How to Be Heartless Person

so you want to be a heartless person and hey most likely you've been extremely open to someone very kind or very very compassionate but now you feel betrayed perhaps it was someone that you actually win a relationship with or maybe someone that just genuinely was rude to you or maybe it was someone that was very close to you such as a friend or family you have suffered a lot feel frustrated and want to give up on people because you have been strong for way too long so now you've decided to become heartless emotionless because this way no one can hurt you and you can focus on the things that matter to you your dreams and ambitions and to be quite honest i've been there before as well so in this video i actually want to share with you how to do it the right way because if you do it the wrong way you will hurt a lot of people and yourself in the process i take these videos extremely serious because i genuinely want to help my brothers out so if you want to see more content like this please consider hit the subscribe button because i installed that over 95 that are currently watching these videos aren't even subscribed yet so by you just simply subscribing you see more videos like this and this way i can help you out the best way i can so i've put a lot of thoughts and effort into this video to make sure it can help you the best way possible so with that said let's jump into the video number one no small talks so if you're someone that generally wants to be heartless wants to take control of their life wants to be more productive you should actually consider to get rid of as many small talks as you can because the truth is small talks actually take away the time from the things that are generally very important to you small talks are ways to get you distracted from the things that you generally want because most likely you want to be more productive don't want to get hurt and want to go after the dreams that you desire but you feel like something is actually holding you back it might be your emotions it might be your past or just generally small talks because if you're constantly having small talks it will really start to add up and waste your time from the things that you actually want to do because if you want to be more heartless you need to keep your mind on the things that are very important and that will actually make you more productive by simply being more productive it will automatically make you a much stronger person and avoid all of those emotions moreover small talks usually take you back to the past and then you start to relive all of those memories and maybe you'll feel sad again or maybe even very great but that doesn't really matter because it will take away the focus of the future and therefore you'll be less productive and you won't be as heartless anymore and this brings me to the second point number two distance yourself from toxic people so if you're someone that actually wants to be more heartless generally wants to be more productive and get the best things out of your life by simply distancing yourself from toxic people you'll obviously also avoid those small talks because the truth is most likely toxic people tend to be the ones that have those small talks because i'm not saying gently talking to people is a bad thing because you can have genuine conversations that are very important to you and your overall mental health because i'm in no way telling you to avoid any kind of conversation or any kind of social interaction with other people but obviously when it comes to small talks they tend to be time wasters and especially when it is with toxic people so you need to actually distance yourself from toxic people to be able to actually achieve the things that you want and just to generally feel more heartless and feel like you can actually be the person you want to be and yes i know unfortunately sometimes it can be very difficult to get rid of those toxic people because maybe it's one of your teachers maybe it's one of your family members or maybe it's someone that's very close to you that you simply don't want to get rid of but you still feel like that they're withholding you from the dreams that you actually want to achieve and in that instance most likely it just sucks because you can't do much about it without having major consequences so say for example it is one of those close friends that you have if you get rid of that particular person you might lose your social circle but obviously we can do a few things to prevent the damage and one of those things is to obviously try to avoid that particular person as much as you can simply because you're seeing that person every day doesn't necessarily mean that you need to talk to them and if you actually feel like you're obligated to talk to that particular person try to keep it at a minimum because this way by avoiding as much contact as you can and keeping your conversations at a minimum you reduce the damage that they can do to you and at the same time you distance yourself with those toxic people as much as you can in your particular scenario number three no attachments so if you're someone that actually wants to be heartless you need to have no attachments and what do you actually mean by having no attachments well it's quite simple and at the same time very complicated but no attachments i simply mean that you need to get rid of all of that toxic emotional carriage back that you're holding that is actually holding you back your pulse doesn't define your future so there's no point in hoarding those old emotions to actually hold you back because the truth is people will betray you people will hurt you but that doesn't necessarily mean that it should hold you back just have no attachments to it it is part of life and just try to accept it even though sometimes it can be extremely hard and it's completely fine to actually feel down at a certain time but eventually try to move out of it and feel no attachments to that particular person particular scenario and generally have no emotions involved and do you know what the coolest thing is when it comes to having no attachment you generally feel more free and at the same time you feel more alive and i know it's quite ironic to say that in a how to be heartless video but it's very true because once you get rid of all of those expectations people have of you you have no attachments because you simply understand its human behavior and every human behavior can be validated by psychology you actually generally start to understand that humans are humans and we all make mistakes and this will actually allow you to be more free and generally feel more alive because you have no expectations and at the same time you have no attachments to your past or any sort of emotions number four focus on yourself so if you're someone that wants to be heartless you need to focus on yourself because if your focus is on other people you're not going to be heartless because you're not in the right mindset becoming heartless should be about you and not about all of those other people because i know most likely you also consider the others emotions that are involved by you becoming heartless but the truth is you're just trying to avoid pain and you won't help others out this way and that's the key because you simply can't help others without helping yourself first and i know in the beginning you might feel a bit harsh and feel like you're actually making a bad impact on other individuals but think about this if you're more productive now and you're going after