"What I Saw at The Grocery Store Confirms Women are Pushing Men Away From Dating"

All right, this one's titled men are seeing something at grocery stores and it confirms that women have pushed them away from dating It's the classic this one's by a headspace with Spiro, you know, let's take it away I recently picked up a friend of mine from a local grocery store in the area and when he got in the car He seemed very distraught about something and I was curious as to what happened now I thought the $10 a pound ground beef or the $8 bag of tangerines might have been enough of a red flag, but apparently it wasn't and he told me that he had talked to a woman there who worked there and that the interaction at least that face value seemed to go well and He said that he had asked for her phone number and that she opted to want to exchange Social medias now my buddy does not use social media classic. He is someone who is very much Living and is a proponent of a more kind of analog life And really he sees social media for what it is quite frankly, but when he told her that he does not have a Social media. She said that it is creepy. She ended the interaction there and I told my friend directly dude, you shouldn't care what she thinks you shouldn't have any care in the world what a woman like that thinks or says I Guarantee you even if he would have had a social media she would have found something else That doesn't suit her fancy and the guy's six-foot-three. So she would have had to run down the list I'm sure she would have eventually found something. Yeah, because I've even heard of things like this happening. Actually this happened to a cousin of mine Where he ended up talking to a girl he ended up exchanging information with her and She saw that he had a social media But that he didn't have a big catalog of posts and wasn't posting anything recently and she said the same thing She said that she thought it was creepy. She thought it was weird now When I hear stuff like this and then I see modern women who Say things along the lines of why are men not approaching women anymore in public that they want men to return to Dating and stuff like that When they are the epitome of why men aren't doing those things All while at the same time With their social medias They will be posting things on there that are really the epitome as to why men do not want to date anymore I've seen women who their whole catalog on their social media account will be Pictures at a nightclub pictures at a rave. They'll be following things. They shouldn't be following all different kinds of reasons to not want to have anything to do with her and I'll put it directly The reason why men stopped approaching is in part because for many years They've been told that they are a creep for things like this You have women who their default response to even getting eye contact from a man is to say that he's a creep Mind you this is if he has no intention of wanting to date her or anything beyond a casual conversation She's just a woman who's the cashier at a grocery store They will try to say that he's a creep and of course we all I Think a big one, too Is you really only a creep if they don't find you attractive? Yeah Another thing too with the social media deal. I'm not a big selfie guy You know a lot of men You know you take I don't know take the best pictures of ourselves You know you see somebody's profile looks like they're taking pictures from like 2012 um you know they don't really know how to present themselves And you know they're not out in public taking these nice photos and aesthetically pleasing magazine catalogs in their Instagram which does matter It might not make sense what I'm saying But you know you could see a chick with not such great photos And you're like oh she's cute, but when they see a guy who doesn't have great photos Or they'll just look not great like the photograph itself is not great They'll look at you like you're you're a loser or something. This is true. This is very true not for all women Most a lot of women don't care about your social media presence. They don't I've been with enough of them. They don't care. There's something to think about and honestly five weddings I've been to in the past six years They all met online It's a normal thing Like if you're a dude right now in 2026, and you're just getting laid Off the grocery store aisle three checkout dude Cash your number six and you're bagging a honey Bag it and tag it swing across a conveyor belt Dean What? your next level you are Beyond the ether So just in case I like those dude, right, but I'm just saying if you weren't aware of How a lot of people even in their 30s Do this it's it's I Think it's lame. I think it's stupid if she liked the guy she wouldn't care if you had a social media But I'm saying that this is kind of how transactions go nowadays whether you like it or not Just in case you didn't know Throwing that out. I personally don't care. That's the truth Know that it varies in terms of if they find the guy attractive based on whatever Unrealistic standard or social media standard or dating app standard they're using nowadays We all know that's the case But most men now have totally opted out just like the buddy of mine who dealt with a thing at the grocery store now he's someone who Took some time off of which I don't want to get into his personal business, but he did say that I could talk about this He spent some time kind of isolated from society. I'll put it that way for a number of years and Of course dating apps were still a thing back then back when he was more kind of around the city. I was in But he said even from the short time that he's been back Just of how Downhill things have gotten now. My thing is this I'd argue it's of course things were never perfect. I think that's really gotten out of hand recently But you could argue this thing that's been going on for many years even Yeah, ten years ago. If you told me you just bagged the shorty from register five Down it down at the public's or the trader Joe's The trader hoe over there on cashier number two, what'd it do I would have been like, oh man, that's sick but if you tell me that nowadays you just You just got you just locked it down I'll for at Walmart dog. That's unheard of nowadays. It just is the exchange of information I'm just throwing that out Heat that's true. What do you say it is drastically different thousand percent five of five weddings all online Every single one of them all of them and I would even argue. I'm gonna take it a step further I'm gonna take