Episode 6 (ft. Sami Rizk) - Entrepreneurship, Creativity, and Work Life Balance

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Hello, everybody, and welcome back to another week
of the Let's Talk Social Innovation podcast.
I hope you've had an amazing start to your week,
but if not, we can kickstart that right here.
I'm your host, Ian Kehinde, and y'all know the deal.
Gotta get through this week's bulletin board.
So starting off October 23rd from 6.30 to 8.30 p.m.,
join the Pitt Alumni Career Network
and Frederick Honors College as alumni, staff, and students
share personal, scary stories
from their professional lives.
Each speaker will explain how they pick themselves up
from each fall and turn failures into successes.
The doors open at 6.00 p.m.
There will be refreshments and swag provided,
and my boss, Rana Doko, and FAC diplomat
and resident Sherry Zalika Sykes will be featured.
October 29th from 2.00 to 4.00 p.m.,
stop by the Office of Community Engaged Learning's
Community Engagement Fair in the University Club,
Ballroom B.
Network with 20-plus community partners
working to drive change in areas such as youth development,
social work, sustainability, health,
and more like my colleagues from CivWiz.
Learn how you can get involved in civic learning
through volunteering internships or research.
Snacks and honors OCC points will be provided.
November 4th to 5.00 p.m.,
applications for FHC Research Fellowship,
the Chancellor's Undergraduate Research Fellowship,
and the Chancellor's Undergraduate Teaching Fellowship
are due.
Links to the application can be found
in the description of this episode
where you're watching or listening.
Second to last, 3,122 children and youth
were identified as experiencing homelessness
by their allegated county school districts
in the 21-22 school year.
Come hear from Brian Knight,
the Community Engagement Manager
for the Homeless Children's Education Fund
about the issue of child homelessness.
November 7th from 3.30 to 4.30 p.m.,
you can learn from the HCF organization
about ways you can get involved.
It's an informal 30-minute virtual session
with information and Q&A.
All of these things listed will be in the description.
And lastly, if you are interested in coming on the show,
like my incredible friend Sammy here,
make sure to fill out the form in the link tree
which can be found in the description below.
And lastly, if you are looking
to take on the mantle of this podcast
to become the host, as I am a senior
and I will be out of here sooner than you think,
it is a paid intern position.
You will learn the ropes
of how to handle the podcast and media.
You do not need film or media experience.
You can learn on the job.
If you're interested in becoming an honor student
or currently an honor student,
the form to apply will be in the link tree as always.
But with everything else aside, bygones be gigons,
like I said, my incredible friend Sammy Riz,
psychology major and creative entrepreneur.
How we feeling today?
I'm doing good, thank you for having me.
I appreciate it a lot.
Second time on the podcast now, so it's exciting.
I got really excited when you hit me up about it
and we ran into some difficulties trying to get here,
but we're here now.
Just a little bit.
So it's been good.
I'm blessed, I can't complain.
It's good seeing you as always, my friend.
And I see you've been doing some work on the intro.
I enjoy it, you're professional with this.
So as he said, anyone that's looking
for the opportunity, please do,
because you can learn a lot,
as I clearly have seen from Ian over the year.
And it's just a great opportunity to be here.
So thank you.
I appreciate that.
People who are regular viewers,
of course they remember you.
But to this day, still the most popular episode
of the podcast.
I appreciate it.
We'll see if this does numbers like that.
We'll see.
I'm excited.
I feel good about this one.
So as always, we will be going through Sammy's backstory,
the current projects that he finds himself working on.
We'll hit our artist spotlight.
And then in the second half,
we'll be touching on the topic of work-life balance.
So with this being the first episode
that we have a returning guest,
I will ask that if you want a more detailed
overlook of Sammy's backstory,
feel free to find the first episode
that we filmed with Sammy,
season one, episode two, featuring Sammy Rizk.
Feel free to listen to that
if you want to know more about his backstory.
But we're doing the spark notes here.
Yeah, yeah, yeah.
Just a quick one.
Just a quick overview, quick summary.
My name's Sammy Hennif Rizk.
Born and adopted in Morocco, Casablanca.
Or Casablanca, Morocco, excuse me.
To two beautiful adoptive parents,
Kareem and Kibera Rizk and Hennif.
And I think, again, if you even read the title
of the episode that I was on last time,
it's embedded in everything that they taught me
and that I've come through throughout my whole life
and upbringing is just hard work.
And going at things and looking at things
through a realistic lens and a logical lens
and taking it head on.
So I was picked up by two headstrong people,
two blue collared workers and immigrants
who have done everything under the sun
to provide me with these opportunities that I have.
And in that, I've just been,
I've been searching and working on these projects ever since.
I've been an artist, a music artist and a athlete.
I've been playing soccer my whole life
and that has stemmed into hybrid athlete training,
which is kind of just like triathlon training basically.
But my main nature, my nature is running.
That's what I do most.
I could never.
Yeah, yeah.
I run into that a lot.
But you'd be surprised, bro.
