This Video Will Make You Mysterious

This video will make you mysterious and the reason you're watching this video is because people simply don't respect you. People always know that you'll be there for them. You are not predictable at all. People always know you will reply. People will always know that you will share everything with them about your life, about other individuals. So they have little incentive to respect you you tell people everything you tell them your problems your insecurities your plans and your next move and now here you are wondering why people have figured you out and listen to me it doesn't have to be that way i was just like you i used to be the person that used to share the world with people but now i'm the one that people will call mysterious now i'm the one that people wonder how does he live the life he lives how did he pull it off how did he become so exceptional and the reason for this is because not everyone deserves access to you not everyone deserves access to your emotions to your vulnerable parts to the deep secrets of your life this is where mystery comes from it comes from removing information the less information people have about you, the more mysterious you will be seen. The more mysterious people will think you are. Because information is dangerous. The more information people have of you, the more they can use it against you. The less information they have, the less they can use that against you. Do you understand what I'm saying? And that's what I want to talk about today. Because being mysterious isn't pretending to be someone you're not it's becoming secure with your own self it's becoming secure with not having to please other individuals not having to share your life with other individuals because you are secure within yourself and this brings me to the first point stop explaining yourself to everybody the reason people don't see you as a mysterious individual is because you are simply explaining yourself to the world you're explaining your thoughts you're explaining your feelings you're constantly making other people know that they have access to you and you don't want to be that individual you want to be someone that's hard to access you want to be someone that does not review every single part of his life to other individuals because this is what makes you come across as more mysterious and that's why it's time for you to instead of being the individual that's always talking observe the room let other people speak let other people make a mistake because if you are constantly the individual that's speaking too much if you're constantly the individual that is sharing your world you are more likely to say something that will make people lose respect for you and that's why they say silence is bliss the less people know about you the less they can use it against you and I understand you want to talk to the world you want to tell all the individuals about your life because you are proud of yourself you are proud of you you're proud of all of the people that doubted you you are proud of the fact that you've grown so much that you've experienced a certain type of life and i understand but lucky for you my friend this is where you need good friends in your life you need a couple of people in your life where you can open up to you you can pour your heart out your vulnerable sides and these people will be there for you they'll be understanding for you But when you are in rooms with powerful individuals, in rooms where you can't make a mistake, you shouldn't be the one speaking about yourself because now you have social proof. You have friends that can speak highly about you and whilst they are boosting your social image, you remain silent. You remain like you don't really care. You remain like it doesn't really bother you. Whilst your social image, your status is going up, you haven't said much. You still remain mysterious. Do you see the power of speaking less and letting social situations do all of the work for you? Good. Because this also brings me to the next point. Become comfortable with silence. A lot of times when there is silence, people feel awkward. They feel like they have to fill the gap with something if you need to speak say something make a movement but remember you are secure in yourself you're not trying to impress other individuals you're not trying to be seen be accepted be validated right that's why it's important to accept the silence silence is your friend. Noise is your enemy because a confident man doesn't fear silence because you don't constantly need validation. You don't constantly need attention. Your existence is enough. People should be happy that they are surrounded by you, by your energy because that's how a secure and mysterious man views. I don't need other people in my life. My existence is enough. And people might feel intimidated. Let them. The more intimidated they feel, the more likely they are going to speak. And the more likely you don't have to say much. And this also brings me to the next point. Because a lot of times I do speak, but I speak in such a way where they still don't know everything about me. Keep your life private. I usually speak about certain topics that make me sound intelligent, make me sound eloquent, make me sound prestige, elite, make me sound like someone that is high value. Yet I have avoided many of the basic topics of my private life, of who I am. So even if I pull up in an amazing car, even if I pull up looking amazing, I don't really have to talk about how I got my life, why I'm living like this, who I am. They'll eventually find out. They will want to find out because they know that this type of confidence is not typical. This type of confidence is rare. I have asymmetric information. Asymmetric information is when one party has more information than the other party because they will talk about their private lives they will talk about everything and anything they will open up yet even though I am speaking I am only speaking about things that are not giving too much information about me because you can be proud of your life without having the feeling that everyone needs to witness it I don't feel the need that other people need to be part of my life because my life is already great. I don't need you in my life. This is the type of mindset you need to have if you want to be mysterious. And I'm not just talking about pretending to be mysterious. I'm talking about actually being a mysterious man. A lot of times people tell me, Junaid, you think you are better than other individuals. we feel like you have this arrogant energy and do you know what I say I don't even go in the moment I reply the moment I will have an emotional reaction that's when I will give my power to them so I remain calm disciplined because I don't need to impress you I'm living my life for myself and this brings me to the next point develop a life that genuinely interests you if you are living a life that's so amazing so vivid that you don't even have to think about another life then you don't even feel the need to impress other individuals you don't even feel the need to share your life people can see your life online on instagram they can see you at these crazy events they can see you do these crazy things because that's what i do online people see me suddenly drive supercars online people see me attend some of the craziest beauty events online people see me attend events with powerful individuals celebrities yet in real life i remain humble i don't feel the need to impress other individuals and this is because i genuinely enjoy my life i am proud of my life and the most important and interesting person in the room is rarely trying to be the one that is being understood because i know my life is great i know that whether other people know about it or they don't it doesn't affect my life and that's how you become a mysterious person and this also brings me to the next point of let people gradually discover your life i know a lot of times we want people to see us for us we want them to see how amazing we are but once again we are secure in ourselves we are confident we know how amazing we are we don't feel the need to impress other individuals because they will find out they always do they will always find out how amazing we are they will always find out what kind of motion we have they will always find out that our life is great because we have manifested this we have attracted this life and the right people don't need to know everything about you immediately anyways give people the opportunity to discover you slowly we live in a world where everyone's trying to rush everything we're trying to rush the next relationship we're trying to rush the next friendship we're trying to rush to our next destination but here we are wondering why we don't feel fulfilled here we are why we wonder people don't respect us because a real confident and secure individual is mysterious he doesn't feel the need to reveal himself because you know eventually they will find out they need you in their lives you don't need them you are amazing you have an amazing life you have amazing plans you are focused on your dreams your aspirations so you don't even need to do any of that and this also brings me to the fact that you don't need to become mysterious because you want people to chase you the reason I want you to become mysterious is because you've stopped chasing approval you don't constantly feel the need that people need to validate you and even at times when you feel invisible it doesn't really matter it's your superpower and i get it a lot of times we feel misunderstood and it makes us question our own worth but no one will understand you the way you do and that's the beauty of life i've been in so many situations where people told me that i'm unworthy i've been in so many situations where people didn't give me my respect yet i chose to remain calm and collected because if i didn't respect myself I know damn sure they will never respect me I've been in situations where I've given people money and they've disrespected me I've been in situations where I've given someone flowers and they've blocked me I felt hurt I felt betrayed I felt disrespected but here we are we know what our value is we know that irrespective of the choices they made irrespective of the way they treated us it doesn't affect the way we look at ourselves i will remain cool i remain disciplined i remain calm because this is the way a mysterious man thinks