why elite men cheat

So yesterday I made a video about why men cheat and in general I was speaking about why the average man cheats and I saw a couple of comments saying well okay that's fine we understand why the average man cheats but what about successful men what about quote-unquote high value men elite men why do they cheat and when it comes to elite men them cheating has a whole different perspective they have a completely different mindset than the average man and because of that different mindset because of their different lifestyle because of their different way of thinking they have other reasons that can lead them to cheating. Cheating is always a choice but there's also something called responsibility if you are a woman that's watching this video there's sometimes a reason why a man might cheat sometimes it can be you and a lot of people do not like to take responsibility they always like to blame the other person but it does not hurt to take responsibility even if it's not your own fault because when you take responsibility in all realms in every single situation you can not only learn from it but you can also grow from it and that's why in this video I want to give you a couple of reasons why elite men cheat and hopefully this will educate you make you understand men better and also for the men watching this it will also help you to find traps that can lead you to cheating because it goes both ways as a woman you have a responsibility to do your best that a man wants to stay and the same goes for a man it's your responsibility to make a woman stay it's your responsibility to make her feel safe and therefore hopefully all of these points will educate both men and women and with that said let's go to reason number one the scarcity trauma never leaves so scarcity trauma is real there's a lot of quote-unquote elite men that come from nothing and that's the reason they became elite because they had nothing and therefore they've got this mindset where they're never good enough it's never enough and the best example that I can give to people that they'll be able to understand say for example you grew up in a household where food was quite accessible if you left food on the plate it wasn't but if you come from a poor background where you have to finish your food or you did not even have enough food you only had maybe one or two meals a day and you were starving you have a completely different attachment to food you have a scarcity mindset when it comes to food I cannot not eat this food because the next meal is not guaranteed and the same goes with elite men that come from nothing the same goes for men that once when they were not at the level that they are at right now when they had zero options they were taking any option they could get and now because they've become an elite man now because they've got a lot more options it's very hard for them to not take these options in their mind they're like I need to take every single one of these options because there's no guarantee that the woman I'm with currently is the one there's no guarantee that the woman I'm with will stay with me for the rest of my life because there's men that have been through traumatic experiences where they thought she was the one they genuinely wanted to give her the world but then she betrayed him and in that instance cheating becomes a subconscious form for overcompensation deep down you still do not think she will stay because of past experiences therefore now you're trying to overcompensate and now you're trying to overcompensate because when you weren't the best looking guy when you were invisible when you were broke you were overlooked in this instance he's not addicted to women he's addicted to being seen and the second reason is abundance kills appreciation so in the first point I was talking about elite men that come from nothing and they have this scarcity trauma but on the other side you also have men that have too many options they're too used to having too many options because they never really had to struggle think about a guy that was born good-looking all of the women wanted him since he was quite young because when it comes to girls when they are younger they tend to be more looks personality matters way more for a woman when it comes to a man and therefore a good-looking guy when he was young he had a lot of attention he had an abundance of women and therefore he never really had to struggle he never really had to have discipline when it comes to a woman because deep down he knows cool if this woman will leave my life I'll just find the next one and after she will leave my life I can find the next one I have too many options I am that guy just like you've got girls that think that they are princesses I'm special I deserve all of the attention I deserve all of these gifts just because I am a woman there's also men that think this way there's men out there they'll think yeah if she's not gonna stick around that's fine I'll just find the next girl because I am that guy I am special I am a king and a good example outside of women outside of dating is money trauma me and my brother yesterday we were speaking about that we definitely have money trauma we can now spend money in ways we've never been able to spend before we can live lifestyles people dream about but yet we're not really living these types of lifestyles and it's probably because of money trauma because we've seen the struggle we know how hard it was to make money and therefore we're not really spending money like that but when it comes to my youngest siblings they don't really have seen the struggle in the same way and they have more of an abundance mindset they are spending money without really caring they're living a more carefree lifestyle whilst we are still worried about the broke days we're too scared to go back to those days and that's why we are still so hungry and we're so careful when it comes to spending our money and the same goes with men that had no options they might be more careful some men might be more careful in the sense that they'll be like whoa I never used to have a good-looking woman I never used to have a good woman in my life but now I finally have her I need to make sure I keep her whilst on the other side there'll be men they'll have an abundance mindset where they'll be like okay cool now I can get these girls if she will leave I can always find the next pretty girl I can always find the next good woman so just like I talk about having a scarcity mindset when it comes to money and having an abundance mindset when it comes to money some of them have more of a scarcity mindset when it comes to women and on the other side some of them have more of an abundance mindset and that's why it's so important to find out what kind of men you're dealing with obviously these are two extremes most people tend to be somewhere in between these two extremes the more likely you will be able to understand why this elite man thinks this way and how high the probability is of him cheating the third reason is that you simply stop adding value say for example an elite man came from nothing you hear this story all of the time where a woman's like yeah I was with him since the beginning I helped him build up I helped him build his empire but once he built his empire he left he ended up cheating so men are trash men are not loyal this is something that you occasionally hear online or if you're you can probably relate to this well the reason might simply be because you do not add any more value to his life anymore think about it elite men people that are goal-oriented ambitious people look at people in their life as to how much value they can add to them even myself as much as I love my family I still want to make sure they add value to my life it does not mean in terms of money does not mean in terms of helping me improve sometimes it can also just be in terms of entertainment and you need to ask yourself this question okay when he was broke he was in a different mindset he was a different type of man now he's completely changed now he is an elite man how does he think right now what do you think he thinks about how do you think he feels you need to critically analyze your man you need to understand why he thinks this