You'd be surprised how much you could get done.
Maybe we'll have to go on one soon.
But I do that a lot.
I've done music now for the past seven years of my life
and just released a album in this past March,
my third studio album.
So it's been a good process, all of it.
I study psychology here at Pitt, fourth year, senior.
Finally, man.
Finally.
Been with this guy since freshman year, Holland Hall.
For anyone that's out in Holland Hall right now.
Shout out Holland.
Finally, it's getting a little cooler.
So hopefully y'all are feeling a little better and all that
because it is hot as heck up there.
But yeah, that's just a little summary about me.
Again, as Ian said,
if you guys wanna get a full in-depth review of who I am,
how my parents even came to find me
and how we got to where we're at,
please go and peep the last episode for sure.
But yeah, that's a little bit about me.
So where did the love for the music start?
I think it's always been there in hindsight.
As they say, hindsight is 20-20.
Looking back from even fourth grade,
writing different poems and love notes and stuff like that
in the form of poetry, writing lyrics before I knew it.
I performed Bob Marley, Three Little Birds,
my fourth grade year at the talent show.
Always just putting myself in these,
one, uncomfortable, and two,
most of the times creative positions
without being aware of it.
And I think I actualized it my sophomore year of high school
when I released the song Self-Healing
that is honestly my mantra of life
and the main basis of the last episode
I was on self-healing and creativity.
But I think it's just always been there.
I found it in a really rough time in my life.
And again, I actualized it when I was going,
when I had lost somebody really close to me in my life.
And I found it as a means to express
and a means to start understanding myself
at a deeper level,
a means to start understanding other people
and not just myself, but my role
and myself in perspective of others
and in terms and relation to this world around me
and how it operates.
So I've been searching for that for a while
and I think that's a lifelong process.
But I think music definitely showed me that
and to expand that even the arts in general
and diving deeper into all aspects of art
and finding a true love and appreciation for that.
And yeah, it's been a ride and a half
trying to understand what it means to me
and what it is of service to me for,
you know what I mean, in my life.
And I've grappled with that at times
with whether it be trying to understand
why I subconsciously want something like notoriety
or fame or money
and understanding that those things were traps at one point
and just trying to, again, grapple with all that, learn it.
But it's nothing less that I've,
nonetheless I've been grateful for
and happy to continue to venture on
and explore within this next album that I'm working on,
these creative projects that I'm doing on the side
and stuff like that.
It's been a fun time and an eye-opener.
So yeah.
Who inspired you in terms of your musical direction?
Did you have any mentors?
It's funny that you ask that
because no one in my family that I could,
like I couldn't put my finger on anyone
that's inherently talented at music
or has as deep of an understanding
or appreciation for it as I do.
I think it just kind of came, you know,
by whether you want to call it God or the universe
or just by blessing or birth.
I just was kind of born with it.
And again, hindsight is 20-20.
But I look back and I find all these moments
where I was putting myself in these,
again, uncomfortable and creative opportunities.
And I was, I think that's when I was most content,
most happy, most curious and at peace and fulfilled.
Honestly, I think when I'm keeping myself in those areas
and pursuing and diving deeper into those concepts
and thoughts and trying to become as creative as possible,
I think that's when I'm happiest.
I don't, I'd say more icons,
more inspirational people that I'm not directly tied to.
Tyler, the creator, he's dropping a new album soon.
I'm so excited about it, dude, that I saw it
and it caught me off guard on my timeline.
And it felt like watching Tyler in like 2013 again.
So I was really, really excited about that.
And that kind of sparked some creativity in me again.
But he's a huge one for me.
Mac Miller, as always.
Even again, these icons that aren't even from our time.
Van Gogh and his intensity for his art
and his work in general is something
that I try to embody in my everyday.
And I think about how he genuinely tailored his life
to his art and the meanings were parallel to him at least.
And some people think of that as crazy.
I think of that as greatness.
And I don't know, I really enjoy that type of stuff.
So I try to study those greats and those icons.
Sadly right now, ooh, excuse me.
Sorry, sadly right now,
I don't have many inspirations near me.
I have people that I work with, I guess,
and creatives that I truly respect
and appreciate that I work with.
But nothing like that recently.
So the last time that you were on this podcast,
you were talking about the release of your next album,
which was originally going to be called
The Eagle and the Shadow.
And now that it's out, the album Idol.
Idol, yeah.
Man, it was a project that I've been working on
since freshman year, since we touched down here.
And I'm sure at times you heard me recording clips
of that album without even either you or I knowing
that it would be on this album.
But something that I truly dedicated so much time
and so much of my life to, and again,
that intensity and meaning that we talk about,
it was almost parallel.
It was life or death for me.
And this album was everything for me.
But in a sense, I almost fell into
what I'd call my junior year.
A very colorless year for me.
I didn't have much, many moments of vibrancy
or many moments to express myself
in the way that I wish I did.
I put myself in, again, these pits of uncomfort.
But this time, I think it was a lack of creativity there.