it a step further Let's say you're working at a restaurant or something You might exchange numbers with the person but I'm willing to bet in today's culture tip right now You might actually exchange Instagrams or Facebook's Before you exchange phone numbers thousand-percent, I Can't tell you how many people I'm friends with on Instagram or some other thing No phone number. No phone number. They want to get a hold of you. They message you Email it not email but direct message. I don't I didn't make this up This was happening four or five years ago when I was actually had a job and I was with co-workers and you know what? I've actually hooked up with some chicks Strictly through Instagram knew that met them in real life. No phone number That's how the contact happen. Even if you don't use it, you don't use it. You lose it Throwing it out there man. I hate to be the guy to tell you this, but if you want to get laid nowadays You don't need all the aesthetic pictures imagine we just had an Instagram with one post it's a way for them to message each other It's not it's normal in the younger community Okay, so 35 and down hell even 40 year olds hollering at each other on Facebook I'm not crazy. That's how the world operates and it is odd. It's strange I'm not saying it's not not weird not saying that Never said that anyone been decades, it's just now we're kind of seeing the Almost the perfect storm come together, right? but men looked at the deal Much like my friend has now they've looked at the offer and they have decided to walk away for example, let's say you're trying to Sell your car or something like that, right? Or you're trying to sell something online And someone makes you an offer that it's a lot less than what you would have wanted to take You're obviously going to decline it You're not gonna want to take part in that that's exactly how men feel when it comes to looking at the deal and the offer of dating nowadays and modern women and You just look at women Because I want to talk about social media since I guess it was the subject of discussion with what my friend dealt with But you even look at the things women are posting on there and quite frankly the things that they are doing on there Thinking that they're gonna get attention and validation. I'll put it this way When I was a kid, I used to play Wrestling they do get plenty of validation from online. I don't care if it's 50 likes Lot a lot of them feed off that but a lot of them don't There's a lot of women who don't care don't even have social media you don't see them online They're usually coupled up They are Like this dude, like this guy Sometimes they act like it's impossible or like there's no There's no woman to be had, you know, they're gonna stay with you forever Statistically speaking, but the sex is there it's happening. It's all too real Speaking of deals to be had I got the RLP classic shirts Ten bucks getting them out the door trying to get rid of the rest of these support the channel links down below Clearance sale. They're great shirts. Just we're moving. I'm trying to get rid of them So I don't feel like lugging around two more boxes with me Anyways, appreciate your support and I'm rooting for you, man. I want you. I want your penis to do well, you know Want sex in your life and women that respect you and don't care if you have a social media presence But I will say one thing if you do end up with getting chick out in the wild Remember years ago. This is this doesn't never happens anymore There's this chick that used to hang out at our house when I live with a couple of friends when I was 21 Never got her phone number Never got her phone number. She'd come over at least once a week. We'd all hang out So about month goes by next thing, you know, we're doing the hokey-pokey letting it all hang out Uh-huh. In other words, we had sex the end of the night She stayed till like 3 in the morning. I'm sending her on her way kissing her slapping her butt. Goodbye And she goes I don't even have your phone number. This is like 2010 So Instagram wasn't even a thing yet, and I got you don't need it, baby Like try pulling that one today I'd love to see it. I'd love to see it. I romanticize the old days too. I really do I get it. I I do Polaroid pictures and you know keeping pictures in your wallet. I Romanticize it too guys, but let's be honest about stuff here. This is how the world operates now. It's just what it is Sling game and this was back when I was a lot younger and you know You bought the game and you would go down the aisle at the store and you'd have the disc in hand But I would do kind of character customization and anyone who knows who's done that in a video game Knows that with a little bit too much freedom. You might make some very kind of You know odd things right? I remember in the wrestling game. I had a character who he ended up Becoming green and his shoulders were out to here and all this kind of stuff But when I see modern women and all these So-called enhancements that really do the opposite that they are doing to themselves Lips going past here all this kind of stuff it looks Absolutely ridiculous. I'm gonna call it like I see it and That is in part the damage that social media has done if it's not to them In terms of the way they think it is physically It is physically Most of the influences that women get on there or just have in general I would say are negative and along the lines of how not to be a wife how not to be a mother being told that men aren't needed and That's just getting started on the behaviors. I mean look at a lot of the Podcasts that younger women are watching you'll understand exactly what men are talking about But you combine that with the phone and you get exactly what we have today and I want to add on that too Not completely. I I agree with the guy I do but it's gone both ways You know cuz men listen to this too, right? Like I like this guy subscribe to him I was a headspace with Spiro give him a like I Like this cat I do But this kind of content is is For men as well. Like I'm a relationship guy. I like I want to be in a relationship. I still have hope right? I've been with some pretty Bimbos, you know, but like I've never been with somebody with fake lips, you know Like there's plenty of them that don't have fake lips and fake tits. Although fake tits are fun. I've tried them out They're crazy aesthetically. I mean, they're pretty insane. I get it, right? There's a reason why they're popular Men like them so women keep doing it, right? My point is is it's not like Every