Wir backen Fitnesskekse & beantworten eure Beziehungsfragen! | BAKE & TALK mit Sascha Huber

Wait a minute before the relationship. Is there a wedding? How do you hide? A real deep talk. Family planning. I mean the 5 minutes before bed. Has your relationship changed after 7 vs. Wild? Yes. My dear friends, hi and welcome to a new video of your two Christmas elves. You asked a lot of questions about our relationship on Instagram. Things we haven't answered yet are in here. We'll answer them today. And we also need a cookie. What do we need? A gingerbread? We'll bake a gingerbread. I even got some more. From Stecher. These are really legendary. Take a look at them. The biceps. The shoulder blades. And the double bicep pose. Front double bicep pose. I don't know if it will work. I hope so. I already prepared the dough. It was really quick and easy. The healthier gingerbreads. I can link the recipe in the info box. In the info box you can also find my cookbook. Of course it fits perfectly as a Christmas present. Because Christmas is just around the corner. Christmas is just around the corner. If you need a special present, you can find it in the info box. It's a 0815 cookbook. It's all regional, seasonal, vegetarian, vegan. All healthy fitness recipes. Take a look at the info box. It's best to go straight to the bundle. There are also dishes. Hippie, toppie. Meal planner. Are you ready? You'll draw the first question. I'll draw the first question. I'm curious. Stop. Before we start with the first question, let's do a basic question. How long have we been together and how did we meet? For everyone who doesn't know. For 5 years and on Tinder. In spring it will be 6 years. And we met on Tinder. Unfortunately. Let's start. I'll wait for the relationship. Okay. Maybe a little more detailed. No. No, we don't want to. From my side. Me neither. We have to fight with the dough. It's hard. Who took the first step? It's hard to say. We didn't meet in person. But you did. I wrote to you first. You wrote to me. We matched. No super like. We didn't give each other a super like. Right. You got that from me. Joking. I wrote to you because there is a great biography in it. It's called My biggest flaw. I thought it was funny. So I wrote funny joke. Funny joke? I know exactly what you wrote. Where do you come from? That was your first question. Really? Yes. Now we can start. Let's do the next question. When does the family planning start? You want to know that. We don't know that yet. Unfortunately. Why? We can't deliver a date yet. We don't have a date yet. We have it in our mind. Right. We are still young. We want to experience a lot. It's a super work out. What is your best tip for a healthy and long relationship? That's a good question. Don't sleep in a fight. Okay. That's right. We don't have such a rule. Right. It's important. Everyone can have their own opinion. Everyone should have their own opinion. You don't have to try to change everything. Of course. It's not bad to have the same opinion. Otherwise the relationship is doomed to fail. There are always differences of opinion. That's important. You can talk about it. You don't have to compromise. Don't think that the other person has to be like you. It won't work. The other person will be unhappy. Then it's over. Right. That's wrong. I see. I think so, but it doesn't work. How should I ever say that? I need a spoon. That's so good for me. I'd like to eat only the cookie dough. Then do it. We're adults now. You'll get a stomachache. That wasn't a good tip. Are you jealous? Or is jealousy in a relationship? I think... What? I'm curious. It's up to the partner not to be jealous. You can't trust your partner. You'll never be in a situation where you have to be jealous. For example... I'd say that you don't have the feeling that I... How should I explain it? If I write to other women and talk to them... You just know that if the other doesn't have the feeling that you need to be jealous, then it's great. Exactly. If you've never abused your trust... That's an important tip. It's one of the relationship tips. Never abuse your trust. If you've been abused once, it's so difficult to trust the other again. What was the worst argument? I can't think of anything. Actually, we always argue about small things. About useless things. They're even worse. Do you think they're much better? Before there's a real crisis... You're right. When we argue, it's about small things. I can't think of anything. Do you want a cookie? For us, it's useless. I don't know. If I... What? If I don't clean the dishes or if the chips are still there in the morning... We don't like such things. But otherwise... That's... That's true. Let's go. Wait, let's bake a cookie. I'd like to answer. But we have to decorate, honey. I'd like to answer. What were important moments that brought you together? What? Maybe that we started to create YouTube. We created the YouTube thing together. A common goal. Exactly. That we were a team from the beginning. The best team. I have to say it's crazy. We're together every day. Day in, day out. We're on top of each other. That's what brought us together. I often think we've been together almost every day for three years. Every day together. Monday to Sunday. Day and night. Imagine that. You'd do it with your partner. In the early morning. It has to fit. And it's mixed with private work. It's not like one comes home from work and has free time. It's mixed with work. And that's what brings us together. If you think about it we've been together for as long as other people see it. In 40 years. I once read that on average a