And I wasn't putting myself in the right area,
spreading myself or surrounding myself
with the right person or around the right people,
I should say, or the right things.
And I think I sucked a lot of color out of my life.
And given the title, Idol, I think,
the description that I wrote in the moment
for a lot of press that I was doing
was a colorless reach for,
or a colorless reach for something along the lines
of just being very hopeless
and reaching for something so colorful,
but not seeing any of it,
being able to really actualize it.
And I felt very, very stuck.
I felt like everything I was reaching for,
I was getting cut off right before I could get to it.
And it was a frustrating time.
But I think that album was the opening and closing
and confrontation of all those feelings
and what it meant to be idol in the moment
and how to kind of get by that.
It's a lot of deeper and darker emotions
and stories within that album,
but it serves tribute to that time of my life
and how I got out of it.
So I'm very happy about the product of it,
the press afterwards, and everything in between.
It was a process that taught me a lot
and truly gave me another chunk
of my discography career and story
within all this creative nonsense.
So, yeah.
So in the self-reflection that led up to Idol,
how do you put your life story to pen and paper?
So I think the goal is,
and I think for the longest time,
everybody is convinced that making art
is about meeting someone else's expectation.
And to a point, the magic is being universally relatable.
So how do I create and tell a story
and something that I am so personally tied to
that then reigns and relates to so many other people
and rings this bell in everybody else's head
that is like, damn, I had a moment like that.
Or he's saying something
that I didn't think anybody understood
or could articulate.
Or half of the time, I wish I could get off my chest,
but just don't know how to get off my chest.
So that's definitely the goal.
But especially with Idol,
I sank back in and started realizing
that if I started creating for myself
and from a true standpoint of relatability towards myself,
like inward, if you know what I'm trying to say,
where I wasn't trying to create these stems
or branches of relatability for anyone else,
but I was trying to do everything inward
and truly understand why these things were happening
for myself and stuff like that.
I realized and started to understand
those created the best outward branches
for people to then latch onto and understand
and relate and stuff like that.
So it took me a while to understand that,
but Idol definitely did a really good job
at teaching me that process
and start to tailor my music towards myself again,
kind of creating my own narrative again,
rather than constantly looking outward
and searching in an external space
for what my next narrative should be,
what my next song should be about,
what the next project conceptually should be about
and stuff like that.
I don't know, I think it gave me a lot more control
and creative freedom.
And again, it was hard.
It was really nasty, horrendous, hideous work at time
that I really didn't like to dig through,
but looking back on it and being able to reflect
and listen to those songs
and put myself back in those moments
and see how far I've come
and see how far I can pull myself out
of those crappy emotions and stuff is really cool.
And it's really beneficial and I just appreciate it a lot.
So how do you feel now closing that chapter that was Idol
and moving into your potential next project?
I feel amazing right now,
both physically, mentally, spiritually.
It's all there for me right now and it's adding up
and I think it was through that process
and trials and tribulations and grit and grind
and again, like I said,
that horrendous and hideous process of making Idol,
getting through Idol,
understanding what it meant to be Idol to me
and then finally getting out of it
and removing my way out of it.
I'm not saying that I still have Idol days,
but I think that process of it allows me to separate
and get back to these good grooves
and I have a lot less Idol days,
a lot less consistent of them.
If it's now, it's maybe six days of the week
and one day of the week,
I might have an Idol day if that, nowadays.
And it's really nice to see that progress.
Whereas last year, I swear it was for months at one point,
I felt colorless.
I was on the phone with my dad yesterday
and we had a good conversation
and I told him at one point,
and I was like, listen,
I've never felt this amount of happiness,
excuse me, happiness, peace,
fulfillment, discipline, responsibility
and accountability in my life before
and it's truly through doing a lot,
a lot of these horrendous, hideous things.
Before this podcast and the reason why we're late right now
is because I was doing a nine mile run
and I truly believe in,
it's a little off topic right now,
but someone very close to me in terms of inspiration,
Nick Bear on the athletic side of the thing,
he says, if it matters to you, you'll make time.
And I know this podcast matters to Ian
because he's taking more time out of his day,
canceling plans that I sadly cut into
to make time for this episode.
And two, I think he understands how much my health
and running means to me
in terms of I had to make that time
to go get my nine miles done today.
So tying it back to that creativity side,
it's like realizing my responsibility and capacity
and what I can do and applying all of that.
And it's been a really cool opportunity
and process that I've been able to go through
and I hope that I keep it.
I fall into these moments of fear
and I know you can relate where it's like,
you're on such a good stretch of days, weeks, months
and it's like, something's gonna happen.
There's gonna be a booby trap somewhere or something
where I fall through and something is gonna happen.
It has to someday.
And I've been anticipating and kind of preparing,
but also knowing that, no, I'm in control of every day.
And even if I have a crappy morning or a crappy night,
it doesn't have to be a bad day.
And this consistency can keep going
and how I frame it and everything.
So it's just given me so much perspective, really.
Post-idol, I'm as colorful as possible.
