They’re blaming working moms again. Let’s talk about bonding with our kids while having a career.

They’re blaming working moms again. Let’s talk about bonding with our kids while having a career.

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Jessica Hover
May 30, 2026

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Are working moms really to blame for their kids’ struggles? That’s what a lot of content online is suggesting, and as someone who has lived this, coached working moms around the world, and knows how much you’re already carrying, I needed to respond.

In this video we cover:

• Why the “working mom = poor bonding” narrative is an oversimplification
• What the research actually says about attachment and connection
• The real reason so many working moms feel like they’re failing at everything
• Practical ways to bond deeply with your kids even with a full life
• And a personal story about the moment my husband said exactly what I needed to hear

This isn’t about whether you should work or stay home. That’s your call. This is about thriving in the life you actually have.

Videos on childcare & preschool & nannies:

First Day of Preschool | Expert tips for a smooth transition
https://youtu.be/wdJz00ySrY0

Childcare vs. Mom | Debunking Myths & Finding the Perfect Fit for Your Child
https://youtu.be/z_OHs9mq96s

Tips for Getting Childcare | How To Choose The Best Child Care For Your Baby - How To Survive?
https://youtu.be/tG04MdbUBUc

What to know BEFORE you hire a NANNY [from real nannies]
https://youtu.be/B8e6tOR-vhc