your dreams and ambitions those individuals will only be happy that you're living your lifestyle the way you actually want it to so in the short run most likely you start to think that you're getting rid of all of those people that actually generally care about you but once you actually get rid of a few of those you start to notice the ones that generally care about you will stick with you and therefore in the long term you only have people that really care about you you can be more productive and you can live your life the way you want it to number five accept the consequences and hey look i'm not saying it's gonna be easy because getting rid of a few people can be hard because you most likely thought that they were actually generally someone that you want to be around with and i just gently cared about you but however the good thing about actually getting rid of those people and having some kind of consequences allows you to understand which people actually generally care about you and want to stick with you till the end and which simply don't and we're time wasted since the beginning and the thing we as humans actually experience when it comes to actually getting out of our comfort zone changing our lifestyle very drastically is that we either love it or we hate it and i'm not sure about you so most likely once you actually undertake these steps you will either extremely hate it or you will absolutely love it because you'll most likely feel all of their relief or you feel so much guilt and therefore i want to prepare you for that particular instance because both extremes are not reality and therefore you only feel that temporarily and most likely you'll fall back into your old routine but that's something you shouldn't do because the thing about accepting your consequences is that whatever happens next is due to your consequences and you just simply don't look back and that's what makes people respect you because you simply make your decision and you're actually sticking with it number six suppress your emotions and fill your ambitions so most likely you're ambitious to an extent and therefore you feel like your emotions are holding you back whenever you feel like your emotions are getting hot of you try to suppress them to an extent that it won't hinder your dreams and yes i know this is very hard and cold advice but the thing about emotions is that they simply just don't care about what you want in life your emotions want to protect you from the worst case scenario and the truth is in most instances the worst case scenario will never happen because this emotional fear that we got in our mind is hindering us from all of our dreams and passions is hindering from us ambitions and doesn't want us to be successful because it is very comfortable to take the easy way out but if you're someone that actually wants to get more out of life and you simply don't want to be someone that others look down to you want to be someone that is actually respected and others look up to you need to take control of your emotions to actually live the life you want and do you know what the funny thing is if you're actually becoming heartless most people will start to think yeah most likely he was lucky he just was born with a strong character but what they don't understand is that you simply put a system into place and you're just obeying their system so instead of having a strong character you're just simply following a method a step-by-step method which is actually gonna make you the person you want to be and all of those other people will actually think you're born this way and they will simply find excuses to not be the person they want because they are simply afraid because their emotions are getting into the way of becoming heartless and therefore if you're someone that can actually suppress your emotions you'll be so much better off and at the same time you'll become heartless number seven practice to perfection you know the thing about becoming heartless is that it's quite difficult and a lot of people can do it in the long term most likely in the short term you'll feel a certain way and you just simply want to distance yourself from all of those toxic people but eventually you go back to it and you live the same life you actually were living before this and this way you get yourself in a vicious circle where you actually get hurt again then leave those people and then once again get hurt again and that's something i don't want you to be in i want you to simply get rid of those people if you genuinely feel like they're toxic to you and are actually hindering you from the things that you want because it's not going to be easy to become heartless but by simply practicing it and doing it over and over again you can actually achieve the things that you want and actually generally become heartless i don't know what the funny thing is about making these videos a lot of people think that when i'm talking about becoming emotionless or heartless is that you literally have no feelings but the truth about this is that if you actually become heartless and emotionless you can be someone that can actually decide which feelings you want to actually get in your heart and simply want to actually feel rather than actually feeling those bad emotions that you simply don't want to feel so these videos aren't about how to get no soul how to actually completely feel no emotions ever in your life again these videos are about helping you to change in the way you want to and therefore you can live your life the way you actually want to because i want you to prosper be successful become actually very ambitious and go after the things you want but you can't do that before actually helping yourself and taking control over your emotions and therefore if you keep on practicing this and simply don't give up you'll definitely become heartless number eight no means no so the truth about is that eventually a lot of people will come back to you will ask you for favors but you simply have to say no if you simply don't want to do it and the reason for this is that once you actually say yes one time they'll actually ask you another time and another time and this will obviously waste more time of you and at the same time this will actually take you away from the task that you're meant to do having strong bonus is very crucial when it comes to having that cold and heartless persona because if you simply fall back by not having hard boundaries you simply go back to your old routine and it will start to get hurt again but if you have very strong boundaries and you say no when you simply just don't want to do something this will allow you to actually live the life you want in your way and become heartless and i generally think that there's quite a lot of information in this video so if you generally want to become heartless you may want to watch this video again and take some notes and at the same time i generally enjoy making these videos so if you have more suggestions when it comes to topics like this please let me know in the comments down below and also consider to the subscribe button because i'm trying to aim for 10k subscribers and if you really enjoy these videos i want me to help you out in the future when it comes to these videos by you simply subscribing you can get to see more videos like this and i can help you the best way possible so thank you so much for watching this video and i generally hope that this video will allow you to prosper in the way that you want to and hope to see you on the other side bye bye you