We're getting there! October always seems to be crazy busy and home ownership only amplifies the craziness. From MORE house projects to preparing for a new baby and the holidays?! It's easy for budgeting to take a back seat, but come get back on track with us and join us for another BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!!!
CHAPTERS 00:00 - 01:09 - A Chaotic Intro 1:20 - Where Were We? (Kyle vs. Home Projects #1) 3:43 - Getting into the Budget 4:23 - DFM Super Budget Template shameless plug! 5:44 - BIG ANNOUNCEMENT!!! 13:48 - More Hectic-ness to share 16:14 - We Tried to grow grass (Kyle vs Home Projects #2) 21:12 - The Grocery budget strikes again 23:07 - Let's talk about the office (Kyle vs Home Projects #3) 26:28 - Holiday Prep in full force 30:17 - A Chaotic Wrap-up 😄
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we told you we would be back welcome
back see you did it see you did
it you're like and we're back what's up
who's this person back here the main
host no one cares we just got
done talking off off camera that I have
a habit of Leaning forward cuz I want to
talk to you I don't want to talk to
him and said they want to see me not you
but go ahead no I'm good they want to
see you honestly they do trust me I do
not need to get closer in on cameras
okay all right well stick
around October we're here we're doing it
we're drinking you're drinking I'm
drinking coffee let's do
it I feel like I don't we don't need to
introduce ourselves but I'm your host
Justine this is my husband Kyle what's
[Music]
up we're going to go over October's
budget what are you drinking same beer I
did last video because we're behind on
our budgets still the Buffalo Sweat
Stout still tasty still cold cuz the
last video was
quick um why didn't we do the budget two
months in a row oh yeah I forgot because
I've been working nonstop on house
projects and other projects I feel like
this is already going to be a longer
video so the previous owners well the
original owners put in this big
retaining wall in our backyard and it
has this really cool natural Limestone
shelf on it that's part of the Hill that
we live on so it's a kind of a neat
backyard but on top of this Limestone
platform they built a deck well they put
in the footings and the joist and they
back filled it with dirt and then put
the the decking boards on top the dirt
wed away the entire deck so it was kind
of a hazard to walk on and so my buddy
came down we took the top off didn't un
unbeknownst to us there was a bunch of
dirt and that's why it had rotted away
so I took everything out and then I was
like I've got to remove the dirt no
matter what so I got a dumpster in our
driveway and me your dad and my cousin
over several weeks uh moved 11 tons of
dirt by shovel and wheelbarrow very
slowly and
painfully so that took up a ton of time
and then and like the day that that
project ended started working on my
office and doing Framing and well I did
demo and then Framing and getting in the
attic to run new electrical and all this
other stuff so I've spent all of my free
time trying to get our house situated to
a point point where we can feel like we
don't have major projects anymore once
the baby comes mhm and now it will just
kind of hopefully be smaller things of
like hey hang this picture here and it's
like oh I can do that it takes 10
minutes rather than an entire week or
month or whatever so that's why you
haven't seen us doing budgets cuz I've
been outside shoveling dirt shoveling
dirt that that's one of two major
projects in one of three major I guess
purchases that we've done over the last
30 45 days I'll say that do you okay
should I just go ahead and open up the
October budget and then we'll okay so we
planned on we'll just go over here zoom
in on the summary table we planned on a
$112,000 income month we had
$4,495 actually come in because this was
an extra paycheck month are you sure it
was that I also got paid out for my
overtime you did so either way we got
extra cash from my job yes okay we sure
did so that left us I love this in the
upper left hand corner the money left
over so it's like not hidden boom money
left
3,300 by the way we're still using the
super budget template that has been
recently created for you you can also
get this super budget template for sale
using my link in the description box
below this is souped up it's got all the
sheets I've got the financial inventory
I have a guide with step-by-step
instructions I recently created a
tutorial video walking you through how
to use all of these sheets how to add
and delete rows a yearly glance tab
showing a breakdown in the pie charts
you get two different budget templates
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budgeting the simple template is where I
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little bit more visual super template is
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trackers for student loans credit cards
uh your car loan and savings trackers
and each one comes with a different card
where you can track month over month how
much you've saved how much interest
you've earned or credit cards a for each
credit card debt how much you've paid
off how much interest you've paid down
it's Killa it's Killa and it's for sale
buy once use it for life that is what
we're using for the October budget here
let's go up at the top to the checklists
events and notes and we'll work our way
down does that sound good from the top
from the top we bought a car hey guys we