woman is just like this vanity creature. Although it can seem that way Right, and then when you see videos And then there's a plethora of videos like this to where all of a sudden before I go in the comment section I really just want to say this a lot of other guys bad experiences Are posted to the internet now. There's full-blown shows about it and episodes and I make content too. It's fun I like talking about this stuff. Now. I'm in a successful relationship Right, and then if she decides to leave me one day, whatever. Okay, I'm in it for the ride You know what I'm saying, but I pick to the best of my abilities But what I'm saying is is a lot of these Lot of these problems and experiences just gonna leave you she's cheating on on the divorce Next thing, you know You listen to a lot of the stuff and then you on top of seeing all these Women that present themselves online to be him hussies and little scamps tits out butts shaking in the breeze You start to think that all of the women are like this and then all of these bad things Men start living as if they actually want their divorce as if they actually have been cheated on and they haven't But you it's like this weird phenomenon of that and that is an internet phone problem Right. So like just for a second. Sometimes you got to like remember that none of these things have happened to you Maybe they have right like I've been cheated on get over it. You know what I'm saying? It like whatever Wasn't the one They're not all gonna hit But I've been with some really good really good women and a lot of them are married now with kids and they're in successful Relationships, there are plenty of them out there They're just maybe not at aisle three, you know, and if they are very vain and you know that well then forget it It's like they're too vain. You're not gonna want to be with them. Anyways, right? I'm just throwing that out there because I like to be the other side of the coin, you know I like talking about both sides, right? Plenty of women who feel the same way you do right like yes, are their standards a little hot? Of course Our standards are high, too We don't want bimbos we don't want chicks that are gonna use us We don't want chicks with fake this and fake that and vanity this and money this We're the same way, right? Just just I would say they're a little worse off most of them But guys can be like that too. So, you know just throwing that out there, right? I'm old enough to remember when being on social media was considered creepy. Now, let's not forget why porn is so Successful, right? Let's never forget that it's not successful because people don't want to watch it. Just remember that Remember that it's a lot of guys No offense, but they talk this stuff and the next thing you know, they're they're watching these same women that they hate so much Get plowed on the internet. There's the truth. All right, I've done this I get it. I've watched it Strangers having sex I've watched it. I stopped watching it because it's a little weird Stop watching a few years ago, but I've done right So so when you when you sit here start shaming these people, it's like, okay, it's like, alright, you know, just don't guilt with them Deleting my social media years ago. Never once ever ever regretted it. I enjoyed my privacy Yeah, a lot of women a lot of people are just like the post share their life. They like the validation That's women and men, but I would say women really love it Women's social media is a shrine to herself yet is a little weird or like their family It's just everything they ever do has to be posted They want you to have social media so that they can dig into every aspect of your life. Yeah, it's a vanity thing, too How do they present themselves to the world through the internet? It's a real thing They can't comprehend the fact that others can live without compliments every five minutes. Yeah, it's a rough one. I do get it I've never been with a woman who is obsessed with social media Selfies and stuff like that. I've never been with anyone like that and I've been with a lot of women so not a lot a lot of women, but a lot of women in your everyday average person It's not a brag. I just have that I'm old been around No doing it a long time. So over the years just by proxy just happens. I refuse to use social media No need to broadcast my life Yeah, no, I get it. If I wasn't if this wasn't my job, I wouldn't be posted nothing Maybe some skateboarding stuff. I would be posting that that's for fun. So I like it an art. It's creative for me Social media is an extension of school. They never grew up. Never will I'm gonna finish this video without you Shout out the headspace with Spiro. I like this cat. I really do I'm just on the other side of the coin to where it's like, well, yeah, this is how people live now Through the internet is how we connect and talk You know, it's just kind of like you have to almost accept that right and then if you do get a chick's number out in The wild and you do go that way. Oh my god, you did it dude Like, you know, you got a real one so Just remember this. Okay, and a lot of people don't want to settle down till they're 30, right like Like this cat look like this cats gotta be mine She's gotta be like mid 30s, maybe pushing 40 and if he's not well, you know It's just my assumption between 30 and 40 I'm gonna guess right But there's it's it's it's not uncommon for somebody of this age Even myself to not settle down to this age because we've all been inherently selfish You know what? I mean? Like most of us have like it's not it's not it's not not common For everyone to start settling down at 32 35 You know cuz we all want to have our fun That's women too. And that's men. That's men too. Let's not kid each other. It's not joke around about like let's not It's not lie to each other. So anyways, I love a talk. I'm gonna watch the rest of this video without you I'll leave a link down below but um Yeah, dude, if you're bagging honeys and getting numbers and having sex with women because you met him in aisle three Like she rang me up Incredible dude Like that's unheard of that's it's a movie. That's what that is Don't be turned into a feature film Anyways links to the shirts down below appreciate everybody that's joined the channel. Also, you're a youtuber get yourself a phone number, okay? This guy would do great with a phone number. You should get one. Okay, this guy would do phenomenal Get yourself a phone number guys would love to talk to you Anyways, hell of a talk. It's free Make money or not. That's stuff