Being a Wife | Couples Therapy

Like what is a wife owed? Lots of time spent together and... Go ahead. Like I don't know. Sex. Keep going. Sex. Sex. Not like on demand but like also like... On demand. When I want it, yeah. What built up to this was after the last session she did go out on Friday, I canceled my my appointment and she went out, had a good time, you know, felt good. First of all, and then for some days there she wasn't imposing her desire to be intimate with me on me but then the next day she's kind of like let me put on this nightdress that she puts on. Oh lord with this nightdress. I'm just saying. She was like you know why aren't we having sex and I was like well because we don't want to continue on in the same cycle. I don't want to lead you on while I'm on this quest to honor myself and my desires and I don't want to just have sex because you're asking me to. Does that make sense to you? Sure but can we be going through this and still be intimate with each other? Like we don't have to stop having sex with each other to fix things, right? You're asking as a rule? I'm asking you. But as there's no rules. But when the spirit moves us, if it is, the spirit is always moving me. I'm never not in the mood. If the spirit moves her. Yeah. Is there a reason not to? Right. What do you think? I think it would enter us back into the cycle.