bought a car we didn't share that in the
last episode cuz it didn't happen in the
last episode did we buy the Toyota
Highlander
no did we buy a minivan
no no we didn't you guys are never going
to guess what we bought and I cannot
wait to see you guys eat us up in the
comments about this one yeah I know
don't get it stolen don't get it
stolen can you guess uh we bought Kia
tell ride a 2021 Kia tell you ride we
bought the premium trim line the
SX and we were pleasantly surprised the
Toyota Highlander Hybrid premium that we
were test driving at CarMax by the way
this purchase was from CarMax we did
that intentionally because we hate
dealing with dealerships we bought our
Subaru from a dealership and it was the
worst experience you guys probably know
dealerships
not good so the Highlander that we
actually test drove from carax was kind
of junky it was it was it had been used
and abused and hung up wet so it and I
don't know it say just cuz they didn't
clean it but there were just some things
wrong and we had to go back and forth
like we waited a week and a half for
them just to get the title so we could
take it for a test drive and then we had
to wait for them to do the repairs that
we spoke pointed out but they didn't do
them all and then when they did do them
they didn't do them the way that
we thought they should have been done
and I don't know it was a nice car it
was great and it was a little bit over
budget it was like 5 six grand over what
we had saved for but it was a hybrid so
you got the better gas mileage
supposedly we loved how it it drove we
loved the interior we loved all the
premium features the biggest things
where I said I have to walk away from
this is there was a rust spot Exposed on
the exterior there were several
uh Dent well not dents but paint chips
yeah like aggressive paint chips like
they didn't scrape a car but they
definitely got hit with something that
rocks or not sure not sure it's a pearl
white kind of that glittery pearl white
paint color and it looked like they
literally used white out to on the paint
chip marks they didn't even like make it
like try to push it down flat they just
like caked it on there like you would
like ice icing on a cupcake it was just
like what I was like this that wasn't
CarMax that was the I guess the original
owners I don't know you would assume
bunch of scratches on the rear bumper
and then the passenger door part of the
actual like panel of the door the metal
panel was like chopped yeah cracked I
don't know like some kid may have swung
it out into a rock or something or a
fire hydrant and I mean that thing was
completely
busted anyway so we passed on that so we
passed on that they happened to have
this key to tell you right in the lot
Justine was interested in driving it so
she drove it and I drove it and here we
are we liked it we really liked it we
did our research I have a consumer
report subscription I went on to Google
I was very thorough in okay what are the
major mechanical issues with AA that we
need to know about uh what are some
common problems people encounter we know
about the Kia boys the Kia boys that go
in and steal older U years of older Kia
there used to be a trick with the USB
connector but there's been a software
updates that's not really a thing
anymore
so I wished you know the Toyota is what
I really really wanted the Kia is pretty
freaking nice it has more features than
the Highlander did yeah the I do wish it
was hybrid but at the same time if if
you were comparing a regular Toyota
Highlander to the Hybrid Toyota
Highlander and you're looking at the
price difference and how far you'd have
to drive that car to get the gas mileage
back out of it we would have had to
drive the car in one well in one
scenario we would have had to drive the
car almost
115,000 miles before we broke even MH
the hybrid alone is like 5 to 7K more
just because it's a hybrid and that's a
lot of gallons of gas that you can buy
for5 to $7,000 more so from a financial
perspective what's that what's that
makeup what's that difference what's
that cost so at the end of the day I
don't know I don't think it would have
been worth it just from it been peace of
mind or if you're an environmentally
conscious person or whatever justify it
on your own means or whatever in your
own way the the tell you right is really
going to be our road trip car in anytime
where we do need a second vehicle the
Forester is what we are primarily using
to drop Quinn off to
preschool run around town that sort of
thing because it it's just way better
gas mileage than the Kia so Kia out the
door how much did we spend did I note it
here oh I did not that's why because I
drained the car number two fund oh gosh
we have
$770 left in there yeah that's awesome
that means we were on budget we been
plan tell them the story we planned to
buy the second car we did all that stuff
yeah we put 500 bucks aside per month
for years yeah and then when it got to
like 40K we said let's stop we had it in
a high yield savings bond it grew to 45
mhm just from the Savings in it and we
used that and we wiped the whole thing
out and that includes tax title and
license and we were within budget yes
and someone like me that's very calming
it is very calming because the
Highlander out the door was 51 K that
included um registration and title
CarMax will take care of that for you
FYI super amazing amazing they're doing
that for the tell you ride as we speak
so with the the tell you ride was listed
at