couple talk to each other for five minutes a day. I read that. I was so shocked. You get up in the morning and say good morning. Then everyone goes to work and comes home in the evening. And then you sit on the couch and watch TV. Trust me, bro. Pooping in front of your partner or going to the toilet. Going to the toilet is... Everyone does it themselves. But there's a reason why we have two toilets. A private one and a private one. If we only had a private one it would happen more often. It happens. But not a lot. No? I've seen it happen before. But the problem is that we have a separate throne. A throne? A real throne. It doesn't exist. Do you think it's bad? How do you think it is in general? Honestly? I love pooping. It's the holy time for me. It's the holy time for me. And I'm very happy that we have a separate toilet with all the stuff. And the toilet is a retreat for me. Just like our desks. How do you think? I don't think it's bad. But... I'd rather have my peace. We need a retreat. Findus! Hello! This is our family. We are a sweet family. We are. Of course. I feel like you can bake cookies by yourself. Yes, but I'm also here. You are the spiritual support, right? Yes. Next question. Yes, it's a plague. And we're going in. And it's the question from... Don't we know? What about the wedding? Is it the question? Yes. And? Is there a wedding if there is an application? No wedding without an application. How long have we been together? Five years. Five and a half. Five and a half years. That's the average until most people get married. But it doesn't really matter. It's just about if you really want to spend your whole life with that partner. Yes. And that's what I want. That's what you want. Yes, definitely. Okay, that's nice, honey. I'm just wondering if a wedding is necessary. What? I think it's nice. Of course it's not necessarily necessary. But I just think it's nice, right? What do you think? Do you think it's nice? To hold on to documents. Why? Well, at a wedding it's not necessarily about documents. It's not bureaucratic. So it's about the love of many people. No, just to be a man and a woman. Sure, the party itself is nice, but more about the future. That we are a common family. But we are. And a huge party with so many people. It can be a small wedding. I don't necessarily need a big wedding. Yes. Otherwise, it's just so much work and bureaucracy. I'm not that kind of person. You can always write how it is for you. Would you rather have a really big wedding or in a smaller frame? But yes, of course it's not necessarily necessary, but it's not like many other things. Yes, okay. That's our point of view. So we have to marry unscrupulously, right? Huh? Do you think I'm crazy? What? I don't think that's necessary. I don't think so. Yes, of course it's necessary, but I think it's nice. Okay. Let's do that. Honey, please. Brush it with milk. It's cutting so nicely. It's so nice. It's cutting really nicely. Brush it. It's cutting. It looks good. Then please put the tin in the oven. Set the timer for 10 minutes. Otherwise, they'll burn really fast. Has your relationship changed after Seven vs. Wild? I think that's a exciting question. What do you think? No. Really? Yes. I think it was a good experience, an intense experience, when you've been separated from your partner for so long. It's not often for us. It was never like that at the beginning of our relationship. I was on vacation for 6-7 weeks. We booked the vacation when we didn't know each other. I think after that, we valued our relationship more. It sounds stupid. But do you understand what I mean? You mean right after that? Yes. And somehow we grew out of it. Yes. I think so. It made us stronger. I see a twinkle smile. How do you know that it's the right partner? Do you doubt it sometimes? Not that I want it. I think you can feel it. I know that you're the right one for me. Paulina made me the best version of myself in my life. Oh, honey. It's true. I love you so much. I'm 1000% sure that Paulina is the best partner for me. Sometimes it annoys me. But it's part of it. I don't doubt if she's the right partner. I doubt if I'm really so... What? ...disorganized. As Paulina always says. Or not. But then I discover that Paulina is very precise with a lot of things. Household stuff. Everything. I'm always very punctual. Everything has to fit perfectly. That's true. I understand that. I try to go back a bit. I accept that I'm different than Sascha. I'm different than Paulina. I'm aware of that. But it has nothing to do with doubting. We're just different. In a partnership there are always differences of opinion. And that's good. If I had a partner who is like me, that wouldn't work. After 5 hours we would fight. We would kick each other out of the door. Maximum. Maximum 5 hours. That's why you want your partner to think in the same way as you do. Because you think it's right. For example Paulina thinks it's right if it's where it belongs. And I think it's not so bad if it's somewhere else. Because it doesn't matter. But if Paulina would think it doesn't matter, she would be annoyed. Exactly like Paulina. If Paulina leaves everything lying around, for example the camera equipment will be here in 5 days, then I won't say anything and you're happy I won't say anything. Yes. You summed it up perfectly. A real deep talk. Yes, it's like that. But I think it's the same for me. I don't doubt anything. We're like a puzzle. You know it. Right? Yes. Can I read it? Yes. Was there the official question that you're together? No. He never asked me Paulina, do you want to be my girlfriend? You have to go with