조기교육없이 전교 1등 만드는 영어공부법!!(영어강사 문단열)

You know how you make a fire with a torch? It's so hard. You have to do it yourself. You have to know that you can make a fire in a few months. So I waited for him. And when he was about to give up, he said, One day, he came up to me and said, Dad, my family needs to study English. I let him do it for two months and check it. I think he got the first place in English grades. What's the most difficult thing about studying English? I'm sure you've heard a lot about Moon San-yol's daughter. Because your father is famous. That's why it's very burdensome. It was very burdensome. Nevertheless, I know you didn't teach English at all. Yes, I didn't do it at all. Why did you do that? I believe in it thoroughly. You have to do it yourself. Especially, you can't do what others tell you to do. You didn't do anything? I didn't do anything. Then, English kindergarten is popular these days. Do you send English kindergartens? I even did it in the English kindergarten business. You didn't send it again? When I was a first-generation parent, I was so greedy. I thought I should make him speak 10 languages because I speak 4 languages. I was 5 years old when I had my first child. At that time, I made him memorize a picture book. So I told him to memorize a few lines a day. So I told him to memorize one page and two pages. I told him to memorize all four pages a day and speak in front of me. He did well. One day, I told him to bring an English book and study English. He was trembling. He was breathing. A 5-year-old boy was breathing like this. I asked him why. He said he was so scared that he would make a mistake. So I didn't just shed tears. I thought I was holding my child. From that day on, I thought I was doing something I couldn't do because I was greedy. So I hit him with all my strength. I explained to my wife. I told her that I didn't live like this for my child's life. I told her not to do it again until my children asked me to teach them. I told her that I was going to have a baby. Because there's something I know. I told her not to do it again until my children asked me to teach them. But I guess it's been a long time. I couldn't speak well when I was in elementary school. I couldn't speak well when I was in middle school. My first daughter was in the second grade of high school. Did you wait until you were in the second grade of high school? Yes. Even if my hands were shaking, I just let it go. Because you can't force it. Then your grades will come out before that, right? But if your father is Moon Jan-ryul and your English grades are dry... But I have a corner to believe in. Because even if you start in your late 20s, if you do it because you want it and you need it, you can do it. However, English that starts so late can be bad pronunciation. But it doesn't matter. You just have to understand. So I was just waiting for something. You can pour oil as soon as the fire starts, but it's too hard to make fire. That's what you have to do. You have to do it yourself. Even if you bring a cow, the cow has to drink the water. So I'm waiting for everything to be ready. If the fire starts, I can go in and win in a few months. I know that. I'm an expert. I know that. So I waited without fail. And when I was about to give up, he said this. One day, he came to me and said, Dad, my family doesn't teach English. Do you want to do it? Half-salary at that time. Yes, let's do it. And then he pushed me. In the end, he studied abroad on his own. He went to Canada and got a job after school. So now he's settled in a Canadian job and living well. He's in Canada now, right? Yes, he speaks English much better than me. Really. Much better than me. I started when I was in the second year of high school. And then what's so amazing is that I left my second daughter like that. It's the same pattern. When I was in the second year of high school. Exactly when I was in the second year of high school. I guess something happened to both of you in the second year of high school. I don't know. That's when you become an adult. Yes, yes. I thought I shouldn't do this to my future. Dad, my family doesn't teach English. He said the same thing to me. Like he made a promise. Yes. So, uh? Do you want to do it? Uh, he said he'd do it. But I said this. If you really want to do it, I'll help you actively for about two months. I'm sure you'll win in the meantime. But there's a condition. You have to become a subject to give up. Because if you want to study English, You have to focus. You have to have time. You have to have a lump of time. If you want to do it at that time, You have to give up another subject. This is reality. You can never do everything else well. I can't push English all at once. How long do I have to try? You need absolute time. So he said he wouldn't study. I don't like it anyway. It's good. Leave it as it is for a moment. Don't worry about it. I told him to do this, and I made him do