Having Another Baby?! Is This Too Soon

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buy for coda and i think they've got some bits to buy for onyx as well so that'll be good it's just so nice being around another family that have babies because of course people that don't have babies are lovely to us and understanding that things take longer but it's not until you've had them and they're with you at the same time that it's like you can relate on a different level and you just don't feel as stressed out you're not sort of like worried that they think you're being too slow not like not that our other friends are like this but like it's always in the back of your mind you feel a bit guilty that things just take forever now but when there's another family doing it you're just like i don't care we're all in this together like yesterday we were trying to leave the house for so long and like all of us were kept forgetting something like running back inside back to the car back inside back to the car and it's just hilarious so it's just so nice to be around them i've just done my hair today it's gonna drop out probably within about 30 seconds i just like to sort of judge the ends up a little bit with this hair tongs fabulous i think breakfast is on the way the sun's shining i've got a little bit of laundry to do this morning and we need to feed coda before we leave but so far so good um he slept really well again last night the last three nights since we've been here i don't want to drink sir fingers crossed he's going to continue this way he did seven hours seven hours and then last night i think was also seven hours very similar sort of times of the day and it's just been so nice and he'll wake up hello hello hey dave he didn't quite fancy tummy time oh okay what happened to sort of start crying on the floor really i thought i'll pick him up oh he normally likes tummy time a little bit okay oh we're matching again today we're always matching i forgot what i was saying and it's just so nice and then he'll hold it like a chunk of like six seven hours go back to sleep again wake up change nappy have some milk but then he'll go back down again for like another two hours so we're getting like over eight hours sleep now which is amazing and it's been so nice i just feel more me again and less sleepy um yeah let's head downstairs see the guys and get on with this game roll ketchup perfect breakfast roll with ketchup did you guys want a hash brown as well did you order uh george wants one i think yeah oh my god thank you [Music] we are back at possibly our favorite shopping mall in the uk the trafford center in manchester kim and tom bought us here last time and we've come back for a little walk around and then we're meeting another couple who we've never met before who lucy's been chatting to on instagram later on for a coffee she may have mentioned it already in the intro the vlog but i'm not sure but yeah for now little wander around i'm so glad we're back here because this was such a cool shopping mall it's huge but also architecturally it looks cool from the outside [Music] so we're looking at the new iphone tom is thinking of it and so ellucian i actually feel so nice yeah yeah yeah we're thinking of upgrading that's like similar size to the one you have already isn't it yeah so we are once again clothes shopping but not for us but actually i am buying this jacket to do quite like it's getting warmer it was 21 degrees the other day and i have no all my warmer stuff is like hoodies i have nothing that i can just put over a t-shirt at the moment so i wanted a bit of a lighter jacket that i could take on and off but we are mainly shopping for coda in zara kids yeah i like that and then lucy's also got him some like summer pants thin and linen i can't show you some tangles yeah nice okay we have finished our shopping i think we're gonna do a bit of a haul later because i may have got slightly carried away buying clothes for coda um i don't buy anything for myself anymore i cannot remember the last time i bought clothes and all i do is buy clothes for him because it's so much more fun i literally love it but we're all done there now we're now heading over to um the northern quarter again to grab coffee with a couple that we know from instagram um i don't actually know much about the money from sort of what they shared on instagram and they've got a little baby girl i think we mentioned in the vlog the other day because they do a lot of travel with babies with their baby not just babies in general and their instagram is called north south travels so they're in manchester for a short time um so we thought while we're both in the same place why not meet up and they're usually sort of traveling around so it's quite a good time that we've managed to catch them during their uk trip but as you guys know kim and tom are expecting their second baby kim's pregnant right now um so soon they'll have two little babies and it's so exciting for them and it's really got us thinking about like when we want our second kid and if we want more children and we always get asked the question and people say oh you're thinking about your next one yet um and code is still like he's i think he's 13 weeks old tomorrow so um he's still quite young we're not gonna be having another baby quite yet um but it's definitely something we want in the future we want a nice big family i don't know how many kids maybe like we've always said at least three seven or eight we've