Women INSTANTLY REJECT Men Who Lack THIS Masculine Trait

What's up brothers? Hope everyone's doing well out there. So this is one of the most important lessons that a man can learn. I've listened to you guys. I know some of you have said some of my more recent videos have been a little too complex, a little difficult to understand. I get it, you know, but I've been at it for 10 plus years so that's just where we're at. But in tonight's video we're going back to the basics. You know, this is something that everybody either needs to know or they need a reminder about every now and then. And it's related to masculinity and femininity. You know, we can say masculine polarity and feminine polarity. If you don't know what that means, we're about to get into it. Because if you don't get this right, you'll pay the price. Now I'm going to start out with a little story. Well, more of an analogy, but a story nonetheless. Not true obviously, but just follow me on this. A 21-year-old man walks into a bar and he sees a 21-year-old woman sitting there. So he takes a seat next to her and he asks her if he can buy her a drink. She says, sure, I'd love one. He says, all right, what are you drinking? She says, I'd like a strawberry margarita. So he says, bartender, give me a strawberry margarita and a glass of scotch. And as an opener, he asks her what her favorite movie is. And she says, my favorite movie. Oh, Bambi. And the man says, Bambi, why Bambi? She says, I just love those deer. I just think they're so cute. Something about those deer. And the bartender butts into the conversation and he says, well, hot damn young lady, I think you've come to the wrong bar. And he points up to the wall. He says, see that 29 point buck up there? That's one of my best hits. I make deer cry. So the 21-year-old man looks at the bartender and looks at the girl and she's a little upset because she loves deer. So the 21-year-old guy says, why don't you show some decency? Why don't you show the lady some respect? Did you not hear her say she loves deer and you're going to go and do that? And the 21-year-old guy looks at the girl and says, what do you say we get out of here and go find us a different bar with a more respectful bartender, someone with some decency. And the girl says, well, you know what? I would love to, but I'm seeing someone. We just got engaged. And she pulls her phone out. She says, here's a picture of him. And the screensaver is a picture of some dude holding a 29 point buck, showing it off wearing camouflage overalls. Now, whenever that story makes sense to you, if you understand the point I'm making in that video, you'll understand masculine polarity and feminine polarity. So there's two ways that you can try to get a woman to like you. The first way is by trying to relate to her using feminine polarity. You know, what she naturally exudes, her emotions, you know, her nature to feel sorry for people and, you know, be cuddly and love things, whatever her nature is, you know, you can take the pathway of trying to relate to her, trying to be just like her so that she'll want to be around you more. But that's a man that's operating in a feminine mindset, or you can go all the way in the opposite direction. You can be in your masculine mindset so hard, so far in that other direction that you stand out and she's still attracted to you. She still wants to be with you. So the reason why I tell that story is because the guy walking into the bar is using feminine game to try to get a woman to like him, right? He acts like he's being macho or something, but really he's just telling her what he thinks she wants to hear, you know, even if that means he's just like her, he's a girl just like her. But her boyfriend is a masculine man just like the one that he took as disrespectful in the story, right? He's a guy that does what he wants as a man, right? And that's what she's going to be attracted to. So, and you can replace the deer with anything, anything masculine, you know, roofing, fishing, driving a tractor, driving a motorcycle, a four-wheeler, whatever, anything. But the reason why I'm making this point to you is because the majority of guys, I would say probably 90% of guys at least start out using that feminine game. You know, if you took a bunch of young guys and you gave them their first job and you walked them into the doors and they said, there's two different tasks being done here. Now, we're an equal opportunity employer, so you can choose whichever one you want, whatever. But typically, women choose the left side and men choose the right side. Now, the right side, you know, it's a little more labor oriented, but it pays a little more. The left side, you know, you got a bunch of women. The majority of men would take the left side because they want to be around women. You know, they think, well, this is my ticket. This is my ticket in. But in the real world, all of those women will end up dating the guys that took the other side because it pays more, whatever. They took a side that wasn't rooted in being near the feminine, you know, chasing women, you know, wasn't rooted in this concept of trying to find love, trying to find a relationship. And a lot of guys, they are that. They are that way, even to a point where they'll put up with being cheated on or disrespected or rejected. You know, the way a feminine man handles rejection versus the way a masculine man handles rejection, it's very clear. There's a stark difference. You know, a guy that's trapped in his feminine will be rejected and he'll come back and he'll ask the same question again. Say, can I take you on a date? She'll say, nope, sorry. Week later, he'll come back. Can I take you on a date tonight? Nope, sorry. Week later. Can I take you? He just keeps repeating. You know, he's this nice guy. Keeps coming back. Masculine man would ask once. She says no. He forgets all about it. You know, he moves on to something else. He's not going to sit around and try to win someone over, you know, because he has goals. He has things he wants to accomplish. She may be part of it. You know, she may be part of the plan that he wants to see unfold, but she doesn't have to be. You know, he can move on and he can replace her. A woman needs to know that you have the capacity to do that. You know, that you have the capacity to stand up and do something that she may disagree with, but you know is right. You know, you have to demonstrate that quality. How many times many of you guys out there have done nice things with hopes of winning a woman