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how to be coldhearted in 2024 so one of
my most watched videos is how to be
coldhearted I made this video three and
a half years ago but 3 and a half years
is a long time I've learned quite a lot
and that's why in this video I want to
give you the advanced version a 2024
version on how to be coldhearted and
with that said let's get started number
one pause and reflect before reacting In
the Heat of the Moment emotions can take
control leading to impuls reactions and
to coun to this make it a happy to pause
and reflect before you react because
this brief moment gives you the
opportunity to take a step back reflect
on what you're going to say and this
allows you to take a measured and
strategic approach to react in the best
way possible because mastering the art
of coldhearted is all about protecting
you and also protecting the ones you
care about because becoming a
cold-hearted individual is about
becoming a logical strategic individual
because maybe you've been hurt in the
past and you don't want to get hurt
again and that's why it's extremely
important to think what you say just
because you don't want to get hurt does
not mean that you can hurt others it's
extremely important to put yourself in a
position where you don't start hurting
other individuals because otherwise
you'll always be in this toxic pycho
number two is learn the art of saying no
being coldhearted is all about setting
boundaries and prioritizing yourself
don't be afraid to say no when it's it's
necessary because a lot of us are too
nice a lot of us care too much about
other individuals and that's why we get
hurt because we want the best for the
individuals and we don't like saying no
because we've got so much love to give
we've got so much to give to the world
but other individuals are taking
advantage of us and that's why you need
to be goal oriented you need to Define
your goals be assertive when it comes to
your goals and look at everything from a
strategic perspective by helping this
individual where you get closer to your
goal yes then it makes sense if you
don't get closer to your goal it doesn't
give you any sort of benefit maybe it's
time to start saying no number three
Define clear goals and celebrate
achievements just like I already
mentioned having clear goals gives you a
sense of direction and purpose in life
because I know a lot of you guys are
currently hurt you don't trust people
you just want to focus on yourself you
don't want to feel any sort of emotions
but now is the time to Define your goals
now is the time to have clear goals
because you can rebuild yourself into
someone that you're proud of so you want
to break your goals down into actionable
steps and every time you come closer to
your goal it doesn't matter if it's a
big step or a small step you must
celebrate it be happy because you're
coming closer and closer to your goal
You're Building yourself into the person
you want to be and this allows you to
become a cold-hearted person because the
next time you'll be stronger and wiser
than you were in the past and number
four is to surround yourself with
quality relationships in the realm of
relationships quality always triumphs
quantity be extremely selective about
the people you allow in your inner
circle even if I take myself as an
example a lot of friends I used to have
5 years ago or even 3 years ago are not
really my friends anymore my inner
circle is only getting smaller and I'm
only getting more high quality people
being a part of this Inner Circle
because I want the best kind of people
in my life and you must do the same it's
a slow process but it's extremely
important to prioritize relationship
that have a positive impact on your life
on your goals and in your overall growth
you want to have people that inspire you
you want to have people that truly care
about you because this is extremely
important if you're someone that wants
to be a cold-hearted person because a
lot of us are not really actually
cold-hearted individuals we just want to
be loved we don't want to get heard
again and that's why if you're someone
that wants to be more of a cold-hearted
person you should put yourself in an
environment where you won't have to be a
coldhearted person and what I mean by
this is that yes as you're progressing
and becoming the best version of
yourself a person that's quote unquote
more cold-hearted wiser won't get hurt
easily another additional step you must
take yourself is to put yourself in
environments where you don't meet people
that will hurt you you only meet quality
positive people that will reinforce your
growth and this is extremely important
if you are someone that wants to get to
the top number five handle criticism
objectively criticism is inevitable but
the way you handle it makes all the
difference when faced with criticism
detach emotionally and look at it from
an outward perspective don't look it
from your perspective don't try to
rationalize your feelings don't
particularly try to even explain your
feelings and why you did the things you
did because you know why you did it but
look at it from the perspective of
others because this allows you to become
more objective when it comes to
criticism because instead of taking a
personal see it as a opportunity to grow
these individuals are criticizing your
work it's up to you to take this
feedback in and reflect because this is
your opportunity for growth and I'm not
saying that every type of criticism is
always valid sometimes it's just pure
hatred sometimes you don't even want
that criticism in your life but consider
the validity of the feedback and use it
to redefine your skills and character
and remember being coldhearted isn't
about suppressing your emotions it's
about mastering your emotions you want
to have control over your emotions even
if someone says something to you you
don't want to be numb you don't want to
feel dead you don't want to be
coldhearted you want to be a master of
your emotions it shouldn't face you not
because you can't handle it you can't
handle the hurt it's because you've been
through enough pain you've been through
this before and now you've become an
emotional master I truly care about your
growth and if you're someone that wants
to take your growth to the next level I
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