gonna I'm not gonna sit here and act like I've been stubborn in my life i've learned things the hard way sometimes i think i know things and i'll find out okay girl you ain't you ain't know what you was talking about but it's okay i'm a true thriver i own up to that i know how i am i know how fast i like to move because i know the thinker that i am i think fast and i see i have visions and so so when i see ---- i'll be like ready to go with it let's go let's do it and sometimes moving too fast will get you in trouble and i've learned that I needed to marry that narcissist I'm telling you something deep here from survivor to thriver before that narcissist I was already surviving I was already a survivor I had already been going through a lot of ---- I had already been dating a lot of useless freaking men that were teaching me what to do what not to do I was already learning I was learning slowly but surely before that narc I had been through a lot of hell and back so he was not anything new I just had to learn to stop tolerating that because i was better than that he's calling me guys hey cuz i'm at home just pull up okay okay i didn't want to ignore your call all right bye see what i'm saying it's friday we're thriving we need to live our lives man got my cousin coming over to kick it with me today i'm so happy um man so from survivor to thriver before i met that that fool i was already a warrior i was already going through things i was already preparing myself for stuff you know and so it was like okay you thought you were gonna come destroy me i know i look fragile on the outside but you don't know what's what's inside of me learned real fast but you had you had me fooled for someone else so much purpose in the pain let me look through these comments a lot of us we have gone from survivor to true thrivers we're not interested in looking back we're not interested in going back we're not interested in trying to fight for them trying to like it's it's on with the next it's on to the next it's life moves on it carry on peacefully you know Lonnie Watkins signed my papers this week joy is here ah what's up Lonnie so happy for you brother congratulations oh that's awesome that's awesome I am so happy to have been here and shared this with y'all I really I want to change my live scheduling because y'all I'm not gonna lie I am I'm in a different place on my healing journey my lives don't stop but like on a Friday night I want to be doing something with myself you know I want to be somewhere pop locking and dropping it no I ain't gonna I ain't doing all that I'm old the knees are hurting these days we ain't doing that no but um you know stay tuned I have some changes coming I'm also going to be asking you guys to RSVP for my first meet and greet really it's gonna really be like an annual conference thing that I want to start doing this year will be the first one I told you guys initially that I was aiming for June but I'm gonna I'm gonna ask you guys to forgive me I want to push back I want to give you guys some time to plan for it um it'll be like a two three day event something like that where you know you come hang out with mommy so true for a day or two in Atlanta Georgia um you know get a room where i'm gonna be at something like that you know we'll plan it but i don't want to go overboard but i want to do enough for my my members my family my survivors my warriors my thrivers um just come out we'll have a little retreat for healing you know and moving on post-narcissistic abuse so i'm working on it stay tuned if you are interested in coming i will be sending um information to rsvp really soon but we're gonna look to august okay august the weekend of the 23rd is what i'm aiming for so i know i said june but guys i have to switch it around to make sure that everything gets done properly enough time is given so you all can prepare and so i can get myself ready but yes this is our first annual um healing retreat with mommy so true i look forward to it more details to come as time goes on so yay cindy s so true i'm still having to deal with my narcissistic sister she's going to hate me no matter what i do i breathe and she hates me i'm working on relaxing in my own skin being a thriver you got this relaxing your own skin remain unbothered she gonna hate you for the rest of your life anyway so why not live why not be happy she's a sore loser leave her there debbie galisa i love being home it would it could be age but i've always been a homebody this super empath has it going on i have too debbie i've always been a homebody i actually enjoy it like on a friday night there's so many things there's games there's there's i can cook you know i love to dance i love to cook i love to eat i got my dogs i mean there's so many things that i can do like so yeah you don't always have to go out i'm a homebody just like a lot of y'all empaths we really don't like people like that we really don't like people like that i'm just gonna put it out there at least me like when i go out man certain type of energy start coming in that room in that building i'll be ready to go i'm that one i'm ready to go i don't drink for real give me a little shot i'm i am i am already drunk ready to go lay down ready to go to sleep i'm not that type of partier i party like my my energy is like is natural i don't need all that extra stuff like some people just be doing too much and then i'll be like ready to go i i'd be the party pooper like okay it's nine o'clock it's bedtime for me true thriver has intelligence says brother hype man nerd for the word. Narcissist has insanity. Yes. Yes. What up ZZ? Why does it feel like a loss when they move on with the other supply? Because that's the thought that you have about it. Your thought is that it's a loss. You need to change that thought. It's not a loss. It's not a loss. Pay