39,000 it has about just over 31,000
miles on it and out the door including
title taxes registration all that good
stuff uh we transferred over
43,000 we added
Max care which is
carmax's like insurance basically you
know it 100,000 miles or 5 Years bring
it back for all of these reasons and
we'll take care of it for you display
goes bad car won't the car seat won't
move back and forth anyways so all of
that was dumped over to CarMax and so
now that has been drained we've drained
the home the down payment home upgrades
we've drained car number two fund guess
what has not been drained is our
emergency fund we don't touch that so
that's great that is taken care of okay
so that's car talk yeah so now you bring
it up I don't even know how much we have
in our emergency fund we have close to
$40,000 in our emergency fund okay good
it was 30 with interest and just letting
it ride we've got close to 40 that's
something we probably need to take a
look at again now that we have all these
extra expenses because now we're going
to have to add more to the car insurance
syncing fund so it was 378 to ensure the
tell you ride for 6 months we just paid
a six-month premium which I thought was
great yeah really great but let's let's
move on cuz we've got we've got more
stuff to share uh work trip work
conference oh yeah so October was going
to be even more hectic because I had a
conference you had conference back to
back and we both said you know what one
I was not feeling physically capable to
keep up with the demands of a conference
schedule I can't even hardly walk a mile
without like like trick-or-treating yeah
I was like oh my gosh Tri Tre was a
great time but it was so fun but man oh
man I walked too much and then your
conference you're like okay how can I
really spend my time and be still
productive at work still productive at
home is this year my year to to do this
conference cuz it's a conference we both
attend regularly it's kind of our annual
conferences yeah so we canceled that and
I feel like mentally that was just so
nice to get off my plate agreed agreed
we had lots of
birthdays um for October lots of
birthdays on both sides of our families
including my birthday so that was fun we
had a chill birthday for my birthday it
was great we did a brewery with p Pizza
I asked my mom to make me a chocolate
cake with sprinkles rainbow
sprinkles then my sister was like what
kind of rainbow sprinkles cuz there's
different kinds I'm like the crunchy
kind the little like rainbow balls and
she did C come through yeah that was
that was awesome what else let's go
through our expenses again preschool was
1120 I feel like maybe I just planned on
oh plus 55 that's right this is for
gymnastics that's why I included that
okay but I think what I meant to do was
include it down here with Quinn
money yeah I did so I counted it twice
let's take this off and then I had it on
here five times is that right did we
have five Mondays in October nope we
only had four mind blown okay
electricity natural gas together
$246 on util ities for that I went ahead
and just earmarked $147 for water based
off of what we paid last month actually
you know what this is not right this
should be half of that yeah cuz we're
paying it every other month but we also
tried to grow that grass and I had
that I forgot about
that this was this was not good this is
this is one of those things that put me
over the edge like I almost want to call
the previous owners and be like
so we have the sprinkler system that I
think is original with the house and
they didn't do anything with it I've had
it on the setting and it never is has
never run and then I get up in the
morning one day on a Friday and I hear
water running and I go out and I check
the sprinkler and it had said that it
had been running for six hours and I was
like what so come to find out that it's
like one r the way it's programmed it's
like one random Friday a month it
decides to water the yard but the
default time length for watering your
yard is set at 6 hours per Zone and I'm
like first off what manufacturer has the
default setting at 6 hours like the
default setting should be zero minutes
why would why would I'm beside myself on
that because I wasted so much water and
I hate wasting water I hate Lawns to
begin with yeah
and
these the reason we were even looking at
watering is cuz we had found the the
previous owners had left a bag of grass
seed and was like hey go you know you
know like here's a bag of grass seed I
think that grass seed was probably from
the owners before them eight years ago
because nothing grew and it was probably
a bunch of bag of dead seeds yeah it was
dead like nothing sprad nothing not a
not anything nothing sprouted and I just
beside myself on at all just I'm over it
I'm over the sprinkler system I'm over
the lawn like the back dirt project and
just I'm over all of
it get this when I actually went and
replaced the furnace filter two people
were at fault on how bad that looked
first it was our inspector cuz I am like
when we walked through this house if he
had pulled the furnace filter out he
would have taken a picture of it and
shown it to me cuz it looked like they
hadn't replaced it in like at 3 or 4
years I mean it there was so much dirt
on top of the filter that you couldn't
actually see the filter like it was that
kicked on that thick that dirty and the
other person that's at fault is the
previous owners like how are you an
adult and not knowing to replace your
furnace