me. Do you remember that from school? Yes, no, maybe. No, we didn't have that. But I think it doesn't exist anymore in many relationships. Because when you're older you don't make it official. But I remember that we talked about it when it was already official. Like, hey, what date do we take? Oh, right. We chose the day when we saw each other for the first time. On the 31st of May. When we had our first date. Our first date. Cookies. Looks good. Finished? I can't say that. Should we open it? It smells really good. Take it out. That's really great. Do you see that? That's so cool. I want to eat it now. Should we eat it now? No, we have to decorate it. But why? I have sugar sprinkles. Honey, the handles are always broken. Are we doing it right? Do you remember what we did in a romantic way? When? The first day? We wrote it down. But no, after one or two weeks we deleted our Tinder app in a romantic way. Oh, right. Completely deleted. From the single market. Yes, yes. Wow, honey. Wow, super. That was perfect. Do you see that? That's so perfect. We'll do it in order. And then we'll see each other to decorate it. We'll get sugar sprinkles and I have extra. Honey, look. Pearls, snowflakes, crisps. Oh yes, everything is here. Super, right? Now we can decorate the cookies. How important is to have a healthy and happy relationship? For me personally, it's very important. Yes, it's important. For me personally, it's important. No, it's important. I think so too. But of course it's not the only important thing. Wait, I have to... Wow! So, honey, what do you say? It's a very strange consistency. I think it's a bit too liquid. It looks somehow wrong. It looks very wrong. I don't want to do anything with it anymore. And it sticks so weird. Yes, since we're already talking about it. Wow! It's the bicep deluxe. How do you deal with conflicts and differences of opinion? How do we deal with it? That's a good question. Door open, person out, door closed. We are so different that we tell each other that something doesn't fit. We are more direct. Yes, we are. I would describe it like that. I'm always in favor of discussing things. You need a bit of your peace and quiet. For me personally, I think we are both quite reflective, although you can probably never be reflective enough. But we always try to reflect. Yes, that's true. We really try to do that. However, when it comes to arguing, I prefer to argue because of a meaningless discussion that doesn't lead anywhere. When it becomes a meaningless discussion where both parties just argue, then I prefer to say enough is enough. Then I just leave to calm myself down and to calm down because it just leads to nothing. Then you have time to think and reflect. That's true. You are the one who says, go ahead. I'm in favor of harmony and I want to have it clarified. Everyone is a bit different. I have the feeling that you can argue although often it's better if you have some space and then the argument dissolves in the air because it's never about anything special. Yes. To be honest, it's about nothing. It's really about nothing. No. It's about nothing. That's good anyway. It's better than if it were some bad things. Yes. So we deal with conflicts. What was the answer? I think it's great. We try to calm down and to talk it out. But most of the time I decide to talk it out and get out of the way. Yes. Let's see what you say. Wow. You're doing it so well. You're doing it so well again. Do you think so? Thank you, my darling. I think it's very sweet. I don't think you're done yet. It's a 2.5 kg bag. It's a bit heavy and a bit blue. And the bigger, more blue piece is the 5 kg bag. Oh, my darling. That's an interesting question. I've never asked myself that before. Does the public influence our relationship? What do you think? No. 0.0. 0.0, but... But... What's next? Public work together does influence us. Because work and private life are mixed. We're colleagues. And that's a challenge. Do you think so? Yes. But the public... It doesn't influence us. We decide what we share with the public. I think we're doing a good job. We have a good relationship. How much we give. Some relationships are not as real as they are in public. Okay. And then it can have a negative impact. If you hide it in public and then the relationship looks different. But we have so much fun together that it can influence us. You can imagine how much fun Paulina and I have. It's so funny. It's true. In bed, in the evening... I mean... The five minutes before bed. Paulina always... No, I mean... The five minutes before two hours. My five minutes. My five minutes before bed. Always my five minutes. She jumps from the bathroom to the bedroom. She comes in, does as weird as possible, puts on her pyjamas, jumps into bed with her head forward and then there's a little fight. There's a little show. A few minutes and then we have fun and then we go to sleep. But during the day, we feel very free. Like children. We sing and dance every day. Sometimes I think... What? Nobody does that in public. We don't either. Sometimes I think... It's normal. We do it in public. But outside in public, the others do it too. Because we're just so weird. I don't know. But it's a good sign. We're on the same wavelength when it comes to humor. That doesn't mean that everyone is so weird. That only your relationship is happy when everybody is so weird. We're just like that. We make ourselves happy. We annoy ourselves all day long in a funny way. We sing a lot when we think about it. You start again, then I start again. No, we... We always have a lot of fun. But what was the question again? I