여름방학이 끝날 때 한 뼘 더 성장한 아이를 위해 반드시 해야 할 것

Yes, hello, this is Bean Sprout. It's very hot these days, isn't it? It's already July. Don't you think time goes by really fast? I said it was 2023, but looking back, it's already been six months and a half. It's already July. It's so boring to say that it's like yesterday. Actually, I don't think there's a word that expresses time as well as this. It's really like yesterday. I don't think it's been long since I turned 40. But when I said I was 40, I was 41. I said I was 41, but I said I was 42, and now I'm 43. Time goes by really fast. Fortunately, we're one year younger now. I hope you have a stronger day as you are one year younger. July is vacation. It's almost vacation. Isn't it the same for vacation? A semester is a short time, and even 40 years is a short time. I think this summer vacation will pass if you close your eyes and open them. And since it's summer vacation, I think my mothers' shoulders will be very heavy. It's not easy to miss three meals a day, is it? When I go to school, I give them a meal at school, but I have to give them all three meals a day at home. And when I see a kid who's only holding a smartphone at home, I don't know if you're already frustrated. Don't just use your smartphone. I have to go to school, study, and do this and that. I'd rather just pass by saying I don't know if I don't see it. I'm in front of my eyes, I'm in a house, I can see it all the time, but I can't. You must be frustrated, worried, and angry, right? And after you send the kids, you don't have any joy. After you send the kids in the morning, go down for a cup of coffee, take a break, and take a breath. There are a lot of people who are happy. What can you do if you don't have any joy like this? The kids won't go. You have to survive this vacation month somehow, right? And beyond just surviving, I'm going to try to make it a meaningful time and a helpful time. You have to hang in there this summer vacation somehow so that you can go back to school this semester. So today, I'm going to talk about how to spend the summer vacation. After spending time together, the only thing left is a conflict between the child and me. You can't do that on a summer vacation. Even if you fight when you fight, even if you fight when you fight, I think it should be a worthwhile summer vacation that leaves something after passing. What are you going to do this summer vacation? Did you make a plan? There may not be many people who have already made a plan. So I hope you think about it together today. What should I do during the vacation? Reading? Math? What are you going to do if you do math? Calculation? Calculation? You have to exercise, right? You have to exercise hard in the summer to stay healthy. Swimming? Jump rope? Or running like every day? Yes, it's all good. Whatever you do, it's all good. It's better to do something than not to do anything. But today, don't tell me to do something. Make sure you do this. Not that kind of story. Whatever you do this summer vacation, it's good. Everyone has a different grade, and the level of the child and the current situation are all different. So you can do it according to the situation. But whatever you do, I'm going to talk about how to do it. This summer vacation, No matter what you do, Why don't you do it all day during the vacation? Every day, every day, every day. I've been doing it all summer vacation. Of course, what you do is important. I'm going to keep playing games during this summer vacation. I can't do this. Of course, you can play games, but you don't have to make such a big plan to do it every day. So you don't have to make a non-productive plan, or a plan that's close to playing games. You're not going to make a plan like this. Even if you don't talk about it, You're going to make a productive and meaningful plan. But if you've chosen such a productive and meaningful plan, Then you can do it. But even if you do it for a day, It's been a little over 30 days. Let's do it every day for these 30 days. Why do I tell you to do it every day? It's a great challenge to do something every day. It's not that hard for a person to do something once. You can exercise for 30 minutes. It's not that hard to read for 30 minutes. It's not that hard to be kind to a stranger on the street. It's not that hard to pick up trash on the street. If you make up your mind. But do you know what's really hard? It's to keep doing the easy stuff. It's easy to do it once, but it's hard to keep repeating it beyond your imagination. If you do something once and you get 10 energy, If you do it every day, you get 10 energy. But if you do it for two days, It's not 20, it's about 22. Then if you do it for four days, it's not 30, it's not 32, it's 35. If you increase it day by day, The energy that goes in is not fixed at 10. 11, 13, 15, the longer it gets, the bigger it gets. Because if you repeat the same action, You get bored and tired. What action is fresh if you do it once? If you do something you haven't done before, It stimulates the brain a little bit. But if you do it for a day, two days, four days, a week, two weeks, The brain gets bored. So it's hard to do it and it's hard to do it. So the energy that's supposed to go into that action is 10. It's boring, but I don't want to do it, but I do it. That kind of patience and energy goes in addition. So if you do 10 energy actions 30 times, It's not 300, it's 600, 800, 900, 1000. That's how hard it is. But in this process, there's a huge growth. Try reading 30 days a day. Then it's not 30 times a day, It grows 60 times, 90 times. It's not just reading and learning the content of the text. If you do that for 30 days, 60 days, Patience, patience, experience. These external things in reading are very cumulative. This is really big. You know Lee So-ryong, right? Hong Kong martial arts actor, action actor. Lee So-ryong said this. It's not scary to do 1,000 kicks at a time. But it's scary to do 1,000 kicks at a time. He said this. If you've done 1,000 different kicks at a time, In fact, you can't even do one kick properly. Because you're not used to one of those 1,000 kicks. You can't get a good insight through any experience. On the other hand, there are people who have done 1,000 kicks like this. Then all the muscles needed for the kick are trained. There will be a philosophy of patience and kicking. You're becoming an expert in one kick. I want my kids to be like that, too. I'm just looking at everything that's good. I'm not going to be someone who's not. By doing one thing every day, every day, every day, I want you to see it as a tradition. I'm not telling you to do this for 10 years or 100 years. I'm telling you to try it this summer vacation. Then it gets harder and harder at first. After a while, you don't need as much energy. At first, you needed 10, and then you needed 50. If you keep doing it, you'll fall off. You don't need 10 later. Then you can have all the surrounding effects. The representative thing is confidence. I've been doing some productive work for a long time. I'm confident. I've been doing this for a month every day. This kind of confidence. Patience is also increased. You don't want to do it. I don't want to do it, but I keep putting up with something. I'm trying to make time today. These things make kids grow up a lot. These days, it's patience and patience for kids. It's a world that doesn't tell you anything and doesn't help you. If you ask a child to do something, it's abuse. While talking about this, I've come to a world where I don't teach my child anymore. Our parents need to stay in the center. A few days ago, Kim Yeon-hwa came out of You Quiz. She said that her mother controlled her well. If it weren't for her mother, it would have been very difficult. To grow up a person, You need to be patient and patient. I want the kids to experience that process. So whether it's reading, calculating, studying at home, jumping rope, swimming, whatever it is, it's good. I've experienced a variety of things just by tasting them. Don't just end it in a good mood. I want you to keep doing one thing. And then the rest of them enjoy various things. I enjoy a variety of things, Just one thing is just doing it every day. It's very important for the child to agree to this. The child may not want to do it. So watch this video again with the child. Why is it important to do something good every day? And if you do that, What changes will happen to us, to the child? I'd like you to talk to the child. I don't want to do it. I'm lazy. I'm not doing it because my mom told me to. Oh, this is really important. You're changing me. If you keep doing this for a month, I'm going to grow a lot more. Target awareness, goal awareness. I'd like you to be aware of that goal. With that goal in mind, A child who has been active and productive for a month, By the time the vacation is over, I'm sure it's going to be a lot bigger. Yes, something productive. Make sure to choose and practice every day for a month. If you've succeeded in practicing, I'd appreciate it if you could leave a lot of comments. And if our parents are with the child, Wouldn't that be great? I always think of my child first. All parents in Korea. I'm rooting for you.