attention to what you're saying because you were just with that person. Remember how they treated you. They showed you who they are so now they've moved on with someone else they are still that person so going with someone else still with a bad character does not equal out to be a loss for you I hope that makes sense because it should there's no way it's a loss for you when this poorly characterized being moves on to go and victimize somebody else it's a loss for that new person really it is because they probably think they hit the jackpot. Little do they know their whole life is about to get shitted on. It's not a loss. It's a win for you. They did you a favor. You should be full of gratitude. It feels like a loss because you're probably an empath and you probably wanted them to give you what you gave them. And so you're disappointed because you didn't get that. And I understand that but let that ---- go because it's their loss they lost you be a thriver and change the way you are thinking about the relationship with the narc if they discarded and they left you pay attention to that it's their loss they lost you they're running away because they can no longer hide the poor character that they have so someone else has to do the job you're no longer qualified to be a doormat it's their loss it's someone else's loss not yours not yours okay thrive on thrive on with that it's it's someone said it see freckles place told you zz it's an illusion you better listen to your thriving friends in the chat you better listen man keep moving forward thrive on that's their loss that new person is going through hell that new person is not going to survive that ---- that you just survived they're not they're not going through it's not it's not what you think you're dealing with a narcissist change how you're looking at it because you're not dealing with a logical person you're dealing with a clown and it's on to the next clown act okay new supply new clown leave it there alan alan underscore a love my hurt my herbs okay had to survive and move forward too many lives depending on me this fly is too many lives depending on me you have to you have to you cannot allow this thing to just keep you in a chokehold for the rest of your life you have to choose to thrive you gotta choose to thrive i'll throw i'll drop that in there before i let y'all go you have to choose to thrive you gotta want to be a thriver you do you cannot let your mind weaken you in this situation you have to allow that bulletproof mindset to work someone said narc free four weeks you better get it make it four years good oh my god i've got an issue though with my narcissist sister i had a cardiac arrest six months ago she was the one who called 9-1-1 i thank god i survived it now she's hateful and states that she saves me yeah every narcissist feels entitled to do something for you she's gonna say that for the rest of her life you gotta be unbothered by that, "you saved me," okay cool if you think so, i didn't know you were god, just say that ---- in your head while she you know while she's talking, i didn't know you were god but okay, "you saved me," what do you want, a trophy? huh? you want a cookie? you saved who? they really think they some god, like, like shut the hell up, you saved who? you called 9-1-1, that's what people do when somebody is going through something, you want a damn brownie for that? killing you and then saving you, they love playing god, yeah someone look, we on the same thing man, freckles place, we on the same look y'all know y'all know these things y'all know these things, i ain't gotta tell y'all so many thrivers in here man, y'all got wisdom just like me, y'all know exactly what's going on because i understand it now, i definitely don't hate them i needed to go through that, it is what it is, yep, i feel the same way, anna thank you for dropping that, i feel the same way, i'm, i feel triumphant and i feel like it's a testimony and i'm just like i can't even hate you, you're a dumbass, you're a fool, i feel sorry for you, that's where i'm at like the hatred goes out the window when you see how pathetic they are, a true thriver is like i don't got time to be resentful wish all hell don't wish bad karma, i don't care about none of that because first of all i'm a true thriver, i know you're gonna get what you deserve that's just how ---- works i mean i just i mean come on now so you got it you got it enjoy life i will i will no longer be concerned about you because i know how stupid you are i know how useless you've been i know you are stuck like chalk you ain't going nowhere i know everybody after me ain't me i i know you're doomed like i a true thriver you're you you know you just know so it makes it easy to move on you're like i understand now it ain't even your fault bruh your mama was a narc i get it your whole family is trash i get it it ain't even your fault the person who created you is a damn narcissist oh it makes sense your enablers are narcs i get it you're useless i don't have time to keep thinking about you talking about you worrying about you that ---- is not my concern and and she had to serve this respect with distance says alan keep that over there oh when you are chosen you are given a lot of tasks discernment target listen a lot of tasks we ain't no small people we ain't no small people somebody said they like my shirt thank you awoken empath yes yes this was in my store a couple months ago they sold out they'll come back soon you know keep an eye out on the merch sometimes they sell out but when people request them they come back awoken empath one of my favorite shirts actually one of my favorite shirts oh man i appreciate all of you who are here i i'm so grateful for my thrivers Tabitha Moore i will never accept disrespect or abuse never again i'm with you on that i am with