always had at least three but more if we can like we'll have as many as we as we can sort of fit and depending on our like situation or whatever we'd love to have loads of kids so yes we want more babies we don't know when the next one will be we don't want like a huge age gap but i don't i'm not thinking about it anytime soon um but i'd love to know if you if you guys have got more than one kid um let me know in the comments like what the age gap is and if you'd like to recommend it or if you think wait longer or if you wish they were closer together in age like what's a good age gap because part of me thinks like them being really close together is really special because they can like play together they're in similar stages but then also like i think it's chaos as well like having a tiny baby with a young toddler um i don't know like i'm excited for it but i just know it's gonna be like double the work and imagine if you get pregnant with twins a second time or something like it's gonna hit you like way harder but it would it would be amazing but i don't know we haven't actually got georgia's got some cousins that are twins but i think it's on the other side of the family i don't think it's blood related to you right like the gene don't know i don't actually know i actually don't know i've just made that up it could be your side i'm not sure where it comes from so there's a small slim chance but i don't think so but yeah we definitely want more babies in the future just to answer that question okay so it's back holiday monday today everywhere was absolutely amazing and we managed to find a place here uh we've got a table we had a little bit of a wait we ordered some coffee i've got some porcini ravioli yeah that looks amazing peppers yeah the food looks awesome here also met our new friends oh so [Music] we were just saying that we can't quite imagine koda being this age yet but these guys were saying it's going to come around so so far and he'll be in a high chair eating food with us and stuff oh thank you so much thank you [Music] a lot of coffee what is yeah it looks good the food looks great here doesn't it so cute oh okay we're now back at kim and tom's place it was such a nice coffee and lunch with um karina and river and little baby mila she was adorable um and we'll definitely see them guys again they're really lovely and make sure you head over and follow their instagram if you haven't already they're often on a very exciting trip soon um but just quickly i'll show you guys what we got at the trafford center because i may have overdone it slightly um but i have tried to spread out the ages just so that we've got some stuff for when um code's a bit older as well so firstly in h m we got this track suit set i love this it's so bright it's like a collaboration they're doing as well at the moment i think with this one here i absolutely love the colors super bright and then it came with some matching shorts but like tracky shorts i think it's really really fun and then just a simple sort of sage green t-shirt again i've like spread out the ages in six to nine months that one's like three to six months i think he's currently growing out of zero to three months so i think we're sort of moving into the next set already then these little waffle effect summary shorts in blue another tracksuit set here which i really like but this is nine to twelve months we've gotta wait a little while to use this one um but it says on it uh happy together and there's all these like bright splodges with smiley faces and it's got a matching set of trousers with it nice and comfy and then we got this i think it's like 90s i feel like will smith would wear this and like the fresh prince of bel-air i don't know if i've just made that up i feel like they're like block colors the different colored sleeves and the big pocket um again with matching trousers which i love we got that in size six to nine so we've got a while before you can wear that and we got in this little cap that's got an elastic back so you can write like back to front or front ways um just as we get into the summer months here and that was everything in h m and then in zara that is george's t-shirt we've got him quite a few bits as well mainly some more summery things so we've got some um are these linen i think they're linen i'm not sure what they are but they feel like linen and really nice and thin but they'll cover his whole legs i think we showed you them in the shop i don't think he's going to wear sun cream until he's like six months old so we can just keep him protected from the sun but others and they're really nice and a nice texture as well and i thought it would go really nicely with this t-shirt this is all nice and soft and a little bit oversized as well in zara which i really like and another t-shirt the same but a different color in white or whitey cream and then another pair of them trousers but in a different color just there i feel like it's going a bit dark the camera and then this like oversized sort of vintage style and jumper with like mickey mouse stuff and it says mickey mouse and friends on the back really cool um and then lastly a really nice green jumper i love this i want to get a track suit for myself in this color but nice bright green jumper that can go with like maybe with i don't really know what we've got for it to go with to be honest we'll find something this sort of color i think or with some black pants um but yeah successful shopping trip [Music] hmm