So I feel it and I'm really happy about it.
So with you being a musical creative,
I think that your life perspective
can be different from those of us who are not
because as you are maturing,
both physically, emotionally, mentally, and spiritually,
you can see how that changes your creative process.
What has changed maturity-wise
since the last time you were on this podcast?
Excuse me, ah, that's a good question.
I think I'm not doing things from a route of ego anymore.
I think everything's derived still from the self
and it's internal.
I'm trying to work and it's intrinsic motivation
and I'm trying to pull inward and work on myself inward.
And again, it's self-centered, I think, to a point.
But again, it's just a different intention.
Everything is completely different intention-wise.
And I think intention fell at a lower list
of my priorities in the past
and I kind of reprioritized my perspective in a lot of ways.
And intention and urgency has now fallen
at the top two or three of my priorities in life now
in terms of urgency being,
what is your level or degree of energy and will
to get out and go do something, right?
And even like, what is your level of urgency, okay,
to even pick up the phone and text someone
to go make that plan, lock it in, go do it?
Or what is your level of urgency to get out the bed,
to redeem that promise that you made the night before,
to go on that run, despite of how you're feeling,
you know what I mean?
And with that intention,
it's like understanding why you're doing these things.
Because if you're just driving,
if you could have a Ferrari with no wheel
and you could have all the drive in the world,
there's zero direction or intention behind it,
you're not going anywhere, you know what I mean?
And at some point, you're gonna run into a wall
and if you don't understand why these things are happening,
you'll never get to these points
that you wanna get to, excuse me.
So with intention, I've just been trying to understand,
and I'll say this slowly,
and I've been journaling about it a lot in writing,
but it is so important to understand
and for all you psych heads out there,
I think you'll understand this really well, hopefully,
is for any given goal, any given behavior,
any given action, your first base intention,
subconsciously, but I encourage you to make it conscious,
is you just wanna experience.
Why do you wear a certain outfit?
You wanna experience a new look.
Why do you get a new haircut?
You wanna experience, again, a new look.
Why do you go on a run?
Why do you challenge yourself in these different ways?
It's experience, that's your base intention.
Once you understand that,
you can start assigning a different perspective
to all these different things.
Understand that base intention
and then understand too, for any given behavior or goal,
you have a million, or I won't say a million,
you have a good amount or multiple trains of thoughts
with multiple different underlying intentions, right?
And some of these intentions are good
and some of these intentions are bad.
In the past, I used to go on runs
and I used to bring my phone with me
and some of these intentions for going on the run
were, let me take a picture of myself
to post on Instagram for other people to see
to give me a spark of dopamine and a spark of validation.
And it was so toxic because it's like,
sometimes if I bonked on my run
or if I hit a wall or something like that,
I was more mad about the Instagram post
than I was about the performance, you know what I mean?
And I didn't understand that intention for the longest time
but I think rewiring and reprioritizing that perspective,
okay, of like, okay, this is my pure intention
of one, I want to experience this,
why do I want to experience this now?
Because I want to get better,
not because I want someone else to see it
or tell me that I got better,
but it's because I want to actually grow,
you know what I mean?
So I think rewiring and channeling your intentions
is very, very important.
I think that's something I learned recently
and something that I applied to mature and grow, so yeah.
We love to see the growth.
I appreciate it, yeah, yeah, yeah.
You're talking to our psych eds,
this next section is going to be for our psych eds.
How are you in your journey
of pursuing your psychology degree?
I love it, I absolutely adore it
and appreciate everything that it's given me
in terms of opportunity professionally and educationally.
Excuse me.
Again, I'm in my fourth year now,
senior year, fall semester.
Last fall semester, hallelujah.
So we're getting through it,
but I've been enjoying it a lot.
This has probably been my most efficient
and proficient semester in college yet
and I just love to see the progress, honestly.
That's all I could really ask for.
In terms of the classes,
I'm loving the upper level classes
that I'm finally taking
and the opportunities that I get in them.
They're a lot smaller set now
rather than like 200 plus lectures.
We have, you know, 25, 30 kids in our class.
So you can really,
and most of the times it's people
who are quite passionate about it
and a professor who is quite passionate about it as well.
So it creates for a really cool atmosphere
and a really cool opportunity
for some really in-depth and educational dialogue,
things that I haven't even considered or thought about.
It's really, really cool.
I appreciate the program here
at the University of Pittsburgh
and it's given me a lot, honestly.
I've met a lot of cool people through it.
Professionally, I've started to work
in the clinical side of it
and I've loved every second of it.
It's been awesome
and not to say that there haven't been downs with it,
but working in that sector now has been really cool.
So it's been eye-opening and it's been an awesome time.
Tell us more about the clinical work.
So I'm working,
shout out to the Bradley Center, I love them.
They are a, excuse me,
RTF, a residential treatment facility
for traumatized adolescents.
They are also a school program too.
So I work on the clinical side.
Sometimes I'll pick shifts up in the school program too
and stuff like that
where they're doing their educational side of stuff.
