Influence of Ancestors on the Fate of Descendants and Methods for Resolving Ancestral Tomb Issues
Family System Arrangement Psychology
Before the beginning, I would like to briefly mention the current popular family system arrangement psychology, which was created by Bert Heilinger of Germany. Unlike other psychology, this doctrine involves the family system, or is related to cause and effect and co-karma, although its technical terms are different from Buddhism.
Three people in this family committed suicide at the age of 27.
There is an amazing case in the arrangement of the family system: a famous lawyer came to Bert Hellinger, and he looked very uneasy. Because he has done some research on family history. His great-grandmother knew a man, and the two got married soon, but unfortunately, On December 31, when her husband was 27 years oldWhen she died, some people suspected that her husband had been murdered.
Later, his great-grandmother did not leave the inheritance of her ex-husband to the son born to her and her ex-husband, but to the son born to the second husband. This is an unfair treatment in the family.
From that day on, three people in the family committed suicide at the age of 27, and all of them would die on December 31. When the lawyer found out about it, he suddenly realized that his cousin was 27 years old and the date was close to December 31. He rushed to his cousin.
There, I was about to remind him, but I found that my cousin had bought a gun and prepared to commit suicide.
Soon after, the lawyer came to Heilinger again because he felt that he was suicidal.Hellinger asked him to face the wall.Wall, imagine the appearance of the dead in a family, and then say to that person, "I respect you. You have a place in my heart, I will tell you the unfair treatment you have suffered.When the lawyer finished saying that, he suddenly found that he was no longer nervous and panicked.
This is the principle discovered by Berthai Heilinger. In a family system, which ancestor dies due to various disasters, the power of the system will find a child from future generations to "replace" the ancestor and repeat the same fate to maintain the balance and integrity of the system. Not to mention far away, there is one in my family.My uncle died of liver cancer not long ago, and his aunt, sister and eldest son all died of liver cancer.
For example, a nephew may suddenly be magically attracted by his uncle who died during the war. Example description of home system arrangementA phenomenon, the person concerned feels (subconsciously)Have a connection with a family member or ancestor, often have similar feelings about life, and live a similar fate.
In fact, one of the far-reaching discoveries of Bert Hellinger is that the children spent their whole lives "taking on" the previous family.The feelings and behaviors of the court members - those things that do not belong to them. Bert? Heilinger named this phenomenon.For "entanglement".