you on that oh man i'm so happy y'all made it it's it's friday night i hope you got some plans this weekend to have fun enjoy your life live unbotheredly you know just snatch your life back keep your power all that good stuff because that's where we're at and that's where we're staying that's where we're staying oh man shout out to those of you who made it in the chat for the first time it's nice to have you here if you're new to the community and you want to subscribe don't hesitate to do it hit the notification bell so you don't miss when i'm available right so yep someone said it they don't change for the new supply they don't nothing changes they're still who they are i have my narc story and would like to share it with you delight shine okay we would like to hear it if you ever want to you know book a free interview when i start those episodes back up make sure you reach out and share your story with the world if you're interested sometimes i do give my thrivers a chance to jump on my channel and share their story i think it's really awesome i think it's really awesome to do because some stories they just need to be told they need to be heard you don't know who you're gonna help happy pink i'm in a hospital with a husband sitting at house acting like a victim you'll be much happier if you leave that ass i'm just gonna put it out there hopefully you got a good um what's it called when people die and they leave money and i know i'm being real jerkish a little bit but i promise y'all i'm a true thriver and I just don't care. When you're talking about narcissists, there is no being nice about certain things. I used to be that survivor empath, try to sugarcoat things. But when it comes to narcs, you got to be straight up. I am never going to entertain somebody sitting there telling me that they're miserable in a narcissistic marriage and I'm sitting there telling you how to fix it. I am going to flat out tell you, run. What you waiting on? Take your power back and stop allowing yourself to be trapped in that in that life sometimes it's easier said than done but i promise you if you get out of victim and survivor mindset and go into thriver mindset you will no longer give a damn about what you're leaving behind what you've built with them all of that don't even matter your freedom and your peace is everything man i'm that super empath that if i had it my way there would have been a there would have been a uh there would have been a death involved okay I'd have been cashing out on some money if I had it my way for the ---- that I went through but I've healed so I ain't gonna I ain't gonna get petty but that's the kind of person that I was because that's how painful this was and I do not want to be here enabling anybody to think that it's okay to still be in a relationship with a narcissistic person that is hurting you that is not fair and I want to give you the righteous anger to figure out a way to get out of it because you don't deserve it you don't deserve it sitting there playing acting victim look y'all really gonna sit there and keep tolerating these childish ass temper tantrum throwing ass 50 plus year old ass people these narcs be grown as hell acting like children and y'all sitting there still dealing with it i'm so sorry i'm so sorry and my prayer is that if this is you still in a situation with a narc still struggling to come up with a plan i pray that you muster up the strength to figure out a way out i don't care how old you are i don't care what the circumstances may look like what i care about is your happiness and your peace whatever little bit of life you got left you need to grab that ---- and live that ---- don't leave this earth the way they've had you held captive on this earth like don't do that don't do that alissa williams says we feel like it's a loss when we didn't walk away first i discarded him so the hurt subsided quickly yep y'all bought me a gift for my birthday and took it back laugh out loud shaking my head oh my god oh well i had surgery tomorrow i have surgery tomorrow good luck with surgery dj guys i'm gonna let y'all go go oh man i appreciate all y'all being here the vibes the comments man y'all are awesome i just want to make sure that i'm not leaving any comments that may catch my eye on red oh man but from survivor to thriver is where we're at 50 plus 70 year old ass people real talk i appreciate y'all man thank y'all for rocking with me i'm gonna let y'all go it's been a beautiful friday night y'all probably see me pop up on live this weekend there's so much love and light on my heart and i want to translate it to those of you who need it so if i pop up this weekend you know just join me on that live and let's talk but until next time please keep thriving keep remaining unbothered continue to educate yourself if you still need that because empowerment comes in education just accept what you're hearing because they're not lying to you they're telling you truth about these narcs do not try to try to defend it and just because they're talking about something your narc didn't do now you think that they're possibly not a narc no they are who the hell they are accept it and then now embrace who you are and work on it so you can live a thriving life shout out to my true thrivers shout out to my fearless warriors on game y'all keep on shining i see y'all next time i promise i'm gonna freshen up before i jump back on here next time go get my hair done and you know yeah not be all sweaty sometimes i gotta be myself on here like i i ain't tripping i i really i am who i am you know so man guys enjoy your night okay stay blessed until next time it was so nice to talk to y'all bye guys thank you sam and i see you in the chat thank you for the sweetness god bless you all everybody stay blessed have a wonderful night and until next time guys deuces bye