But mostly I'm on the clinical side,
working with, again,
six through 18 traumatized adolescents
who have been through some really, really rough experiences
and I don't know, you talk about levels
and I thought I had a rough end of things,
but you realize how rough people do have it
and how rough people can go through things
and how they're still kicking it
and how some of these kids are so resilient
and still getting up every day
despite sometimes being a pain in the butt,
they are some of the most awesome and inspirational kids
that I've met in my life
and some are insanely talented with the creative sides,
art, athletics, you name it, honestly,
and you can find it there.
So people try to think about that stuff
and alienate it or make it different,
but they're just kids and I really do enjoy it.
I've been able to do some therapy strategy there,
supervision with the actual kids and working with them,
activity and wellness programs as well with them
and just getting them through their treatment there
and their programming there
so then they can get out into the real world,
whether that's from a foster system.
A lot of them are already in the system
and go out to these group homes and stuff like that,
but it's really, really cool
to see these full circle moments
and it's always awesome to see one come in
who is cursing you out constantly
and who doesn't trust you at all
and months later they are on their way out
and they're giving you a high five every day,
asking you to pick up another double or something like that.
So it's been a really, really heartwarming
and fulfilling experience to work with these kids
and be able to give them a little bit of my life
and I'm an open book, I try to teach them everything
that I know about this life
in a healthy and therapeutic way
and I tell them about my music, about my athletics,
to give them a open avenue and vision
towards all these things are so obtainable and possible.
I tell them before I come into the 6 a.m. shift sometimes
and I'm like, yeah, I just ran five miles,
you could do the same and I take them out
for morning walks and stuff like that
to influence these type of behaviors and stuff like that
and I think with this next generation coming in,
I have a lot of hope and optimism for better treatment
with especially our younger youth and adolescent groups
and yeah, I'm just excited to see some change
and apply it as well myself, so yeah.
You think you'll still be working with children,
adolescents in the future
or where is this psychology degree taking you?
That's a hard one, it's a hard one to understand
especially with all these side projects
that I intend to pursue and I'm trying to pursue
and getting running, I wanna be a company owner too
and we can get into those talks later
but that's something that I'm truly passionate about
and working on on the business side of things
but I would love to work with children
and I have in the past in terms of just coaching
for soccer and stuff like that
and that was an awesome experience.
So whatever really comes my way
in terms of working with children,
if it's this direct line of work again
or something else within owning my company
and even creating a children's line for the athletic wear
that I'm making and stuff like that,
it would be awesome to get those kids incorporated
and even incentivize them
and help them benefit a little bit
and see how things work, so it'd be awesome.
That's a good question,
I haven't really thought about that much
but I've been so present with it all
but currently I do love working with children so much.
It's been an awesome experience and an eye-opening one.
You have time to make that decision.
The last guest that we had on, Vidya Sirti,
one of her pieces of advice was to fail early.
Say it again?
Fail early.
Fail early, okay.
Because failing early
while you don't have your roots set down,
it gives you the most chance, the most opportunity to grow.
Oh, for sure.
So you have time to figure out what you wanna do.
Never feel rushed.
110%, 110%.
I think people are scared to fail as well.
I think that's what stops a lot of people
from starting in the first place is failure
because it's like, why would I wanna start something
if I'm gonna fail and fall so many times?
But I think that's where the reward
and true progress and magic is in.
I say it and I said it in recording a commercial
for my company yesterday.
It's just like, the magic that you search so
and pray so much for is in this hideous, horrendous work
and in this hideous, horrendous process.
And if you never intend to go through that,
then I promise you, you will never reap that reward.
So you quite literally reap what you sow.
So before we hit this week's Artist Spotlight,
walk us through your role in entrepreneurship.
Yeah, you want me to introduce the project?
Yeah, excuse me.
So right now, I'm working on becoming, and I am,
honestly, I need to start becoming better
at labeling myself that.
It's a new label, so I'm trying to work on it.
But I am the CEO and founder of Rizk Fit,
athletic apparel and supplements.
It's a company that I've been working on now
for about a year and finally have gotten
our base designs established and successfully completed.
And we're working on now the actual
supplement production part of it,
working on proportioning our ingredients
to the right way.
And I have a small team who I've been working with,
but mainly just trying to research on my own for now
a lot of these different things.
I'm also working on a huge, I shouldn't say huge,
but a pretty cool athletic line as well,
athletic apparel line for both men, women, and children.
And slowly but surely, we're just getting
all that stuff together.
And it's been a really, really cool process.
I've been enjoying it a lot.
It's been cool learning about it while also
like kind of venturing through my own athletic journey
and process and learning what I am good at as an athlete,
not so good at as an athlete in terms of fueling
and my body and stuff like that,
what I lack in naturally biologically and stuff like that.
And how do I make the best product for myself?
And I think that's what will attract like-minded people
and like-minded athletes and even similarly,
body type wise and stuff like that.
So I think it'll attract really good, cool niche.