filter anyways luckily you knew I need
to need to calm down take another drink
uh luckily you knew we got new filters
replaced them you did a lot of cleaning
you did a lot of cleaning my dad came
down um my dad has worked 40 plus years
in the HVAC
industry he immediately went down into
the furnace room and he's like that's
not right that's not right that's a
hazard yeah and
then we have a tankless water heater but
the gas vent on top the vent kind of did
this goose neck thing and initially the
goose neck was full of water so you
couldn't even vent gas out of it out of
the house mhm so we we said we wanted to
replace it they had paid someone to
replace it and did it wrong because then
the air vent filter was off-kilter it
wasn't sitting flush it was sitting open
cuz I would go down there and I'm like
it smells like gas down here sure enough
it was leaking it it still couldn't get
that right and I just so dad fixed that
he tested he did a whole test run of the
furnace to make sure there was no leaks
and he did warn us he's like if if the
carbon monoxide detector goes off or
find any leaks this is toast complete
replacement luckily it's not he's like
it's up and running like
amazing but we probably have another
year maybe two until we need to replace
it so that's something that we need to
actively save for luckily dad can get us
you know a at Cost replacement basically
we're so grateful we're so grateful okay
I love ownership I love home ownership
it's been a bit of a house hazing we
really have missed La in San Diego we're
like wow we had so much free time we get
it now yep um I still love it no regrets
I still like the house yeah we're still
in this transition phase I mean truly we
got to be easy on ourselves July I mean
we've only been here four four months I
know anyways back to the budget that's
enough soap box I'll try to keep it
clean for the rest of the episode kids
well no promises this is it you what
happened to the grocery budget you keep
venting they keep clicking I keep
making okay that's how that works what
happened to the grocery budget oh my see
I telling you every other month
$839 and I was kind of trying to figure
out exactly where that came from so down
here at the bottom when you fill out the
super budget template you have to fill
in all of your transactions using the
daily expense tracker don't fill it up
up here in fact don't mess with any of
these gray cells or else you're going to
mess with the formulas so what I did is
I ended up using these check boxes to
highlight all the times that we went to
a grocery store or something that was
categorized as getting something
groceries uh liquor alcohol and all
these kind of like smaller runs down
here where it was like oh Target we
picked up milk uh Walmart you picked up
milk we went and grabbed more alcohol at
one point so it was like some of these
little things were adding up but the
biggest one was this
$446 expense from Costco and that I
double checked that receipt it was
mainly grow like that was all groceries
and I think one box of pull-ups okay
pullups
pups our daughter says pool like like a
swimming pool she calls them pups pups
pups it's pretty cute we were right on
budget pretty much 7 $73 over for Home
Improvement and repairs lots of more
trips to to Home Depot in fact if I can
see where that was the furnace in hot
water heater fix yep that was the fix so
that was a that was half of it and the
rest of it was like home Depot stuff you
got some tools and things like that mhm
worked on the demo parts for the office
that kind of stuff did we talk about the
office yeah I was doing Framing and demo
and drywall and I'm doing mudding right
now which is horrendous yeah and the
previous episode we said hey we're
working on the office this episode where
what have you you decided to kind of put
in some Sweat Equity with this alongside
our contractor who did the kitchen
renovation for us he came back and said
hey I can help put the framing up um you
my dad and my cousin all did the demo
did the
demo so now you got the framing up You'
got the drywall up now you are like
doing the mudding for the seams mhm is
you want to you want to tell them how
much that's your favorite part well
what's the best part about you diying it
what's the worst part well best part is
I'm getting I'm learning I've never
framed a house before or framed
anything I mean it's it's nice to do it
with someone who's done it as a career
because they're just like oh you just do
this this and this and he was helping
and teaching and all that
stuff the worst part is mudding let me
tell you about mudding and
sanding I mean there's got to be like as
an engineer like I'm an engineer because
I get frustrated by things that aren't
official or done well and so as a career
I was like well let's try to like make
the world a better place by removing
some frustration or making things better
and I think and I'm glad that I don't do
mudding for a living because there's got
to be a better way to do mud and spackle
and all that stuff than the way that
I've been doing it for the past week
that's very frustrating yeah you had
tried one version of how to fix a seam
it did not work and it didn't work so I
tore it
out in a violent way so that way I could
do it the way that I wanted to do it the
profanities that I hear sprinkled coming
from upstairs I'm like hm I don't know
if I want to go up there right
now it's such a frustrating process I
can't wait for it to be done I'm almost
like I would have rather just done the