over, right? Maybe you've done some sort of a favor. Maybe it's financial. Maybe it's some form of labor. Maybe, who knows, could be anything. I mean, you're doing these really nice things and you're this total sweetheart to her and then suddenly you see her get out of the car with some guy. You've never seen the guy before. He seems like kind of a dick and it's infuriating, right? You see the guy and he's nothing like you. You can just tell by looking at him he doesn't care about impressing her. She probably cries over him. You know, he's probably out doing things not even worried about how she feels about it and she cries about it. She becomes more attached to him because of it and then you end up finding yourself being this guy that's like, well, I'll always be here for you. You can always count on me. You know, that type That's a guy that's trying to relate to a woman and relate to her emotions. You know, he's got it backwards. He thinks feminine polarity, he thinks feminine energy is going to attract a woman. He doesn't know any better, you know, and sadly a lot of guys have been taught to be that way. I don't know why. You know, it seemed like all the movies I watched in the, you know, movies from the 80s and 90s, they were really geared towards alpha males, you know, being the cool alpha male, the dog, the player. I thought every movie taught us to be that way, but I don't know. I don't know where guys picked up on this stuff from, but somewhere along the line, you know, a lot of guys, they believe that just being nice and going along to get along is the way to keep a woman happy, you know, make her like you. We've all tried it, you know, myself included. Younger days, we've all done that and we've all got the same results. You know, it's the guy that, okay, if we were to describe feminine polarity, you know, we would say that it's, it's rooted in emotion. It's kind of fluid. It's all over the place. You know, it can change at any given moment. It adapts to its surroundings. Masculine polarity is grounded. You know, it stays the same. It is what it is. It's not changing. That's why it's like, okay, this guy likes to hunt. She likes animals. Well, hunting is kind of a traditionally masculine trait, but it's also a hobby of his. You know, it's something he likes to do. Maybe his dad liked doing it. His grandfather liked doing it. He likes doing it. So they met each other and she may have had a problem with it, but he can't change who he is for her. But if she can adapt and her emotions can accept him, it'll work out, but he's not going to change who he is. Now some guys hunt, some guys don't. That's not the point. You know, there's millions of different hobbies out there, activities, there's lifestyle choices you can make based on where you live, what the surroundings are like there, what the economy is like there, what the accessibility is like there. You know, everybody's going to have a different life, but as a man, you have to have those essentials. You know, what gets you by as a man? A lot of times those things are going to go against the grain with women. And that's an opportunity. You know, it's an opportunity to show that you're a man that can stand up for himself. You're not necessarily worried about impressing anyone. You're not worried about losing anyone. You know, it sucks when you meet someone you like and it doesn't work out, but again, the man has to be grounded. He has to be rooted. This is what I am. This is what I'm doing. If it works out great, if it doesn't, okay. You know, a lot of these guys nowadays are hyper-focused on these things like looks maxing. Looks maxing is feminine energy. You know, I can appreciate when a woman wants to look her best for me. I can appreciate when a woman, you know, puts on a nice outfit, has her makeup and hair looking nice, you know, puts all this effort into looking and smelling fresh. I can appreciate that. You know, I enjoy that. But I can tell you wholeheartedly, I've had more women be turned on by my dirty hands when I've been working on a car or, you know, working out in the yard or working on a rooftop. You know, my calloused up hands. If I had more women turned on by that sort of thing, then even when I was at my leanest, most ripped six-pack physique, you know, perfect haircut and everything, perfect outfit, doesn't come close. You know, women like men that exude masculine energy and furthermore don't care what the world thinks of them. The least attractive part about a looks maxer is the fact that he really freaking cares what people think of him. He cares so much. That's the worst trait that a man can have, caring what other people think of you. If you're naturally good-looking, then that's great. You've been blessed. But now, you know, there's two sides to the coin. One is looks. One is confidence. I don't know why I said attraction. Looking good is great. You've been blessed. Confidence is the ability to not care how you look, not care what people think of you. Still just keep going. You know, I'm going to succeed regardless. If you have both, that's great. If you don't have the looks, you still want to have the confidence because if you don't have the looks and you become a looks maxer, inevitably what happens is you have neither because you're still the same person. You just adjusted your appearance a little bit. But they're still going to see you when you wake up in the morning. You know, they're still going to see you when you've been sweaty on a hot 100 degree day and you're not looking good. You know, I just say that because looks maxing is most popular trend right now when it comes to trying to pull a lady, but it falls under that feminine side. Women appreciate really rugged masculine men a lot more than they appreciate, you know, model looking guys. I know some guys will say that's cope. Women don't fantasize about super clean cut, you know, vain guys. They fantasize about like badass guys. Looks are just a bonus. Anyways, you know, and a lot of guys, they focus so much on pickup and whatnot. And I understand, you know, pickup is in a way, in some cases, guys that learn pickup are actually trying to learn that masculine polarity. You know, they're trying to learn how to exude that masculine polarity, how to not care what people think of them and kind of be themselves and show charisma and aura and all that. But you don't have to learn to do it. It's actually, it's more of an off switch. You shut the off switch of trying to impress people and you have to kind of think of it in your own