And it's something I'm truly passionate about.
I'm not really even thinking about the business side
of it more as I'm just kind of considering again,
tapping back into the opportunity
to literally give somebody else a window of vision,
a window of opportunity to paint something
for someone to be like, oh, this is obtainable
and this is how you go up and get it.
You know what I mean?
Because at one point, I wasn't an athlete
who could run nine miles.
I wasn't an athlete who could run one mile
at one point in my lifetime.
You know what I mean?
So we all start somewhere and I'm telling you,
I've run into more people than not who tell me,
I wish I could be like you and my response always is
and it's not supposed to be condescending even
and I wish people didn't take it like this,
but I always say you can.
There's nothing in this world
that is stopping you right now unless, you know,
there are some things that compromise our health
and stuff like that.
I fully understand that, but for the average person,
I tell you, you can get out and do this
and I'd love to paint again or give people a window,
a vision of not only to see other people doing that,
but give them a way to do it too
and kind of bridge that gap
between the highly experienced and these beginners
who fantasize and pray so much about getting to this point,
but might not necessarily understand how to.
You know what I mean?
So it's been a good process.
Well, this is a good segue
to get into this week's Artist Spotlight.
We playing The Ego and the Shadow by Sammy Riz.
So I hope y'all enjoy.
♪ 2 a.m., I'm reading scripture, trying to find my place. ♪
♪ I went from Bible to Koran, I really can't relate. ♪
♪ I'm finding demons in the place where I thought I was safe. ♪
♪ It's a war between the ego and the shadow, it's exhausting. ♪
♪ It's got me held up like a hostage, paying homage to the greatest. ♪
♪ Me, my God, and I, the latest. ♪
♪ And try to remember the self is what you make it. ♪
♪ Trying to find myself some patience, turning out to be the patient. ♪
♪ Chasing, I'm the latest in my lane, there's a evergreen. ♪
♪ Growing with my golden soul, that's the pain in my spleen. ♪
♪ And I guess it's on me, look. ♪
Hope y'all enjoyed this week's Artist Spotlight,
The Ego and the Shadow by Sammy Riz.
You'll be able to find the artist description
in the description of this episode,
whether you are watching or listening.
Now, the second to last episode of this month's theme
of Power in Academia,
we will be focusing on work-life balance.
I leave the floor open to you, Sammy.
I appreciate that.
I appreciate the Artist Spotlight as always.
Thank you for the opportunity again.
And to kind of segue off what I was saying about the company first is
another thing too, and I think this taps into our generation heavily,
is a lot of the hyper-successful athletic entrepreneurs
that I see nowadays at the top of our game,
one, aren't from our generation.
And two, kind of inspire this and highlight this grind set or process
that is very, again, colorless and black and white
and put your head down and get to work.
Don't let anybody know about it.
Don't let anybody hear about it.
Let them just see the progress, I guess, or the performance.
And although I do understand some of the logic towards that,
I think one thing that I'm trying to do with RizkFit
is tap into the hypersensitivity that our generation possesses.
And no one in general, I think, wants to be at the top and be colorless.
I think we all want to do it with a little bit of flair nowadays.
I think we all want to do it with our own color and our own palette in mind.
So with that being in mind, I'd love to, again, create a space
for young, highly motivated, high-functioning athletes and others
that want to get after it and, again, create their own colorful process with it
and have fun with it.
So I just wanted to say that before we get into the work-life balance section of it.
But with work-life balance, I think it's so, so, so important.
And it's something that I learned this past summer with working at Bradley.
I was working 60-hour weeks.
I'm talking about maybe for a month and a half straight at one point during the summer.
And it really took it out of me.
But what helped me so much was understanding that you have two different identities
that complement each other, which is your professional self and your personal self.
And how you sustain and contribute to these two identities
is, excuse me, so vital for how they perform.
You know what I mean?
So what I mean by that is when you look at your professional identity,
quite literally, what are you doing?
First of all, what's your occupation or job-wise, education-wise?
I'm a student now, too.
So that is a part of my professional self.
And I have to understand what is required of me
and what capacity I need to be a successful student,
be a successful and professional clinical worker.
You know what I mean?
Be a successful business owner and stuff like that.
And once I have, again, the understanding of the prerequisites for these things
and the standard that I want to achieve for all these things,
I can then understand, again, tying back in to the intention behind all these things
and how do I achieve all them?
And why do I even want to do it?
And then I can start cutting things out like,
okay, do I want to be a student?
Yes, that is of top priority to me and to increase my education
and pursue higher levels of it.
Do I want to do this CEO thing and become a business owner?
And why do I want to do it?
And I really have had to grapple with that and understand it.
Do I want to be an artist and what it means to me to be an artist?
And do I want to chase this quote-unquote fame and notoriety
and this, you know, Hollywood life?
And we see all this crazy stuff happening in Hollywood right now
and that has definitely reformed my perspective on all of that stuff as well.
But taking that all into consideration,
you also have your personal self, right?