framing and putting up the drywall and
electrical all on my own and then just
Outsource just the mudding because it's
that frustrating you didn't know what
you didn't know it's a it's a new
process I am enjoying it overall like it
has been fun to be like oh yeah and I
sit in my office and I am working I'm
going to be like I made this this is
nice a little bit of that Pride so I'm
still looking forward to it I'm I'm
enjoying it and we picked out a paint
color for your office it is Cracked
Pepper from bear I think Home Depot Home
Depot it's this really re really pretty
kind of slate black I think is what I
would call it okay deep deep deep deep
gray it's deep very deep
deep it's it's cool I mean I'm over the
mess I can tell you that much yeah over
the mess over the plastic tarping and
draping so we just moved transferred the
kitchen renom mess to the upstairs
hallway anyway it'll be done soon prob
another week that's October so we've got
$3,300 which you guys probably know
where that's going yeah home upgrades
home upgrades upgrades that is going to
go towards paying our contractor getting
more stuff for your office and getting
that all put together yeah no movie
quotes this episode sorry guys well we
had a lot of Story Time Y and then
getting prepped for November December I
put for November increased grocery
budget it's Thanksgiving we're
definitely going to be buying different
specialty items for Thanksgiving and
we're hosting Thanksgiving at our house
oh cool which is really exciting yeah
new house it's a great time to do it
increasing the baby and gift budgets in
November as well because I will be
ordering our Christmas cards we took a
photos family photos that turned out so
cute um we're going to get my Costco
tree yes I'm so happy you're happy about
it too the old one
is the old one is from
Michaels and it's like we've had it
since we lived in Manhattan no we got it
our first year in San Diego yes oh man
it's like it needs to be duct taped
together it's it's not but you know what
we're still going to keep it okay right
we we can put it you know in the Hearth
area or we can put it in the basement
we'll put it somewhere yeah but I've had
my eye on those Costco Christmas trees
you know the ones the pre-lit ones that
can change from white to multicolor and
now we have the Kia to drive our and you
know we got the Kia so we could get the
Christmas tree yeah I mean math right
that makes sense um got my mom's
birthday coming up in November so I'm
going to be doing some budget changes
for that month and then obviously
December we're getting Christmas gifts
stay core we've got
baby shower stuff yeah postpartum things
that may be happening we don't know if
this baby's going to be born in December
or if she's like surprise happy New Year
2025 I'm going to come now we'll see she
might be like it's cold staying in here
yeah um if you haven't started budgeting
for Christmas you better get real with
yourself right now cuz you're always
going to go over budget on Christmas
there's always more people who want you
want to give more gifts to or things you
forgot about out or whatever so stick to
it make yourself a budget if you got to
make homemade gifts nothing wrong with
that we've done it we've helped family
do that nothing wrong with that so yeah
keep it simple do a white elephant uh
exchange gift exchange with your family
we love doing that on my family last
year I stole my sister's lottery tickets
and then she somehow ended up with the
ones that I originally had
and so the ones that she opened won
nothing and then the one that I opened
that I stole from her had hundred bucks
in yeah so it's so fun it's fun and we
cap it at what $25 yeah 20 25 bucks yeah
that's easy and I give you full
permission to temporarily pause on some
of those financial goals so you can cash
flow the holidays I want you to have a
good time during Thanksgiving and
Christmas and not go into the debt for
that so if that means pausing an extra
payment on your debt for the month of
December or for both months that's
totally fine you can do that you can
have those options just know hey I'm
going to take a pause so I can cash flow
and really enjoy myself for the holidays
and then January I'm right back at it
that is a wrap on October's budget again
if you want to use this exact same
template that we're using get all those
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for life and start using it to organize
your finances very happy pleasantly
surprised that how October ended up
shaping up yeah yeah me too cuz we both
have been sweating not going to lie
we've both been sweating the finances
we're like oh my gosh we're spending so
much money we're not used to spending in
this at this level we've been saving up
for it it's just we've been seeing it
sit there saved for so long that now
that it's finally left the nest we're
like where'd you
go where'd you go why why yeah did you
not love us anyways it's coming back to
us and then some you know there's always
doubts of like am I am I spending it on
the right things but we have to trust we
got to let it let it go can't bring it
with us when we die cuz that's not how
that
works okay on that note and see you
later we'll see you maybe in January
when we will record November and
December's budget oh man don't put it
past us
guys all right we'll catch you soon
see holy cow
right you got the kles
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yeah yeah
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