way what he's looking for and then find ways on how to add value if you're someone that adds zero value to someone's life if you can't even be someone that respects your man if you're not someone that brings your man peace he's more likely to cheat than if you are someone that adds so much value that he can't live without you if you add so much value in his life that he wants you around if he adds so much value in his life that he can't even look at other women he does not even want to look at other women if this is the instance then he is less likely to cheat therefore it's so important to understand if you are still adding value just being a pretty girl is not enough for an elite man there's a lot of beauty at the top matter of fact all of the beauty is at the top the prettiest girls want the most elite men because they think they're deserving of it they feel like they're worthy of it and obviously it makes sense if you are a pretty girl you feel like you deserve more in life you've got something that most men want but the reality is although your beauty is special beauty does fade and personality is also important elite men that want to build something for the long term do not only care about your beauty obviously they care about your beauty because if they want to have an offspring they want to have elite genetics they want to use your genetics as leverage but they also want you to be their piece they are already very stressed out they live very stressful lives hard lives so you need to be able to add value if you're only draining their energy if you're only taking energy away from them what will happen is that they are more likely to cheat because you're not adding any value to their lives and the fourth reason is ego inflation from external validation just like when a girl gets a lot of attention from men she starts to think she's special the same goes with elite men elite men tend to get a lot of attention from a lot of women a good example for of this is my mentor i remember he always telling me even though he got married there's women that always approach him women are lurking at him when he's in salvages when he is in bougie places and he's with his woman he's spending **** you money he's spending i don't know he sometimes tells me the craziest stories about like 10 20 50 or even more uh 50 000 even more in a day or on a shopping spree what ends up happening is a lot of women are lurking this they see a man with all of these louis vuitton bags all of these gucci bags and he starts to get a lot of attention there have been instances where women have seen him with his wife but the moment his wife just walks away to go to a shop woman come closer to him woman start to speak to him woman starts to flirt with him how do you think that makes a man feel woman starts to flirt with him how do you think that makes a man feel woman are validating his ego even though he might not be a cheater some men get validated by this attention some men will think hey wait look i might be different i might be one of those men that is allowed to cheat i might be a man that's special i might be the exceptional i might be that guy i might be the guy that can cheat and still have all of these pretty girls around me i might be a guy that can have a beautiful wife a beautiful girlfriend and still speak to other women now my sense of reality is skewed because these women would not do this for other men i am special i am elite this is the type of mindset some of these men end up getting because of the validation of women because of women giving them high egos and therefore as a woman you need to understand that this can sometimes warp the reality of men even good men can slip if you get too much ego validation if you get too much attention over a long period of time sometimes that changes your perception of life that's why a pretty woman sees life from a very different angle than a woman that is not the best looking that's why a rich successful man lives a completely different lifestyle has different experiences has a different perspective of life than someone that is very poor someone that has no opportunities in life and that simply creates a different reality of life and that's why in the previous video i was speaking about why average men cheat and in this video i'm speaking about why elite men cheat because they both have different reason as to what makes them cheat and the fifth reason is he got think about it we're speaking about elite men these are not your typical types of men and a lot of times a person does not become elite by accident a lot of times you have to sacrifice a lot in your life to become an elite man and a lot of times these men are quite unhappy a lot of times these men feel very empty and that's why they're chasing something bigger they're chasing empty vanity they might already have a couple million but they want more millions not because they're greedy but because they are empty they are chasing empty vanity they're chasing a new height a new dopamine kick they might have made a million and now they think well i'm still not happy maybe i need to make five million to be happy then they make five million they're still not happy maybe i need to make 10 million to be happy maybe they make 10 million and they're still not happy the same goes with a man that goes to the gym that is chasing this empty vanity of being the biggest man they might put on five kg of muscle and they're like wait i'm still not happy let me put on another two and a half kg okay i've achieved it i'm still not happy and now i've can't hit a plateau i'm still not happy and i'm still trying to become bigger let me use steroids now i'm even bigger but i'm still not happy they're chasing this validation feeling they're chasing empty vanity and the same goes with women sometimes they might think okay cool i have found this pretty girl but i'm still not happy because they're not happy with themselves they're not happy with what they've achieved they might see having a woman more as a goal rather than as a long-term partner so if they have one woman they're like well i need to find another woman i need to find a better woman because look i'm so amazing i've been able to get a woman on this level let me try to find someone that's even higher than her let me find a even higher quality woman and therefore they simply have trauma that they haven't worked on they might have money trauma that they haven't healed they might have relationship trauma they might have trauma when it comes to body dysmorphia and they have not worked on this so they're constantly chasing more they're constantly trying to level up but there's never an end goal and this can also be a common reason as to why elite men cheat so now i've given you five reasons as to why elite men cheat elite men cheat for very different reasons than your average guy and the reason i know this is because i know a lot of elite guys i have a lot of elite business partners i have met a lot of elite men i have met the women of a lot of elite men i've seen good elite men be loyal when it comes to women but i've also seen a darker side when it comes to elite men some of these problems that i've just described when it comes to elite men are problems i have dealt with myself in the past so i completely understand the perspective why some men think this way and hopefully for the men watching this that are elite for the men that are aspiring to be elite do you remember that money does not fix all your problems do you remember that finding the perfect beautiful girl does not fix all your problems do you remember that getting your dream physique does not fix all of your problems and for the women watching this video do you remember that just because a man is successful and elite does not mean he's perfect everyone has their own problems life is all about problems we will never not have problems it's all about adapting educating ourselves and becoming the best versions not only for ourselves but also for our partners because if you are someone that wants to build something tremendous if you're someone that wants to build a legacy wants to build an empire you have to find out whether your man has the same vision if you really 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