it. It's simple. It's just a steel concrete structure. There are two ways to fill it up. What is steel concrete? There's a very simple grammar book. The grammar book has 20 sections. If you do one a day, you can do it in a month. Basic grammar. I memorize all the grammar in one chapter a day. How do I memorize it? I write Korean on the left and my eyes go like this. I write English on the right. I write it on a table like this. I cover this and cover it like this. I only look at Korean. I memorize English until it comes out of my mouth. You can do it in about 1.5 seconds. For example, if my father opposed me from going to school, My dad advised me against being a singer. It has to come out like this. I always look at this when I do this. I think the college notes are about 28 lines. So if there are about 28 sentences a day, This is one page. It takes an hour and a half to organize that one page. It takes 12 hours. It takes another 12 hours to memorize this. Once I memorize it, I look at it when I wake up in the morning. I check it and memorize it. I memorize it again when I eat in the middle. I memorize it like this when I go to the bathroom. There is a way to check it until it comes out of my mouth completely and becomes 25 times. I learned this from my teacher a long time ago. I memorize all this way. Then I memorize all this way the next day. And I do what I memorized yesterday. The next day, I do it again and again. So it's repeated five times. Five times, five times, 25 times. I repeat this until it comes out of my mouth completely and becomes 25 times. At first, I can do it. I can do it. I think you can do it. It's a habit. It's a habit after two weeks. Really? And then there's another one. You can read it in the first grade of middle school. These days, even elementary school students can read it. It's a storybook with too easy words. You know the little book? Yes. Storybook. It's really easy. It's easy to understand. I read the storybook twice a day. I was told to explain the contents of the storybook to me in English whether it worked or not. While doing this? Yes. This is a practice. Then you must have needed time. That's why I told you to give up. Another subject. Yes. So I invested about four to six hours a day. I did it for two months and I watched him check it. Yes. He was the top student in English grades. How good was he before that? He was in the lower middle school. Oh, really? Then his eyes changed. Because you can see him improving. He improved a lot. Then he said, Dad, this is too close. Because I had to go back to the 60s and 90s. Did you forget? Yes. I forgot, but I had to do it like this. So I said, Is it too close? Then just take a leave of absence. Yes. So I did. Then he said, Dad, high school students don't have a leave of absence. It's a drop out. So I said, Drop out. Did you? I'll push you. Drop out. Go to the examination room. It doesn't matter. So I dropped out. I studied English hard. I studied hard for about two years. Then I took the examination exam and went to college. Of course, Did I do it for three years? I did it for three years, but I couldn't go. But anyway, I went to college. I'm good at English now. Can you give me a second? So that I can look it up. You're so good at English. I'm very good at both. You have to be in that position when it comes to studying. Because, as I said earlier, It's not about what kind of guy it is. It's about what time it is. Because the kids say, Oh, we're not interested in English. You say this too much. Not at all. The kids are interested. There was, There wasn't. Oh, I'm not going to study English. I did this. Then leave it. Leave your daughter. If you leave it, I want to study English. It's like this again. Do you want to do it then? And you support me like this. You can't push. You have to create an environment. And no. It's the same as fishing. So in the Atlantic Ocean, If you look at something like tuna fishing, I'm going to catch these two-meter ones. If you just pull it, it'll break. Then it's over forever. Then I'm going to pull it a little bit. I let it go. I was going to pull it. In this way, You have to be very delicate while playing hard to get. But now, Korean parents are in a hurry. There are many cases where you can't wait. I can't do that. I used to teach English in kindergarten. Where should I go? The director of the kindergarten said, There are a lot of foreign students here. So which foreigner? A few days ago, a Finnish parent came. Oh, yeah. It's famous for Finnish education. What's different about that school? I said, Actually, all the schools are the same. One thing was very impressive. So what I'm talking about is, Mom's coming to pick you up after the baby's done. I brought him here. Six years old? Five-year-old kids like this. I'm going to take it out of the shoe rack and wear it. The shoes are tied up. Put the shoes on your feet. You have to squeeze the string like this. Until you tie the string