And I've kind of moved, some of these labels kind of swing under different things
and kind of maybe share, again, this intertwined identity.
With your personal self, I have now moved a part of my artist label
into this personal self and understanding that my art is of service
to so much more than just monetary value, notoriety, or anything like that.
It is my soul.
It speaks so much more to who I am than what I am, you know what I mean?
Or what I'm trying to do.
So just, again, reprioritizing my perspective on a lot of things like that,
understanding those two different identities
and how they complement each other,
and how making the time to eat well, making the time to sleep well,
making the time to study but also have fun and, you know,
go kick back and watch a movie or something like that,
how that affects my performance in my professional life and professional self.
And again, how the professional self affects yourself, your personal self.
A lot of selves right there, but something very important
and something to ponder on for sure.
Another thing with this whole work-life balance,
I think it's very cyclical.
And as we grow up, I think we start to understand that week by week.
Our perception of that time gets a little shorter.
So when you get to that Monday, that reset button feels so much harder at times.
But I think coming to peace with that understanding
that this is just such a cyclical cycle
and you have to keep going after this consistent grind
and it's, again, hideous and horrendous, but it's a process nonetheless.
And if you can reframe and look at it as beauty sometimes
and see that magic within it that you so much long and pray for,
I promise you, you will reap what you sow
and you will reap the benefits and rewards that, again,
you have been praying and hoping for for so long.
And that is only if you put in that work and find that balance.
A lot of the pillars that I kind of mentioned before,
consistency, urgency, intention.
Another one, intensity.
I think everyone should lead their life with a little bit of intensity
and have a level or degree of intensity in their life.
You don't have to be as intensive as me,
but with me, I'm all-in in everything I do.
If I'm choosing to do it, there's no point of doing it at a 50% level.
So everything for me is perceived at 100% and I'm doing it for a certain reason.
And once I assign that intention and I understand it's positive
and I can find that urgency within myself,
the intensity is there and we get going and we get it done
and then we're on to the next thing.
So organizing yourself to be balanced,
organizing yourself to be structured and have a system.
It's not just going to get done.
You really have to place these blocks in a place that you can step on
and it's not going to fall through.
And, you know, get yourself to that point that you envision.
Vision is everything.
Belief is everything.
And, you know, create these pillars and definitions for yourself
and then operate by them.
Create that system and work.
You know what I mean?
That's all it really is.
Work, work, work, work, work and work.
That's one thing that I've realized too
and I tried to beat around the bush for so long
and find these corners to cut.
But work, organize yourself for the balance,
create that system and operationalize for yourself
and it'll work.
You know, I mean, everyone's process is different.
So I don't expect anyone who's listening in this
to emulate my exact process
and find the peace or joy or happiness or fulfillment that I found.
But I think you can surely take some of the pillars
that I'm explaining right now
and apply that into your own system
and make it work for yourself
and get it done, get after it.
That's really all it is, to be honest.
I think a big part of that balance is staying in it
and staying consistent with it.
So, yeah.
I will say, one of the best pieces of advice
that I've heard in my year and a half of doing this podcast
came from Morgan Overton.
She said that rest is resistance.
Yeah.
And rest being resistance is a really interesting topic
because of the society that we live in,
which is, you know, a capitalist society
where we work nine to five or even more than that.
We put in a third of our entire lives into work
that resting and doing absolutely nothing
is the biggest way
that you can give the middle finger to the system.
Not only are you also giving the middle finger to your system,
but you're also giving yourself time to recover
so that you can better apply yourself to whatever you're doing.
How does rest fit into your life and your schedule?
That's an interesting quote.
I never really, and you talk about reframing and all that.
I love being able to carry an open mind
to hear these things like these
and then apply it in a different light.
I think, I heard this quote one time from a Buddhist monk.
He said, sleep when you need to sleep,
eat when you need to eat,
and work when work is required
and everything outside of that is simply a distraction
or a negative stem towards what you're trying
or supposed to achieve in this life.
And I kind of took it quite literally
and like, I only sleep the amount that I truly need to sleep.
I don't think there's much point of clicking snooze on that button
unless I really deserve it
or unless it's, you know, one of those days
that you truly do need it,
which is very rare in my opinion.
But I think, yeah, again,
and then just doing the thing at the right times
when you're supposed to do that.
We all understand that we're supposed
to be doing something at a certain time
and sometimes we might be slacking into that
or, you know, on this scrolling
and you literally have the time right in front of you
and it might hit your thoughts that,
oh, I'm supposed to be doing this right now,
but somehow you can't break out of that trap of,
you know, scrolling or something like that.
So really just being consistent and intentional
with why I'm doing those things
and, again, when I'm supposed to be doing them and how.
Yeah, yeah.
So in terms of work-life balance
with you being a creator,
being an entrepreneur,
being a student,
and being a friend,
how do you balance all of those
so that you don't fail in any category?
I think I had a hard time
and I'm finally falling into the freedom
and allowing myself to categorize in this way,
but I think for the longest time I was all,
I thought I had to be all-in in just one category.