head. Like, am I doing this to impress somebody? Am I doing this because I think they'll like me more if I do it? If so, you know, that's approval seeking behavior and you're going to look weak. Approval seeking behavior is very attractive when women do it. It's very weak when men do it, you know, and that's a big part of what it comes down to. And I think if you're trying to do, trying to learn pickup and just like, you know, learn all these tactics, you're kind of approval seeking. You know, you could just skip over learning at all and just apply the, you know, I don't, don't give a **** attitude as they used to say. I think that would probably go a lot further. But yeah, you know, it's a, it's a lesson in masculine and feminine polarity. I don't like putting that in titles because it just kind of, I think it goes over people's heads and they don't really understand what the video is even going to be about and they just kind of overlook it. So I'll try to give this a title that will fit, but still be acceptable or still be enough to get people to want to watch. I know my thumbnail game is just me like here. This is probably the thumbnail right here. Maybe this basic ass title, but I do like helping people. You know, I do like pushing these messages out here. I think a lot of guys learn from them. There's certain tool sets that aren't really given to guys and they need them. They need these skill sets. But yeah, you know, masculine polarity, I guess the point to take home is that it's grounded. It doesn't change. Feminine polarity is something that's more emotional and it kind of, it adapts, it changes. This is why two men usually can't get along. Even like that cardinal you hear chirping back there, that male cardinal. Why is he making that noise? Because it's still mating season and he wants to let all the other male cardinals know to beat it. See this female here? She and I are together. Beat it. And they know when they look at his bright red tone and his loud chirp that they're not welcome there, right? That's how men are. They clash. They dominate each other because they're two things that are concrete. You know, they're not changing. They're not adapting to each other. No, this is my playground. My rules here. My domain. Whereas females are the opposite. They adapt. And that's why women, women have a lot of girlfriends. They go to the bathroom together. You know, they just kind of adapt. They emotionally bond with everyone. I don't know. I don't know if that makes sense. I hope it does. But with that being said, I don't think I really have anything else to add to it. But yeah, about the story in the beginning, I guess, you know, to those that are still watching, to make that really make sense to you. The guy walking in is like 90% of guys, right? He just wants to tell her what she wants to hear. He wants to make her like him. You know, even if it means making himself look like a weenie, making himself look like a sissy. And she can tell the difference, obviously. Anyone can. You know, and the bartender, as an older guy, right? He knows, he don't give a damn. He's going to be himself. And what happens, she rejects the guy that's trying to win her over. And she still sits at the bar with the bartender that the guy thinks was disrespectful, right? She doesn't want to leave the bar. She's still happy being there. She's not bothered by the guy. You know, you have to understand, whenever that makes sense to you, you'll understand female nature. You know, it's not what you think. It's not something that needs to constantly be looked after and cared for. You look after a woman and care for her by being strong enough to continue moving forward, whether she likes it or not. Because that's what's going to cause the two of you to succeed. You ever known a guy that always takes his girlfriend's advice? You know, next thing you know, he's overweight, out of shape, broke, lost his job, doesn't have any friends, depressed, and she leaves him. She's the one that gave him the advice. And a guy that's the exact opposite, you got to be able to look at a woman and say, look, every decision I've ever made has been me. I know you think you can come in now and just alter my decisions. And you think you're going to improve the way I operate, but I operate this way for a reason. So I'm going to continue making these decisions on my own terms. And I'd be more than happy for you to come along with me on the journey, but I'm not changing. That'll get a woman excited. Not begging anything for you, baby. I'll do anything for you. There was somebody in my last video when I said that instead of taking a woman on a first date that you've just met, tell her you want to sit and have a conversation, sit at the park, sit in the parking lot, just sit and talk for an hour. Legs dangling over a rock. You know what some guys in the comments were saying? They were saying things like, well, most of the hotter women, they want you to spend money on them. So this won't work. I didn't respond to any of those guys because, you know, I figured we'll just make a video about it. And if they watch 30 minutes in, they'll get the response. If they don't, oh well. But it's like paying a tax. It's like she's charging you a tax. You know, if you want to take me out, you got to jump through hoops. You're going to have to do a little extra, a little more than that. Well, it's Wednesday night and I'm actually going to go to the park. If you'd like to join, you're more than welcome. Who knows? If I like you, maybe I'll take you on a nice date. If not, see you later. We don't have to treat her differently to try to win her over. You know, we have a plan. If she's not willing to go to the park, guarantee another one will be. Sucks it couldn't be her. You're not the one that needs to make an adjustment. You know, that's a lady trying to be in masculine polarity, trying to bring that, you know, demands. Here's how things will be. Wait a second. Doesn't a gentleman bring up the date, bring up the idea and invite you to come along? Isn't that how this is supposed to go? If the woman has to make the plans, is that like backwards? Yeah. So don't even acknowledge any of that. You know, you've got to do things the right way if you want the right kind of results. Well, hot damn guys, it's been more than 30 minutes. So I think I'm going to go ahead and shut this one off. But I hope this video was somewhat informative and that's about it for tonight. Until next time. See ya. Racer's Rewards Card Accepted. Racer's Rewards Card Accepted.