like this. My mom waits for more than five minutes. Your second daughter is a very famous YouTuber. It's because she's unique. I'll put a video clip in here. That's weird. As you can see, I don't think she's an ordinary talent. But you won't believe it. When I was young, until elementary school, I didn't have any words. I even got a call from my teacher. Oh, really? Not at all now? The talent and characteristics in it. I was recognized for my personality. I'm this kind of kid. Until you're exposed to your identity. Usually, you have to go to middle school and high school. He's so quiet. When I was in the third grade of middle school, I closed the door and went in and called. I called him four hours a day and he didn't come out. We've been talking for four hours. That's how it changes. Wow, this is a real story. Really? That's how he changed. Did you cheer for him? Or did you oppose him? Did you tell him to study? What did he look like? If I say this, There are a lot of people who say I'm so unlucky. I'm a single-parent. I've never objected to what my kids wanted to do. Whatever you do? Whatever you do, do it. I'm rooting for you. You know, there's a career issue. A career issue. I think I'm going to go to art high school. So what kind of art high school? I can go to street dance now. There's something like that these days. There wasn't anything like that back then. I think modern dance is good. So yeah, I'll get you a teacher. Do a good job. After a week of intense training, He's not doing it. I don't think this is right. Instead, why aren't you persistent? Why can't you do one thing? We don't say that. Because I'm like this. Life goes on like this. I think I'm going to be in trouble. Until I realize it myself. I'm trying to let it go. That's why I let it go. So both of them are exactly in high school. I thought I shouldn't do this. This is how English studies come out. But from a parent's point of view, I think there's something like that. Like you said in your life. Because there's a time. Everyone has this time. If this child flows in a different direction, There's something to worry about. There are times when you want to guide it somehow. That's right. I understand that enough. It's important to know what determines the time of your life. It's time in a normal life cycle. Or my parents said, You have to go to Seoul National University. You have to go to Sky. After setting it up, When you're 19, you have to go to Myeongmun University. My parents set it up on purpose. I'm going to reverse that time. You're in the first year of middle school. You can't do this. I've made a progress. I'm forcing him to do that. That's another problem. Looking at your whole life, Will he eventually be a happy person? Happiness is self-sufficiency. I think there's a job, a business, and a name for what you do. If I do this, who pays me? Then, if you film this, I'll get the money. But if you do it, you'll get a reality check. That's right. In a difficult moment. In a difficult moment, you'll get a reality check. Then, what's up? I have a core ability for this kind of thing. If you're a little more abstract, That's up. But up also gets a reality check. Why? Because there's no Y. There must be a purpose. There should be a name. I'm on Earth in this life. I think I sent you to protect me. There should be something like this. That way, there's no burnout. I don't have a burnout. There's no burnout, and there's no reality check. The purpose of education is, It's not the purpose of education to send Sky. Because even if Sky comes out, there's a reality check. Even if Sky comes out, I don't want to live. Even if Sky comes out, I'm unhappy. Then, is it the purpose of children to live happily? Or is it the purpose of children to look at others? Then, to be honest, if you put your hand on your chest and talk, If happiness is the purpose, When you calculate, For example, until the 30s, In the mid-30s, in the 40s, I think it should be 40. Until it's 40, What is your job, what is your business, what is your name? You find out for yourself. What I'm doing right now is satisfying. I don't make a lot of money, but I'm so satisfied. I think I'll do this for the rest of my life. If the purpose is to be a passionate person who can work, If you don't do this kind of pre-study in the first year of middle school, You're late. You can't say that. Of course, I'm saying this. I'm not saying this because I have a high IQ. I was going to make my eldest daughter study English when she was young. You know, I took it back. But I don't know if it's because she was hurt when she was young. I was very lost in middle school. But because of her human rights, I can't tell you what's going on right now. I had a big accident. So after I had a big accident, What I did next was, That's why I'm alive. When I go out in the morning, I love you even if you study well. I love you even if you can't. I love you even if you go to school. I love you even