Like, oh, I couldn't be a business owner
if I was an artist.
Or, and then vice versa,
I couldn't be an artist if I was a business owner.
Or I couldn't be,
I can't be a student and work on my album
the way I want to.
And a lot of the times it was, again,
from that fear of failure or pushing those boundaries
and finding out if I could or couldn't
and stuff like that.
Or from the idea of possibilities
and understanding that limitations are just a perception, right?
And quite literally,
my perception was I looked outward into the world
and I'm like,
where are there hyper-successful entrepreneurs
slash artists slash creatives,
like all these, you know what I mean,
athletes, all these things.
And I couldn't find one person with these labels
that were hyper-successful in each of them.
And for the longest time I was telling myself,
I was like, oh, you can't do that
because there isn't anyone else who has really done that.
Okay, go do it yourself.
Go be the first to go do it.
And I think that flipped in my mind at some point.
It's just a matter of framing, you know,
if you can or can't.
I heard this quote or this statement
from Alex Formosy on the podcast with Chris Williamson.
He said, you know,
when I'm in the gym and my heart rate is at 183 BPM,
I'm sweating my butt off
and I just took a shower or something like that.
I'm on the ground about to pass out.
I am in love with that feeling.
I am so happy, overjoyed.
I understand I'm growing.
I'm making progress.
If the same thing,
that same situation physically was happening to me
when I was driving to work in my car,
I'd probably pull over and call an ambulance,
think I'm having a heart attack or something, right?
And in that moment,
it's like everything is framed,
you know, everything is perspective.
Everything is framing,
how you frame a certain situation.
So it's like my therapist personally asked me all the time
and helped me reprioritize this perspective
of what a good or bad day is.
And a lot of times I would come to her
and be like, oh, I had a crappy day,
a really, really crappy day
because of one or two things in my day
when I did all these other things.
And she would always ask me,
well, what would it take to make this situation amazing?
And a lot of times that's all it takes,
thinking, okay, what would it take
to make this situation absolutely great?
And just a quick perspective switch
really changes everything in that.
So yeah.
I think my opinion is there are seasons of give
and there are seasons of take.
Yeah.
There are some times in life
where you need to put your head down
and you need to focus on your academics
and you'll have to take somewhere from that,
whether it's hanging out with friends
or indulging yourself in your hobbies and whatnot.
And it also goes vice versa.
There are times where you realize
that you're not giving your friendships
the time that they deserve
and you need to lock in more with that
and you need to let off on the hobbies
or you need to relax off of school.
I'm not saying that you should be failing your class.
Obviously, with the Frederick Honors College,
I'm not saying that.
But there are times where there are seasons of give
and there are seasons of take.
I like that.
I like that a lot.
I really do like that.
Yeah, I'm definitely not saying,
I don't know if I commented on it,
but definitely look for,
I am an advocate for self-feeling
and looking for the times
where you need to allocate more energy
into whether it's your mental being
or your physical health or something like that
more than something else.
Definitely pay attention and pay close,
just have a sensitive awareness
towards those things in your life
and accommodate and adapt as you need to.
Also, never hesitate to look for help.
That's on the side, kind of.
But just never, ever hesitate to look for help.
I mentioned therapy and my own therapist
and stuff like that.
And whether you're a Pitt student here,
we have so many resources.
And I don't know if any of you guys know,
but you guys pay for it anyways,
whether you use it or not.
But you pay for the psychological resources here.
So please do use them
when you are feeling down and low.
We have them here for a reason
and they are out there in the world as well.
If you need professional help, it is there.
Don't resort to any of these negative stems
that we see a lot of people sadly succumb to.
So yeah, that's a side note.
But definitely never hesitate to ask for help.
Never hesitate to give help either.
Be a shoulder that someone can lean on
and open ear and open mind.
It can really help out.
It can really, really help out.
So yeah.
I think that's a wonderful notion to leave off on.
Is there anything else
that you'd like to get across to our audience
before we get out of here?
It's getting cold.
I personally don't like it,
but I've been trying to adapt and get better at it.
And again, I keep on saying this,
but reprioritize my perspective
of what could make this absolutely amazing?
What makes the cold weather amazing
and why?
Because I'm going to be here anyways for the winter.
So how can I enjoy it?
And I think you could ask that question
or apply that to literally anything in your life.
Consider anytime you're about to say
you're having a bad day,
consider if it's actually a bad day
and consider someone else's version of a bad day.
You know what I mean?
And try to go with that.
Carry yourself with a little bit of gratitude.
Thank you so much as always for having me on here.
It's a blessing and a great opportunity.
So, thank you.
I appreciate it.
Thank you for coming on, Sammy.
Thank you.
Now, for everybody watching and listening,
all things Sammy and his brand
will be in the description of this episode,
whether you are watching or listening.
I'm your host, Ian Kehinde.
This has been another excellent episode
of the Let's Talk Social Innovation podcast.
And we see you next week.
Peace out, everybody.