don't know. Next question. I can't do it. What? What else do you want to know? We want to know... Do you ever argue? You make such a harmonious impression. Yes, we did. We talked about it for an hour. We argue too. That's normal. I think it's weird when couples say they never argue. But you can't judge too early. Some people are so different from us. That's why it's weird for me. I can't swallow everything. I can't say anything about it. It's not possible. It makes you unhappy all the time. It can't be. Everything that annoys me about you... Honey, maybe some people have a different definition for arguing. Maybe that's what we do for those who don't argue at all. For those who argue, we scream together and only the fat ones fly. And they say they never argue because it doesn't happen. But they will also have a different opinion. Because it doesn't exist. That will be it. That was a good answer. I'm hungry. What are you doing? I'm hungry. How do you hide it? How do we hide it? Not at all. Spirals. Copper spirals. Yes, exactly. Copper spirals. It's important that you sit right. You have to let your wife check that you sit right. Copper spirals are great because the pill has many side effects. Physical and mental side effects. If you take them off, you think it's all over. But then it really starts. It goes all the way to the fall of the house. Yes, a lot. But don't forget, copper spirals don't protect you from genital diseases. Especially if you... What? You can do that if you're in a long-term relationship. There are other solutions. Three more questions. Okay, the last three questions. That's enough. We've given you a lot of intimate and private advice. Where do you start cheating on each other? That's interesting. There's a clear line for me. But you have to formulate it. Cheating is a kiss on the mouth. What? If I'm on the road and there's a woman who kisses me on the mouth with that kind of stuff, I won't cheat on her. Yes, it starts much earlier. Of course. That's obvious. To hide something from your partner or to have an emotional relationship or a conversation that's very... It starts in my head. Because you prefer to pretend to be someone else. I think it's better to write to someone and then delete the chat. Yes, I agree. With us it's like this. Paulina can take my phone all the time. I have my code, I have my thing. She even works. You need your phone more often for work anyway. I need it here. We both have an Instagram account. I put everything of everything. Yes, but the relationship can't work if you have to control the other. It says a lot anyway. If it doesn't work anymore, you have to say, honey, it's time. No, I don't think so. You should work on the relationship. Of course. But you can say, it doesn't work anymore. I don't know how to say it. But you have to try to work together. If it still doesn't work, you can say, bye honey, and then you can do whatever you want. What is your most beautiful memory together? For me, let's say three. One, two, three. Bahamas. A concrete sailing ship. The catamaran. That was on that part. The catamaran was so beautiful. 10 days or 7 days. It was an indescribable time. It was crazy. We talk about it so often. Really. Because we like to look back so much. It was just a dream. Such a beautiful time together. So nice. Thank you. You think, sailing a catamaran is boring. No. Every day you can go somewhere new. Every day. Pigs, sharks, turtles. Snorkeling. All the games. Houses. It was so much fun. Every day you want to explore a new island. Every few hours. You can go out with a small boat. You check everything out. There is so much to do. If you don't want to do anything. I have to show you the reel. It was so beautiful. We experienced so much. We have our own story highlight on Instagram. We watch it so often. It was so beautiful for me. What else? What else is beautiful? So much. We can't put it all together. We experienced so much. It's crazy. We have been together for 5 years. We experienced so much. Relationship wise. Last question. How fast did you get together? 2 years? Stop it. Faster? Much faster. I don't know. How do you define getting together? We were together the whole time. The whole time. Progina was not with us anymore. It was over 1,5 hours with the car. We were on the job. We saw each other from the 7 days. We were there for a while. In fact we were together for a long time. Your purpose was to see me. My purpose was to see you. From the start. Look. Oh god. You have to take it out quickly. Do I pick it up? Yes, it fits. She meant something from the floor. This part from the floor. I would say, honey, it's done. Now there is the big vote. I'll get the camera. So, Sascha made this plate here. You can decide in the comments who made it nicer. For me it's like this, quality over quantity. I imagine, this is the 2.5 kg short handle, because we have two little dots here, here a big dot is the 5 kg short handle. You can also put it over your finger and make finger curls. Then it goes on here, this is Dennis Kohlruss, the machine, with his two iron cannons made of clear, fine iron. And this is just a nice bicep, full of gains. I did all of this. I want to vote for Pauline. From the deluxe biceps. The deluxe biceps, they are like, hide my face, it's so ugly. They are like, I have a two-pack. They are like, We say goodbye to the video. I hope you liked it. We hope you liked it. Give us a thumbs up. Maybe you got to know us a little better. Us and our relationship. I'm happy if it looks like Pauline doesn't scream like that anymore. I kiss your hearts. Take care. Bye. I don't know what to say.