if you don't go to school. I love you. Go out and live happily today. When I come back, I love you even if you study well. I love you even if you can't study. I've been doing that for four years. I love you even if you study well. I love you even if you can't study. Then, did your daughter, who heard that, change little by little? She doesn't have much expression of affection. She used to talk a lot. But that's how I got into college. I quit because I did it here and I didn't. I quit because I went there and I didn't. I heard you did a lot of things because of your career. But I'm very firm. It's okay to go to college or not. You can just do what you want to do. I have faith that you'll find your way someday. So keep trying. I applied for a few times and changed my major. I majored in art. I don't think it's pure art. Of course, it's the 10th time. I don't think so. So what do you want to do? I majored in cosmetic makeup. I want to study abroad. Oh, study abroad. It's a good job. It's an economic job, but it's not easy. It's a good job, but I don't know if I can do it. Instead, I'll do my best. You can do what you want to do. I did it all by myself. I passed the exam. Before I got on the plane, This quiet guy said, Dad, I love you. I've never heard that before. That's what I said in middle school. It's the first time I've heard it in seven or eight years. with an emotional expression I'm sure I succeeded. If you hear that, you'll succeed. Isn't it easy to hear that? I think you've been waiting a long time. I had no choice but to wait. What can I do? I can do whatever I want. So your second daughter is a YouTuber. You said you're a genius and you're a good match. I don't know when YouTube will disappear. You know, you're showing off your talent. I don't think I can do anything else about it. My mom's a little bit of a nuisance. What do you say? My mom is a little more standard than me. I majored in psychology. I was a four-year scholarship student at school. I studied well, but I went to graduate school. Even if it's a little counseling certificate, You know, there's something that adults say. I'm just saying that. I don't even nod. What I believe is that even that. I'm pretty, young, and popular now. Even that, like when I was in high school. Oh, I don't think I should live like this. When I think about it, You're sticking to it. You can do it if you want. If you want. So I just let it go. I just let it go. Oh, by the way. I said something similar to this somewhere else. The comments are all so nice. Someone left a complaint. What did you say? It's very logical. Anyway, it's a long story. In short, this is it. You said you had a hard time. That's because you have talent. You said it was good because you left your daughter. That's because your daughter has talent. That's because you have talent. Generally, no matter what you do, If you leave it, you might eat it. Even if you catch it, You have to be able to survive. The word let go is a father's responsibility. That's how you left a comment. I can relate to that. What I'm trying to say is, For example, Whether a child has high intelligence or not, In fact, the intelligence measured at school is, For example, in society, It's as comprehensive as Son Heung-min's soccer. The subjects taught at school are Running 100 meters. Studying. It's divided into subjects. A few chin-ups. But now, Do you call it physical fitness? Even these days? Yes. Just because you get all the physical fitness subjects, You're not suddenly good at soccer like Son Heung-min. This is a comprehensive thing. It's very complicated. And physical fitness subjects, Like Son Heung-min, Personality. Sincerity. Sociality. There's no such thing. But it's all combined. Comprehensive problem-solving ability. This is what makes society successful. So, In the case of scientists studying intelligence, To survive on Earth, The intellectual ability you need. It's called intelligence. There are 4,000 kinds. Even if you compress it, There are 8 types. But in school, There are only a few subjects. Some of them. There are only a few. So, What I'm saying is, Of the 4,000 kinds of talent, Some people have the talent to welcome people. Some people have the talent to notice people. These people are business kings. But it doesn't come out as a school grade. But those kids' Genius ability. Basically, Someone is definitely a genius in something. I'm not saying this in an ideal way. I've been teaching people. There's definitely an advantage. There's definitely an amazing advantage. But until it's saved and comes out, You have to wait for an opportunity. You have to know what it is. I know. But if you do this to kids who don't fit the school standard, Overall talent. It's not a matter of talent. Until that talent comes out, I mean, anyone needs time to wait. Yes, today, Mr. Moon's words I think it would have been a valuable advice to parents. Thank you for being with us for a long time. Thank you.